mtf trans here
how to deal with the fact no one will love me entirely because of me being trans?
they either put up with and get tired of my body or chaser fetish me.
I'm sick of hitting it off with a guy and then having to tell them im trans and being distanced instantly.
Sorry I had to make thread, mtfg is too much tripspam and transbian shit.
>>6415192
>>>boards.420chan.org/qq
>>6415192
You're not interesting and have no personality. That's why you will never be a potential mate.
>>6415192
I wouldn't distance a tranny that passed.
>>6415208
"because of me being trans?" can you read?
>>6415205
They can't be into “your personality”. You're a selfish person who's obsessed with his sexuality. No wonder nobody is interested. If you met people like you, they would be too busy complaining and pretending to care.
The world's a big place. There's probably some person out there who would accept you. Keep trying. Be well.
>>6415211
that response clearly indicates that it's not a trans related issue, and since you asked a question, i answered correctly
>>6415192
Id love to date a trans.
They're cuties
the passable ones, I mean.
>>6415192
there are guys out there who either don't care or see it as a plus and WILL be open to love/romance instead of just creepy fetishism stuff. i know how hard it can be to find them, but believe me, they're out there. just try your best to be ltr material and sooner or later it'll happen.
>how to deal with the fact no one will love me entirely because of me being trans?
These are called consequences to actions you took
Deal with it
Be upfront about being trans to avoid dissapointment?
>>6416324
That sounds like me.
So much hate for transbians. You sound like a cunt. Don't be 1 dimensional. Get some cool hobbies, be a cool person, relationships will come.
>>6415192
There's good guys out there.
You might have to train them first though guys don't know the autistic stuff about trans girls instantly.
> put up with a chaser
You silly girls...
If I didn't have my bf I would be looking for a assertive hot guy who loves girls like me..
But keep bitching
>>6415192
You could date a woman. Men are not capable of true, pure love.
I hate chasers too.
If you've had SRS just never tell them you're trans. or, keep it from them for a while until you've decided they're into YOU. Not your transgenderism.
>>6416451
Anyone who actually knows women knows their man is just a piece of their image or a support pillar.
Thats not true love.
>>6416330
Yeah, they should have known not to come out of the womb after being conceived with irreversible neurological and endocrine issues. Talk about bad decisionmaking on the part of that fetus.
You should remind them of this all the time to counteract all of the cis people who use them as inspiration porn against their will. Why should they get all the praise amirite? What about you and your struggles?
>>6416482
>you have no say in the hormones you take or getting SRS
Mental illness
>>6415192
>wah wah chasers WAAAAAAAAAH
Holy fuck. Every single one of you need to shut the fuck up.
Complaining about your partner enjoying your body is stupid as fuck. I'll rewrite your post to show you exactly how ridiculous you are.
>redhead here
>how to deal with the fact no one will love me entirely because of me being redhaired?
>they either put up with and get tired of my body or redhead fetish me.
That's what you sound like. A fucking retard that can't stop bitching because your partner is attracted to a certain feature about your body.
>>6416480
>Anyone who actually knows men knows their woman is just a piece of their image or a support pillar.
>Thats not true love.
ftfy
>tranny here
>stop liking me for bring a tranny, you fetishist chaser REEEEEEE
>>6415206
this
fucking abominations
>>6416821
*being
I swear 99% of the shitposting on this board is this one butthurt chaser.
>>6416818
Yeah, because we've all heard the story about the man that left his wife after she burnt up.
Oh wait... http://www.womansday.com.au/real-life/true-life-stories/meet-turia-pitts-future-husband-michael-hosking-13203
Well that doesn't mean anything I guess. Women are just as loyal.
Oh wait... http://arhiva.dalje.com/en-world/video--wife-leaves-disfigured-us-hero-ziegel/150202
Don't even fucking kid yourself. Women are not capable of nearly the loyalty or dedication a man is. A woman will never love her husband as much as he loves her. She will always subconsciously be looking to trade up. Hypergamy and disloyalty are the nature of a woman.
