>Be at work (reception)
>Grim weather feeling down
>Visitor who's leaving stops me
>Can I just say how lovely it is to have a pretty hostess sitting on the reception desk for a change
>Guy I'm covering for is surly as fuck
>mfw
>Oh,,, errrr, thank you!
>My first random compliment
So guys, what random and unsolicited compliments have you received that just made your day?
literally zero
:v
I'm happy for you though OP
>work with my sister at same job but different floors
>random people always coming in and out of my floor
>see my sister during lunch break
>'You know someone asked me today if I had a sister that worked here'
>literally cannot believe it and think my own sister is hugboxing me
I can count all compliments I've ever received from anyone beside my mother on one hand.
>>6297350
I could too. I don't even need a hand to count them
>guy at work is pretty much the epitome of unsocial asshole
>it's not that he's an asshole, he's just generally extremely unsocial
>no one really likes him, which just makes him even more unsocial
>pretty sure he's a depressed alcoholic that is dealing with shit
>i see him at a local bar from time to time drinking after work
>have a crush on him because he oozes ultra manly man attitude despite that
>i fuck up and work and get grilled by boss
>everyone laughs
>feel like shit
>depressed unsocial guy actually pats me on the back, "It wasn't as bad as it seems, I saw your work. It was good"
>pretty much the first time he's ever talked to me
>felt amazing all day despite it all
>still feels good two weeks later
>>6297397
Will you try and fuck him?
I mostly get compliments about my hair and asking how I got there, bright red, and my nails occasionally, but I also get told I have a pretty name a lot, due to name-tag, and have been told a few times that I have pretty eyes.
Also tend to get creepy notes from random guys asking me out or with their numbers on it.
i've been mistaken for a girl at work and on omegle.
i'm not exactly trans, but it makes me so happy. it makes me feel pretty and i love it.
>>6297423
I will. But I'm pretty sure he's an unsocial asshole because he was married. i.e. straight
>>6297335
not really a compliment, but a guy left me his number on a notepad, when he was leaving the waiting room at my doctors.
We have been the only two there i and just casually started a conversation, asking if he wants something from my ice tea cause i always get nervous and thirsty waiting for an appointment...
won't call him back though
Oh, and a lot of people laughed at (with?) me today, so i don't know if they just replied me smiling or i wasn't passing.
>>6297971
I hate hearing laughter when I'm in public! That white hot fear in your veins as you wonder if it you they're laughing at.
>>6297971
>We have been the only two there i and just casually started a conversation, asking if he wants something from my ice te
is this normal behavior in america?
who ever does something like this to a total stranger?
>>6298175
i don't live in america
We smiled at each other for a while and just started smalltalk, is that strange to you?
>>6298199
yes, it is very strange, who talks to a stranger?
i live in scandinavia though
>>6298206
I live next door...
It's not strange at all?
One time at a convention, one of the hostesses letting me and my dad in said she couldn't tell if I was a guy or girl. I was dressed uber-masculine and hadn't shaved at all, but I did have an earring in. I had stopped cutting my hair because I didn't fucking feel like it. Hugbox as fuck.
>>6297335
>be two years ago
>buying alcohol from liquor store
>get carded, have to show ID
>I hate showing my ID, I still have my male birth name and a "M" gender marker on it
>nervous as fuck every time I have to out myself this way
>person looks at birth date
>"Haha, there's no way you're 27."
>ask how old I look
>they say I could easily pass off for 19
>tfw kawaii teen
>was happy the rest of the day
"Right now I just felt as if it was a girl touching me"
"Your hands are so perfect"
"Are you using any makeup on your eyes?" (no)
"If you were a woman, I'd tell you you're charming"
"I had no idea what you were going to look like!"
"Your hands are softer than a girl's!"
Also for some reason I'm now getting a lot of compliments from my family about my hair - they never liked my hair antics.
Vindication that AGP runs deeper than a fetish, and that it has definite perks as long as it isn't crippling.
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Granted, some of them were probably backhanded compliments, but they still made me feel good about myself.
Also:
"It's like you're the perfect Gemini - the perfect twins, a boy and a girl inside"
"Your masculinity always seemed less threatening than anybody else's, that's one of the reasons I've stuck around for so long"
Hard not to AGP when guys&girls keep validating it and it's influence on your behavior both knowingly and unknowingly.
