How do you feel about wispy, effete gay men? Is cute/endearing or annoying? Somewhere in between?
>>6349074
Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Can even be hot if it's natural and not over the top.
What does bother me though is when people turn them into this scapegoat for the source of homophobia. Masc4masc REAL MEN ONLY types are unimaginably more annoying than even the most eargrating fake lisp.
>>6349074
As a straight guy, it's the only gays I fucking like.
I work with a fag whose masculine and it's gross when he "accidently" touches my hand or does other gay shit all the time.
At least with a flamboyant gay guy it feels less gay.
Recently I was playing LoL with an over the top fem gay guy and his vocie was kind of getting me horny.
Wispy and flamboyant please
also say shit like yaas and other gay shit
I'm at least a triple faggot and I can't stand the whole forced Hollywood gay behavior thing. Stick your dick where you may but act with dignity and pride. Or don't. Fuck me. Who the fuck am I to tell you how to act? But if you act like a valley girl I'll hate you because I also hate valley girls.
>>6349144
>getting turned on by feminine fags
You sure you're not gay bro?
>>6349074
I behave and speak in an effeminate manner naturally. I remember from like 12 onward I was constantly being asked by my parents and others if I was gay. I thought I spoke pretty normally but other people have always told me I sound homo and effeminate. Not over the top though, it's very much present and detectable but it's light. I've tried making it go away many times in the past but I always returned to speaking like that very shortly without realizing it.
I'm not so into it when people speak with an obviously fake and over-the-top gay accent, but aside from that I'm totally for it.
cute
but I lose my admiration for it as soon as I come
I feel like a straight man dealing with women, this isn't what I signed up for
>>6349244
Yeah, I don't jerk off to gay porn or ever see myself doing anything gay
I just get easily turned on
sometimes i get turned on when /lgbt/ tries to tell me im not straight
but like anything can get me hard pretty much
>>6349285
Why do you come here then? I'm not one of those who typically harps on about "go back to [/so-and-so board/], just curious kinda.
>>6349144
That's pretty hot senpai
>>6349336
Any other experiences with feminine gay dudes? :)
>>6349366
Honestly, not much anon.
Any time they hit on me in highschool I always kind of played along.
I enjoy when gay guys hit on me, but I get pretty fucking weirded out when guys more masculine then me do it.
I still take it as a compliment.
When I was younger I was such a fucking weird kid, I'd put straight porn on and jerk off on a gay site.
and completely tab out and just watch porn infront of guys, idk that so fucking gay when I think about it but im way past that shit.
Sorry anon for being boring
>>6349285
>I just get easily turned on
I didn't get off to gay porn either, until after I had actually had gay sex.
If you're easily turned on, then what if simply grabbing your dick was enough? What if some qt boi started heavily flirting with you and you hadn't gotten laid in a long time, and he started feeling you up and stuff? You might not get off to looking at pictures and videos of it, but perhaps actually participating in homo activity would feel entirely different for you.
There are a lot of things with men and women alike that don't turn me on in porn but then turn me on in real life when I try them, and there are plenty of things that go the other way too. You don't really know for sure whether you like something until it starts happening to you for real and you react the way you react in the moment.
>>6349218
I agree with this guy. I think the whole mincing, sashaying gay dude thing is typically more of a case of affectations than anything.
Read about the ancient Greeks and Romans. Most men were bi and the ones that were strictly gay were some of the most masculine, fearsome warriors who ever lived. You know that movie 300, about the 300 Spartans. They failed to mention that all of them were homos. Would have made for a very different but nonetheless very interesting movie.
>>6349388
>I still take it as a compliment
I don't see why all hetero men don't take it this way. It's not like fags don't like all the same things about men that women do. I've even had women tell me before that I have a good taste in men.
>>6349396
Fuck,This is a rough one.
>What if some qt boi started heavily flirting with you and you hadn't gotten laid in a long time, and he started feeling you up and stuff?
I jerk off like 5x a day. It's hard to say. If I hadn't of jerked off that day, or somehow made it 24 hours, and he just grabbed me, it would probably get hard.
To be fair when gay guys have hit on me I've never gotten hard but also they weren't great looking imo
It starts maybe getting hazy there but idk
>>6349414
It feels somewhat good to know that people think your good looking even if your not attracted to them.
I do feel and maybe this is just fucking weird or what but disproportionately I get hit on by gay guys and I don't know why I attract that, I don't think I come off gay at all, I'm somewhat good looking but compared to my friends I seem to run into it a lot more.
