why are bisexual men such awful people?
>best friend comes out as bi when I tell him I'm gay
>he was already cheating on his gf with some other girl
>I just assumed it was a straight guy thing to talk to multiple girls
>eventually he starts flirting with me
>I'm an idiot and fall for him
>keeps telling me he wants to have sex but always backs out because its "gay"
>literally holds my hand in public but will jerk it back when another person sees us
>keeps talking to his gf's and still says he loves me and wants to be with me
>Is clingy af and wont stop touching me one moment then the next day he says hes not gay
what the fugg
Am I to blame for making him feel this way or am I just too impatient to let him accept his homosexuality?
We've been "together" for about 4 months now but he keeps showing affection on and off and I'm getting sick of it.
Should I just tell him to go away until he decides who he wants to be with or just wait it out with him?
I don't want to be a pushover but also dont want to hurt him and be a cold bitch
>we're both 22
>>6040710
Male biscum here. Sorry op. :( I don't like playing with people's affection like that. I make it clear when I'm not attracted to someone.
>>6040710
Im bi and my gf lets me fuck guys sometimes because she refuses to try anal. I dont think im a bad person.
>>6040710
Let's break this down.
You willing got with someone who was in a relationship. That already makes you a bitch. "Yeah, but he was already chatting to another girl" - I don't give a shit, it's wrong.
Anyway, more general advice. They never leave their partner for you. You can try and make some point about how it's different with him, or he's not like that, but nah. They don't leave their partner for you, and they'll string you along until you get sick of it and leave or until you learn to put up with being the side ho.
Long story short, he's just discovered he's bi and he's working through his emotions by messing you around. If you want to get him anywhere you'll have to drag him kicking and screaming out of the closet and it won't end well for either of you.
Move on, Mary. He doesn't love you and you're just infatuated with him because you're getting positive attention.
>>6041200
Either she's cheating on your, she's a cuck, or your an insensitive prick.
>>6041200
That's so hot.
Im bi
>a guy i kept meeting up with for sex would tell me he is straight before or after almost every fuck session.
Eventually he told me he didnt wanna do gay shit and was basically done with me
>feels shitty
got new bf tho so im pretty over that guy
>you dont need that kind of negativity, find someone more comfortable with themselves they are more fun
>>6040710
One day just get him drunk with the intention of sucking his dick, start making advances on him, he wants to Fuck but is unsure how he will feel after, enable him.
Or be smart and just say you're straight even tho you know he's at least a little bi and try to distance yourself
>>6041246
this
>>6041200
I dont think you are either. If she really refuses. I mean thats a dream for me to get a girl to do it.
>>6040710
I am bisexual... I like dating and committing to women, they turn me on any hour of the day. I go gay when i get super horny, but prefer the female romance. I have not much success with relationships, I avoid them though I really want one. I just dont know how to approach such a lifestyle.
The guy described in OP is a dick, he has no other life. Definitely would abuse him for sex or move on.
>>6040710
Most cheating dickheads I know are all straight. Boys and girls. Bisexual people tend to have more open partners and are more horny in general imo, but this cheating bi meme needs to stop.
Your friend seems to have entered a world he doesn't quite understand yet. It took me years to understand why I was attracted to very specific people and differentiating some feelings I had for friends. I know how he must feel. Like a very hungry dog who has never eaten vegetables in his life, and is presented with meat smelling cabbage. He really wants it, but never tried anything like that and knows it's not "natural".
Sorry for the shitty comparison.
I don't know when he came out (or discovered his bisexuality) or is just in denial, but I can testify it is a very confusing moment.
Just tell him how you feel. Say you want to take it to the next level or let it down, because it's wearing you down and you don't know what to think anymore.
Well, of course, if this is how you feel.
>>6040710
Jesus fuck, seeing other gay guys so desperate is fucking depressing.
Bi guys are fine if it's just sex, just don't expect any sort of relationship or commitment. It's too easy and comfortable to settle down with a woman instead, so you will always lose out when that girl he likes comes along.
>>6041200
Why does being the side piece to a man in a heterosexual relationship have so much appeal for me as a fag? Bis are so fucking poisonous to us, yet we're consistently drawn to them.
>>6040710
Go find a different partner. You can probably get an actual person next time.
>>6040710
Yeah an entire group of people are awful based on anecdotal evidence, that's entirely how this works....
You sound like a teenage girl posting on facebook about 'how bad :(' all guys are because you're a fucking moron who ended up catching feelings for a scummy piece of shit in spite of the fact that you had ample warnings in advance that he was going to be a prick.
No, bisexuals aren't awful people. You're just a dumb naive piece of shit who decided to delude yourself because you were pathetic and starved for affection.
By your own choices you ended up in a relationship that was doomed and now you want to attach your fucking blanket label over all of them because of your own idiocy. Eat shit and kill yourself.
The way you're acting, you're never going to advance beyond being just another hole for some poor closet case to ram his cock inside. Bitch.
>>6047465
No self-esteem. That or you're secretly trans.
>>6047836
OP may be dumb and naive, but bisexuals are truly awful. They look down on fags and have ZERO concern for our feelings. They're breeders to the core and will drop you for a vacant womb the first chance they get. It's best to avoid them completely.
