If you're trans and gay, is it ever acceptable to date straight cis people? I don't pass for shit and loneliness is eating a hole in my core, but settling down with someone and then going "hey guess what I'm having a sex change" would still kind of feel like a shitty thing to do.
>>6202111
>but settling down with someone and then going "hey guess what I'm having a sex change" would still kind of feel like a shitty thing to do.
That's usually a good way to end your relationship as well
>>6202131
I just want to be loved and I'm running out of ideas.
>>6202111
Why would you want to date someone else that's not mentality stable? I thought the whole point was to find a cis guy?
>>6202137
But they wouldn't love you, they'd love the fake closeted version of you.
>>6202111
this is why I date gay men
they will care about you all through your transition
you will be loved and he will help you transition because he's into it too
I'm terrified. I am mtf who only likes women. I generally hate sex cuz I hate my own cock and behavior that is expected as a man at least by fully every woman I've slept with. Not many :l
>>6202857
But 99% of men are straight and 1% of men are gay.
You can find straight men in a library or a grocery store, they are everywhere. I am yet to find one gay.
>>6202111
Maybe bisexuals?
>>6203168
it's not like you precious yaoi manga huh?
>>6203667
Yaoi is love. Yaoi is life. Every 2D boipussy I've rekt is as valid as any 3D BP.
>>6202111
Yes it's fine, nobody gives a shit, they just want your cock.
You should be upfront when you're dating people, and if you're transitioning or planning to transition, just advertise yourself accordingly as such, FtM pre-T for example. I am guessing pre-mones since you mentioned not passing.
>>6204645
There's always going out and meeting people, if not that then try online dating and stuff like that.
>>6204751
How does one meet people while going out? I usually just end up finding myself being chatted up/groped by some gross old dude and flee.
How do I stop attracting guys who are 52 instead of 25?
