Can we get a coming-out story thread going?
I'll start.
>Be me, around 15
>I've been playing Fallout New Vegas all night long
>Mom finally comes home from work
>She tells me how she's proud both of my brothers got GFs
>She asks me when I'll get a girlfriend
>Adrenaline kicks in and out of the blues I say
>"Mom, can I tell you something?"
>"Go ahead."
>"I'm- I'm... uhh... gay?"
>"Ooooh, you're so adorable! You're going to make a beautiful fag!"
>She tells me she never had a suspicion
>She tells me she'll tell the rest of the family if I'm too scared of it.
Fast forward 10 minutes
>My brother goes downstairs and gives me a bag of M&M
>"Congrats bro".
>TFW my family is supportive as hell
Pic related
Note: She didn't mean "fag" as an insult, she was kidding when she said it.
>>6157003
if your so adorable post pics, faggot
>>6157042
This pic is a few weeks old.
>coming out
Do as I say, obey, and stay in here
I really wish a bag of M&Ms were some kind of universal sign of acceptance. If you're too shy to bring up the subject you just give it and people get that you're cool with them.
>>6157054
Yeah your pretty cute for a gay guy, faggot
>>6157054
cute!
>hear that some people get accepted by their families when they come out
>decide to come out
>mfw
>>6157163
iktf
>>6157163
What happened, anon
>>6157163
me too anon
>>6157163
If only I could have warned you sooner.
>>6157163
Greentext it for us.
>>6157163
>tfw even if my parents fully accepted me as their daughter and supported me in transition, it would be too late to matter anyway because of how old I was when I came out
>tfw this was the mindset I was in even as I prepared to come out
>tfw I had to do it anyway or they would try to get me to cut my hair like all the times that came before
>tfw I wouldn't even have had to come out if they merely minded their own business instead of being policing how I represent myself
>>6157258
That's why I came out to my mom
Still made me get a haircut when my grandparents came for graduation
>>6157258
When I came out it was in direct response to my mom publicly humiliating me after I got my first very, very, very short boy haircut.
>>6157054
gbay99?
>be straight but love anal play and fapping to trap porn
>have to hear my mom's "it's ok if you're gay, we'll still love you speech every month"
>mfw
It's like she wants a gay son or something
>>6157003
I'm waiting until I have a somewhat stable income or a good friend where I can sleep over at when I come out for being gay.
I highly doubt my parents won't be supportive, but after hearing stories from some people its not worth the risk. I recently got a boyfriend who means the world to me, so maybe I really have to work harder on that stable income since I doubt I can keep it a secret for much longer.
>>6157708
Why does your mom know either of those things?
>>6157708
It's probably because she'd rather have a gay son who was "born that way" instead of a straight son who's into unusual, freaky shit. Maybe she feels bad that she raised a degenerate rather than simply giving birth to one. If that makes any sense.
In a way, I think people are understanding that gay people have butt sex and all that weird shit but when straight people are into it, it blows their minds. Not sure why.
I'm only half out - friends and the people they've probably told know, no on else does
>>6158029
>forces you to come out
>envy for fapping to traps
he wants the d
>>6157003
>My brother goes downstairs and gives me a bag of M&M
>"Congrats bro".
Best reaction.
>>6157054
You're adorable. I'd to love to take you to the park and have a picnic.
>>6157708
>straight
>on /lgbt/
>>6157708
>straight
>loves anal play and fapping to trap porn
Question: Do you find the idea of being turned into a woman arousing?
>>6157611
My dad tried to manipulate me into a haircut some weeks ago like he and my mom would do before when I would resist. But I successfully resisted this time. Thankfully, my grandma loves my hair. I don't think she's on board with the tranny stuff at all, though.
>>6157643
What did she say when she insulted you? How did you react when you told her you were FtM? I'm guessing she was the one who felt humiliated.
>>6157850
I'm >>6157258. The reaction I got was pretty lukewarm. They didn't kick me out but they don't want me to transition at all. Pretty much nothing has changed beyond the haircut stuff.
>>6158096
I would prefer skittles.
Ok... Heres my story... I was 18. I had extreme dysphoria, and my friend finally convinced me to talk to my parents. I come out and she is understanding at first... They took me to a Psychologist, and i talk with her, (She doesn't know much) My mom tells her I had mood swings, etc. Which I did, due to being depressed. I was so unhappy in fact I had been cutting myself. My dad was more accepting.
The lady sends me to a Psych ward.
Welcome to the south.
I also am treated for depression.
