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>age
>sex
>(general) location
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>how did you came to know you were bi
>your dream female
>your dream male
>>6229714
bigod is bi
Anyone else feels they're only attracted to other bis? My gf and the one before that were bi pretty much out of coincidence and it seems every guy I've been attracted to was either bi or kinda feminine in some way for a straight guy. Well I mean, I am also attracted to homosexuals, but I couldn't see it get romantic.
Nothing personal, I just never had a stir for a homo. It's not impossible I guess.
>>6229837
My friends joke I have a perfect bidar. It even finds bisexuals till deep in het, gay or les closets. Basically if I get attracted to somebody, they either are out bisexual then, or come out bisexual eventually.
>>6229714
I'm bored. I'll fill out the little diddly-doo.
>age
By 4chan standards? OLD.
>sex
Male
>(general) location
Southwestern U.S.
>relationship status
Single and okay with it.
>how did you came to know you were bi
Guy I would chat with hit on me and it caused a legitimate boner from me. That interaction stuck with me and I ended up freaking out for a bit wondering if I was now gay. Next day I'm browsing through my usual porn and I was still getting turned on by the straight stuff, but the gay stuff was also getting me aroused. Did some research and found out I must be Bi.
I'll add that I met the guy on /soc/.
>your dream female
Tomboy-ish, friendly "girl-next-door" type.
I actually don't talk to too many girls these so I've kind of lost that feel for many of them.
>your dream male
nerdy, more on the feminine side or just skinny enough for me to pick up and toss around in the bedroom (in a good sense), intelligent, caring personality with a very wide sense of humor, cuddly and would waste hours doing nothing just to be together
Shame these threads are dead in the water so fast.
I'm bi.
19
M
South germany
Single
Fell in love with several cute femmy guys in later school, was even returned but didnt act on it cuz gf at that time ;-;
Heres my dilemma:
Im cursed with only being physically attracted to fem/andro guys that i symphatize hard with. Other dudes yeh we can make out and stuff thats fun but sex is just not on the menu :/ and it also takes a miracle for me to be interested in a grill, a big factor is that they arent obnoxious, which well, most women are. So hope you had fun reading my shitty attraction pattern.
>age
62
>sex
male
>(general) location
Boston
>relationship status
married (to a woman)
>how did you came to know you were bi
started with crushes on older boys when I was in my teens. suppressed that until later as it becasme more acceptable to be gay realized my feelings were OK
>your dream female
>your dream male
both pretty much the same... androgynous, short hair, small breasts on the female, twinkish body on the male, smaller than me
Feels great being open with myself, anyone else think EVERYONE is bisexual but won't admit it? Closeted gays functioning as straight, prison homosexuality, 'conversions', all seems to point to an ultimate bisexuality in all people.
>>6230012
>age
23
>sex
male
>location
L O N D O N
>relationship status
solo
>how did you come to know you were bi
always been into women, as time went by got into men too. I can't put a pin on it
>your dream female
>your dream male
I'm really not sure honestly, andro and into what I'm into
>>6230754
More people are bisexual than they think, but not everyone. There are too many gays who have tried desperately to be even a little straight, but they can't feel any opposite sex attraction at all. And I'm sure there are plenty of genuinely straight people too.
how do i find bislut gf
>>6230477
It's kinda shitty. I'm not exactly androgynous, but I'm definitely not masculine. The biggest problem I have is my skin gets super shitty if I shave completely, and I'm pretty hairy.
I know a lot of guys who only go for femboys. Being hairy has completely eliminated my chances of finding a cute, young guy in my area.
>>6229714
>18
>M
>Wichita, KS
>Virgin
>I jerked it to some porn when I was like, 11 and realised that the guy was hot to me too, then I told my parents a week later cause I was a kid
>Either a QT skinny asian girl or an athletic swimmer girl with god tier legs and shoulders
>Masc dude that isn't too bara to be retardedly gay but not femmy at all
>age
21
>sex
male
>location
germany
>relationship status
single af
>how did you came to know you were bi
now i think about it, there were thousands of flags throughout my childhood, but ultimately it came to me being sexually attracted at men and women equally. when i kissed a guy for the first time, it felt so natural as when i kissed a girl, so i kinda rolled with it.
>your dream female
i usually go for quirky and feminine girls, but tomboyish girls also get me running
>your dream male
either a cute femboy or a hunk. too muscular turns me off instantly. i prefer a bit chubby over too much muscle.
>age
22
>sex
M
>(general) location
Canada
>relationship status
single but Ive been chatting up this fag I met on tinder
>how did you came to know you were bi
I've been jacking it to gay porn off and on since I was 15 but shamed myself till I finally came out at 20
>your dream female
Thin hipster dipshit with the same tastes as me, small perky tits and sexually submissive
>your dream male
straight acting hipster dipshit. thin but not femmy. sexually dominant
>>6229927
This is my dream. I always think I know, but do I? I hope I do because I have a crush on the cutest guy
>>6230941
Hardcore shows
>>6230063
and do you feel relieved?
how do I know if I'm bi without actually getting intimate with a guy? I have social anxiety so intimacy/relationships are only going to happen accidentally
>inb4 it doesn't matter
I get really anxious when I can't put a label on myself for anything, and this is something that is occupying way too much of my mind so I would like to get it out of the way
>>6233195
You won't know for sure unless you actually try to be intimate with another man. You might just be lonely, can you picture yourself being actually romantic with another man or do you just get aroused at the sight of dicks sometimes? Also you don't have to put a label on yourself, sexuality is a really confusing thing.
>20
>Male
>Single
>about an hour from pittsburgh pa
>I realized it in middle school. I kinda developed a crush on my best friend and started thinking about him sexually, but found that the thoughts I had about girls were still there. Was really confused for a bit (had never really heard of lgbt anything) but as I've grown I realize there's nothing wrong with it.
>Dream Female
Looks aren't the most important thing about a person, but I have a weakness for green eyes, preferrably around my height but that's about it.
>Dream Male
Again, looks aren't first priority in my book but, still probably my height ish, maybe a few inches taller. As little hair as possible though.
In either scenario it's more about who you are and how you treat me. I'm attracted more to peoples souls than bodies.
>>6233258
Well one huge reason why I'm not sure is because I've just started actually accepting the fact that I might possibly be bi this month. I've never been attracted to men before and even when I started liking gay porn I still couldn't see myself in a relationship with a guy but now I can, I guess, problem is I can't really even imagine what being in a relationship is like so I might not be the best judge. I might be pretending, too, which makes me more anxious. I just hate the fact that I have to label myself "bi-curious", I hate being confused. Also I'm pretty sure I could be in a relationship with a guy, it's mostly the sexual attraction aspect that's confusing me. /ramble
>>6233195
If given the opportunity, would you willingly get sexual with a guy? If yes, you are bi.
>>6233300
Well... it depends. Because of my loneliness, I'd instantly have sex with any woman at all, I would definitely have sex with a guy but not just any guy, I'm way more picky with which men I find attractive.
>>6233299
Hey I know how you feel. I was really unsure whether I was attracted to guys because I was just that desperate and lonely. Eventually I got my depression treated and actually started getting with people (still no relationship though) and I can confirm I'm solidly bi. I don't know if that's how it'll work for you, but it is at least possible to be in your situation and be bi.
>>6233314
Ok, I can relate. I too am more picky with guys than girls. Allow me to rephrase.
If given the opportunity under the most ideal conditions possible (whatever that means for you...your perfect scenario) would you willingly get sexual with a guy?
>>6233370
yes but i'm unsure how that makes me 100% surely bisexual, "bi-curious" people would also answer yes to that question and a lot of those end up being straight
>>6233435
There will always be a place for you in /bigen/. Unlike what the other fags on this board would like it to be, I think the most chill, relaxed people are in here. Insults rarely fly from bis but from the other jealous homos.
>>6233426
Sorry, I'm not the greatest advice giver :/ I guess what I'm saying do you think you would enjoy it? I know you're inexperienced but like, at a guess do you think the afterglow would be pleasant or would you feel wrong about what you had done?
