For how long did you date your bf/gf before saying "I love you" to each other? What were you doing in that moment?
We were besties for 6 months.
'I love you' came out from both of us on the first night together.
(mtf-cis guy pairing btw)
>>6322327
Aww, that's cute anon. How come you guys slept together that time?
two months into
it was my bfs first time, so he certainly felt kinda good :3
My gf and I knew each other for awhile, I stay over at her house for a week and then at the end we said it before parting ways. Now we've been together for years.
>tfw want to say it but I think its too early
>>6322321
we were doing this before we dated, we just stopped adding "no homo"
>>6322776
Details?
>>6322821
she posts on here i don't think i should
>>6322571
Sure, I can give an account. :3
It's almost photographic memorized in my head from how perfect it was, even though I was drunk for most of it.
>late 2015
>he wants to make more friends
>think introducing him to mine is a good idea
>we all go to a bar together
>suddenly notice how bad of an idea it is
>them: edgy musician crowd where half the people are british and snarky, him: nerdy stereotypical white guy in jeans and a plain shirt
>hang out for two hours, filled with snarky remarks aimed at him on their part and me trying to keep a good environment
>had got minorly tipsy at that point, yell at them for being jerks
>i ruined the vibe, they strategically remove themselves from there after a while
>we're both alone
>realize i yelled at my only friends
>cry
>cry really hard, drink more, he's trying to get me to stop
>says i can sleep at his apartment
>ok
>we take his bycicle there (he rides a fucking bycicle), me on his back being comfy, thankfully no boner
>get there
>before he says anything i get anxious that he'll think I have second intentions and I yell 'i'm sleeping on the couch don't worry'
>fall flat on the couch
>wake up in the middle of the night, try to get water, cry that I can't find water
>he hears me and comes up to me
>cry really hard on his chest that I can't find water
>he wraps his arms around me and says a 'shh it's okay' that i still demand him to say nowadays
>press myself on him, he rests his head on my hair, feel so short near him (5'6'', he's 6'3'')
>we stay like that on the kitchen in the dark for what felt like forever
>slur that I wanna watch a movie
>we try to putlocker but give up and watch cartoons
>slowly shift to a position where he's behind me and we're laying on the couch
>he asks if i'm comfortable like this
>say i do
>5 minutes into cartoons and chill and he has a boner while ranting about a Ed, Edd and Eddy character
>flatly ask 'are you attracted to me?'
>he stammers a little and tries to keep ranting
(cont)
>>6322825
>Dating a 4channer
Not even once.
>>6322571
>>6322958
>press my butt against him
>he stops
>start doing it again
>feel like i weirded him out, stop
>we sit in silence for a few minutes, think I fucked up, I already lost my other friends so whatever, I don't mind ending up alone in the street by the end of the night
>he starts humping me
>ask him if he's drunk
>he reminds me he doesn't drink
>we laugh, humping stops
>a few more minutes pass and he starts groping me
>feel the need to mention i feel so short near him again
>he throws the cheesiest one-liner i can't even remember in response, but instead of being funny it just turned me on more
>things mentally get blurry and we banged while I was half-unconscious, I know I offered myself to him and I was the one who started undressing
>next morning he looks fucking worried
>he asks if i'm okay
>say i am
>after a 30 minute awkward conversation i realize he thinks he raped me
>smile and pull him in
>make out for a while
>spend the rest of the weekend at his place and fuck like 6 times more
>tfw pent up repressed feelings on both sides come out all at once and we can't hold them in and it feels so fucking good
>tfw happily together since then and fucking like rabbits
Only problem we ever had was him thinking that I had completely different views than I really had because he sort of viewed me as a tumblrina stereotype. Tiptoed a lot about the trans thing, referred to my butt as my 'pussy', thought I'd get dysphoric if I had sex while not taking birth control (????) because I wouldn't feel like a real girl because someone told him that's a thing, really awkward shit. We're mostly past that but it springs up every once in a while.
