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Do gays hate sluts like straight people do? Would you be with
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Do gays hate sluts like straight people do?
Would you be with someone that has sucked 100 different cocks? My impression of the gay community is basically that it is one giant orgy, how far from the truth is this? Are nuclear families and monogamy common in the gay community?
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>Are nuclear families and monogamy common in the gay community

lol.
Your impression is right by the way.
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>>6394984
That's a shame. I was thinking about why I hate gay people and that was the main reason.
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Why would I give a shit so long as everyone's safe and no one is misleading anyone else?

Might be a bit jelly, but that's it.
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>>6394961
I'm not a slut but I don't hate sluts.

Any amount of sex is fine, as long as you're responsible about it. From none to 100. It's all good
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As long as you're not a cunt with no decency, I don't care how many people you've done it with. No matter what's between your legs.
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>>6394961
Not the majority but a sizable percentage are slutty shitskins. The ones who defend them are the majority though. Degenerates all.
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>>6395251
the LGBT group is generally more sexually liberated because, y'know, gay sex we sort of discover on our own
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>>6395262
Sexual liberation is a meme for empty people with empty relations. They should never have had developed treatments for AIDS instead of spiritual awakening it was just an excuse to delve deeper into degeneracy.
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>>6394961
You're conflating homosexual men with bisexuals.

Bisexuals are the sluts, having multiple partners, doing endless drugs, and spreading HIV/AIDS. Wider society has only recently started to differentiate them from gay men, but we've already garnered the reputation that THEY deserve.

Gay men are far more monogamous and actually favor traditional values.
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>>6395317
Honestly, these fags make me ashamed to be bi.
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>>6395296
Degeneracy is a meme for /pol/ to pretend they aren't self-hating prudes by hating people who are actually comfortable with their sexuality.

Any amount of responsible sex is fine
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>>6394961
I'm bi and the LGBT community disgusts me. I will never go to one of those sick pride parades. There is nothing to take pride in by being a slut walking down the street wearing a strap on.
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>>6394961
I think it kind of depends. Dating someone slutty is nice in the sense that it makes me feel better about past casual sex that I have had.
But I'd go more off their general demeanor toward sex and if they seemed like the type that slept around a lot doing drugs or unsafe sex then I'd be far more uncomfortable with them than the guy that slept around a lot but was knowledgeable about safe sex and actively practiced it.
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>>6395392
Pride is pretty fun. You'd enjoy it if you lightened up cuz everyone there is pretty friendly and welcoming
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>>6395379
"Comfortable" does not mean healthy. Nor does "responsible".

Promiscuity correlates with net negatives in practically every measure used.
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>>6395407
It's just a parade... people way over exaggerate the "fun-ness" of pride.
In the end the best part of pride are the bar events after, but I don't really like going to them that much anymore since I'm getting too old for clubbing and shit haha
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>>6395427
The concept of promiscuity was invented by the Christian church. It doesn't actually mean anything because there's no agreed upon number of people you have to sleep with in order to be considered promiscuous. Responsible sex means you're taking precautions to avoid contracting STDs or unwanted sex, so yes, it literally means healthy. Comfortable with your sexuality refers to mental health, because sexual repression is psychologically damaging.
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>>6395433
You must live in a pretty small town because Pride is an entire weekend. Before the parade there's vendors and stands in the park for all kinds of things, like LGBT sports clubs or outdoor camping groups or gay-related stuff you can buy, like shirts. They also have free HIV testing, which is always good to check. The clubbing is a part of it but really it's nice to feel surrounded by my kind for once and escape the feeling of living in a straight world.
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>>6395454
>The concept of promiscuity was invented by the Christian church.
oh pls. will you just stop. Yes, the Catholics policed sexuality but ppl being concerned with morality regarding sexual practices happens in all cultures and even happened in the supposed gaytopia of the ancient greeks.
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>>6395534
If you want to get into it, the reason why the concept developed in the first place was because a man had no other way of knowing whether or not a child was his. This made inheritances and family trees very difficult so a woman's sexuality was policed so a man would know for certain. That's why even to this day in the straight world a man who sleeps with lots of women is a stud but a woman who sleeps around is a slut.

Now that lineage is far easier to determine and safe sex is available sexual purity has no real value other than making you bad at having sex.
>mfw you dismiss all of this because you don't understand it
Ah well
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>>6395589
that's part of it but not all. It was also to create stable families. Greek society required a man to provide for a household and a women to run the household. It created a stable society. Men having sex with men was tolerated but it was seen as a vice. Anything an adult man did that might destabilize the strength of this family unit was detrimental to greek society. So yes, it was about lineage but it was also about keeping the basic unit of greek society -the family, intact for a strong society.
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>>6395627
Yeah starting a family is fine and all if you want to do so but what LGBT people have learned is that you don't HAVE to start a family in order to live a long, happy, fulfilling life. You're perfectly free to do so but it's a myth that EVERYONE has to do it. Some people never develop the responsibility or maturity to raise children or stay monogamous but they're not bad people for failing to do so. They're just being shoved into a role they don't fit.
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>>6395474
Well in my city specifically pride only lasts 3 hours technically and there isn't even a parade, just a bbq haha
But the bigger city nearby pride lasts like a week but the events are always pretty meh. There's a lot of dancing events, art shows, theatre stuff, etc. All really artsy type stuff. This year seemed to be getting better though, they had a blues night and an acoustic night at some pubs here. But the downside was at acoustic night they had some weird poetry session and some "lgbtq2s+ spoken word" thing, which I'm not even sure wtf that is which I assume is just some weird artsy hipster thing that makes no sense.
It's not really stuff I'd go out of my way to see anyway.
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>>6395642
>Some people never develop the responsibility or maturity to raise children or stay monogamous but they're not bad people for failing to do so.
>responsibility
>maturity
they are just irresponsible and immature.
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>>6395677
Raising a child is a $600,000 investment that many people simply cannot afford or want to make. There's no rule that says you have to have a kid.
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>>6395454
>>6395642

>Responsible sex means you're taking precautions to avoid contracting STDs or unwanted sex, so yes, it literally means healthy.