I've never really thought about the question before now but I'm trying to answer it as best I can.
>>6233426
bi-curious isn't a thing it's just repression.
you're a bi m9
>>6233509
Thanks man.
>>6233556
I guess one big concern I have is that I might be pretending in my head because I *want* to be bi. I would absolutely have sex with a guy and I don't think I would feel guilty or anything but I'm not sure how my body would respond. Like if I am just pretending then I wouldn't be able to have an erection and then that would be confirmation I guess that I'm not bi. I guess some of this could be the social anxiety talking. I don't know anything.
Also I think I might be carrying around some internalized homophobia? My friends (and I) were always homophobic when I was growing up so maybe my subconscious is telling me that I'm not bi because it's wrong? I don't know if this is a thing though.
>>6233606
oh ok cool
>>6233615
I didn't mean to come off like an asshole there, who am I say if bi-curious exists or not but in my experience it's just internalised homophobia and the sooner you conquer that shit the better.
>>6233643
It's just your inner self trying to express itself if that makes sense. You shouldn't try to hide what's wanting to shine through.
>>6233627
Its stupid to say it doesn't exist though. It's literally just being curious about sex with the same sex, how is that repression?
>>6233701
I'm in the same position. I've decided to just not do anything unless I meet a guy I like, which is very unlikely to happen, so I don't have to worry as much.
>>6233698
because it's a cop out.
sexuality is a spectrum and if you think you're bi..... you're probably bi.
>>6233783
yeah it's completely unlikely if you stay in the closet.
nice plan.
>>6233701
Absolutely. I hope what I said helps or makes sense in some way to ya. I feel like I know where you're coming from. Hell I'm still confused because for me, my preference varies by the day and even in the long run. It's a process and you never stop learning, like I said before. Go with the flow and enjoy the now :)
>>6233793
Yeah. I don't know why guys don't just stop at the bi-curious stage, that way you can accept yourself and avoid being a fag.
I need some help but I don't know how to put without sounding like the answer is obviously yes..because I don't think it is.
So, I'm usually attracted to other bis and there was this guy I which gave me the crazy hots at a former job. We were always kinda flirting together the way straight guys like to touch eachother, but I was too much of a pussy to ever ask him out.
So my question isn't really a question, it's about an event that made me think he could be actually bi. There were 2 clients once and they looked gay as hell. I said something like "give bread to the gay couple" and he replied "meeeh they're not gay anon."
" What, you have the best gaydar or something?"
And he replied with a little smile "let's just say that I have a lot of gay friends"
Was that an hint?
He never seemed overly attracted to me, but maybe it was because I had a gf and he assumed I wasn't a fag.
So that was 2 years ago and I recently asked him out for a beer. Do you think I have chances? If it goes well, I could ask him if he is bi, but we were kinda close and if he says no I might lose a friend a just found again.
I know you can't really help me and this is long for nothing but hey.
>>6229714
>age
23
>sex
M
>(general) location
French Canada
>relationship status
with a girl
>how did you came to know you were bi
I have been attracted sexually to both sexes since the age of 5, but when I learned what bi was around 13-14 it was just homosexual in my ears and I didn't think much about it. It came to me when I had a gf and fell in love at the same time with another guy. It then came to me like a truck in the face: omg, I AM bi. I was relieved and pleased at the same time.
>your dream female
As long as she isn't a cunt, I find her beautiful and sexy, I can. My gf is loli like, 5'2 100lbs and I love her dearly. I can't see myself ever leaving her : / Lucky for me she is bi too
>your dream male
6', not much hair, beautiful, funny, sexy, idk. I like guys that look or have the same vibe as me. I'm like 40x more picky with guys though.
>>6233615
Go out and have some experiences with similar people. To me it took years to understand my own bisexuality, and in the end it doesn't really matters that much.
>>6233195
protip: if you even think you might be bi, chances are you are to some extent. Stop worrying about it and just see where it gets you.
M
Italy
Just broke up with a girl
I felt a huge attraction for a m friend of mine (hot as hell) while on drugs
>dream
usually i feel sexual attraction only once i get know somebody really well. (or when they m or f are stunningly beautiful) Always happened like that with girls. With males, it looks like it's the same. I had only one exp, with a guy from the intrnet, but it was not good. I didn't felt aroused at all. To lt him blow me, i had to think at a girl. WTF
>>6233888
That was definitely a hint. Especially that touchy-feely stuff? He's into you. Go for it.
>>6234320
yeah that's what I thought too, but if engage a casual conversation on fb, let's say, he will answer half of my messages like he couldn't give a fuck.
This is pretty frustrating. We have lots of funs when we're together, but I mean, when you like someone, you want to speak to him all the time right? Why wouldn't he answer me if he's down for the D?
>>6234418
He might not like Facebook or message chatting. You do well in person, meet in person
>>6234424
Ja, well he said yes to go take a beer, but I can't fuckin settle a date because he doesn't answer. Pretty worrying if you ask me. I don't want to look obsessed with him too, which I am.
Did any if you guys/girls ever did a mmf/ffm threesome? How does it work in a couple without getting jealous as fuck?
>>6232838
yes
>>6235898
Good. Especially if you have just realized it. Bisexuality is pretty confusing and it changes a lot from person to person. Try not worrying about it too much. Be yourself anon.
>>6230746
Is your wife androgynous?
>>age
19
>>sex
F
>>relationship status
single and ready to not come up with anything that rhymes with "single"
>>how did you came to know you were bi
it became really obvious around puberty but I continued to default as "straight" because of the sentiment that female bis are doing it for attention or whatever.
>>your dream female
>>your dream male
personality>looks, the only preference I really have is kind of feminine guys but I can overlook it.
Bisexuals, how is your porn usage distributed across lesbian/straight/gay male porn? How many people here like visiting both /u/ and /y/, or /s/ and /hm/?
>>6235939
That was a fantastic read. Thank you for that.
>>6237242
I'm a girl and I can only stomach soft lesbian porn for some reason. I don't really get off on how men look and most porn is just crude. I love me some yuri.
>>6237290
Are you more attracted to women than men? Even a lot of straight girls (they say they're straight, anyway) say they like lesbian porn the best.
>>6237320
Yeah I am. I said that when I thought I was straight, lel. I don't know, most straight porn is flat-out brutal and disturbing to watch. Gentle lesbians is all I need.
I'd date a guy though.
![[LIS2].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/sHTpFZu.jpg "[LIS2].jpg")
>>6237242
bi male here, is more or less 10/70/20, i my youth, with 14-15 years i was OBSESSED with lesbians, lesbian porn, yuri, and i'm still a fan of lesbian love stories, i still view lesbian porn, but i see so much lesbian porn with 14-15 that I just fed up and the 95% is very soft for my actual taste.
the majority of proffesional gay porn is trash for my taste and the gay porn i see is usually amateur, the boys in the proffesional gay porn are not my type, soo i see much more straight commercial porn, if is hardcore better, i know that is fake as fuck but i like it, i think is bc i don't have much knowledge about women so for me don't matter that is fake.
anyway i see a lot of trans porn, shemales, traps, trans women getting fucked, etc.
if we included "trans porn" is more or less
35% trans porn
45% straight porn
15% gay porn
5% lesbian porn
pic related bc i still love lesbian loved stories.
>>6237339
I'm a hetero-leaning guy and I also agree that most straight porn is disgusting. It's usually just a fat ugly guy saying "fuck yeah, take it you bitch" while he jackhammers some girl. Amateur lesbian videos are my favorite.
>>6237432
Yeah there's a lot of weird violence and power dynamics I'm not into.
How does a cis guy enjoy les porn? I can't stay interested in M/M stuff.