>>6323009
>referred to my butt as my 'pussy'
Boner killer. Speaking of which, were you pre op when this happened? What did he think about your wang
>>6322321
We were dating for about 7 or 8 hours at that point. We were lying in my bed together and I'd been singing to her after some sex, when I asked her if she'd feel weird if I said "I love you", which she didn't. She said it felt like she'd always known me and we were just catching up, and then she told me she loved me too. Then we fucked and watched movies and talked until 10:30 the next morning. And we've been living together ever since. :)
Probably a good year before we actually started dating. I said I only meant it as a friend though because I was planning on starting transitioning after graduating HS
Now we're together and she likes my boyboobs
>>6323620
>crazy people
>>6325781
Probably lesbians.
My ex said it to me after 3 dates right after we had sex. I sphagetti'd and said it back without even realizing the consequences of what just happened. Then it was just a 6 month long clusterfuck after that until I finally decided enough was enough lol
She said "I love you" after the first day and then I told her "go fuck yourself" because I don't like people being fickle with my emotions when they don't even know me. We're talking about our ex right?
>>6325814
I had a similar experience.
We'd been texting for like maybe two weeks, never once had a proper conversation or anything. Closest we'd gotten was me trying to talk about my hobbies and feeling awkward as fuck because he was too busy talking about how much he can't wait to see me.
We finally met up, and he said it almost immediately.
Like "Hello. I love you" before I could finish saying "Hey".
I felt it best to break it off the next weekend when he started talking about how excited he is for us to move in together. I don't have much experience with relationships, but after meeting my second step-dad I got the feeling that exchanging I love yous and discussing living together at 3 weeks is red flag big enough to be the sail on your getaway ship.
>>6326098
What the fuck? What a wacko, honestly. Did he seem normal otherwise?
>>6323386
I am pre-OP. Probably never to change. I wouldn't trust anything lower than Suporn-quality, and even then he still makes mistakes. Not worth the risk.
>>6323386
Also, responding to what he thought, apparently he had a bunch of heart-to-hearts with himself when we were still friends and decided that it didn't matter.
Somehow. A sexual relationship where genitals don't matter. I don't really buy it, but whatever.
>>6326112
I guess?
It's really hard to tell since I barely even knew him. He didn't seem totally insane aside from the lightspeed relationship progression thing.
>>6323002
Then why should anyone date you?
I tried to avoid it with my last boyfriend. As soon as we said it to each other, everything went to shit.
>>6328058
What happened? If you say I love you you've gotta have a great connection right?
>>6326183
>he didn't seem totally insane
Well that's a GREAT sign
>>6322321
A month
And she ended up being abusive, look out for people who start shit quickly
>>6322321
It took me a year of relationship before actually feeling the need to say it to my bf, and it was because I was moving abroad for a little while and I wanted him to know my feelings. I came back months later and we stayed together for two more years. I don't think I ever said it again, and I'm pretty sure he never said it either.
I'm not a "I love you" person. Even though I can understand that it can be said as a way of saying "I'm falling in love with you" or "I experience very strong feelings for you", it means much more than that for me. "I love you" means something more like "I always want to be with you, even when it gets shitty, because I.love.you."
Anyway, I'm a male and I'm into males. I don't expect many expressions of love from males, and I don't mind when it doesn't happen. From my experience, you can have an incredible relationships without saying these words. After all, you don't state what is obvious, and I'm not insecure in my relationships.
pic related, mfw someone tells me "I love you" after 3 months.
>>6332522
I can definitely relate. I'm so fucking in love with the guy I'm dating atm, but I'd never say I love you to him, because to me that means that he's the one and only for me. And that's definitely not the case, because I wouldn't die if he left me. I hope we can get to that point some time in the future though.
The connection was mostly great sex. We fooled around for a few months and then started seriously dating. He'd say I love you usually after fucking, but I avoided replying with the same, though I was having strong feelings for him. When I finally did express how I felt, he almost immediately started cheating on me. I avoid him at all costs now, even though I still receive late-night drunk texts from him.