>>6047836
It's like any stereotype, sure it's not always true but by and large it's usually true. In my experience it's been true that bi guys are flaky and will break your heart every time. I was seeing one guy who texted me non stop, we went out to dinner a lot, and had a great relationship. That was until he met a girl and at first it was just oh she a friend and I'm a trusting guy so it didn't bother me. Then he starts talking to me less and he hangs out with her more. By the end of it he stopped talking to me with no explanation and he posts snapchats with him and the girl around town. I even told him we could still just be friends cause we had a lot of the same interests and still nothing. Just felt that I wasn't important enough to at least tell me he was moving on to someone else. Fuck bi guys, never again
>>6040710
>> bi men are all awful people
>> has a problem with 1 slutty faggot
Oh ok I gotcha op, you right
>>6048106
I've been there, anon.
One thing the experience did was make me feel a closer solidarity with my fellow homos. It would be amazing if we could somehow organize a boycott of bisexuals. Alas, modern PC culture wouldn't let us get away with it.
>>6048172
You faggots were getting dragged into the streets and beaten to death not even 50 years ago. Now you want to actively exercise discrimination against those in your own culture and lifestyle? Makes perfect sense.
>>6040710
Bis are attracted to both, so they can't have any friends. Nobody understands the cold, dark pit of loneliness and despair that is the bisexual life...most resort to sociopathy and plans of genocidal world domination to kill the PAIN...
>>6048181
You're not a part of our culture, breeder.
Fuck off.
>>6048228
Until you end up letting another bisexual fuck you because you're a desperate faggot with a very low self-concept. Only to come back on here and cry again about hot the 'eeevul bisexualz' did you wrong. You people are idots.
>>6040710
Bisexuality is an evolutionrail advantageous trait. More partners, more sex, higher libido , more babies
>>6040710
Sorry you were friends with an asshole. Some bi guys are ok. Please don't take this guy to be exemplary. We are everywhere, and lots of us are normal, monogamous creatures. But there are plenty who aren't, and plenty more who aren't yet comfortable with being out because it's pretty easy for us to stay in the closet.
>>6048223
As a bi man FUCK OFF
>be 18
>develop a crush friend's friend, turns out he's bi
>start dating him, in relationship for two years, happiest days of my life
>eventually he "grows out" of being with a guy and says he just wants "normal relationship"
>turns out he had also had an affair with a girl while being with me
>get extremely depressed and can't trust people for a long time
Never again
They're ALL sluts no exceptions
I'm bi and I'd ever consider having an actual relationship with a guy if I somehow fell madly in love with him on first sight(very unlikely) or if I wasn't able to find a woman that would be into my fetishes
>>6040710
>tfw this has been happening to me
>>6048500
As a bi man learn to take a fucking joke
>>6049131
so basically you are a degenerate
>>6048516
i have been in the same position
don't let fucking asshole ruin your life boy
>>6048500
CAN’T WAKE UP
>>6047987
>Kek intensifies
Tell yourself whatever makes you feel better, sweetie.
As far as bisexuality goes (or anything, really), don't immediately assume that all X are Y. That's how stupid shit gets spread around.
And while I know this thread appears to be about bi people in general, I haven't really seen any mention of bi women (with, so far, maybe one exception). This is basically a "we hate dudes who like vagina because reasons" thread. What is this, dumblr?
>>6049717
that's because there's no such thing as bi women, only women who claim to be bi so they can kiss girls when they're drunk so straight guys will like them
>>6050640
>there's no such thing as bi women
Wrong - there is no such thing as bi MEN.
Literally empirically proven.
>>6048149
Way too many gays have had irl issues with bis. I'm sorry if it's not PC to say there's a pattern, but bro, there's a pattern.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtL5b4PiDtM
Try me N.I.G.S.
>>6050653
So a guy can ram his dick into as many twink asses as he wants, but if he only wants ~relationships~ with women, he's still hetero?
>>6050683
shit wrong thread LOL
>>6050653
They did that study with physiological response to mainstream porn. Gay porn sucks. Thus bi men will look straight.
I'm bi and think gay porn is a pile of crap. I can only get off to straight porn and certain kinds of yaoi. Yet, I've had sex with more men than women.
>>6050693
Tell me how that example is relevant to what i stated.
>>6050704
>prison gay
By the way, awful rationalization.
Why did gay men, homosexuals, get aroused by the gay porn then?
Bi men, by definition, share the trait of finding homoerotic images/ media to be arousing - yet the study found that most's response didn't correspond with that notion.
Checkmate straight man/ prison gay/ gay person.
>>6050740
Pornographic images don't mean a thing.
Someone could easily be turned off seeing two random dudes' hairy bodies going at it but still be into getting their own personal ass rammed.
>>6050740
>Bi men, by definition, share the trait of finding homoerotic images/ media to be arousing
Kind of an odd definition, but if you want to reinterpret the word to win an argument by fiat there's nothing stopping you I guess
>>6040710
I was this way.
If you honestly really like him, give him time.
Alternative you can "leave him" and if he's worth saving he'll wise up real quick if he's worth it.
I needed a lot of time to get over my hang ups. And I can't thank them enough for patience.
>>6040710
m8, you're the slutty side hoe. You realize that, right?
>>6050704
>Gay porn sucks.
I agree which is why I only get off to amateur porn. Tumblr believe it or not has some great amateur gay porn blogs
OP, He is BISCUM.
Anyway, Leave him, he'll drop you at a moment's notice when a better fish comes along
>>6050823
passive aggressiveness won't do you any favors, but you have a fair point. Still, if gay men are aroused, bi men SHOULD be too, yet they weren't, hence the scientific conclusion.
>>6050796
So bisexuals all share the same turn off...
Stop with the excuses you call explanations. Bi men don't exist, and I quite frankly think most males who come out at bi nowadays are actually confused/ insecure straight men.
>>6048250
Why are you here?
>>6051119
To each their own, I suppose.
