Tomorrow I'll be topping for the first time. Any tips or things you wish you knew on your first time?
>>6370388
Shut up, we're circlejerking about politics and ideologies today, unless you're planning on raping a muslim man.
>>6370447
He looks kinda Arab.
Make sure to lube up and warm the bottom up nice and slow. Also make sure you are 100% hard, I'm bi and my first time I didn't realize that a bootyhole will basically clamp down on your dong.
Use lube if he isn't experienced.
Use a condom no matter what.
Be gentle unless he asks otherwise.
>>6373338
> Use lube if he isn't experienced.
Are you trying to tell me you degenerates eventually stop using lube?
>>6373338
>Use lube no matter what
>Use a condom no matter what
FTFY
>>6370388
Before fucking him, at least warm him up with a few fingers. Use the opportunity to try and feel his prostate. I personally find it easier when the bottom is on fours, then I just have to curve my fingers downwards, towards the dick.
If you find his prostate, he will react. Massage it for a while and your bottom will love it, and this might relax him considerably.
Ask your bottom what positions are better for him. Since it's your first time topping you'll notice that there are some positions that won't give you much pleasure, so try to experiment while still doing what your bottom enjoys most.
This might be too advanced, but you can angle your fucking to make your bottom more comfortable. Some positions hit the prostate better, which is what some bottoms enjoy. Others prefer positions in which they're fucked by most of your dick length, so you be aware of how much of your dick is going in. If you're too big for your guy, try a position in which less of your dick is effectively used.
Topping is tiring. Most bottoms expect you to be capable of fucking them for enough time. If you get tired easily, control your pace so you take longer to tire out. You can also alternate with positions in which your bottom is doing most of the effort.
Don't overthink stuff. Get in the moment and enjoy yourself. Also communicate with your guy to know what he likes and dislikes.
>>6373689
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this guy nailed it
>>6373689
Some other advice I just remembered:
Some people who ejaculate too quickly benefit from jerking off earlier in the day, before having sex. That way they're desensitized and take longer to cum.
I, on the other hand, have a hard time cumming the first time of the day. So if I want to fuck someone for a long period of time, I won't masturbate before, and if I know I won't have much time I'll jerk off in the morning.
You've got to know how your dick works so that you can do the right thing before sex — whether to jerk off or not.
Since sex is so based on "being in the moment", you might benefit from preparing yourself psychologically. If you have any nudes from the guy you're about to fuck, take a look at them during the day to keep you on edge. You might also want to sext him up, if that get's you going. But beware, getting too excited before hand can make you cum faster — or last longer, if you're like me. And if you get too intense with that you might get a terrible case of blue balls — and that'll fucking destroy your experience, trust me.
Last one: when you start inserting your dick, typically you SHOULDN'T start fucking him. Put just the tip, then SLOWLY enter him until your entire length is inside him. Let him adjust for some time, then start fucking in a slow pace and increase it.
If your bottom locks up and you can't go any deeper, then stop but keep your dick in. Make him relax: make out, bite his ears and nipples, jerk him off, massage him, do whatever it takes to make him feel better. Get in the moment, find pleasure in pleasuring your bottom, so that you keep yourself hard.
You can also just grind your dick inside, just shimmy yourself so that you fuck him in slow and extremely SHORT thrusts. That way you can open him up a bit more.
Have fun and play safe.
>>6373832
I'm fairly well endowed, and I don't think my bottoms to well exsperenced. What do you think would be the best position?
>>6373918
He can be on top, so that he can control how much of your dick is going in. But that'll tire him out quickly, specially if he doesn't exercise, so you might need to change to a different position after a while.
If he's not experienced, then do your best to communicate with each other, do lots of foreplay, warm him up for as long as necessary and don't freak out if you get some shit on your dick. That happens sometimes.
>Tomorrow I'll be topping for the first time. Any tips?
Don't do it in a Floridian nightclub, just to be safe.
>>6374001
We live I Washington State so we should be fine, but you never know with those crazy bastards.
>>6370388
I tried topping for the first time last weekend. He's really cute and I was using Cialis but I just couldn't stay hard. I honestly feel horrible about it. Been fucking with me ever since.
just make him feel loved ;~;
>>6378530
I'm happy that my experiences in butt fucking are making you confused and distressed. Hope you find a qt bottom to fuck, family.
>>6370388
Make sure you put your penis in his ASSHOLE, because it's easier than you'd think to get that mixed up. I remember my first time, and I wound up with my dick caught in our toaster. Lol, you don't want a repeat of that!
>>6374053
>We live I Washington State
Ayy me too, though the Vancouver area may aswell be called lamer Portland.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBlwxqqAprQ
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>>6373918
>What do you think would be the best position?
left out
>>6379963
Yeah, cool city though, I'm in the inbreed Olympic Peninsula.
