We're all sad sacks of lonely shit, only one of those things is easily fixed, post contact info, circle jerk and erp over posted pics, hopefully escape with a bf
>>6054171
shinji killed my waifu
Forever too scared I'll get recognised and beaten up
>>6054182
Only share pics privately to whoever you hit it off with then anon
>>6054178
name: shinji
occupation: giant robot pilot
looking for : a loving daddy or kaworu
contact : speed dial nerv
>>6054191
But what if THEY beat me up huh anon
>>6054204
Boolits beat fists anon, alternatively get their pics first, if they could recognize you, you should be able to recognize them
>>6054199
Cute
>>6054199
I'm visiting Tokyo this summer for a week, I'd like a guide
I'm rich and I'll pay you good, you are a guy right?
>>6054229
its an angelru
>>6054199
have you ever been groped on the train by a drunk salary man?
sorry for /blog/
I've never had a bf or sex, and I feel too bad making a Tinder because I don't want people to recognize me. I also don't know if I like guys my own age or older guys and the indecision is making me not seek anything particularly out. Also I'm slightly degenerate and was on recon and I started messaging this guy and he seems nice/normal and we were going to meet but now I think I might want just a nice normal relationship instead of like a degenerate hookup. And basically I'm really lonely and sad help.
>>6054268
Be honest with them, most people prefer a regular degenerate hookup to a one time thing anyway
>>6054268
If you dont want to just hookup talk to him about it, humans work via communication
>>6054272
youve really never been molested looking like that in pervy jap society?
don't they love femboys and traps over there? you invented them
>tfw no qt femboy to cuddle with on cold nights
>>6054313
Shrugs, just do what you want man, be as happy as you can make yourself
guys I'm having a night in alone with my cat (alone) and some rhubarb crumble what's a good/cute tfw no bf movie to watch
>>6054313
Give it a shot with him, just say you're looking for a relationship. If he says he isn't then you could still have sex together anyway.
If you manage to keep him as a regular sex buddy it will do you wonders, you'll still be able to bond with him and of course it will get your experience in sex too. It really will help you if you're feeling down, its just a very wonderful and freeing experience to be with another man in that way.
>>6054323
you're probably right, I just have this feeling I'd feel empty/used/worse after something like that
>>6054171
>try and get a bf from /lgbt/
Nah I've already tried this. They few posters that live in the same city as me (Perth, Australia) are either bi or have standards that I don't meet.
>>6054347
*the few
>>6054347
>not getting into a trainwreck long distance relationship
>>6054346
Well if you truly feel like that then you probably will as you've put yourself in that mindset for it.
A lot of people hold sex on a high pedestal and consider it a very special thing they should save for "the one" but honestly its just silly to be like that.
Sex is just a natural thing, everyone does it, everyone you know has probably already done it. Just treat it as a fun time, because that's all it is, having sex with someone you aren't dating or whatnot isn't slutty or anything, you're just being human and exploring your sexuality even further.
>>6054367
huh I guess I should watch out for the trips
>>6054355
Oh yeah, what could possibly go wrong /s
>>6054363
>having sex with someone you aren't dating isn't slutty
That's literally what being slutty is. What you meant to say was it's not necessarily a bad thing being a slut. Jesus Christ you HIV-spreaders.
>>6054377
come on bb cam with me 24/7 and feed my black hole of an emotional problem or I'll hire a group of somali immigrants to rape and kill you <3
>tfw i made eye contact with the one guy i've gone on a date with in the hallway and he pretended to ignore me
>>6054367
Not really, I was just giving my opinion on it.
The whole reason everyone is lonely is because they have the ideology that being a virgin somehow makes you a valuable commodity when in reality a virgin will scare off most people looking for a partner.
Honestly, I'm not trying to cause shit, I was just saying he shouldn't worry about being seen as slutty or anything, because having sex with one guy on the one off because you wanted to experience it is normal.
>>6054379
Such a charmer :3
>>6054386
Oh yes, I'm AIDS ridden because I've had sex a few times with one guy.
Grow up.
>>6054392
I'll "grow up" when you stop being a slut, slut.
