So my BF always talks about getting off to traps and we were recently talking about kinks and I said that I usually get off to lesbian porn and he got super defensive because I have bi-curious tendencies (I don't get it so does he) and he feels like he isn't able to completely satisfy me either (well I'm not a chick with a dick either)
He's really upset about this and I don't know if he's overreacting or not
So you're a woman, but you make sense, and he's a guy, but is acting like a primadonna nutcase?
Since you like lesbian porn and he likes dudes in skirts it's pretty safe to say you're both homosexual.
>>6400491
He's overreacting.
Probably a frat boy too.
He's probably a trans woman in denial.
>>6400491
He's overreacting and it sounds like it's coming from some insecurity.
Try comparing your liking of lesbian porn to his liking of trap porn. Phrase it like your post. If his insecurity isn't getting in the way then he should be able to see how this is really not a problem. Sorry you have to deal with this kind of shit.
Also god damn that girl in the middle's ass is thicc af.
>>6400491
>He's overreacting.
This. What right minded man doesn't see that as an opportunity for a threesome?
>>6400491
>he is male
>attracted to femininity and things that appear female
>you are both of those, you can satisfy him
>he is not a woman
It's kinda understandable
Not that you can help it
>>6400581
You could even have a threesome with a trans girl. Everyone is happy that way.
>>6400491
Maybe he wants to be the trap? You two can les out together then.
>>6400581
Agree on the overreacting.
>What right minded man doesn't see that as an opportunity for a threesome?
To be fair, not all men attracted to women want a threesome and not all bisexuals/bi-curious are into threesomes.
>>6400491
OP put it to him this way: you're already satisfied with men from him, so you get off to women via porn.
>>6400635
>people aren't into threesomes
Asexual people?
>>6400654
Okay them but also just people who only like 1on1.
I don't get it either but it exists and I can accept that.
I've very accepting of him but even when I was using his phone I looked at his phone history and it looks like he exclusively jerks off to traps (which like I said I don't mind) but he clearly seems to find the penis visually appealing too
I understand him being insecure slightly but what can't he do to me that lesbians can't? Besides be feminine and yadda yadda
We've been together for a while and we've been faithful for years and I plan to sticking to being in a monogamous relationship so I don't know why this hurts his ego so much
>>6400675
You could always suggest a fourway with another chick and a trap. Or just a trap if you are into that.
>>6400675
>male is obsessed with the genitalia he possesses
>water is wet
>>6400581
Wouldn't mind a threesome but I highly doubt he'd want another dude in the way or a woman since he has an issue with me getting off to them
>>6400675
I suggest showing up with a strap on.
>>6400675
>I don't know why this hurts his ego so much
A lot of (probably most) men have really fragile egos. It's not your fault!
Mention how you are accepting and not feeling threatened of his trap fetish and ask him to be fair to you.
>>6400733
>then arrange for a threesome
Then again: OP's bf sounds like an insecure bitch so threesomes might just exacerbate things.
Straight guy here
It's hard to explain, but having your girlfriend actively being into other women isn't as hot as you'd think it is and I think I can break it down to this:
1)We're providers, but we literally can't provide the physical attractiveness of a woman to the equation
2)It's a critique on our masculinity. It brings up the idea that we might have some kind of feminine aspect that you find attractive that guys like us actively try to avoid having
>>6400854
and this is why no one should date straight men
>>6400864
t. hambone dyke
>>6400874
i am a cute cis bi woman. straight men are a scourge upon the earth
>>6400938
You're a massive cunt. Most of my oldest, most loyal and honest mates are straight. Don't be a fucking bigot.
I'm a bi male btw. Suck my dick
>>6400854
LOL as if all straight guys are this sensitive about their masculinity.
I'm cis bi guy and I never felt intimidated when I was with a bi woman. It's a personal problem/preference with OP's bf and you, apparently. Don't act like it's a fact of nature.
Also:
>straight guy makes a douchey post
>someone calls him out on it
>he calls her a hambone dyke
GEE I WONDER WHY STRAIGHT GUYS HAVE A BAD REP. PERHAPS THEY DESERVE IT
>>6401142
I'm not the guy you responded to, I'm not even straight.
And it was a bad joke. Use a smiley next time to clarify :^)
Fuck him with a strap, no lube
>>6400491
Ah i fuckin know how he feels its a weird one cant put it any other way really. as for the bi shit, thats just him being protective.
>>6401288
I literally would bend over backwards for him idgi
And it sucks because he was all up for the idea of a threesome when I didn't tell him I was bi-curious and now it upsets him
What would you want to hear???
Just leave the guy already. He's clearly a fag and you're holding him back with your vaginal ways.
>>6400491
Yeah I'd say masturbation material should have no bearing on a relationship. Besides the fact that porn really only slightly reflects your sexually (many gays watch straight porn, lesbians watch gay porn, etc), it's your own personal time. He's getting upset over nothing.
I'd say just let it run its course. It's just his insecurities showing, he'll get over it.
>>6400654
Power bottom here, I am not into threesomes, prefer to focus all my attention on one person. I look at it as, if you are with more than one person, NO ONE is getting 100% from you.
>>6400491
A lot, I mean, a lot of guys who are in denial about gender dysphoria, start off with trap porn.
Bf claims he's into trap because they're feminine and he views them as girls
But he exclusively goes out of his way to look for chicks with dicks which I don't mind but you do have to admit he's bi-curious to state the least
He just claims it's more of a power thing and he claims he's an alpha and blah blah I've even tried to dominate him on numerous occasions because I'm into that too and he's like "no that's gay" or "that's my job"
I don't know why me getting off to a specific category of porn is even important it's not like I'm asking to sleep around with women
>>6401632
He might see it as like he'll never be soft and pretty like a chick. Maybe he thinks you and another girl could have more fun on a night out or whenever without him? He'll never be able to relate to you like a girl could, think bff's, and like psychologically, and none of the close giggly stuff. No multiple orgasm, all night non-stop, no refractory period, blissed-out sex. Not that it's rational, but he may feel like that.