18
M
From the US but crrently living in Lebanon (bleh)
Single and ok with that
During my first year of college I had sex with a bunch of girls every time it gets more "meh" than the one before, always fantasized about having a guy plow me, I can't see myself in a romantic relationship with a big bulky guy, I have yet to try cause I'm too scared. For now I'm just quesrioning my sexuality if, someone can help me out that would be great im also working towards a more feminine body
>dream female
shorter than me, white, a bit of edginess,smartsy and enjoys nerdy jokes
>dream male
Not too manly, white, no facial hair, not too ripped, not fat either, a bit taller than me so that he can hold me close at night when I shove my face into his warm chest, takes care of me like his little personal treasure, lets me steal his hoodies because they smell so damn good
>>6237540
>How does a cis guy enjoy les porn?
It's just what I've always gravitated towards. I love how gentle it is, the foreplay and the soft stroking and the licking drive me crazy, plus the camera angles tend to zoom in on vagina/ass a lot.
>>6237242
bi-guy here:
40% straight porn (studios porn or amat)
40% gay porn (cams>amateur>>>pro porn) but i tend to prefer to do cam2cam :^)
20% trans mtf camwhores
(idc about lesbians)
>>6237242
Guy here, mostly lesbian sex, if straight it's anal or bondage, and I really hate gay porn. Makes me wonder if I'm really that bi everytime. I jack off to guys I know though.
i dont come to /lgbt/ at all.
im a bi bloke, it's not really important Tbh.
why is this place filled with trannies?
also do spoilers work here?
>>6237960
>I jack off to guys I know though.
That's one of the surest signs you're bi, short of actually regularly fucking men and enjoying it. My theory is that to really be bi you have to be attracted to "average" members of the same sex. If you're straight except for the occasional interest in gay porn, you can always explain it away as just a fantasy.
Also even a lot of gay guys don't like gay porn, especially studio gay porn.
>>6238130
>If you're straight except for the occasional interest in gay porn, you can always explain it away as just a fantasy.
That's how I am. Its like I can see the appeal of certain aspects of gay sex, like being dominated and pounded by a big dick since ass play feels good anyway regardless of orientation, but its not like I'm imagining life with the guy or even fantasizing about anyone specific.
>age
mid-twenties yo
>sex
M
>(general) location
In the UK
>relationship status
single and quite happy right now
>how did you came to know you were bi
probably when I was 13/14, always knew I was into girls but used to crush intensely on a couple of guys, and when I used to watch porn I started to develop an interest in the guy and not just the woman. when I was 16 and kissed a guy for the first time, I knew for sure
>your dream female
sweet, sarcastic, funny, smart and with a good music taste. as for looks? a nice smile and eyes go a long way.
>your dream male
same as above, although I've always kinda preferred older guys for some reason.
>>6237242
it depends. I prefer watching guy on guy and girl on girl over straight porn. stuff with kissing really gets me going.
>age
Mid twenties.
>sex
Male
>(general) location
London
>relationship status
Single.
>how did you came to know you were bi
Early twenties, stumbled across craiglist m/m started sifting through as a joke, got really turned on. Browsed for ages to jack off to, until I got infatudated with the idea of sucking a dick.
Always had fantasies about getting fucked by futa, traps, or gender shifted and fucked prior to that.
>your dream female
Smart, nerdy, thin, with a laid back slightly insecure personality.
>your dream male
Same, but more masculine.
>>6229714
I don't know if i'm actually bi
I really like 2D boys tho, they look so perfect, yaoi doujins are the best and make me hard as fuck
I don't really find other guys i met irl attractive, but i feel like having a boyfriend would be more fun than a gf
I've seen some cute boys on 4chan, i'm aroused by the thoughts of sleeping with another guy but i don't know if i'd be able to actually do it when given the opportunity (it would probably be the same with a girl tho because i'm a virgin)
Some anon sent me a pic of his butt and i freaked out, i liked when he asked me to tell him what fetishes i like, but i was too afraid of what might happen so i just apologized to him and told him i don't want to get involved ;_;
Also am i wrong if i think getting a bf is easier?
>>6239567
it is honestly easier. men are thirsty as fuck
>>6239567
I was just about to post this.
I think being a NEET has made me think I'm gay.
Did porn warp my mind to be bisexual? I feel that my attraction to men in life is far less than my attraction to women. It also only started to become more noticeable as I fapped more often.
>age
18
>sex
Male
>(general) location
Southeastern US
>relationship status
Single
>how did you came to know you were bi
Basically the first time I jacked off to my best friend is when I was sure.
>your dream female
Funny, good at keeping conversation, nice ass and medium sized breasts.
>your dream male
Stoic, yet warm, little bit of muscle, hairy guys are hot.
>>6240895
did porn warp your mind or did it help open it. only God knows the truth
>>6238130
Oh but I said "that" bi because I know for sure I am, It's more of a confirmation that I'm not a full blown faggot. Like, I'm sure I know how straight guys feel about homosexuality when I watch studio gay porn. Some amateur stuff is nice of course but I so picky irl it seems it's impossible for me to find an attractive male in porn.
>>6239567
cont
i think like gender of a person you fall in love with shouldn't matter that much as long as she/he is nice and you like spending time with them
[spoiler]fucking anime fucked me up[/spoiler]
>>6241942
Anime seems to have fucked up a lot of people (on 4chan). I'm glad I never really was into that subculture excpet classics maybe.
Also, a pity the bi thread always dies so fast.
>age
19
>sex
Male
>(general) location
Southeast US
>relationship status
single
>how did you came to know you were bi
I guess I am bi but I think vaginas are disgusting. Realized it probably when i was 15 and found out what a shemale was then started watching gay porn about a year later also
>your dream female
Curvy, somewhat dom, nice face, any race but like sub-saharan
>your dream male
Muscular, not too hairy, white or tan, willing to top most of the time
>Questions?
Not exactly sure how to explain this but everytime I jerk it to something gay or shemale I feel disgusted afterwards and think to myself that I will never jerk it to gay stuff again but always do later, so am I actually bi or is it just a kink for me?
>>6229714
Hi bigen
>20
>M
>France
>Alone, except for some dirty chat with a pal met on 4chan
I'm not sure if I'm bi tb'h, I used to think I was gay, but realised the thought of sex with girls intriged me. I'm still questioning myself a bit on that.
>Ideal girl
Long hair, tall, muscled, fierce and independant. Not jealous, not catty and generally nice.
>Ideal boy
Any will do, as long as I feel a connection. Physically, I don't like too chubby or too skinny, and want him to do a bit of sport with me.
Ideally, I like to play with hair, muscled twinkish bodies and young-looking faces.
I want to talk about him about everything, to go to movies, to read...
>Questions
Am I still bi if I don't envision any lasting relationship with a girl ?
>>6249771
>Am I still bi if I don't envision any lasting relationship with a girl?
If you still enjoy sex with women, then yeah definitely, although leaning more towards the gay side of the spectrum. If you have relationships with men and not women then everyone will just perceive you as gay.
>>6229927
my gaydar is near 100% inaccurate
>flying blind
>>6249771
yes, bisexual means only attracted to the 2 sex, nothing more, you can be homoromantic and heteromantic and still being bisexual why that is your sexuality, to be gay you must don't like women, sexually and romantically.
So /lgbt/, I have recently had my very first gay, GAY experience. I sucked off a qt femboy, got my dick sucked off as well. I'm a bisexual man and prefer women but I have to say, I really did appreciate the time I spent with that qt. Guess I know for sure now that I'm definitely more than a little gay.
GOD, I love being bisexual.
>>6229714
>>age
23
>>sex
M
>>(general) location
Southern United States
>>relationship status
Single
>>how did you came to know you were bi
Always knew deep down I suppose but didn't consciously realize it until I was in high school
>>your dream female
Jeez, that's a tough one. I like all sorts of women, but if I had to put it down, it'd be a qt nerdy emo/goth/alternative chick or whatever with lots of tats and really slutty, being down for kink and all sorts of freaky shit. Either that or just a qt nerdy black chick who was more or less the same.
Body type: I'm open to lots of female body types really but ideally, I'd like a woman about my height or shorter, with nice big tits, a fat ass, and thick thighs. But that's just wishful thinking by that point and most qt nerdy, goth types tend to be more skinny anyway.