I am treated like an outcast by everyone, made fun of, and bashed, for wanting to be a girl. I never cross dressed or anything. I was afraid of being found out and treated like shit. Keeping in mind this was the south. My mom has been kind of distant since. I have learned everyone in my town hates me and thinks I am disgusting except for my Best friends i have had from my buddy's family.
People Hate me also because I don't worship "Jeesus" too. So I hate the south. I have always been reserved about this story because of the pain it causes to remember. I am a MTF, or I would transition, if I could. The more I try to be happy with who I am present, the more I am realizing, I am pretending. I have attempted suicide in the past... I suppose its one of those things. I developed the dysphoria when i was 10 or 11, crying for seemingly no reason and feeling the discomfort with who I was. I really wanted to dress like a goth girl, because it was cool, And to me the most feminine clothes you could wear, with the black corsets and stuff. I still felt immensely depressed even that young. Compound that with constant bullying and being called a faggot, and any other nasty name kids could come up with for you, I had a rough time. fast forward to now. The depression is in the back of my mind, but I just forget about the thing that i could do to be happy, because I still live at home and I want to be far away from this little hick town before I go through with it. Stay strong you guys, and girls.
>>6158675
The part about the goth style is important, because I really found it Beautiful above all male clothes. and also i found myself being unhappy with being masculine
OP HERE! Sorry for the late responses. :c
>>6157096
>>6157116
>>6158097
Thank you c:
>>6157656
Who's that? .3.
>>6158096
Yeah, it feels good to be accepted.
>>6158527
>I would prefer skittles.
A bit too sugary for me!
>>6158675
Coming out as a MtF in the south is not necessarily a good idea, you should move to a more liberal state as they are more open to accept you.
>>6158998
Oh whoops, I messed up the hour.
dude sweet
>>6158527
tittie skittles?
>>6158998
Do you get that coughing at the back of your throat when you consume lots of sugar too? Despite it, I still eat sugary stuff when I'm looking for a treat.
>>6159126
I was thinking more the rainbow colored kind, maybe even sour or chewable... But titty skittles do cost more, so I would certainly accept that.
>>6157003
Nice story OP, FeelsGood.
The only coming out story is this one.
>Be me
>Be 15
>Be playing BL splitscreen with my friend
>"Hey dude I think I might be gay"
>"Seriously? "
>"Yeah'
>"Cool"
>Continue playing borderlands
>>6160245
>playing BL
chuckled
>>6160346
Why is that funny
>>6160957
>Yaoi also known as Boys' Love (BL)
>>6157163
>he fell for the coming out meme
>live in hungary
>both left and right wing politics are pieces of shit
>parents kind of fluctuate between the two, sometimes even a bit extrremely
I think they would lock onto one as soon as they were connected to something this much political. Pretty certain that me coming out would create a monster either way. Two stereotypical libtards or Mr and Mrs Hitler. And holy shit what would go down if they didn't agree at the end... So yeah, not gonna happen.
What is holding you back, dear /legbutts/?
>>6157003
>around 15
So yesterday?
>>6157054
You go little guy.
>>6161162
whenever i feel sad about not being able to transition i think about ron paul not being able to save the country.
>>6157163
>Parents used to constantly ask me why I don't have a girlfriend
>Casually defend it with memes (like that I'm autistic or the next Eliot Roger)
>They stop asking for a while
>Suddenly my mom tells me that she loves me for me and she'll be fine with any person I bring home
>I take this as her already knowing so I don't say anything
>One weekend like 2 months ago, get ready to go out with a guy I'm seeing
>"Anon who is that in the driveway? Where's the girl you're seeing?"
>Mom fàm that is the girl I'm seeing ţbh
So after my date I had to explain to my mom I'm gay because she assumed the reason I didn't have a girlfriend was because I was into freaky goth girls and they figured I'd be too embarrassed to bring them home.
>>6162267
it's hard to come out of the freaky goth closet too, don't make fun of their struggle.