>>6054381
I feel like there's a legit point to this, though. Like I don't want to have casual sex because I don't want my first time to be bad and like I'm being used, but I feel inadequate in being in a relationship because I'm totally inexperienced . God I don't know
>>6054398
Anon there isnt that much skill to having something shoved up your butt, nor is it hard to stick your meat pole into a hole. Just find a guy who makes you happy
>>6054398
Haha same, I've basically come to the conclusion that I need to find some awkward virgin fuck like myself and learn together
>>6054398
Generally you won't be inadequate to them, its just that if they find you're a virgin and they have previously been promiscuous they'd just find it strange that you hadn't done anything.
Most people would be a little offed by at as generally someone who is a virgin is very likely to fall totally head over heels for the guy that takes their virginity. So in turn you'd become clingy.
I'm only giving my opinions on the matter, obviously this doesn't settle well with a lot of people here but just read everyone's arguments and make your own mind up, I'm just offering you another perspective on it all.
>>6054403
it's like doing what everyone else did at 14-16 except you're older and you hate yourself
>>6054406
>be a whore because whores will judge you for not being one
>also because no one wants a long term partner so being clingy is an issue
SLOOOT
>>6054403
That's a really good way to do it but again finding someone like that is hard.
Maybe try a /soc/ thread? I think every so often they throw out a virgin thread, with luck you could meet a guy on there.
>>6054406
>generally someone who is a virgin is very likely to fall totally head over heels for the guy that takes their virginity. So in turn you'd become clingy.
this is almost definitely what I'd do, which is partly why I want to find the right person
>>6054409
If I'm honest I thought I was into girls then so I already did that awkward stage, I think I'm comfortable staring at imagefap with things in my ass for now
>>6054410
You're really missing my point, I'm not telling him to go out and suck every cock he sees.
I told him to just tell the guy he wants a relationship and see what the guy wants, if the guy doesn't want that then he should always keep sex with the giu as an option so he can experience it and learn from it.
And no, nobody wants someone who is clingy, people need space, even in love.
>>6054421
>try what you want, but still probably fuck him anyway
>nobody wants someone who is clingy
How can one sloot be so wrong?
>>6054419
god this is making me sad, I wish I'd done all the normal things at that age, those years were such a waste
>>6054427
Every year is a waste if you only look at the stuff you wished you'd done
>>6054427
How old are you now anon? I'm turning 20 in a few months and it kills me how much of my life I'm wasting due to my insecurities. :|
>all these qt virgins you will never fug for their first time and coach them into lewd buttsluts
>>6054434
I have some nice memories but I just feel so sad about the missed opportunities and how I could've been a better person
>>6054443
You hurt me by existing sloot
>>6054439
I'm 20 turning 21 in a few months. Turning 20 seemed so bad until it happened and then it was fine. But you're a year ahead of me so don't waste it! Do something!
>>6054441
Only advice I can give is use those feelings to make the future what you want it to be... Sure nothing goes exactly to plan, but you're talking like you have an ideal situation, so work towards it as much as realistic
I talked to my ex/best friend after not talking for a while and like afterwords I totally cried because at the end of the convo our dynamic was still there and like I was just so grateful because everyone told me when he left me that he'd leave for good and I should just leave it but like 6 years later and we are making it work.
After awhile you stop wanting that old love and you start to cherish the new forms of love shared between deep friends.
Its a diary post but yeah.
My other ex and his gf were trying to get me to move to central America with them for work three years after ending it. Like you really can be friend with exes if you pic them right when you date.
>>6054444
But who do I qualify as a slut.
I've not had sex now for what must be two years and when I did I've only ever done that with one guy, a total of probably ten times.
If that is slutty then I'm sorry but you will truly never find anyone because that's a very deluded view on sex and relationships.
You gotta let it go man, sex is just sex, its just a regular thing it is not some holy grail ritual.
>>6054449
>trying to convince me you're not a sloot with words and logic
shoo shoo aids goblin
>>6054449
Why does it matter what some anon fag thinks about your life? Nothing said here really matters.
What is even the topic of the thread anymore?
>>6054445
The only thing I'm dreading is the embarrassment of NEET-ness in my 20s. I feel pathetic.
