My girlfriend is trans. She's beautiful and we have tons in common, the sex is amazing. She can fuck like a champion, cum multiple times and is so intune with my body she keeps great pace.
The problem is it's getting harder and harder for me to get her to top, and yesterday I saw she was looking up information on genital reassignment surgery ( tab was left open and we share the computer )
Naturally I'm devastated and talking with her confirms she's at least considering it, so what I'm looking for is ways to convince her not to get it. Any horror stories, pictures of botched surgeries or better yet what kind of tactics I can use to make her doubt. Any trans girls who regret surgery or others who can share what stopped them or makes them not want to do it would be really helpful!
No h8 plz
>>6074217
why do you want her to top?
>>6074243
Cause she's awesome at it :)
When we first met she said she was a switch and not considering surgery.
Don't think our sex life could ever compare if she did
>>6074217
just let "her" know that it is not an option, quite simply. say that if "she" decides to go through with it, "she" will be betraying everything you two have ever done together, and that it is completely unacceptable, and you hope that "she" won't ruin everything for this. good luck
>what kind of tactics I can use to make her doubt.
>How can I mentally abuse my girlfriend.
Nice b8.
>>6074217
>>6074274
You know she could not want SRS and still prefer not to top, scaring her off the surgery itself won't help.
On the flipside she could top you with a strapon after surgery
Talk to her and ask why she doesn't like to top you lately, if she was fine with it before maybe it's not actual dysphoria and more of a "shit transwomen are not supposed to enjoy topping, what if I'm a filthy fetishist??" thing
Actually talk to her in general before you ask an anonymous message board about anything
If she does it because dysphoria has hit her nothing can be done really
>>6074296
Well I know she enjoyed it before, as I said she cums multiple times.
Yeah I'm going to talk to get about it again when she wakes up, so you think if I reassure her I see her as a woman when she's topping it will help?
She also refused a blowjob last week so I'm worried it is a genital thing
Also,
>strap on
>the same as her thick juicy cock
>>6074217
I think a better approach would be to ask why she's considering the surgery and what made her change her mind. Societal pressure and dysphoria can make a girl consider SRS when she doesn't really need it. Reassure her that she's a woman and that she's beautiful. Tell her that you love or like her the way she is and she doesn't need surgery to be a real woman.
Bottom line however is that if she really wants it, she's gonna get it. Emotionally manipulating her and making her doubt herself will only backfire and cause your relationship to go down in flames.
>>6074313
>thick juicy cock
maybe it's slowly dawning on her that her boyfriend is a huge faglord
>>6074298
Did you try, like, talking to her honestly? Trans girls can be weird about using their penis in different ways.
Some hate using it, but others like using it and that can be equally distressing because the common narrative among trans women is that they shouldn't like using it. So she may feel bad about liking it and think she's some kind of weirdo because of it.
>>6074316
I just don't think our relationship would survive if she did get the surgery and if I say that like >>6074323 I'm worried it will just end it
So she's going to wake up for work soon, I'm going to drive her and talk about this some more. That society might be pressuring her into it.
Thanks a bunch! I'll report back when I drop her off
Her alarm is about to go off
If you want someone to fuck you in the ass just find a guy and stop lying to yourself about it not being gay to take dick because she's a girl. It's gay as hell senpai.
>>6074217
You're a homosexual which is why you want him to keep his penis. He on the other hand is not as confused as you are and wants to at least look like a girl and at least have a fake vagina. Just tell him to wear strapon.
>>6074408
girls can have penises too, shitlord
>>6074435
No. That's not how human biology works.
Chopping off your dick won't make you a woman either. It will just make you look more like one
>>6074217
Just go find a tranny that's ok with their dick instead of manipulating this one to make them miserable/suicidal to fulfill your fetish.
>>6074373
>That society might be pressuring her into it.
Don't start the conversation that way, just, ask her about her feels and shit, it's gonna sound weird otherwise
>>6074443
>No. That's not how human biology works.
Not that anon but tbqh things get pretty murky when it comes to intersex disorders.
OP here, so much for fucking honesty.
Day starts great
>turn off her alarm and instead wake her up with cuddles and kisses
>she squeels and squirms into me
>I have her coffee brewed
> chatting about her dreams last night while she's getting ready
>get in the car, get to the first red light
>gotta bring it up some how
>she's asking why I was up before her, did I stay up all night?
>'Anonette there's been something on my mind'
>lay it out that it's the surgery that kept me up
>her posture stiff she doesn't say a fucking weird for three lights
>no more silence please I need to talk about this
>she says she's been thinking about it for a while
>thought I wouldn't have approved so didn't mention
>can't help but blurt out she seemed fine with it when she was pounding me last week
>the fuck had changed?
>'is this all you care about anon!?'
>she's staring daggers at me and her crotch
>sniping and snapping at each other
>she asks me if I'd stay with her if she got it
>my silence says it all
>she's crying
>w-we're here...
>slams door
>doesn't look back
This is completely fucked, she was perfect. I was her first. First kiss, first everything. I was there with her before she started hormones. She's always been a woman for me.