>>your dream male
Qt nerdy, slim femboi or twink
>>6229714
Is there a TC or Kaghetti Room? Jw
>age
21
>sex
MtF (2 years)
>Location
~Midwest, US
Flyover States of America
>relationship status
I have a thing
> When/How
Had a gf who was bi at 15 and started having gay thoughts;Bi people are more down to fucc me.
> Dream girl
I'm told I have a type for hispanic hipsters. Vegetarian and has goats.
Even keeled, doesn't do lots of drugs, and likes getting coffee, record shopping, and comics.
> Dream Boy
no pref on race
My age - 30s
Everything applicable from >Dream girl
Not very overly femme and being a nice person.
I'm pretty even keeled and like coffee, if you wanna hang out that's cool
>Stories
I modeled as a kid.
>Insults
You smell
>all these younger bi folk
Whew. I have more in common with this thread but damn...
>>6229714
>24
>M
>Los Angeles, born in Philippines
>single
>when I was 14
>Filipina waifu
>pic related
>>age
21
>>sex
cis girl
>>(general) location
West Coast USA
>>relationship status
Single and glad
>>how did you came to know you were bi
I always "joked" around with girls when I was younger. I would honk boobs and hug everybody and cuddle everyone. I look back at middleschool where I would brag to guys about how I could touch other girls' boobs and they would only get annoyed, whereas the guys would get a slap.
I realise now I was being a fucking creep. And I also liked to do it because I like girls.
>>your dream female
Tall girls, short girls, dark hair, red hair, freckles, hourglass, chubbs, pear shape.
Femme, butch, loud, quiet, patient, empathetic.
Girls are great.
>>your dream male
I like bears or fashion conscious nerds.
>>6260635
>fashion conscious nerds.
Ayyy bby I mite b ur type ;)
>>age
23
>>sex
trans f
>>(general) location
southern california
>>relationship status
dating a cis girl
>>how did you came to know you were bi
i finally admitted i actually like boys
dream boys and girls are hard to articulate
>>6229714
>age
27
>sex
male
>location
northern midwest USA
>relationship status
forever alone
>how I knew
I was attracted to guys as well as girls the second I had a sexuality. Super homophobic father, lied to myself for the longest time brushing off the fact that I was attracted to men and using the fact that I was legitimately attracted to women as well and an excuse as to why i'm straight. Finally faced reality and accepted that I do in fact like men but I probably won't ever tell my parents about it.
>my dream female
blonde, athletic with a nice butt
>my dream male
tall, bearded, fit but not too crazy with the muscles.
Currently only my sister and a few friends know about it, still adjusting to accepting it.
>>6237242
>>6260212
I'd say it's predominantly str8 porn because there is a lot of it so it's easier to find good str8 porn
Trans/30%
Str8/40%
Lez/20%
Gay/10%
>>6261218
What is stopping you? I mean you'll probably find someone. you have access to nearly 95% of the dating pool that hasn't already found soulmates.
>age
23
>sex
m
>(general) location
sydney
>relationship status
recently single
>how did you came to know you were bi
Had a crush on a beautiful 12 year old macedonian boy in highschool, he was the first boy to ever catch my attention and i did everything in my power to get him, almost every guy ive been with since is a reflection on him.
>your dream female
Posh, bitchy, needy, stylish, tomboyish, entitled, rich
>your dream male
Shy, unassuming, endearing, young, innocent, brunette, pale, slim
>>6260252
I'll post for real I suppose.
>age
28
>sex
Male
>(general) location
Southwestern U.S.
>relationship status
Single.
>how did you came to know you were bi
I got very sudden physical reactions from another guy flirting with me, but I didn't feel like I wanted just men. I did a small bit of stumbling around and found out that Bisexuality was a thing.
>your dream female
I haven't been attracted to a girl in a romantic sense in a long time, so this is my weak point.
>tomboy-ish or at least enjoys a lot of "male" hobbies
>mousy, shy, etc.
>preferably shorter than me and on the petite side (small girls are cute)
>your dream male
I'm more attracted to males so this might be a broader area.
>nerdy
>preferably white
>someone with a more feminine/slim/androgynous build or just a skinny nerd
>wears glasses
>loves to be affectionate (cuddling, etc.)
>really enjoys video games, anime, sci-fi stuff, again a NERD
>intelligent
>willing to learn things together or share interests
I'm going to stop seeing as how the list can go on a bit.
Fun fact: my first relationship was with another Bi male, and since then, I haven't met another one... weird.
>>6229714
Sure why not
>age
28
>sex
M
>(general) location
North East U.S
>relationship status
poly relationship with a girl but that may end soon...
>how did you came to know you were bi Flapping to hential of cute guys tipped that off.
>your dream female
Amazon chick with a girl next door vibe.
>your dream male
Tall but somewhat effeminate guy who likes to be the big spoon.
>>6263548
The bigen is already real fuckin slow and you think it's a good idea to make two?
>>6261089
Maybe ;) ;) ;)
>but I doubt it
>>6235896
I did a mmf 3some with my bf and his friend. I'm more possessive than my bf, Idk how he doesn't get jealous but he seems totally cool with it. I just sucked his friend off while my bf took me from behind. Was pretty awesome, would do again.
>>6237242
I watch almost exclusively straight porn. Very very rarely ill watch les. I never watch gay porn. I'm bi mtf
>>6267487
I've been told that I dress pretty well by a lot of people. I catch a lot of looks whenever I go out.
Guuurl. ;)))
20
M
Mexico
Single
Crushed hard on a (male) classmate on highschool and realized I have a thing for gay porn around the same time
I don't really have a dream type desu
>Age
Just turned 20
>Location
Ireland
>Sex
M
>Relationship status
Single
>How did you know you were bi
With women, I have known since I was child. Had numerous crushes on girls before and after puberty, enjoyed watching straight and lesbian porn, etc. You get the point. With men, it was more complicated.
Prior to puberty, there weren't really any memories that come to mind that might have pointed towards me not being straight. The first time I remember finding another guy attractive was probably in secondary school. It was nearing the end of the year, just after PE, and a friend of mine couldn't figure out how to put on his tie correctly (wasn't the brightest bulb). Ended up asking me to do it and this sounds really fucking corny, but I couldn't stop thinking about it. He had these really brown eyes that would kinda jump out when ever the weather was nice. It's kinda difficult to explain but yeah, I couldn't stop thinking about him for awhile.
Fast forward a few years, and I started getting more interested in other guys. began masturbating to pictures of attractive men, started developing feelings for a couple of my mates and in general, just became more interested in other guys.
Began to have these fluctuations in how I viewed myself. One moment, I was convinced I was straight, the next I was pretty sure I was gay. Didn't really comprehend the concept of bisexuality till I was about 18.
>>6266197
Theres like twenty trans generals lets have one more bigen
34 year old 'Murican bi-guy. Had a boyfriend before having a girlfriend, but he liked putting coke up his nose too much, wouldn't quit, and got busted with a ton while high as a kite. Went to jail soooo that ended.
Married now, wife doesn't care because I don't cheat. She thinks it's kinda cute sometimes (like my man-harem in Fallout 4).
Since I'm a bit older than most of you, I never had all the apps and such nowadays. Always had a really hard time finding another bi-male. It didn't help I was military for 10 years, but even with that still had fucking awful luck finding anyone even amongst the civilians when I was in. The internet sucked back then, seen it evolve and get much better over the years. Just wanted to say that I guess.
>>6229714
>Ancient 31 year old Wizard
>Southeast US
>Permanently single
>Became desperately obsessed with an effemninate guy
>Someone physically attractive - I'm not interested in a relationship with a woman, but I still get turned on by them physically
>Twinky Femboy who has similar interests and enough self-awareness to commiserate / empathize with me over the long term
Kill me Pete
>>6229714
>age
22
>sex
F
>(general) location
West Coast LA
>relationship status
dating a cute girl
>how did you came to know you were bi
When I learned that it's actually weird to like your girl friends the way you liked them
>your dream female
Chill tomboyish girl, about my height or any height really will do. Mentally, I hope they're fundamentally more like me, so they won't be too judgemental or stuffy about things. I also really have a thing for the punk rock look. Call my taste trashy but I can't control the feelings I get at tattoos and cigarettes.