>>6054455
Virginity
>>6054456
oh I didn't get my first job till this year and i only got it through a family member and I'm not sure it's even a real job, but that does wonders for you. it's so so important, you should really try to get a job (I know it's hard though, like I couldn't even talk about it). are you studying?
>>6054459
Oh, well in that case I still have mine. I'm turning 21 this year too.
Worst part about it is that I've had a few chances to lose it, but I didn't back then because a was too deep in the closet.
>>6054462
I know! I keep putting off getting my liscence almost as a way to excuse my laziness, but I can definitely imagine how a paying job would do wonders for ones sanity.
Technically yes... I've been taking 2-3 classes a semester for the past ~2-ish years. It's ironic that I want to be a counselor when my life is a mess.
(Sorry for venting btw.)
>>6054477
2-3 classes is normal, really, I'm doing 4 but I'm getting really lazy with it... And yeah I don't have my license yet, I think my dad bought me driving lessons for my birthday last year and I still haven't done it, maybe it was a message...
And same kinda, I think I'd like to be a social worker maybe but it feels ridiculous when I'm in this kind of position.
Anyway this is pretty much a venting thread anyway
>>6054488
Ah okay good! It feels... good that there are other people in my position doing okay. Good luck with everything. :)
>>6054503
you too friend
Anybody else not able to see themselves with a relatively normal person? I'm a total loner and I don't think a relationship would work with someone who isn't the same way or at least similar
>>6055461
I want to be a normies dirty little secret. The person they come home to spending whole days in the same bed with, watching movies or something. But they keep up appearances during the day and have normal friends as well.
I want to have a (bara) bf.
I have a bara ex-bf, but he was an online bf, and most people here don't count internet relations as being "real".
>>6055490
Did you meet him irl?
I want to be someone's qt bf but I look like a hydrosephalic nonce.
Virtual reality when 2bh?
>>6055521
No.
>tfw australian bear into femboys
it's over for me, friends
>>6055585
>tfw australian femboy into bears
P E R T H
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>>6055613
>literally the opposite side of the country
last I checked australia doesn't work on pacman logic, either
>>6054199
I'm so confused.
>>6054171
>>6054268
>>6054281
hows it going bruhs
kik: glennznl
steam: gladenl
>>6055461
I can't see myself with anyone who doesn't even have the same interests and likes the same stuff as me
I feel like I need a mutual interest/humor thing going on, which is probably whats stopping me from dating anyone
>>6055873
What are your interests, anon?
>>6055613
>tfw Australian bear into femboys that's from Perth
I hope you check this thread when you wake up
>tfw no bf
>work out to get the feels out of my system
>go to /fit/
>more hot guys pics than on /hm/
HELP
>>6056640
if it helps, most of them are faggots
>>6054171
Anyone in Tennessee?
>>6056943
>tfw in western North Carolina
So close yet so far
>>6057044
How is the gay environment there?
>>6057061
No one particularly cares, most people I've met are the bible thumpers but still stick the the love thy neighbor stuff
>tfw no cute british femboy
anyone in [spoiler] israel? [/spoiler]
pretty much this.
>tfw no /pol/ bf to make America great again with.
why even live
HEY! When did we get /gaygen/ 2.0?
In all seriousness though...
>tfw no vidya gaymer nerd bf to play vidya with, watch animu, discuss films with, go to bookstores and read chinese coloring books, cuddle, fuck, cuddlefuck, be stupid lewd fags together and MOST IMPORTANT? Love
>>6058438
>mfw found a guy exactly like that who wants to be my bf
>I will most likely ruin it because I feel that I don't deserve him
>>6054306
>>6058438
What kind of films do you like? :3
>be black
>only like fem sissy white guys
>small dick
Take me out the game bruh.
>>6058855
Run to him. Run to him.
>>6058932
Whoa... loaded question. Uh, anything from Classics from the east & west, Documentaries on anything, I love comedies, Sci-Fi is a big one as are many of the comic book based ones lately.
Say a title and I might have seen it.
>Be too cynical to be in a relationship.
>Smile and nod all day.