She texts me she's sure now she wants it, I let her know I think it's a rash mistake, she doesn't really want to. I know she enjoyed using it, getting it blown, and she knows I love it.
Fuck
>>6074516
you're not her though. let it go
>>6074516
>chaser rekt : the telenovela
>>6074516
>not expecting a trans girl to want to get rid of it
>being this stupid
>actually caring this much
get her a strap-on or something. don't be such a cum slut.
>>6074516
lmao sucks to be you
>>6074516
Hahaha get btfo you selfish autist
>>6074516
wow you´re a real dick lol
>>6074516
´She´s always been the woman for me´
Sounds to me like all you really care about is the dick and the fucks, and you don´t want to lose that. You don´t seem to give a fuck about her. Just find someone new on grindr and stop being a dick to her.
>>6074516
>I know she enjoyed using it, getting it blown, and she knows I love it.
Personally, I love it when people think that I love everything I've ever done because I did it once or twice
That just because something was pleasurable means it can't have been uncomfortable or regrettable
OP I understand your confusion in believing she must love having her penis because she has in the past accommodated your degeneracy but you have to understand that people can change dramatically
From her questions she clearly loves you, yet you've only demonstrated a love of cock
She'll be the same person after surgery, it's not a magic girl button that changes someone all on its own, but her individual reaction to having it will have serious implications for your relationship
And so I say, do you love your girlfriend?
Or are you in love with the image of your girlfriend?
>>6074641
Yes I love her, sex is an important factor in any relationship. And I was lead to believe it was going to be one way, and randomly it changes. No warning, just these pressures about what makes a real woman confuse her into getting mutilated.
Of course it matters, why are my feelings about it even considered to be asked? I driven her to meetings, bought her hormones for her when she was having a short month. I've been involved in every step of her transition. And she's been considering this and didn't even tell me? I had to ask because I caught her search on the computer.
I mean why would I have dated her if she had a pussy from the beginning, the whole point of dating a trans girl is the cock. And she has such a good one, it's a fucking shame to chop it up because some bitter blogger tells her she's not a real girl if she doesn't
>>6074477
>intersex disorders
Stop bringing up shit that affects 1 out of 100,000 births, and stuff that you obviously don't have. Intersex disorders are not the same as a perfectly healthy person mutilating their genitals in order to be a """"woman""""
>>6074217
People don't exist solely to bring you pleasure, anon.
>>6074708
if it's a dealbreaker for you, that's fine, but trying to convince her not to makes you a dick. ask her about her feelings on it, don't make your weird assumptions about why she wants to.
>>6074719
>stuff that you obviously don't have
Yeah because you can tell someone's entire physical makeup by eyeballing them for a few seconds. Look, the fact of the matter is that the most current research on trans people indicates that they deal with intersexual development within their neurology at the very least.
It's becoming disingenuous and downright dishonest to keep denying that just to defend feminism or whatever the fuck ideological alamo you've staked out for yourself.
>>6074708
That's really selfish of you. Sex can bond people together, but if that is all that there is or it becomes the primary reason to stay in a relationship, then it is not a relationship worth being in.
You seem to be focused on her dick because she can give you all the homosexual gratification that you desire. If this is true, then she is in the right to be incited by your claims.
>the whole point of dating a trans girl is the cock
Wow, son. There is no saving you. Whether or not she wants her cock is her decision and she has to live with herself for the rest of her life. The fact that you've attached yourself to that cock shows that this is not about her being comfortable in her own skin, but about you wanting her to slam your boipussy until you cream.
TL;DR: GET FUCKED!
>>6074779
I'm trying but trannies be chopping up the only thing they are worth
>>6074751
I think the trans movement is about to commit a terrible mistake.
They are at that crosspoint that we homos were in the early 80s were we had to sort of go for either born with it - or choice.
The movement thought it would benefit everyone more if it was something you were born with, so they went with that.
Looking back that was a terrible mistake, and I hate to see the same happen to the trans movement. Autonomy should be the forefront.
>>6074806
If your only argument at this point is politics, you have no argument.
>>6074708
I wonder if she'll find this thread, if she's not a tumblr tard there's a high chance of her using this site.
You fucked up OP and it's all your fault
>>6074321
This. She should leave her fag of a boyfriend already.
>>6074516
lmao serves you right
You should've asked her if what she was doing felt right and whether her parts felt like they were on top of her real parts like a phantom organ or something.
>>6074995
Shit she hasn't texted back in hours and /lgbt/ is in the browser history
Jasmine if you're reading this I'm sorry, I was just joking, I love you for all of you. I just don't want you to regret anything, please text me back
>>6074477
>intersex disorders.
>being transgender is an intersex disorder
You born with a normal body with normal genitals, you take blockers, you take hormones, you get surgery. This is not intersex.
>inb4 mah dysphoria
>>6075457
> just joking
>>6074516
Get fucked faggot.
>I know she enjoyed using it, getting it blown, and she knows I love it.
Of course she enjoys receiving oral, are you dumb? It feels good. It doesn't mean she doesn't feel dysphoria from having it.