>your dream male
Typical, muscular men. Think Dmitry Klokov. If it weren't for guys at the gym, I would think I'm full on gay. Skinnyfat or overly effeminate boys don't do it for me.
>my gf might be worried about she's not really anything like Chloe
>age
23
>sex
Benis
>(general) location
BaguetteLand
>relationship status
MateQuest
>how did you came to know you were bi
Imma str8 but i don't mind homos
later: i don't mind homo porn
later: i don't mind faping to homo porn
later: homosex is arousing
onefaithfulday: maybe i'm into both str8 and gaymo stuff
wellwhatever.jpg
since then tried both
>your dream female
Not a bitch
>your dream male
Not a cunt
As long as not obese or too fucking skinny and the person is cool, it's alright.
Bonus point if like my music.
Do you guys/gals mind about your sexuality / pokegender or not ? Because i don't.
>haters
>SJW
>lgbt
>pro/anti whatever
>do i look like i care
Also i tried both sex and it's pretty much crap so far. Why does poeple make fuss about sex ? it's not even that good. Well so far i guess
>>6269601
>Bonus point if like my music.
you make music?
post sample
>>6229714
>>age
21
>>sex
Male
>>(general) location
Sweden
>>relationship status
Single
>>how did you come to know you were bi
I just thought one day "I like jerking off to both normal porn and gay porn. Guess I'm bi."
Later I came to realise I can't fall in love with other males, but do enjoy them sexually.
>>your dream female
Not sure. Same humor as me. cute. not fat, not skinny. Probably my about height 5'6/167.
>>your dream male
Short, slim, hairless, animu hair, "girly", submissive
Or
Slightly taller than me, pretty buff, pretty hairy, lovely short-haired beard, dark hair, brown eyes, dominant
>>6269601
You sound insufferable. Like most french fries. Kys desu.
>>6269645
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcsVp0A4Vik
have a sample
>>6269720
HON
O
N
>age
30
>sex
Male
>(general) location
UK, Midlands
>relationship status
Single
>how did you came to know you were bi
Honestly, not even 100% sure, not taken that final leap as it were
>your dream female
A: QT, petite, skinny, all round nerd B: QT, average, a little chubby, all round nerd
>your dream male
A nerdy bro to hang out to play with our games and our joysticks.
I'm not really sure how to take that final leap with a guy, grindr seems intimidating, i don't want a stranger at my place, and going to some guys place worries me just as much. I've heard about these club/sauna places, and going somewher neutral sounds appealing, but they can seem a little shady.
>age
19
>sex
19
>(general) location
South East USA
>relationship status
single
>how did you came to know you were bi
Had on and off attractions from elementary and didn't realized it untill I was 12.
>your dream female
Green eyed brunette
>your dream male
Probably the same thing but manlier than me
>>6270521
>sex
>*Male
Fuck, I need to lay off the sauce.
>>6268408
where you at bb
>Age
28
>Sex
Mtf
>Location
Sydney, Australia
>Status
Single
>how do I bi
By fantasizing about being with men and women equally, also by having sex with both
>dream female
Someone cute and easy going. Preferably tomboyish and is a fan of terrible 80's movies and cuddles.
>dream guy
Same as above, except the tomboy part. I actually like my guys to be a bit fem.
Please send help.
tfw the idea of a gf has been becoming less and less appealing. I'm very much still sexually attracted to women and significantly more so then men but straight women are so dime a dozen, they're boring.
Gay men just seem to have so much more personality.
tl;dr I'm sexually attracted to girls but romantically attracted to boys and it feels weird.
>>6272226
i know that feel
probably because i'm lonely as fuck, so i'd fine with anything desu
also femboys can be pretty cute and they're still guys
>age
25
>sex
Female
>(general) location
Western europe
>relationship status
Married to a man
>how did you came to know you were bi
When I was around 8 and had crushes on both genders
>your dream female
Athletic petite and blonde or east asian. Flat chested.
>your dream male
A very feminine man
>>6272257
STRAIGHT GIRL
My crush officially doesn't care about me ;_;
I haven't been attracted to another guy beside him for 2 years now, and he were apart for almost 2 years. We saw each other not long ago and and a lot of fun, but he doesn't even want to casual chill for lulz..
>age
19 lol
>sex
Male
>(general) location
North England
>relationship status
Single :///
>how did you came to know you
were bi
At primary (idk American equivilent sorry) school I liked dem bwois like I liked dem girls. Seriously though idk I just never thought in "just girls" form, I didn't think there was anything "abnormal" until I got older
>your dream female
Curvy/thick, weirdo, similiar interests to a degree, nice and friendly, interested in doing shit, that's about it really.
>your dream male
Can take either a) twink ass femboy good boypussy I can fuck all the time, cute af and nice and whatever, maybe when they get older they mature into slender attractive dude who look like they'd major in a Drama degree, sounds good. Or b) muscle/big/average dude similiar to me, kinda dom or at least not submissive, intelligent, can hold a conversation. Francis Bacon and George Dyer kind of shit
It's got to be said i'm far more interested in a long term realtionship with a man, and somewhat looking more for just sex/friends with benefits/casual with women
>>6272005
Florida.
;) ;) ;))
>>6237339
the "i'm sexually attracted to women but i'd date a guy" is getting really old
come out already you pathetic closet case
>age
28
>sex
Male
>(general) location
SW USA
>relationship status
Seeing someone
>how did you came to know you were bi
Left Mormonism, figured it out
>your dream female
Zsanett Tormay
>your dream male
Henry Cavil
>age
21
>sex
male
>(general) location
NorCal
>relationship status
fucking around with a cute girl
>how did you came to know you were bi
I don't like guys but I want to be dominated so I'm at least a little bit gay
>age
33
>sex
male
>(general) location
France
>relationship status
single (I fear that an hopeless online crush w/ a cute twink doesn't count...)
>how did you came to know you were bi
I have always thought it was normal but never really cared (so I dated girls), until I fapped to traps & gay porn; now I kinda wish to date a guy
>your dream female
petite, dark-haired, not boring, outgoing, curious
>your dream male
slim/slightly fit (like me) or chubby; a bit geeky, hipster-ish, cute would be better but i'm not so picky tbqh
>>6229714
>>age
22
>>sex
M
>>(general) location
Western Canada
>>relationship status
Single
>>how did you came to know you were bi
Noticed that I found the guys in porn attractive as well as the women. Thought I was gay for years but still was attracted to women. Only realized I was bi a couple of years ago.
>>your dream female
I like big curly hair and brown eyes but I'm really not picky
>>your dream male
I like big curly hair and brown eyes but I'm really not picky
How do I get over a straight crush? My best friend is a guy and I can't help but be attracted to him. We've spent so much time together, had such deep conversations and have been so open and vulnerable with each other. He's utterly straight though...
>>6272333
Being married to a dude makes me straight? Awesome. I didn't know it was that easy.
>>6276819
funny thing is you sound like a dyke in denial
your poor man is in for a rude awakening when you start cheating
>>6276833
Naw, bi girls who marry straight guys are safe. Straight dude provide good sex and money.
Now a bi girl married to a lesbian? Never works out. Lesbian bed death combined with the bi girl's cocklust kills the relationship.
>>6276913
What's lesbian bed death?
>>6278915
they can never get it up
im slowly getting used to the fact that I'm bi and the idea of having sex with a guy is becoming more and more attractive and feasible
there's one small problem tho (besides how im unattractive and probably wouldnt be able to find anyone willing): I have a perianal abscess - a small boil right above my asshole. It's unsightly and bleeds a fuck ton but more importantly putting anything near there causes intense pain.
So does this relegate me to just being a top? Putting a dick in my ass would hurt like a bitch before it even goes in and the poor lad would end up with blood and pus and other nice stuff on him after.
