Hi lgbt.
I think i'm bi, but its weird to say that for a few reasons.
When i'm out and about only women look attractive to me. I would only consider having a girlfriend. Having a boyfriend would seem very weird to me, and I am kind of weirded out by that idea.
When it comes to fapping time, I say I like fapping to traps the most. Some days I find women super super attractive and just have to fap to a woman. On rare occasions I fap to full-gay porn and imagine sucking cock in a gay orgy. But then I won't look at gay porn or be attracted to it slightly for weeks or months at a time.
Is this normal? Is there a term for someone who is bi but isn't equally attracted to both sexes?
This is why people hate bisexuals. Fuck off with your repressed homolust and just admit you like man dick and ass, jesus it's not that hard
>>6224536
yes, you are probably bi. I'll go through phases like that like once a year. There isn't a special term for mild bisexuals, but the Kinsey scale is a good tool (pic).
Having sex with a guy isn't supposed to change that if you truly are bi. I'd recommend you do it to see how homo you are. Because there's a lot of chances that it's more they you would like to admit.
>>6224571
You know there isn't any difference between your set of mind and straight people saying lesbians are just in denial. The guy just admitted he liked dick and ass.
You are stupid if you think bis don't exist. I have lived a very, very full life, with many partners of both sexes, and nothing is ever going to change that attraction.
>>6224536
Yeah, lots of bi guys report similar experiences.
Life is ambiguous. Just enjoy the ride.
>>6224600
I don't think the guy you replied to was implying that OP is a repressed gay, just that bi people who say "I'm just a little bit bi" are probably more fully bi than they want to admit.
I'll never get why so many dudes like traps though. When I fap, it's either to very femme women or big hairy dudes. A trap is just a woman who could have been hot but is made worse by the addition of a penis.
>>6224536
Sounds like you're mostly heteroromantic, but you should go out and experiment, instead of relying on the unrealistic representations that porn gives.
It wasn't until I tried it that I realised I could be attracted to an average-looking guy, rather than just the ultra-femme dudes in porn.
Also don't do orgies, thems is where the AIDS get you.
>>6224536
Easy and short answer:
Women care more about their looks, because as soon as you look good as a guy, the first thing people think is "What are ya, some faggot?"
>>6224764
If OP will fuck either sex but only pursue relationships with women? That's definitely bisexuality paired with a side of hetro-romantic.
>>6224969
>durr i could fuck men all day but i could never love them hurr durr
>being anything but learned sexism and homophobia
FTFY
Take your fauxgressive "split orientations" special snowflake bullshit and shove it up your ass.
>>6225319
You mad bro?
>>6225319
Someone got burned by one too many bi guys yeah? :3
>>6225319
>Being this butt blasted
you are straight, please stop calling yourself bi/gay/whatever
>>6225345
Lol no
Why does it matter? You don't have to put a label on everything. Sexuality is complex and if neither heterosexual nor bisexual fit you, it's nothing to worry about.
>>6225354
I dunno man, it can be pretty tough to figure out.
On the one hand, having gay fantasies should be a pretty big red flag that a guy is at least bi. Assuming they're telling the truth, straight men don't have gay fantasies. Like, ever.
On the other hand, most of us have sexual fantasies that we wouldn't enjoy seeing acted out in real life. For example, it really gets me going to think about a woman medically altering my body and making me her incontinent diaper slave. Does that mean I actually want to be involved in that scenario? No, of course not. So is it possible that someone could fantasize about men without actually wanting to fuck them? It seems possible. The question is, how likely is it.
Basically shit's hard to figure out sometimes and sometimes you just gotta roll with it.
>>6224536
>On rare occasions I fap to gay porn
It's because you're bored. If you don't find real-life men attractive, you're not bi.
>>6224608
Well you see, I like traps (but I'd rather watch anything else really) but I hate muscular manly dudes. So traps are just women with a penis which can be nice at times. Especially when a shemale is fuckin a girl.
I can't seem to be attracted to dudes in gay porn though. Maybe a few very twinky guys like Jesse Starr, but I never seem to be able to have a nice orgasm watching gay porn. BUT I'll go fuckin crazy for some guys IRL. Idk, I think I'm attracted to guys like me, and I'm not a huge muscular biker faggot dressed in leather with my arm elbow deep in a rectum.
>>6224969
>hetro-romantic
Huh, never heard this word before but this describes me perfectly.
I love fucking guys but could never be in a relationship with one.
Nothing romantic about cuddling, hugging, kissing, or holding hands with a guy.
It's just completely carnal arousal, fucking a dude's ass or sucking on the occasional dick, there is no "love" involved.
Romance requires certain female traits in my opinion.
>>6224536
You're bisexual heteroromantic
>>6226313
You can't imagine making friends with a cute boy? One who's funny and teases you just a little bit and has the kind of perfect smile that makes you blush? Who you can talk about anything with and shares all your interests and makes goofy injokes with you?
Maybe one night you both drink a little too much and he's sitting a little closer than usual. Maybe he rests his head on your shoulder and sighs and tells you how much he appreciates your friendship and you can smell his skin. And maybe, just maybe, he says he's drunk and probably shouldn't say anything but... He's had a crush on you all along and smiles his warm, perfect smile.
Feel anything?
>>6226473
oh man ;_;
Same here.
I just say that I'm curious but unlikely to act on it.
That's all it really is. Seeing guys out in the real world never caused any kind of desire, so we thought we were straight, but porn showed us things like cute feminine guys and aesthetic dicks and now we're curious.
I don't think we're obligated to adopt any label at this point, just explore and see what's right for us, or not.
>>6226473
I'm waiting for this to happen to me... *sigh*
>>6225319
omg i gagged because of that pic
thanks dick
>>6224536
You're not bi because it doesn't exist. You're straight with a cock fetish.
>>6228211
Ignore this moron. Don't feed the troll OP.
>>6226313
I can perfectly relate to this.