>Figure out I'm bi in high school
>Sort of go through a phase where I'm into wearing rainbow jewelry a lot and getting into the whole gay community
>Don't remember how I broke the news to family, just kind of telling them individually, I guess, or dropping hints
>Most of them aren't terribly happy because they're religious, but have fairly decent family, so no big fuss either
>Maternal grandmother has the hardest time, just like when I became agnostic; still loves me even if we're on totally opposite sides of the fence, though she can't resist little comments or conversations about trying to make me religious again (gave up talking about my orientation, mostly)
>Mom was like "Well, if you're bi, why not just date the opposite sex?" but since I don't date, it's not really an issue
>Out to all my close friends, everyone is chill, a few of them turned out queer too
>Some extended family members know, others (AFAIK) don't
It was all pretty casual. These days I'm a little more stealth just because I'm naturally a reserved person who doesn't like drawing attention to myself. I only wear rainbow jewelry if I'm at Pride or some other gay event. I kind of live half in and half out of the closet. I sometimes wonder if my family members tell other people about me (pretty sure my sister's husband knows, don't know about stepdad's new wife) but I figure they'll find out eventually if I hang out with them long enough, so I don't really bother to "come out" on my own to new people.
>>6157258
There is a difference between being attracted to the same sex and wanting to cut off your penis
>driving home with dad, from bfs house
>he turns down the music
>"did you suck his dick in there?"
>"yeah"
>"oh... Was it nice?"
>"i guess." (3 incher)
>music goes back up
>linkin park - in the end
>never talk about it again
>>6157054
cute/10
i love this thread
>>6162901
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vn8x4O7gcF0
>>6162901
WTF, seriously?
>16
>crashing at older cousin's place
>we're talking, smoking bud, all of the sudden
>[cousin's name] i need to tell you something you can't tell anyone
>"ok bby i gotchu"
>start shaking and crying
>tell her
>i feel super tense
>she's supportive, promises she won't tell my parents
>thanksgiving that year
>wake up, mom's at my bed.
>(crying) "anon, is there something you want to tell me bby?"
>no
>go into kitchen
>cousin is cooking
>what's going on with my mom [cousin]??
>she fucking told her
>apparently my mom was asking a bunch of questions about me being okay because I was depressed - she was asking if i were on drugs, etc etc, and then finally asked if I were gay
that sounds like bullshit imo
anyways
>currently 18
>since she found out, my mother has been sort of subversively homophobic
>had to tell her to stop asking me if i were interested in a girl on TV, it would be any fucking girl
>generally just makes really shitty remarks about it
>father just doesn't talk to me much about it, but is supportive of me in general so everything is cool
>friends don't care - those who do stopped talking to me
I've got several coming out stories
>Get fired from job, can't afford HRT
>Tell my mom she should take me to the doc to get me some tranny pills because I'm all out
>"alright just don't tell your dad I dont tink hed be okay with it"
>Do shit ton of RC psychedelic
>Freak out, think I'm dying, call 911
>Spend night in emergency room
>Dad searches my room for more drugs and finds my HRT pills
>"Son, it would have been a lot more cool if i had just found more drugs"
>Hardcore repression mode, trying to be a man
>Beat shit out of gfs cousin
>Break up with gf
>Year passes
>She hits me up and tells me about this trans girl she's been hanging out with
>"yo im trans too"
>she's entirely cool with it and thinks it's hot because she has chaser tendencies
>Get back together with gf
>Have sisters
>Mom outs me to my sisters because she's kinda a bitch who doesn't respect my privacy
>Gf tells her whole family I'm trans
>Gfs family doesn't really support her in dating a trans person
>>6163229
what kind of shitty ass people do you hang around
>>6162901
>>6162422
Yeah, and I got a mild reaction, though I didn't get a good one. If you're gay, folk knowledge says you would have got a better reaction since being gay is seen as better than being trans.
>be me
>driving with bisexual sister, she's leaving for boot camp soon. I just told her, reacted as you expect
>later on told one friend who told his girlfriend who told everyone in our circle
>they pressured me to come out to parents
>met a qt.34 and started hanging out, so I had to
>brought her to my room. Said "I met someone"
>she says "You aren't telling me anything I don't already know"
>???
>"I knew since you were 10 with that boy T"
>I remember that T & I did a little sandbox stuff
>mfw they knew all these years
>mfw no face
They didn't care
You're a qt anon but I feel like you came out recently because you look 15. Don't care, still qt.
>>6163229
You're a piece of shit desu
>>6157003
is this south park?
>>6164135
You said you brought a her, but then you say your mother knew since the time you were playing with a boy? Are you bi too?
>>6157063
>Hunchback
Mon frère
>Be me
>about 12
>Gay
>Driving in the car with my cousin (20ish) coming home (Don't remember from what)
>We had stopped to get candy, she's a little overweight but it's fine.
>She asks what I want
>She's getting chocolate
>I ask if she'll buy me jolly ranchers
>later in car she asks if I want any chocolate
>I say no
>I then say I always prefer fruity candy, but I guess you are what you eat
>mfw