Getting it removed is an option, but it leaves a hole there that needs careful treatment after. With nobody to do that my option right now is to just keep an eye on it, wash my underwear thoroughly and make sure it doesnt get infected and eventually shrivels up.
so bit of a longshot but does anyone know anyone with any kind of funky stuff going on around their asshole and how its affected sex?
>>6279522
2 long distance bby? :(
![9472493[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/qnyIIcU.jpg "9472493[1].jpg")
> tfw no brilliant cutie non-autist nerd boyfriend who doesn't play videogames but will read with me in bed
>>6280425
ok what i actually mean is > tfw I'm too shy to ask my crush out
Are bisexual women completely worthless? At least bi men actually can love other men and many of them remain dedicated to their bf or husband. Bi chicks on the other hand, I always hear stories about them cheating. There are never stories about them being loyal unless they're married to straight men
>>6280525
That's only because their husbands are usually ok with them playing around.
lezanon here,
Is there some bisluts (male or female, but preferably female) that would never date someone of the opposite sex? Live a homo life? And for what reason?
(I already asked this question on bigen some months ago)
>>6280525
Obviously that varies for each person
You can't expect to generalize everyone over a few stories, I think the only reason some bigirls are like that is because they can get away with it, straight dudes eat that shit up for some reason and probably don't even take it seriously
>>6281685
Why wouldn't you?
I never want children, so staying homo is a huge benefit for starters
>>6229714
>age
23
>sex
MtF
>(general) location
Portland
>relationship status
open relationship
>how did you came to know you were bi
cock craving became irresistable with hormones
>your dream female
more dom than me, smart, wants to get preg, bi, wants a group marrage with me and husband, wants to breed a swarm.
>your dream male
masc, big guy, smart, chill, wants a group marriage with me and wife, wants to breed a swarm
>>6281685
I would if i got committed with another woman, but I'm not planning on restricting myself to just one sex for potential partners
>>6276913
>Lesbian bed death
this plus the fact that most lesbian couples are super grouchy and low energy kinda scares me of a bit. Of course I'd never cheat if it's a committed relationship, but god damn, I don't think I could stay in a grouchy low-energy relationship forever.
That's why making it a bi-poly relationship would be ideal.
>>6274142
Completely other coast here, babe :'(
>>6282020
I hope you never have the opportunity to bring up children in that degenerate environment
i'm bi and fucking hate it. For me I don't have like, measurable amounts of attraction to either sex, but instead i'm all about one or the other until I'm not. Like, imagine you're balls deep in your girl, who you dearly love and so on, and suddenly think "God, I sure wish I had a muscly bear to rail me right now, this is boring." Or I'm blowing a guy and about halfway through I'm like "dang, I think I would have preferred pussy tonight."
Anyone else fucked up like this?
>>6282065
I don't really see this as a problem but as a boon
I am the greedy bi stereotype and love it (cheatin' ain't cool tho)
>>6279207
Probably should talk to your doctor about this
>>6282065
yeah U_U but i guess I have to live with the fact that almost everyone is monogamous, so i get over it.
>>6282041
oh no! what if my children have too many loving parents who give them the attention that the need to become well adjusted adults! and what if having siblings teaches them people skills! god, forbid!
>>6282113
>oh no! what if my children have too many loving parents who give them the attention that the need to become well adjusted adults! and what if having siblings teaches them people skills! god, forbid!
I dunno, it's pretty fuckign terrible to teach children that it's normal to live in Portland.
>>6282211
>come on kids! lets go see Darth Vader on a unicycle playing flaming bagpipes
>>6282218
I know it seems neat initially, but think about how that costume smells by now.
>>6281685
(bi male reporting)
I recently friendzoned a girl: she's nice & a close friend too, but since she's more & more obsessed about having children… I think I made the right choice
>>6282020
>MtF
>Portland
pls someone explains that to me: why 80% of the MtF posting on this website are living there
>>6282292
it's San Francisco North, except SF is unlivably expensive and 4chan posters are presumably mostly dirt poor
Bump 4 bis
>age
23
>gender
MtF
>(general) location
Charleston, SC
>relationship status
Single
>how did you came to know you were bi
I was having a shower beer when it just hit me.
>your dream female
Tall, dark, and handsome
>your dream male
Not overweight, no neckbeards or fedoras
I'm really not that picky honestly, I do have a special place in my heart for fellow nerds though
Kik: slc985
>>6282029
:(
Oh well. Carry on then, love.
>>6281926
>Why wouldn't you?
Because dating the opposite sex is way easier, for obvious reasons; more potential mate, more accepteable socially, probably the way you've been raised, can't have kid with same sex...
If I turned bi I'd like to live a homo life, but I fear that the cock craving slut inside of me will feel the need to ride dicks into the sunset every now and then..
I want to be only available to girls, but everyone knows that even most 99% homo/1% straight bi girls end up with men, 3 children, and aboring life..
>age
25
>sex
M
>(general) location
Norway
>relationship status
In a very good relationship with a girl
>how did you came to know you were bi
Be 18, friend 16 starts getting all flirty. Wtf? No, do not want. Eventually yes, I Want.
>your dream female
The girl I have now
>your dream male
Nordic Arian twink like from a nazi propaganda film
>>6288624
>but everyone knows that even most 99% homo/1% straight bi girls end up with men, 3 children, and aboring life..
that's true. Funny how it's the opposite for bisexual men. 99%homo 1%straight bi men will more than likely settle with a gay guy.
>>6288682
Not so sure, Maybe bi men tend to end up a bit more w/ same sex partners overall but I'm pretty sure overall all bisluts end up breeding.
Just had buttsex with my friend. Meh. That's all I can really say. I wasn't into it really all that much. In going to hang out with this one chick I like though, and yeah.
Having my ass rimmed feels difficult and painful, so I don't think I'll be going after his again anytime soon.
>>6288747
If a tongue on your butthole is painful, you are doing something dreadfully wrong.
>30
>Male
>South East, MO USA
>Married (woman), seeking a poly relationship
>Generally aware since 14, but didn't really acknowledge it until last year when I told to the wife. Lucky she was like "me too."
>Someone who has a very vibrant personality and good legs.
>Someone I can be friends with that treats my wife like the wonderful woman she is.
>>6229837
bi here in a relationship with a gay man. We're fairly romantic, both in our early twenties, no issues other than not having moved away from our families. He lives in an apt with his sister, I live with my parents and my mentally disabled sister. My parents are aware but unaccepting of my self-identity (ie back in the closet), and my bf's not even officially out to his parents. Kill me please.
>>6288719
>Not consistent with use of % sign
>84% + 9% = 93%. No explanation for the other 7% of bisexuals in committed relationships.
0/10 does not understand how to basic statistics and data representation.
This source is awful.
>>6289433
Read the thing written below
>age
20
>sex
M
>(general) location
Texas
>relationship status
dating a guy for 2 years now. planning to move in together next year
>how did you came to know you were bi
porn folder was full of dudes as well as chicks
>your dream female
skinny butch instagram lesbian
>your dream male
skinny clean-cut twink, though I like >>6288665 's description better. i.e. my current bf
20
M
Midwest, US
Single
I was attracted to my good friend in middle school. The qtiest of qts. ever since then I've had a couple LDR with guys but that's about it
>Dream Female
Short with short hair, quirky and outspoken
>Dream Male
Someone who can make me laugh. Either femboy or normal dude. Beards are nice but none of that scraggly shit. Ideally really into music and reading and vidya
>>6289269
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>>6288747
>Having my ass rimmed feels difficult and painful
what on earth rimmed you? a cactus?
>>6289630
Apparently nobody on 4chan can use that word correctly.
>>6289765
I'm not the one seeking a bull for my wife ;)
>>6289867
It's like this isn't a thread to talk about being bi or something. We are looking for a girlfriend right now idiot. And even if we do get a guy, something I'm not opposed to, I will be fucking them too. Every morning I thank the powers of the universe that I'm not this fucking stupid.
>1/10 for getting me to respond.
>>6237242
Male here.
I'd say a lot of it is les, maybe 15% gay, but the majority is solo fetish shit from /d/. Straight sex pretty much doesn't turn me on at all.
