>mfw my boyfriend gets mad when I refer to myself as a 'trap' or a 'tranny' and i don't know if he just thinks it's self-demeaning or is trying to shield himself from the fact that I have an Y chromosome
Does this happen to anyone else?
>>6326537
You're hurting his masculinity by doing this famalan. As a man who is probably only into the vag/female form but is into you by saying you're not a woman you're calling him gay.
>>6326557
>tfw call my bf faggot all the time and remind him that our balls have in fact touched while he's pounding me
kek
>>6326565
I don't know about your personal relationship but I know that the majority of men who are into women would be really upset and hurt by that.
Does your boyfriend still think he's straight?
>>6326585
Not that person but I think it is hard to classify someone who's exclusively into convincing female-looking individuals as gay for the same reason that a man who likes the cock isn't straight just because he's attracted to a woman who looks exactly like a man.
>>6326537
Don't be 12 and actually ask and talk to him about it?
Tranny is pretty much equal to faggot or nigger though, and calling yourself a trap if you're actually living fulltime as a woman is just weird.
>>6326573
That guy ain't just into women, buddy.
>>6326592
I'm gay and exclusively attracted to very feminine femboys. pic related
>>6326537
>my boyfriend gets mad when I refer to myself as a 'trap' or a 'tranny
because you don't pass hun
>>6326592
lol no
if it has a penis, it's a man. you're a man, and your bf is a faggot. how are you so stupid? do those fake hormones rot brain cells?
>>6326882
I only told him I was trans when we were about to have sex. Learn to tuck and early-HRT, hun.
>>6326936
Could have been murdered but totally worth it.
>>6326941
Don't date southerner autists from craigslist or insecure right wingers, hun.
>>6326537
It would bother me too I don't care about my sexuality "label" anymore but it seems like calling yourself fake and a nigger imo
Maybe I feel that way because i'm black idk.
If you playfully call yourself a tranny I guess it' fine
But I detest trap as a term I met another guy who like trans women in an open relationship relationship relationship relationship girl my main gripe with him was he would call them traps which made him sound like a meme spouting child and also like her didn't respect trans identity
I'm lib for this shit brah
>>6326959
Good plan I guess
Some right wingers hide their powerlevel during dates
But I guess with a little internet research you'll find out.
>>6326852
Then by that definition the vast majority of men are faggots for being attracted to traps so long as they don't know they are traps. Come on now.
>>6326925
I'm a straight up homo m8. Not like men can pick up dicks via radar. Being attracted to someone once you see them with a cock is def. gay, I agree, but being being into female-formed people post-op so long as they are convincing enough while you're not into people who look like men is difficult to classify as gay.
>>6326936
tbqh that's unethical.
>>6326969
If I hear something even minorly TRP or /pol/-looking, I ditch.
And since during repression (13-15) I PUA'd actively, I know every single one of their tricks and ridicule them. Proud to say I made one go to the bathroom and cry after three dates where I just constantly demeaned him at every single attempt of 'game'.
OP you should be considerate of his feelings.
>>6326977
Pffft i'm proud anon also hope this makes all those "white nationalist" who like trans people realize they are doomed.
>>6326991
This
>>6326936
People like you are why everyone hates trannies tbqh.
>>6327018
Why should I care about a group of people I'm only tied towards by my desire to look like a different gender?
Do people like Elliot Rodgers make bipolars look bad? :3
>>6326991
I am, I love him.
Just makes me be less spontaneous :\
>>6326537
But what if you couldn't tell if it were a guy but you are in love with the way they looked (so they didn't look masculine whatsoever
>>6326537
Holy shit I had this exact problem with mine today. I made a trap joke and he wasn't mad, just uncomfortable.
i think we need to give an extra measure of respect to our SO's than a cis girl would because they're already putting up with a mentally ill mess with unpreferred genitals.
>mtfs would rather be with insecure "straight" guys than a guy like me who wouldn't give one fuck
idk, maybe the insecurity makes them hotter to you because it makes them seem even more straight
>>6327071
Likely, i'm saving my love for somone who wants it
like to third world tranny
>>6326972
>by that definition the vast majority of men are faggots
We're not talking about being attracted to a trap until you see the dick, we're talking about fucking a trap's butt with the dick in plain view and making contact with the dick.
Tell him to get over it.
>>6327098
Okay, yeah, that's at least bi.
>>6327098
I remember seeing a perfectly passing tranny on tv as a teen, and even then I remember being okay with the dick. To me if the rest of them is feminine, then a cock really isn't that big of a deal, but since I don't have this irrational fear of penis, I'm a homo, even though I'm not attracted to men in general.
I just don't get how someone can be so afraid of something that they also have between their legs, especially when its attached to cute trap/trans.
>>6327154
straight men aren't interesting in interacting with a cock. especially when it's attached to a crazy playing fantasy dressup games
>>6327241
Sure, I guess I'm just more concerned with overall appearance than genitals.
>>6327285
you just take anything you can get because you know nobody loves you
>>6327289
Not anything. I've had girls come onto me, but honestly the traps I crush on online are way more tempting than the kind of girls I attract.
They're like a step above fat chicks but below say a 7/10 qt.
>>6327328
>qt traps
>below cis grils
c'mon now
>>6326537
Hey OP. Sauce the the picture?