You do know that having multiple partners itself correlates with all kinds of unhealthy practices, personal issues, and life choices right?

Like, it doesn't matter if you wrap your cock in a rubber if at the end of the day you have children by three different women after two divorces and your children are all growing up in broken homes to become mentally ill criminals while you yourself throw yourself off a building at 45 because the emptiness of your life is aching.

Even if you dispute this and claim correlation doesn't equal causation, it doesn't matter. Healthy and well-adjusted people are not promiscuous people. If not the cause, then promiscuity is the symptom. So if someone wants to be promiscuous, your response of "You go lad" is not helpful, because it only reinforces unhealthy coping for underlying issues that are not addressed through promiscuity.

If standing on your head after dinner was correlated with chopping off your hands once you become an adult, no rational person would say "Yeah muh nigga you stand on your head!" They'd recognize that desire as an enormous red flag.
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>>6395798
>You do know that having multiple partners itself correlates with all kinds of unhealthy practices, personal issues, and life choices right?
>Healthy and well-adjusted people are not promiscuous people
Yes, they are. Dan Savage is very forthcoming about his open relationship. Tilda Swinton, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are also in open relationships. There are so many examples and you can't claim that "they don't count" because the fact that these people exist is a literal contradiction to what you put forth as fact. And that's not even counting the unhealthy, non-well adjusted people that are in monogamous relationships.

>it doesn't matter if you wrap your cock in a rubber if at the end of the day you have children by three different women
Did you miss the point of what I said entirely? Like, are you unable to grasp the concept that people can and do have safe sex and don't contract STDs and don't have unwanted children, right? Hell, it's even easier for homosexuals because we can only ever conceive children by taking very deliberate, purposeful steps to do so.

>If standing on your head after dinner was correlated with chopping off your hands once you become an adult, no rational person would say "Yeah muh nigga you stand on your head!" They'd recognize that desire as an enormous red flag.
Is this what logic sounds like if you're a crazy person. Like holy shit, dude are you okay?
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All gay bottoms are sluts.
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>>6396359
>what bisexuals tell themselves so that they can sleep at night
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>>6396126
this is what logic sounds like if you're a raging autist
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>>6396126
>the fact that these people exist is a literal contradiction
>And that's not even counting the unhealthy, non-well adjusted people that are in monogamous relationships.

The fact that these people exist provide a statistical anomaly only. There will always be people that don't fit the mould, so to speak. That doesn't make the general trend for humans false.

>don't have unwanted children, right?
Just because children were wanted does not prevent divorce and unhappy marriages, which correlate with promiscuity.
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>>6395379
>>6395399
>>6395454
>>6395589
>>6395642
>>6395711
reasons i love the gays

>>6395627
i'm sure you believe the moynihan report is a valid scientific study, too
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>>6396425
Dude you have to accept it as fact and it's not a statistical anomaly. There is no connection between promiscuity and unhappiness.

I'm not encouraging people to go and be sluts. I'm telling people to go have the amount of sex that they are comfortable having. Contrary to what you believe, people don't need to be shamed in order to restrain themselves should they wish. A great many people don't have sex at every opportunity
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>>6396373
>implying bisexuals have any time to sleep with all the slutting they're up to
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>>6394961
People who are promiscuous are usually rife with self-esteem/mental issues.

I don't have sex with awful people, and these people are typically awful people. Not because they have a lot of sex with other people but because of some other issue they usually have.
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>>6394961
A 100 seems like an awful lot of cock....
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>>6396766
>People who are promiscuous are usually rife with self-esteem/mental issues.
Depends how you define promiscuity.
I think you're thinking of sex addiction actually.
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>>6395296
You say that till it gets airborne. .....
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>>6396764
this desu

t. bisexual
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>>6395379
>they aren't self-hating prudes
They aren't though. They're hypocritical pieces of trash that masturbate to pornography and anime yet have the audacity to whine about degeneracy
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>>6396766
>People who are promiscuous are usually rife with self-esteem/mental issues.

Nice projection there m8.
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>>6394961
>My impression of the gay community is basically that it is one giant orgy
Well what do you expect when you force people into their own isolated community based on who they fuck?
It's like going to an alcoholics anonymous meeting and being disgusted with everyone there because they drank alcohol, only make alcoholics anonymous meetings mandatory by law because any consumption of alcohol is seen as morally revolting. And also some people were randomly force fed alcohol early in their lives by some creepy ghost thing, and these are the people that all of society condemns for being disgusting freaks and forces to live as an outcast society.
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>>6396869
lolwut? dude, you lost me somewhere in that analogy. I've no idea the point you're trying to make
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>>6396806
Jacking it to 2D images doesn't spread disease and cause the down fall of western civilization like gay sex does.
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>>6396958
So all they need to do is put on a condom then.
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