Straight? guy here. I've been having some gay fantasies recently that have been making me question my sexuality, and I'm trying to learn more about these urges. My question is, how do you know if you're a top or a bottom? What are the characteristics of people who are tops and people who are bottoms? For guys who enjoy topping, what do you enjoy about it? For guys who enjoy bottoming, what do you enjoy about it?
I'm straight too, but I'm curious about bottoming, even though I've never tried it before. I don't know why I prefer it over topping, though.
>>6358972
Why you "need" to know you are something? you are you, just try everything and enjoy you don't need people tell what are you I am mostly straight, but I like traps, anal pleasure and shemales and I just love it, it makes me feel good, at the end is the only thing it matters check porn of all kinds and ask yourself in what situations you will feel pleasure to be involved, know your own fetishes and fantasies
>>6359037
Im just trying to learn and understand things from/about gay people
>>6358972
Well most gay guys are bottoms. take from that what you will
>>6358972
Topping is way easier. No cleanup required, no pain, no risk of condom ripping/AIDs.
Characteristics? Idk... I like to spank guys when im inside them. they seem to enjoy it
>>6358972
Bisexual here, I know I'm a top because I fucking love ASSES. I guess tops are ass men and bottoms are cock men if that's a thing. I don't know how to explain what I enjoy about topping... it's putting my dick up someone's butt, it's just the best and that's really all I can say on the subject.
>>6364657
So is it more about convenience for you?
>>6358972
Tops are typically dominant, bottoms are submissive. You should try both and see which one you like. Try using a dildo or vibrator first. Tops are usually the masculine one, bottoms fem. I've done both and enjoyed both. But neither are something I'd want to do every night. Bottoms have to prep before sex which can include enema to make sure there are no accidents. It can hurt until you learn how to relax your muscles. The object is to hit the prostate gland. Learn where that is, if you don't already know. If you are a bottom, you will most likely be jerking yourself off in most cases....unless he does it for you.
>>6358972
so im verse... I do both top and bottom.
I usually find out pretty quick what roll ill be playing and just roll with it. Bottoms usually let it be knows very quikc they want to suck or get fucked or whatever, so if they are acting like that then i top them, its really fun to be honest guys are so eager and u dont have to romance them for a long time like you do a girl.
>tops usually make it clear they are not going to touch ur dick or have ur dik in their ass
So in that case i just take the opportunity to get fucked or swallow a nut
Tops are often very selfish, and many of them leave immediately when they nut
I hooked up with one top for like 4 months the whole time he was saying he wasnt gay XD it was hilarious, i even got him to suck me off a few times and try anal and he was still like "im not gay"
>>6365096
i recently got a verse bf, So now its Verse+Verse which is awesome because our fuck session usually last like 3 hrs and involve a lot of doing everything to both of us.
>its pretty fucking amazing