>>6326565
You dirty faggot. It's faggots like you that turn me off of humping slim, effeminate twinks when we are alone and ignoring them when we are with company.
You gaylord fagmeister.
>>6327154
SO MUCH THIS
OMG SOMEONE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IN THE WHOLE INTERBUTT
>>6328523
>Gay man likes cock
>OMG SOMEONE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IN THE WHOLE INTERBUTT
Straight guys don't like dick, have you ever tried to sell futa porn to a straight guy? even if the porn is hot the penis ruins it. Any kind of niche appeal from transgenderism comes from seeing transwomen as not women.
>>6329244
>tried to sell futa porn to a straight guy? even if the porn is hot the penis ruins it.
/d/ will swear up and down that you're wrong. I can kinda see where they're coming from. People fap to all sorts of crazy shit that they don't want to actually happen, why not dicks too?
>>6329244
I'm just saying when I'm attracted to a female her genitals are the last thing I'm thinking about, I don't care how good the pussy is, if its attached to a ugly/fat girl I want nothing to do with it. To me the overall person is far more important than their genitals, which is why I don't mind hooking up with a transgendered. The person makes the genitals hot, not the other way around, at least to me.
>>6329315
Maybe drown but not real ones. Non gay men are grossed out by real penises
>>6329317
You really sound like you're bi/pan. So, not straight.
>>6329320
Drawn* i can't type properly today
>>6329325
>You really sound like you're bi/pan. So, not straight.
Ugh, fuck the labels man. If liking transgendered makes me bi then so be it, its just a word. I don't care because I know I'm not attracted to men for their masculinity, I wouldn't fuck a masculine dude same as I wouldn't fuck a masculine female. If there were 18 genders I would like every single one that was cute and feminine. Appearance is what matters most to me, not chromosomes.
>>6329315
People just overthink that shit. Plenty of people fap to loli and shota yet aren't attracted to kids, tons of people fap to furry porn but aren't attracted to real life animals, and yes, some people who fap to traps/futa are not actually attracted to real life men, so they are straight.
>>6329244
Google sexual illusions m8.
>>6329320
If what you say is true, and a straight guy seeing a futa should be totally disgusted, then why are they okay with watching hetero porn, which is at least 25%-75% real life dick and balls (if you count gangbangs)?
Its funny how dicks are suddenly disgusting when its on a girl, but not a guy.
>>6326925
What if you're attracted to something that lacks genetalia or gender? Say, a drawing of a woman (or an anime character). It LOOKS like a woman, sure, but given that it's not a real person it lacks actual gender. What does that make you?
I'd argue that being a straight man means being a "genomorphiliac", i.e. attracted to the form and likeness of women. Sometimes, though, something that has such as likeness is not a 'woman' in the exact sense. One's attraction is still a "straight" attraction because it is an attraction to the female form.
>>6329725
Fucking a man, no matter how feminine, is always gay. I mean I get what you're saying, but technically speaking you just can't get around it. People just need to let go of this obsession and glorification of being 100% straight, its only limiting when guys have proven time and time again that they outdo females at their own game.
>>6329787
I get what you mean, but who said anything about going as far as fucking? Sexual preference is about attraction and not actual actions. I mean otherwise gay people who are virgins wouldn't be gay; or bisexuals who don't fuck the same gender because they're in a relationship wouldn't be bi. On the other hand a straight guy who sucks a dick 'cause he has to and hates it would be gay. So it can't be action, it's attraction.
When you find out that the person has a dick you might refuse to fuck 'her', and that I can understand. But you where still initially attracted to the person, right? So that attraction, being that is exists BECAUSE 'she' looks like a woman, can't be a gay attaction, no?
>>6329879
>When you find out that the person has a dick you might refuse to fuck 'her', and that I can understand. But you where still initially attracted to the person, right? So that attraction, being that is exists BECAUSE 'she' looks like a woman, can't be a gay attaction, no?
Of course when you look at it more closely its obvious that the attraction is caused because they appear to be woman, I was just speaking on a technical level. Technically if a guy fucked nothing but ultra manly ftms he'd still be straight, but no one in their right mind would really think he was straight.
>>6329993
I disagree. Obviously the act still has nothing to do with it, but if you where ATTRACTED to a ftm who hence LOOKED male and not female, you would not be an exclusive genomorphiliac and hence not straight. Both practically and technically.
But what I'm trying to get at here, is that while it's understandable that a guy might not want to fuck a mtf (despite initial attraction to the female form) after the 'reveal' - what if he DOES fuck her? Hypothetically. I mean yeah she has a dick, but like I argued before the ACT doesn't determine sexuality, the ATTRACTION does. And he's attracted to the form, so he just has her wear panties that cover the cock and pretends it's a "real" girl - and when he does happen to see the cock he goes soft because he can't into cocks. Why is this not a straight man?
>>6330061
Its hard to call it. On one hand I understand that he's only attracted because he appears to be a woman, but at the same time he is willingly having sex with another man.
The act itself is definitely gay, but he is straight as far what traits attract him, but also bi in that he has sex with both men and woman. It really just depends on how you look at it.
Gyne morpho philic.
Or maybe there's more proper ortography, but
geno morphi liac
is a total butchering
gynemorphophilic
>>6330203
Yeah I meant "gynomorphilia" not GENEwhatever, but I guess "gynomorphophilia" would be more accurate.
