I'm 19 MtF, (no srs yet). We are in a relationship with my bf for 1.5 year, bad thing is that he's in a different country, so we see each other rarely (like once 1/2 a year). I'm also 6.5 months on hrt.
When he kisses and hugs me, touches me; when we cuddle, I just love it so much, I get very, very wet down there, I really enjoy it.
But when it comes to a bj, no matter what he does, I don't feel anything, not orgasm, I don't even feel a bit of pleasure. He tried a couple of times to do it, we thought it's him not knowing how to do it properly. But then I tried to masturbate while in bed with him, it felt really good, but no matter how long I have masturbated, I didn't climax.
Weird thing is, when I'm alone, I can easily finish in minutes.
Anons, did any of you experience something like this? Not only mtfs, maybe gay or lesbian couples?
What do
>Masturbate at your computer all the time
>Don't know how to interact sexually with another human being
>once 1/2 a year
how do you maintain your relationship? My boyfriend has been away for a month now (one more month to go) and it's already unbearable
>>6200927
Of course we miss each other, but there's not much of a choice. Either we're together or to break up, which is hard. He's almost graduated and there's a hope that in a near future he can move.
It used to be the same way for me, but eventually I got more comfortable around my boyfriend and managed to orgasm with him as well.
It just takes time.
>>6200852
When I had a bf, I couldn't get off any way because if anything touched my dick, I'd be turned off instantly. When I'm by myself, I usually just jerk off fine and easily, but something about being with someone else makes me super uncomfortable about it. Is it something similar with you, where you are uncomfortable about your dick?
>>6201355
Ho ho ho id play som much with your dick if I could catch it. You'd be crying before I was done. Moa hahaha!
>>6201576
this nigga
>>6201576
Dude I don't even know wtf to say.
I've never been able to cum with someone else. Kinda disappointing because I think my BF is feeling bad that he can't make me cum, not really his fault, everything he does feels amazing but I just can't get past that point where I have a full blown orgasm.
Actually the only way I can anymore is using one of those magic wands.
>>6202141
Probably has to do with the gender dysphoria - probably isn't the only mental illness you're suffering from.
>>6200852
Maybe you're not a tranny afterall.
>>6200852
I'm in this same situation, op. I kinda just assumed it was because of my nervousness.
>>6200852
Dysphoria may be dousing your sexual feelings. It could also be fear. Sexual dysfunction is not uncommon in pre-op transsexuals. In fact many post-op transsexuals have reported much better sex.