>>6237242
Bisexual male.
Predominantly watch straight porn. My second most viewed porn after that is transexual porn. I occasionally venture into bisexual porn as well, which I really like, but it tends to be more rare. Less so, I watch lesbian porn as well but not nearly as much as I used to. But it still gets me pretty hard. Gay porn is probably the porn that I watch the least, but to be fair, it usually isn't catered to my tastes.
>>6229714
I'm a virgin, bicurious, what do?
>inb4 suck a dick
>>6295588
buy a buttplug
![1266944649729[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/ap3aBfM.jpg "1266944649729[1].jpg")
I'm going to gather my nerve and ask the cute guy in my class out on wednesday.
Give me strength bigen
>>6229927
I am a passive bi-dar
Only bisexuals are attracted to me X)
>>6229714
>age
29
>sex
male
>(general) location
spain
>relationship status
long term relationship with a girl
>how did you came to know you were bi
crush on a guy, feel fluttery around certain guys, can't help thinking dirty stuff about people regardless of gender (sometimes regardless of even whether I find them attractive or not!)
>your dream female
>your dream male
I don't have very strict preferences but boyish girls and girly boys really get me going. I definitely prefer partners capable of switching roles. Boyish and girly doesn't cover just looks, also attitudes and mannerisms - e.g. a girl in a skirt and long hair can turn out to be more boyish overall than one with short hair and tight pants.
In any case I can get smitten with someone for the stupidest of reasons, and I'm pretty damn sure that het girls don't look twice my way. Dunno about homo guys.
The people I've been with are quite different to each other, if you take into account people I haven't been with but I have good reason to believe they reciprocated at some point, they're even more different.
>age
19
>sex
m
>(general) location
uk
>relationship status
single
>how did you came to know you were bi
When i was like 12 and i messed around with other boys and girls.
>your dream female
Asian and cute, similar to how my ex was.
>your dream male
Toshiro Mifune in red beard
>>6229714
>21
>male
>around the greater Montreal region
>forever alone
The first video I watched about anything related to sex was a documentary on trans people in the red light district of a place I can't remember. I was maybe 13 at the time, and I found the idea so bizarre.
As an extremely shy introvert I developed a habit of thinking(which today is now an overthinking problem), and with that I realized that it doesn't matter what the person is packing downstairs. People are fun. From there I began looking up all kinds of weird porn from bdsm with femboys to hemaphrodites. I watched regular porn aswell, and found all of it very attractive. From there I sort of shut myself away and thought that maybe I'm just being weird cuz teenager.
It wasn't until I was 18 that I started realizing my sexual orientation was very fluid. People turned me on regardless of whether they were a man or a woman. So I guess then is when I realized I might be bi. Though it's been a long time coming.
>A girl who loves to be up and about and can enjoy a good time without having to rely on material shit like going out to dinner and movies. I can't stand doing things like watching TV or playing video games either.(every once in a while I'll play video games with friends though)
>Same thing with guys. I'd love a man if he could only be a little more outgoing than me. I say this because most of the people I hang out with don't actually do anything other than video games. Even walking around the block is out of the question.
To be honest I can't really say if I'm gay, bi, straight, or whatever, because I've never been in a relationship of any kind other than casual, nor have I had a sexual encounter. And because I was always so self conscious about my likes and dislikes, I never explored or talked about it with anyone.
Blah.. Long post. By now you can guess that I have a lot of things to say. Have some art for your troubles.
>>6296265
Ask him to go for drinks man. Always works.
>>6231159
I'm in Kansas too. Fucking state sucks.
I feel inconsequential and invisible, and I don't know if there's any cure for that.
>age
18
>sex
M
>(general) location
England
>relationship status
Single (kms)
>how did you came to know you were bi
Age 13 I figured that I found guys attractive from looking at make celebrities and just dudes on the street. Took me like 18 months to get used to the idea, not like any moral or religious thing just getting used to finding guys hot.
>your dream female
My best friend (Again kms)
>your dream male
Not sure really, not greatly fem or masc, just like "typical", in shape but not jacked
Hello /bigen/. I cannot figure out if I am bisexual or gay. I am attracted to cute, androgynous guys, but I think that I am also to particularly masculine girls as well, but IDK. I cannot imagine having PIV (not the smartcard specification), and images of vagina seem strange to me. What am I?
If bisexuals had a culture, of what would it consist? I'm talking about clothes, movies, music, clothes, lingo, etc.
>>6304134
This isn't possible. Bi's are, by their nature, non-monolithic. We don't have to chose, and often we don't.
>>6304134
shameless cultural appropriation of hetero & gay/lesbian cultures
>>6301929
An attention-seeking faggot
>>6299231
Hey I like it, but I live in the only good city in the entire state
>>6299133
ayyy rainy dayyy lmao
no such thing as bisexuality story
>at party, spot ex-GF
>she pregnant, could have been me. I ditch building where some gay dudes are shooting the shit - typical "who's dating/fucking/cheating on who" drama shit (Boise fags all know each other).
>I sidle into their circle and start shooting the shit
> "Why you here, anon?" Breeder scum etc
>I'm bi you drunken fucks, we've discussed this at length Fag Who I've Always Had a Crush On
>Lol no you're not
>Am too, asshole!
>Then prove it
>Head out to garage, give angriest blowjob ever, reach out and slap him when he cums, spit semen all over his new coat
Vindicated
>>6288747
>Having my ass rimmed feels difficult
Is you friend a cat or something?
Why can't I just make a close friend without wanting to fuck them all the time?
>>6229714
>age
23
>sex
please (I'm kidding, male)
>location
southern united states
>relationship status
single
>how did you come to find out you were bi
I used to get bullied a lot back in school for being effeminate and a crybaby but I've always liked girls so I used that as evidence to myself that I was straight even when I got into high school and started to ping people's gaydar. I was kind of able to play off my attraction to other guys until my junior year when I fell in love with my best friend. I stayed over one night after a party and we slept in the same bed and I remember thinking "ah, this is torture". That's when it kind of dawned on me.
>Ideal female
Either cool or really outgoing, but very kind (that's important). I like motherly girls
>Ideal male
shy sweet guys are the best
blonde hair wouldn't hurt
and he has to let me sleep on his shoulder when we watch movies
19/f
i'm bi but in a relationship with a dude who i really love right now, and i can see myself with him for the foreseeable future no doubt
i've never had sexual contact with a girl before, but i want it so bad. i'm not going to cheat on my boyfriend. i just don't know how to handle it. my wanting to lick some pussy is eating me up.
>inb4 just ask boyfriend if he would be ok with it
he wouldn't, not because he's against my liking girls, but because it's cheating and that isn't cool
so there's really nothing i can do about it except masturbate. wah wah
>>6316719
>but because it's cheating and that isn't cool
Threesomes arent cheating.
>>6316770
TRUEEE
but i don't think he would be down for that, and i don't know if i'm ready
he's just not that kind of dude. also, because we're not too far into our relationship (~6 months) i'd like to avoid any potential threesome drama. i don't think i'm mature enough yet to do something like that. i think if i saw another person kissing him or anything it'd make me really uncomfortable/jealous.
maybe if we're still together in a year or more i'll bring it up. good suggestion. thank you
>>6316797
why did you go out with him? Im genuinly asking,
Girls are so awesome why down yourself and go out with a boy? please explain.
>>6316874
he caught my eye (tinder,) so we started talking
as we talked more and more, it became obvious that we're really compatible, so we went on some dates. we get along well, our communication is solid, we have fun together, we have great sex, similar interests etc.
he's actually not a shitty guy. i know that's hard to believe, and it was hard for me to believe myself at first. after my last relationship, i thought i'd be done with dudes for awhile, but he kinda just fell into my lap, and now we're in love and whatnot.
i'm very content about every aspect of our relationship except for the fact that i may never get to have sex with a girl. but like, that's ok. it's a fair price to pay. i just needed to be a whiny lil bitch for a minute
>>6316927
also, though, i dunno why but i've never had success with girls
even just being friends. i have very few girl friends. i don't know what it is. i really like girls and think they're awesome too, but in general i don't think that's reciprocated
>>6316927
>>6316933
Ok, thanks for your answer
I'm a bi girl too and I know dating a male is way easier and better in several aspect than finding a female but I would never go out with a male if that means giving up on anything about females and-or not being available to them, that's why I kinda asked in a harsh tone and Im sorry about it if it came out wrong btw
>>6316968
no worries!
i totally get why you would not want to give up anything about females (hypothetically of course since as i said i've never licked a pussy)
>walk into cafe
>cute queer-looking girl cashier flirts with me
>walk to counter to get coffee
>cute guy barista flirts with me
>that bi feel
Come live in NYC, scrubs.
