If you're transfag and completely pre-op and don't pass for shit, is it better to try and find chasers or should I just settle to dating straight people?
>>6336543
Do what makes you the most comfortable. Sometimes straight people are in to crosdressers even if they don't say it. Some subcultures allow for open crossdressing while still being straight: typically goths, bondage, and some metal scenes, but there probably are others out there.
Pic related: This is Ladybeard. he is a metal singer. No, really. Watch him here:
https://youtu.be/M8-vje-bq9c
He has a band:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKlfTlx0oY6BiCH7Qvabrhg
>>6336572
I'm ftm and would be happy with a fat gay guy into my kinks but that is not an option.
>>6336543
Go one better and don't date people, period.
>chasers
>wanting unpassable
what
>>6338399
chasers rarely want stealth either, they are weird creatures.
>>6338399
I'd date an unpassable trans girl. Not passing =/= ugly as boy.
>>6339455
I'm ftm, unpassing and people start conversations with me like "so are you a lesbian or what".
