So I've been talking to this guy who's 48. Normally it's not my thing but he's ripped, not an inch of fat on him and he's super confident which was a big turn on. I'm 25 so it's a big jump for me. He addressed the age thing head on which I liked better than some guys who are all weird about it. I'll probably go to dinner with him and at least give him a chance but I'm curious to hear what you all think of age differences and it any of you have had experiences dating guys a lot older than you
>>6400203
I'm 31 and like younger guys. I honestly fear getting older, makes me feel like I'm a creep for some reason.
>>6400218
I tend to go for guys in their 30s cause they're not as flakey or bitchy as people my age and they've got a nice rugged look
It depends on maturity. I'm nearly 25 and I look like a 14 year old....I also act like one.
I'm not even friends with anyone my own age because I'm too young for them, I just don't have the same sense of humour or the same 'restraint' they have, they also don't want to be seen hanging around a child and for some reason I don't share any of the same nostalgia for things they do. when people start talking about 90s cartoons or 90s stuff I can't really relate, apart from some SNES and GBC games I don't really feel like I'm from the same era or anything. I never get the references or feel the nostalgia, I feel like I grew up...right now or that I'll be nostalgic over this era? idk how to phrase it.
it doesn't bother me, I'm happy for who I am even if my personality annoys some people. but it makes you think a lot about how pointless age limits are...it's just down to the person.
but what's his sign
>>6400296
Inb4 you fucking touch children
>>6400400
I don't touch anyone, I'm a virgin :3
>>6400471
you can touch me bb <3
>>6400489
>>6400505
But I'm white and have an 8.5" uncut dick!
>>6400511
>nearly the same length as my forearm
just dont get manipulated is all i can say.
>>6400523
Jesus christ are you a midget? My forearm is 15" long and I'm only 180cm
>>6400539
that's true, but I'm used to dealing with manipulative people that are my age range so I think I'll be good.
>>6400553
I don't know where the wrist ends and the forearm begins, both together is more like 11 inches I guess
>only 180cm
That's 10 more cm than me, senpai
>>6400589
Whatever the case, when you going to touch me desu
>>6400595
I'm not touching you
>>6400203
If you like the person enough why not give it a shot? So long as they aren't incredibly, life hammering old.
>>6400203
On one hand: date who you want. Older guys will probably have more money and a nice apartment or house.
On the other hand: older guys sometimes go for younger people because younger people have less experience with relationships and might put up with older guys' bullshit and manipulation more easily.
It's a risk.
>>6400787
:"( fuuuuuuuuuuuck.
I'm hardcore only into older men. I haven't done much in terms of dating or sex, but I am 19 and mostly into 38+ year olds.
God why can't I be a normal fag.
>>6400218
Whew lad I thought I was old on this board at 30 and yeah I feel like a creeper talking to these 18 somethings.
>>6400811
Shit I didn't mean to make anyone feel bad. I'm sure you can find a good older guy! Just be careful is all.
>>6400820
>tfw friends make fun of me for being 23 and still dating college students
>tfw I see this thread
I feel less creepy now! Still a little creepy tho...
>>6400833
Naw you are good man. I just...well, I've known I was gay a long time, and I've known basically exactly what/who I've wanted for a while. I just have shame about my sexual stuff, and whenever I've had opportunities to experiment I get very anxious and insecure. A lot of friends who know I'm gay are like "Hey, go ask that guy out!" I just feel too young to be with people I want to be with...eh, I think with time things will be ok.
>tfw your 25 and your 29yo bf thinks he's too old for you
I'm 22 and won't date any guy past 28.
Even 28 is pushing it for me.
My reasoning is if you're 30+ and you still hang around early 20 yos, you clearly don't have your shit together and at 30+ you really need to have your shit together.
Plus I want someone who is in the same phase of life as me.
Nearly an 8 year difference in my relationship and I often forget this until one of our birthdays comes around. Been friends for six years and dating for three so it works out. Sometimes I kind of forget we're dating cause we are both on some asexual spectrum and I dealt a lot with an abusive partner in the past who constantly pressured me into sex to validate authenticity of the relationship. I think my greatest fear is dying first since I'm the oldest and leaving my partner behind.
>>6400203
That is a bit of a jump but as long as you know and are comfortable with knowing that he'll die before you and you'll need to spend the last few years of his life taking care of him it should be fine.
>>6402601
I'm 30 and 30 is as low as I'll go for the same reasoning as you.
>>6402647
>implying dying first isn't the best part of being the older one
Only five years older than my bf but given my family history of genetic disasters I'll probably bite the dust way before him. Good thing too he actually has friends and a support network while I have co workers and estranged family.
also like pretending I'm his older brother (only child so it's not as weird) when we have sex but he doesn't need to know that.
>>6400218
>31
>Still on 4chan
Jesus..
>>6403050
Just wait until you are that age.
>>6402601
That's clearly not always the issue. I'm 32 and most of my gay friends are in their early 20s. Most, not all. I most definitely have my shit together. I'm responsible, have a career, hell - I don't even drink - I'm not into the club/party scene. I also enjoy the company of younger men - people my age tend to be more uptight and reserved. I'll have it be known, also, that I never sought out any of these friends by creeping on them - they came to me. It just worked out that way. Your generalizations are unfounded - that's all I'm saying.
>>6400203
i dunno but i'm 19
and have always been into mid twenties-early thirties,
ever since middle school
>>6405094
Go away creep.
>>6400203
My parents have an age gap of 25 years. Still happily married after like 24 years or something.
I'm 26. I had sex for the first time when I was 17 with a guy who was 67. Now I'm in a 4 year relationship with a guy who is 65.