>>6416841
>30 replies
>24 IPs
>>6416841
What
>>6415192
A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
>>6415192
>this much of an ass
chasers wouldn't even want you desu
stop being such a pathetic shit
normal men don't want you cause you're a fag
get over it and move on
>>6416850
this guy gets it
>>6415192
I'm trans and I got people who love me. I even have a boyfriend, who ISN'T interested in my dick. Being trans was never the biggest obstacle for me to find love, it was the anxiety and depression that was caused by me being trans that stood in my way the most.
>>6416797
>muh false equivalence
>chasers being this dense and incapable of basic empathy
Having red hair is a superficial trait. Being trans and having a dick is not and it isn't exactly something to be proud of when it's so heavily stigmatized and can easily be used to argue that you're inferior to a normal woman. Redheads don't have a significantly reduced dating pool that's so small they're more than likely to die alone. Redheads aren't considered subhuman abominations by a majority of society.
>>6417848
Oh I get it, it's like living in Nazi Germany and having a Jew-fetish.
op here, just woke up
some of you get it:
>>6417722
>>6417848
appreciated >>6416479 especially since thats pretty much where i'm at. too poor for srs rn tho :/
>>6416411
I don't hate transbians, I mean I had a crappy relationship with one but idc what I more mean is transbian trips make mtfg terrible, everyone knows this.
basically with the shit people are saying like "people enjoying my body"
a chaser doesn't simply enjoy my body, they fetishize my identity. It's very different. I'm a human being outside of my gender.
>>6418591
I don't know why the transbians don't join translesbian general. The Faye/Edie shit is especially terrible.
>>6419018
I didn't even know where was a transbian general lol
I wouldn't need to make this thread if mtfg didn't suck
>>6419037
It still sucked when they were anti-transbian as hell. But I never hung around that much, so I don't know what they were like most of the time. I just know I didn't like what I did see.
>>6419096
>transbian general
>anti-tansbian
how.. what
hey maybe theres a reason I dont know of these threads
>>6415192
Be mine
I hate mtfg and I'm a trans dyke.
>>6419220
>tfw feminist cis-dykes give me their numbers all the time
>>6419244
Yeah, plenty of batshit tumblr feminists want in my pants, too. I don't listen to Rae Spoon or read Ryu Murakami so even if they weren't controlling psychos we wouldn't have any interests in common.
>>6419257
>tdw looking at a trap thread onm /b/ and gonna stay up all night again to ensure I get a blood test for a stupid fuckinfg script
>>6416449
>I would be looking for a assertive hot guy who loves girls like me..
and you'd be looking for a very very very long long time
>>6415192
>mtf trans here
>complaining about chasers
try being an ftm you ungrateful whore
>>6419345
at least then hrt would make me pass lol
>>6418591
>a chaser doesn't simply enjoy my body, they fetishize my identity. It's very different. I'm a human being outside of my gender.
Chaser here, or maybe not, depending on how you define it. You raise a salient distinction and field a reasonable objection. I would advise you that many guys who like trans girls eventually move past the dick to appreciate other things about them. Like yeah feminine penis is great but so is the idea of affirming a girl’s femininity by making love to her, or shielding her from some of life’s harshness, or being one of the few people who accepts her fully as a girl even though the rest of the world doesn’t, making it your own precious, secret treasure.
I think that goes well beyond objectifying. But guys actually have to spend time with trans girls in order to get that. It starts as a purely sexual thing because that’s what reproduction is. I’d say give it a shot with a guy who isn’t a transparently creepy loser and just see how it evolves. If nothing else you might get a better feel for chaser psychology so you can pick out a better transattracted guy next time.
>>6419345
becoming male is far more easier then becoming female.
>>6419455
but I don't want anyone to go near my genitals, ever.
>>6419563
Well, that is what it is I guess. I think there are a fair number of trans girls who are okay with their benises as long as they feel that they are seen as women and loved independently of their genitals (and aren’t asked to top).