Just want someone to watch star trek with and listen to clutch. I don't want to hear about politics, I don't care about America, I don't want more groupthink.
I just want a boyfriend who would think for himself and still decide to be with me.
I'm >>6058934
>>6055773
why is obama laughing
>>6058960
Favorite Sci-Fi movie?
>>6054290
The Romans invented them, not the japs
>tfw no one to cuddle me RIGHT NOW
>>6058388
wait thats almost me
please be East coast
>>6058981
Prostate stimulation :^)
>>6059047
but why @ me?
>>6058990
You know, this is actually a tough question. I've been sitting here thinking about it in the back of my mind and it's hard to really pinpoint a single movie that's better... hmmmmm.
>>6059100
How you're nerding out on this is adorable. :3
Is there any Texans out there interested in a cute geeky tranny?
>>6059130
Oh, you. I'm trying to give a good answer, but it's tough.
>>6059067
He needed fapping material
>>6059166
Depends. Do you have a gun collection?
>>6059191
Nah. I have a sword one, but they mostly are stuff from pop culture
>>6059179
What's your Steam?
>>6059198
are you roomates with another tranny? Because if so they shove your shit up their ass
>>6059200
Unless my cousin comes out as trans, I think I'm good
>>6059220
Would you be ok with me killing things and bringing them home for you to cook?
>>6059225
Yeah, but only DMV employees. Their asses have the most meat.
>>6059257
Locals know best :)
>consider myself straight but open to a cute passing girlieboy
help
>>6059295
Give in, faggot.
>>6059299
BUT FRIEND, I LIKE THE VAGINA TOO!
>>6059295
Go here >>>/fit/
>>6059199
Oh, anon but I don't have all the fun games that you probably have~!
>>6059265
Oh totally, and try the Tex-Mexicans while you're there ;)
>>6059318
Don't be a moochy bitch. Nobody likes a moocy bitch.
>>6059318
We can just chat, maybe :)
But it's all cool if you're not down.
>>6059321
I don't mind Mexicans, babe. tex-mex or otherwise. How about we clean out some of the /pol/tards you guys got instead. The meat is a bit chewy but nothing a crock pot can't handle :)
bump?
>>6059067
because I need your kik
t. obama
>>6056640
Are you me
>>6058941
>bump
>>6059039
where do you live?
>needy Britfuck fatass
Suicide sounds better every day
>>6058937
>tfw white tranny
>tfw have a thing for guys with small dicks
w-were we made for each other?
>>6056943
M-middle tn?
>>6059044
Florida where on the East coast?
>>6056943
>tfw I live in St. Louis
>>6056943
I feel as though Tennessee is such a beautiful place. I've only been there twice as we were passing through to Colorado but as far as I can remember, it was very scenic and again, very beautiful.
I was born in Florida and lived there for the first few years of my life. But I live in Georgia and consider this place my home.
how about you liteal memes fucking tyrlmfao desu lmfao
>naturally bulky
>i'm basically a rectangle
>will never get to be a qt submissive bf
>>6064493
Just lose weight. Stop using excuses.
>>6064498
I'm doing a shitload of specific exercises and trying to eat as healthy as I can.
I feel like I'm just making the muscle I have bigger though.
>>6064506
If you want to look effeminate then stop forcing musclemass. Starve yourself and lose both muscle and fat. That way you will end up looking frail and 'qt'. It's not the healthiest thing but you'll achieve your look. It's also easier to lose all the weight than to maintain muscle while losing fat. Just eat less and do loads of cardio. The rest will come.
>tfw have low self-esteem
>alway worries that my personality and look isn't good enough
>don't have any courage to talk to anyone, even online
>>6064531
Post pics anon
>>6064536
Most recent pic i have right now
>>6064543
Whats on face? Calamine lotion? Paint? Hot sticky loads?
>>6064544
It's a powder, pic took from Songkarn festival
>>6064545
What kind of bf you looking for?
>>6064549
Top that i can cling onto
Because i'm needy and annoying af
>>6064556
Where you live friendo?
>>6064557
Thailand
>>6064560
Doubt many people live near you but never give up hope anon
>>6064563
Thank you anon