>>6074217
>>6075457
Rob, since name dropping on 4chan is apparently a thing to do. You can stop texting me, you decided to drag our personal life into the open so this is where you are going to get your response. I'm not coming home, Caitlyn will come by for my stuff. You should have listened to some of the advice in this thread. It might have changed things, it might not of. Honestly I'm done thinking of what could have been, you've shown your true face here. And might I add, how did you not think I would see this? You talk about stuff you read on 4chan all the time, I know you go here. I guess now you finally realized I lurk here as well. You've embarrassed yourself and me for having associated with you. I want to address some of these 'points' you've made about me, since you never had the sack to say it to my face. Me considering the surgery is not 'random' or out of no where if you actually paid attention. I've told you I felt like I could go either way in regards to my penis. That I look ridiculous in my clothes unless I tuck, which is quite uncomfortable and not something I can just "do all the time". Further more, whether or not I get the surgery, you're supposed to support me, you know, that thing you keep saying you want to do. You say how much you've supported me in my transition, like I have you to thank for it all. Well Rob, it's not about you, it's never been about you. I appreciated you lending me some money last October, but I paid you back for it. Something you have still neglected to mention, too busy gushing about my penis and how I fuck. Well savor your memories because that's all you have left now. I honestly am really happy I read this, to know what you really think of me, and now I can continue my life without having to waste another second of it with you. Fuck off.
t.
your ex
>>6076050
I want this to be real
>>6076050
and people say it isn't a mental illness
>>6076082
lol rob you got BTFO
>>6076050
Timestamp feminine penis so we know this is real
>>6076090
And even if I was Rob, it's hilarious that two losers would put their business out there like this.
>>6076100
>>6076050
holy shit please be real
>>6076050
Nice choice of name, senpai. And good luck with your next boyfriend.
>>6076116
>>6076050
please be real
>>6076143
Thanks!
>>6076438
>>6076438
Post texts
>>6076438
holy shit
YES
>>6076691
>>6076500
THISTHISTHIS
>>6076050
Oh god I knew this would happen.
>>6076972
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGp9P6QvMjY
>>6076972
then why did you do it, rob
>>6074217
Hahahaha OP you are a fucking beta faggot
>>6074217
Also, you're fucking a dude. He has a penis.
Why is the first condition of anything farther afield than homosex always always always to seek attention.
>>6076438
jesus christ this was a good thread
good luck with surgery
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>>6075764
So basically if the robs of the world want to suck girlcock then they should have to pay for it, since no girl likes getting their cock sucked.
You are just fetishizing her, you are precisely the sort of person we avoid like the plague. If this is really how you feel, then it's clear you only see her as a sex object; if your objectification of her comprises so much of your bond that you view this surgery as a dealbreaker, I would say you should break up with her immediately, perhaps start cutting if the heartbreak is oh-so-difficult to handle, but don't burden her or us with your bullshit.
>>6079281
Agreed. Fucking gold.
>>6076050
TOASTING IN EPIC BREAD. ITS BEEN TOO LONG. THIS IS WHY I COME TO YOU 4CHAN. AHHHHH THE ADRENALINE RUSH
HOW DO YOU ARCHIVE???
Also, Jasmine anon if ur real, I wish you a safe surgery should you choose to have it, and good luck on finding a better partner in the future =)
>>6079330
Thanks. Might be a troll, but I'm leaning towards believing it.
>>6079418
Same from me.
>>6074806
That wasn't a mistake at all. Whether or not it's actually true, it led to vastly greater public acceptance of homosexuality, to the point that being gay is effectively normal now. And most gay people are happy with that, just like most trans people will be happy when transsexuality is considered normal.
Yes, there's a small minority of SJW idiots who want homosexuality/transsexuality to remain "subversive" to stick it to "the man", but 99.9% of gay and trans people just want to be able to live normal boring conformist lives, and that's fine.
>>6074516
>my silence says it all
so it's just about the sex? fuck you, other people have real problems
>>6079314
How is Rob fetishizing her? He wanted a male with a nice hard penis who looks like a woman.
>>6074806
Hahaaaa you choose to be gay now? Ok buddy.
>>6082706
sounds like you're an asshole. if you really loved her you wouldn't act like this. you deserve whatever you get after this shit.
>>6074806
>Looking back that was a terrible mistake
Really? How retarded! Otherwise "reparative therapy" would still be around.
>>6074217
If you want to get topped like the homosexual you are then you should be seeking regular gay guys.
>>6074806
I personally think it would be far better if people could choose which gender they are freely. Otherwise we are but chaining to our bodies in a way we have no control over. As our abilities as a species grow, our personal choices should grow as well.
>>6076050
TOASTIN' IN LEGENDARY BREAD!!
>>6076438
So... how soon do you think you'll get back into the dating game?
t. exclusive top
>>6074708
YOU GOTTA FIGHT!
FOR YOUR RIGHT!
TO SUCK DICCCCCCCCCK!
>>6074217
>having a trans gf
haha youre a fucking faggot
>>6076050
>>6076050
>>6076050
Honey, I love you, better luck with your new boyfriend! And good luck with the surgery!