>>6317767
why would anyone flirt with me in NYC if I look like a dog m8
>>6318419
I'll flirt with you and throw in a free makeover, m8.
>>6317767
I would if I had any money. Living in NYC is fucking expensive as fuck, jesus goddamn.
>>6318483
paint me like one of your French girls, anon
>>6317767
I do live in NYC. We aren't all attractive or social in this city.
Hey /BIGEN/
>19
>m
>ny, uni
I feel dumb, but I want to know if you guys think I actually am Bi.
I've thought guys were attractive since middle school, but I never really thought anything about it, I just thought I was more open minded than my classmates about that stuff. Fast forward to past couple of years.
>at uni
>few friends
>one super gay
>always trying to make a move on me
>I tell him im straight
>He slowly guides me into the world of gaydom (not sexually, mentally)
Now, bout a year later, I've slept with/dated one guy (0 girls), and I liked it. But deep down Im still wondering if I've just tricked myself this whole time :(
Like I said I feel dumb!
>>6324450
Probably should clarify:
I find a much larger % of woman attractive than I do men, but I could see myself loving/marrying/whatevering both.
I've told my mom(though, I think she thinks im just gay), but I dont want to tell anyone else unless I absolutely have to. Also dont want to live a lie. Thoughts?
>>6301929
May seem like a dumb answer, but you may not know until you've "tried" both. Which is completely ok, I feel kinda the same way.
>>6324463
Lol, just do what feels right to you? Don't base your happiness on labels or what other people think.
>Came out to parents as bi at age 12
>Still haven't came out to my siblings at age 19
This hasn't an issue since I've never dated a guy, but did I fuck up?
>>6324693
I told my friends now they shamelessly humiliate Me and dont talk to me the same
>>6324693
I want to come out soon. I generally tell pretty much everyone I meet that I'm bisexual. I think just about everyone aside from one friend knows.
I've come out to one of my brothers, and he's chill as fuck. He didn't really care and supported me. The rest of my family would too but I don't want to make things too weird by telling them, although I know it wouldn't be that big of a problem. I've never discussed this sort of thing with my parents, so.
My friends are generally pretty cool with it as well. Though there's usually this element of not understanding my bisexuality or my guy friends always telling me "no homo" or whatever even though they're genuinely not even really attractive to me and I understand boundaries anyway. Most of my friends these days are all queer or kinksters anyway.
>age
26
>sex
male
>(general) location
Cali
>relationship status
Single
>how did you came to know you were bi
When i was attracted to guys emotionally and physically
>your dream female
A stableb personality is the foundation, and i guess not being overweight, and i like big breasts, so she can be chubby and it would be fine.
>your dream male
A stable personality, he would have to be okay with me being a power bottom, he could be almost anything physically as long as hes really into me.
>>6323898
I know, but the "not social" part is up to you! The city is what you make of it, in that regard. It's an easy place to be cripplingly lonely, it's an easy place to make countless connections.
>>6324869
I told my friends and now they don't talk to me at all :)
>>6325254
Power bottom is right.
Hello, bi male here in a straight relationship.
My gf's perception on sex is that it's meant for people who love each other, which I neither openly deny or agree with, because that's her views and I respect that. However, as a bi male, there are obviously some wants that can't be fulfilled by her. Strap-ons and fingering is wonderful and all, but I love orally bottoming a real man. How do I gently bring this topic up without harming our 8-month relationship? We had a 2 week break once and I had sex with a dude. She said that "I wish you would have told me" cause she found out through my messages instead.
Thank you, all!
bidude question:
anyone else like femmy guys and sorta-dykey women? sometimes I feel like I got a few wires crossed.
>>6327888
I feel kinda the same way. It may be because of all the trap threads on /b/ though.
>>6323898
There were some pretty good bi groups in NYC back in the '80s. Wonder if some are still around?
>>6326937
Is she the type of girl that thinks love is with one person only?
are you that type of person?
If no with both you could try a three way relationship.
>>6327888
hhahahahah me too
I finally want my submissive, bottom only, small, cute, crossdressing boyfriend. 4chan made me believe there is an abundance of them. Why can't I find one?
>>6237563
>because they smell so damn good
Life goals
>>6229714
oh well post got culled so imma do again
>age
17
>sex
M
>general location
Asia
>Relationship status
Single and lonely af rn
>how did you came to know you were bi
Well I always liked guys more, and just realised I liked girls too, just a lot less than guys
>your dream female
well I guess just a nerdy girl who loves to joke around and stuff
>dream male
I guess nerdy, cute, sweet and loves to be cuddle and kiss
Bara too
/fit/ fag here. Guess I belong here now.
>hanging out with my hipster female friend today
>meet up with feminine trap/twink friend
>we're all pretty degenerate
>talk about politics, smoke a bunch of weed
>he plays oblivion on my computer, she and I start fucking on my bed behind him
>he laughs at us, mostly ignores us
>he later joins in, I welcome it
>he sucks my cock, has a pretty girly butt, we get a threesome going
>it was all pretty great
feels good man
>>6229714
>20
>male
>Europe, Finland ;-;
>single
>how did you came to know you were bi
It started with qt bois and liking penis. Vaginas never really interested me. Had a lot of fantasies. Finally it seemed like I like guys and gals.
>Dream female
qt,understanding, some well mixing personality traits, not super conservative
>Dream male
qt, can be funny, best bud, not super conservative, not too short (somewhere between 170 to 190cm woulb be good), not too hairy, not too angry bossy dom
>>6229837
Opposite for me. I always end up with the people that claim they're bi, or at least bi-curious, and end up being full of shit and super het/gay. Ex-girlfriend swore up and down she was pan when we were together. Now she's strictly straight (not surprised though). Ex-boyfriend who tries to use me as a beard is definitely trapped in the gay closet. Current boyfriend says he likes dick but not any other part of the male body but he's still bi!!!! (ok)
Couple more stories like that. I don't set a standard for only bi people, but fuck I don't understand lying to yourself and others about being a part of arguably the least accepted sexuality.
>>6230754
Ehhh, I don't know. I'm inclined to say most, but even that feels like a stretch. There are plenty of people obviously in denial though.
>>6231159
Aw, hey.
17
F
Olathe, KS
sadly not your dream fem, and late, but wanted to say hello
>>6229714
>>age
young
>>sex
m
>>(general) location
503
>>relationship status
single and ready to fucking kill myself
>>how did you came to know you were bi
i think girls are cute
i think boys are cute
i haven't actually done anything
>>your dream female
real
single
kinda artsy
willing to take charge
>>your dream male
warm and huggable
not beefcake mcdouchebag
real
can cook from scratch
>>6240971
What state if you dont mind me asking. I absolutely love the south
>>6259707
I got nerdy thin and twink covered but I dont really consider myself "cute"
>Age
24
>sex
Female
>(general) Location
Munich, Germany
>relationship Status
Single (sad but true)
>how did you came to know you were bi
One day I fell in Love with my best Friend. I think some woman I see in the Train are hot. When I think about kissing another Girl, it gave me goosebumps and Butterflies in my Stomach.
>your dream female
avarage breasts (not to big not so small), curvy, experimental in Bed, same interests, nerdy.
>your dream male
Tall with a Beard. Nerdy, cuddly, a Little muscular, same interests, experimental in Bed.
>>6261547
I might meet most of your ideal male description depends on how much if an age gap your ok with
