Please define "chaser" for me.
I really like mtf transfolk, and I completely realize that I'm not straight. (I'm biscum tbhonest. I like non trans grills and manly men too.)
Am I a chaser in this case?
Being a chaser is a meme.
Most trans girls don't care, the reason some people are labeled chasers is because they're either ugly, uninteresting, can't maintain a conversation, or just creepy.
Chaser is just trans woman speak for not interested. I've been with chasers and I have no problem with them, just try not to be a typical beta loser basically.
>>6412903
I can see what you mean
I think much of the problem may come from limited interaction with transfolk
>>6412955
But it shouldn't be too hard pham. Just treat them like women, do you have trouble talking to women? Then you'll have trouble talking to trans girls.
Although I'll admit a lot of trans women are also awkward and kinda spergy so you may require a bit more patience then with the average cis woman.
But tldr if you get labeled a 'chaser' then you've done something wrong.
In theory, a chaser is someone who specifically likes trans girls for being trans. This is a problem because chasers are often interested in a trans girl in a purely sexual way, and pay special attention to features that a trans girl is uncomfortable with.
In practice, the term tends to get applied to awkward and/or ugly guys who go after trans girls, kind of like how genetic girls use "creep" or "creeper."
>>6413029
I like the female form but I'm about that dick. am I a chaser?
>>6412855
A (type of marginalised person) chaser is formally a person who pursues (type of marginalised person) and exoticizes, fetishizes, and/or objectifies (type of marginalised person).
Informally, yeah. Creeper for trans girls.
>>6413204
Yes. But I don't think it's a problem if you're not creepy about it and don't make the girls uncomfortable about it.
But good luck finding a girl that actually likes using her dick... I'm one but feel like an oddity.
>>6412903
To me, a chaser is someone who seeks me out specifically because of my penis, a body part that gives me (and many other trans women) a lot of dysphoria. I don't fault them for having that attraction, but I do fault people that get into a relationship with someone who has bad genital dysphoria and try to get them to use it, convince them that surgery isn't worth it, etc. Not everyone who is cool with dating a trans person is a chaser.
>>6413223
that's the thing. you don't have to "do" anything with your dick. I just want to stroke it. put it in my mouth. because it gets me off. I actually enjoy cock for more than just getting fucked. it's mesmerizing.
>>6413247
so dumb question. what do you call a trans girl that enjoys having a cock?
Am I a chaser?
I started getting into traps a little over a year ago. Until then I hadn't actively questioned my sexuality. Through traps I realized that I'm also into cute dudes. It should've been obvious for so many reasons, including my attraction to androgynous girls. Over the next year I began getting comfortable with the fact that I've always wanted to bee kind of gender fluid.
I'm attracted to qt trans girls just as I am attracted qt cis girls and boys. Additionally, I feel a slight emotional attraction because I also experience slight gender dysphoria. I wish I was prettier and sometimes I wish I was a cute girl.
Sorry for thr long post but when I learnt about chasers and the stigma around them I start feeling a little disgusted and ashamed of myself
>>6413366
"Non-op" is probably the closest you'll get, though it also includes people that have genital dysphoria but choose to not have surgery for whatever reason.
>>6413247
So what would you call a dude that likes transgirls but DOESN'T like the benis?
>>6416156
An autistic /pol/tard.
>>6412855
it depends on how attractive & charming you are, senpai
>>6412903
Nah, chasers are people wanting an mtf just to be their little fetish sex toy, and don't actually view them as real people with their own needs and wants.
People around here just take any label and apply them so broadly they lose all meaning, look at your generic insults of the moment, autistic and cuck.
>>6413325
Yeah that's still gonna be rare bruh
>>6413366
Sane.
>>6416156
An oximoron? A vanilla heterofag trying too hard to be a snowflake?
I mean, the main distinctive characteristic of transgirls IS their penises (that is, leaving aside hon aesthetics). If you like transgirls but not penises, then you don't like transgirls: you just likes girls.
>>6412855
A guy that only likes a trans girl for her male parts and considers her more as a really feminine man instead of a woman. Casual use of terms like "trap", "shemale", "tranny" and "ladyboy" are a huge red flag. Also shit like "I like trans girls, but I like normal men too."
>>6416156
an open minded straight dude. Or bi if they are into boys as well.
>>6417534
>If you like transgirls but not penises, then you don't like transgirls
Yeah I know logic suggest this. Believe me, I have struggled with this logic of it also. It's like saying "I love everything about broccoli soup except the broccoli", it makes no sense does it? But I DO like transgirls, and find myself more attracted to them on average (and sometimes even a bit more attracted to a girl after I find out she's trans) but I really don't like penises. I mean I wouldn't mind terribly touching it a bit if she REALLY wanted me to but honestly I would prefer not to.
No, I don't care about being a "snowflake" at all. No, I'm not a virgin in fact i have a cis gf. No I don't just watch too much porn, cause honestly I prefer having actual real sex with my real gf to wacking it to pr0n. No I don't have a saviour complex because this is a sexual attraction and also I'm a bit of an arsehole. So what the fuck is my deal? WHAT AM I GOD DAMN IT?!
>>6417700
Yeah I've tried playing it off like that. But I gotta be honest - I'm not just "OK" with it like an open minded straight dude would be. I'm actively INTO it.
If you have to ask "am I a chaser?" you're a chaser.
>>6417841
What do you like about them? Most guys into trans girls argue that the dick is the only real thing to be attracted to and everything else about them is just mediocre window dressing that makes them inferior to a normal woman.
>>6417928
the sweet, delicious and pure boipussy is what makes me keep coming back for the transgirls. their penis is a close second though
>>6417928
I'd say the opposite, I like everything BUT the penis. What do I like specifically? That's what I don't know! The subtle ways in which they don't pass? The fact that they're likely to literally become more beautiful with each passing day? The "forbidden" or "taboo" aspect of it? I really don't think it's any of those but maybe... I really don't know.
>>6417661
>but I like normal men too
Normal women you wanted to say ?
>>6418124
Freudian slip?
>>6418124
Nope. If they said that then it'd be a sign that they consider you a woman, of some sort. But most of the time they just lump you in with men.
>>6417928
Not the same anon and not really my case (as I do like penises), but if I had to rationalize it, the only situation I can imagine someone actually liking transgirls but not penises is if you're an anal maniac or the kind of fetishist who's into things like chastity and anal-only s/m. In that context, the appeal of transgirls and femboys should become obvious, even if you don't like or care for the dangly bits.
>>6418312
That doesn't apply to everyone. You can like transgirls without having a crazy s&m or anal fetish. I personally like androgyny and subtle traditionally masculine features on a woman. Don't really give a shit what's in a woman's pants either pants.
>>6417928
>What do you like about them?
Not him, but:
1. Tend to be fellow autistic weebs.
2. Tend to be a lot smarter than the average girl.
3. Generally more empathetic.
4. Don’t take femininity and masculinity for granted, and I’m not even talking about about superficial stuff like makeup.
5. Damaged and usually much deeper and more interesting than most people, which is a must for being relatable since I was abused as a kid and then had a shitty adolescence with a suicidal GF and a friend who drank himself to death.