I just love 60+ men.
>>6413588
That's not healthy.
>>6413591
Why not?
>20 dating 46
>>6400218
You think that's bad? I'm 26 and I'm going back to school. I'm obviously not going to date anyone here but I just feel like such a fucking creep. I wish I was older so I wouldn't be in this awkward mid-20's period, shit is terrible.
>>6400820
i felt similarly but if I just approach people with something other than wanting to put my dick in them it ends up being fine
some guys are really bitchy and think anyone old enough to rent a car is an old man but they were going to be bitchy regardless
>>6400203
I tend t think age differences are good if you are young and have a higher maturity mentality than most people around your age. I always get hit on by older guys all the time and I often feel a lot more comfortable around them and able to get a better reading on them than younger ones. Younger guys tend to be more superficial and less confident in what they want and just go for what is ideologically hot to them. Older guys tend to have a broader interest in types.
I'm 63 (yeah, really and I'm on 4chan) and every week I get my mouth fucked by a 90-year old friend.
>>6400203
dating old seems to... odd to me
>I basically have never dated anyone older than me, doesn't interest me at all
>Im 27
>MFW my 24 y.o. bf tells me he was with a 53 year old.... eeeew stop that
>Cant old ppl just like i dont know never touch anyone i might sleep with, k thnx appreciate it
I'm 27 and my partner is 23. That's nothing though. When I was 25 I got with someone who had turned 18 just 2 weeks prior to us getting together.
I fucked one of my professors in college once and there was that much of an age difference. Still had a good time but naturally couldn't make it a lasting thing (getting caught would be bad for both of our careers).
>>6417115
I was with a 17 year old at 31 (lied and said he was 19, in fairness - I strive to keep it legal). I think it's funny you think 25 and 18 is crazy.
i think older men are hot
but i don't think a guy in his 40's wants to be with a mtf girl 20 years younger than him
>no one wants to be with me anyway
> 19yr old dating 34yr old qt3.14 muscle bear reporting in
We celebrated our one year before he had to fly out of the country for conferences
>>6428825
>muscle bear
pic pls??
>>6428825
how did you find a muscle bear?? ):
>>6428792
>i think older men are hot
>but i don't think a guy in his 40's wants to be with a mtf girl 20 years younger than him
Just the opposite. I think a lot of 40-year old guys would love to be with a 20-year old mtf, but 20-year old mtf's don't want to hang around with 40-something guys.
>>6400203
If he's hot, he's hot. As long as he can get it hard, so take in consideration that if you date them they don't have the same energy levels to go out with you and your friends to things like bars and clubs and stuff otherwise you can learn a lot
>>6429547
can anyone confirm?
When I was 28 I dated a guy who was 45. He was also in great shape, and had alot of money. The relationship didn't last because we want to do different things, aka personal clashed. I did enjoy the money though :D
24 year old with a 43 year old bf reporting in
He doesnt really feel old. He's broke af and I buy almost everything on our dates. Recently he went back to his mom's because he got laid off and is currently trying to get neetbux. He doesn't have a strand of gray hair on him or has thinning hair (he's hairy & blond). But hes genuinely cute and funny and romantic/lovey dovey and loyal and that's all I care about desu. Also he has a really relaxed view on life where he just wants to go with the flow and have fun. So many gays in this area are way too uptight (MD/DC/VA).
Love is too rare in the shallow and small gay world so I'd say don't let age hold you back from finding romantic prospects.
>>6433479
but how do i find an older man?
OP here, met him for a drink and things went pretty well. Gonna see him again at some point. Like >>6429648 said he mentioned he doesn't have the same desire for sex but has no problems and still enjoys doing stuff. I have to say it's a nice change of pace from what I'm used to. He bought my drinks and meal, he dominant but caring, and he's well off. Still not 100% sure but hell that's what dating is for
>>6429648
>If he's hot, he's hot. As long as he can get it hard
>tfw early 30s and have had trouble getting hard all my life
Just fucking kill me.
>>6434124
>trouble getting hard
may i help?
anyone got advice on how to find an older man
>>6434171
Maybe senpai :)
>>6400203
>48 years old and still looking for casual sex
you are playing with fire here kid. Almost certainly has HIV
>>6416267
hilarious how this community strives so much for equality and societal acceptance of identity but are the ones quickest to judge anyone or anything.
Fucking idiots
>>6428825
"conferences"
>>6400203
48 is too old for her to transition for sure
>>6440545
Everyone says I look like a 12 year old but I suspect that's an exaggeration. I get ID'd for things that are age 16+ like medicine and energy drinks.
>>6441595
Pics or gtfo.
>>6442019
I was just about to get into the shower when I saw your post so I had to cover myself up.
>"Why do normies feel the need to camwhore on /soc/?"
>end up posting newds on /lgbt/
Just kill me now desu
>>6443223
Damm your cute lol
>>6443396
I'm weaboo trash with a camera, but thanks
>>6443418
Cute weeaboo trash
If I didn't have a bf I would top you
Assuming you like tall fat guys
>>6443429
i don't have a bf and i like tall fat guys :o
>>6443429
>If I didn't have a bf I would top you
>Assuming you like tall fat guys
I literally have the bone density of a croissant, I basically might as well be throwing myself under a bus - at least there's a chance I could survive that.
>>6443457
Sorry your late anon , you didn't miss much
>>6443479
I'd be gentle with ya lol
Love my bf though
>>6443510
how old are you? also where are you from?
not the anon im just wondering because i dunno you look kinda familiar
>>6443530
From Indiana
18
Why lol.
>>6443534
nvmd then lol
I thought I saw you somewhere but Im from germany, so it makes no sense