Couldn't tell you why
>>6349388
My first time with another guy was a total fem in high school. I still enjoy remembering it.
It's nice. It's cute.
>>6349470
Are you bi? and what was it like?
>>6349490
I think I always knew I liked guys as well as girls. I played football in high school, and I was in a French class. I spoke a little to begin with, so I got partnered up with this very feminine (makeup, tank top, the whole nine) guy that was originally from Mexico. To be honest, I was terrified, but I caught myself staring at him in class sometimes.
Before a test, we spent some time studying a bit at his house (I was still worried about people seeing us together, even just to study...small town, people talk). He was very flirty, but I controlled myself. The thing going is, he knew somehow I was interested. After he got a B on his test, he left me a note in my textbook saying thank you, and that he understood my hesitancy in being associated with him. I went to his place, and we took a drive together, and I told him what I thought and how I felt. He started kissing me. Six months later, we were still fucking on a regular basis.
Yes, I'm bi.
>>6349514
I've never had that feeling. Maybe I just haven't seen the right fem gay guy but idk.
The voice can turn me on, I'd probably be down to let one use a fleshlight on me
Was the sex good?
>>6349524
It was amazing. He was very sweet and gentle at first. Guess he could tell I was nervous. I'd been with women before and they were fun, but he was better than any of them.
>>6349530
Is there a lot of flamboyant fem gay guys everywhere?
Or are they rare in the gay communiuty
>>6349533
You can find them pretty easily, but I got lucky. He was really awesome. Most of them I've experienced since then we're pretty terrible people.
>>6349539
Why were they terrible people?
>>6349074
I like that gay voice, but it has to come out of an effeminate man who isn't dressed like they are on Drag Race. Good sense of fashion (male or female) and sweet, that's all I ask.
If they're kind and likable it's all the same to me. I just don't want being a homosexual male to be the extent of their character.
If they are normal or masc looking, it can be cute.
I don't like it at all. What I'm attracted to is maleness so I have nothing in common with these people.
It honestly feel like a lost link between homosexuality and transsexuality.
>>6349074
>men trying to be women
>cute/endearing
>implying I'm not gay to get away from female bullshit
>this plague
>>6349396
>You might not get off to looking at pictures and videos of it, but perhaps actually participating in homo activity would feel entirely different for you.
This is surprisingly true and I'm not even close to being straight. A lot of gay porn is just terrible. Participating in a sexual act is so dissimilar to sitting in front of a screen and jerking off. There's a reason why so many people masturbate to obscure fetish porn, but wouldn't want to actually be a part of it when the time comes to put it into practice.
>>6349218
>>6349401
I agree as well.
>>6349074
It's fine. I find myself naturally blushing around them but have never dated one.
I hate it when people assume I'm like that just from being gay but it's not fem men's fault.
>>6349074
What about feminine boys who act boyish, like guy stuff and have bravado but look girly and have feminine bodies cause of drug use like Femgen.
>>6351094
Looking girly but acting masc is pretty much my fetish, pham.
>>6351094
Very idiotic. If you are 'masc' you wouldn't worry about your teenage years disappearing but accept a male body and what happens to it, so it's like a overcompensating 'act' as you call it.
>>6351243
yeah they're fucking themselves pretty badly. their options are to an hero or to transition pretty much in a few years.
>How do you feel about wispy, effete gay men?
Largely unconcerned with others' personalities, unless I'm considering dating them. Really not into effeminate guys as far as that's concerned, but to each their own.
>>6349074
They don't bother me. It's the flamers i think should get a beat down every time they feel entitled enough to be condescending to people, FOR NO REASON.
I feel like I accidentally sound like one of those gay men with the higher voice simply because my reaction to my voice deepening and my throat tightening was to talk more with my mouth, cause I'm terrified of suffocation (I know throat tightening like that won't suffocate me but it was a natural fearful response) and I was really anxious about my voice cracking.
>>6349542
A lot of them are just trashy dickhounds. Most of them, actually.
I am honestly so annoyed by it. i can't stand the stereotypical sassy gay guy type. Pretty much all the attributes i hate in women but in a guy. I work with a flamer and he annoys the shit out of me. he knows i like guys and he continually flirts with me and wants to hang out but i just ignore all his texts and avoid him as much as i can
>>6354296
Same thing here. It's gross.
