I'm gay. I'm 27. I came out as gay to my friends when I was bout 23 and they were OK with it.
Yesterday we were out drinking and the conversation turned to me being single and when I was going to get a girlfriend. I don't talk about this sort of stuff and keep my dating habits to myself, but can they really have just forgotten that I'm gay? I was pretty explicit about it when I came out, and I have mentioned it a few times since but not often.
What do you think? Could they really have just forgotten about something like that, Or are they in denial or what?
they either forgot or dont think you are,
Maybe your friends assoicate gay with flamboyant and fucking every fag.
If you were a normal guy who "acted straight" and didnt talk about relationships. who knows
That or they herd you were straight
You're lucky
Every conversation among my friends that goes on long enough always includes at least one jab at my sexuality or gender identity because it's apparently hilarious that I'm effeminate
>>6107180
>effeminate
Lol that's funny, I don't blame them
>>6107207
I can't blame them either, honestly
But I do wish they would point out specific things instead of the "anon's such a girly faggot!" *cue laughter*
It would be more entertaining for me
>>6105920
My mom forgot all the time for a few years after I came out. She wasn't even in denial, I don't think, just thrown off by me not being a catty hairdresser or some shit.
>>6107233
haha, you're a girly faggot
Maybe it's a good thing they forgot. It shows they don't care you're gay and just want to be your friend.
>>6105920
Sounds like they forgot at the time, if it bothers you just remind them during a conversation like that
IMO it's a good thing because you're not trying to make it a massive part of your identity
>>6105920
if you didn't tell them, they wouldn't have forgotten.
