Most gaybros know that the community is nothing like the media wants people to believe. We know that it isn't all cute fit guys having parties all the time.
Legbutts of all varieties - what is your worst experience with a gay man? What kind of horrible faggot trash have you seen?
I'll start
>Date guy for a year, he swears I'm the love of his life
>Everything is good until about the 6 month mark when he starts getting comfortable
>He was 35 and still waited tables
>Once, I went to work for a 12 hour shift and he locked me out of my own house because he thought I snuck out to cheat on him
>Came home every night drunk, whiskey on his breath
>Would punch holes in the wall when he was mad at me for whatever his paranoid delusion of the day was
>When I finally came to my senses and dumped him, I had to call the police to remove him from the premises
>He told me he'd post revenge porn of me and kill himself.
>I told him there's already porn of me and I'd be happy if he killed himself.
>he texted me the other day, two years after the fact, bragging about how coerced a man into divorcing his wife for him.
>He said he still thinks about me every day and wants to run off and get married.
>I asked him why he didn't kill himself yet.
>He called me 10 times and I had to file a restraining order.
I hate faggots so much.
>>6031495
>dating a 35 year old gay
unless you are/were in your 30s as well you were asking for it. Gays who are still dating in their 30s are crazy 90% of the times, which kinda sucks because that's the situation of most gay guys that age.
>>6031495
>meet guy on grindr
>hanging out at park, a little after curfew but whatever
>cops pull up to check out what we're doing
>just sitting there so I'm not too worried
>one cop recognizes my date
>they open my passenger side door and grab my date and tell him to step out of the vehicle
>they bring him behind my truck so I can't really see what's going on very well
>they end up getting in a big tussle or whatever and then push him to the ground and arrest him
>end up telling me has outstanding warrants for breaking restraining orders and it was all related to some random assault he committed in another city up north and that they're taking him
I don't know if that's necessarily bad though, I thought it was kind of fucking hilarious desu
>>6031518
Yep that's how I learned that lesson. I thought he would be stable, he tried really hard to convince everyone he was on the surface, but it all fell apart as soon as the curtains closed
>Meet a friend of a friend on facebook
>we chat and hit it off pretty quickly
>"oh by the way I'm not like other gay guys"
>ignoring this red flag we make plans
>doesn't want to do anything too "gay"(which included going to the beach, going to a regular-straight bar with a live band, and trivia night at restaurant)
>instead he wants to go to a baseball game
>oh, and he made me pay for my ticket
>call him out on it
>"if I wanted to do that I would have been straight and date girls"
Nothing too bad actually. The 'worst' was some guy on Grindr told me to check my heteronormativity (his exact words) when i complained about the legend of Korra ending. All I said was i wish they'd built up the relationship as much as they did with Korra/Mako.
I mean I've had people come on too strong and get borderline obsessive/stalkery but I think I'm just more unlucky that it being a gay issue.
>>6031616
WHO IS SHE?!
>>6031495
>Be me
>Gay
>Young
>Virgin
>Know no gay guys
>Make Grindr profile
>Immediately delete profile
>Continue Vidya
Nothing to see here.
>>6031616
>trst
i-i won't force you to dumb sport games, date m-me
>>6031616
I would be alright paying my own way but not going to straight bars is kekworthy, unless you meant that as a typo and meant gay bars, in which case okay I guess I understand.
>>6031616
>not going to bars with live music because you're afraid that someone will insinuate that hanging with a bro is homoerotic
Jesus what a sad man
>>6031495
pic related?
>>6031495
>>He was 35 and still waited tables
Oh how horrid, that must have been so shameful for you gurl.
You should get with one of those cute fit guys that parties all the time instead.
>>6032515
Not just that, but
>being gay and caring about doing "gay" things
>>6033204
Nothing wrong with being a waiter, but when you're playing the dating field you're going to want to weigh up your options. A waiter will barely be able to afford to pay rent in a shared room in a bed sit, much less go on dates with you if you don't pay for everything
>>6033224
I know right, we all know that gays are all successful and makes six digit salaries. Its an outrage to be anything less then a lawyer or a real estate agent.
>>6033253
Nice strawman. I'm not a wealthy man and can't afford to pay for two people on dates. So if I'm dating a waiter (like my ex), we can't afford to go to the pub, or go to a restaurant, or go to the movies. All we can afford it to sit in his bedroom and get high (more often than not with weed he got me to pay for). And he shared his bedroom with another bloke, because every room in that house besides the kitchen and bathroom had at least two beds in, because he was a waiter and in no way could afford any semblance of a decent place to live. So enjoy having to barter with his room mate to have the room to yourself so you can hook up.
You're a fucking idiot if I'm saying that money is the be all and end all. If you're looking to date, and you have the option of many different people, it just makes sense to tend towards people who can also pay for themselves on dates. If I was better off it wouldn't be an issue because then I could just pay for them, but I'm not so it is.
>>6033277
>being this triggered over a troll on 4chan
>>6031495
>Be 16 and bi
>Decided to check out the lgbt club
>filled with annoying flaming faggots
>like they were really forcing it
>leave because they annoy the shit outta me
>the president being the the faggiest of all thinks it's ok to grab girls boobs
>gets expelled or arrested for sexual assault
>mfw
Why do fags take things to far? Like be flamboyant if you want just don't fag about it
>>6033224
That's actually horribly incorrect. I know bartenders and waittresses that rake in thousands on weekends if you work in the right place. One of the bartenders I know gets about $800- $1500 in tips each night on a Friday and Saturday just cause the bar he works at is ridiculously busy, like solid 1 to 2 hour lineups at the door when the dinner rush hits.
>have sister
>used to play vidya together
>watch NBA/NFL together
>we were inseparable
>in high school was straight she only had one boyfriend
>always hang out with me
>2 months in USC and she broke up with him and "came out" as a lesbian
>now she is barely home
>only time she's able to hang out with me is when she or... the other is on their period
How do I turn my sister back straight? I want my sister back...
>>6033718
rape her
that's what they do in Africa at least
>>6033723
No you sicko. I am thinking about going to see her boyfriend. They are from the same college, and help him convince her there is no future with her acting like that.
>>6033738
>wanting to control his sister's decisions on who she has sex with
>I'm the sicko
OK buddy
I got a story actually.
>be me, senior year of HS
>somehow this fag in my school finds out i'm gay
>hits me up on fb messenger and tries to chat me up
>asks me for dick
>fuck off
>this fucker hits me up for the rest of the year, I go to New Hampshire that summer for work, I come back and the nigga STILL has the audacity to hit me up when I get back in town
>what the fuck is wrong with this dude
>I block him and have not seen or heard from him since
What to fuck. I told this dude too many times before so eventually I just told him to fuck the fuck off.
>>6033863
I have no idea how some dudes are clingy as fuck without any actual interaction
>>6033708
>That's actually horribly incorrect. I know bartenders and waittresses that rake in thousands on weekends if you work in the right place.
This is not common for waiters or bartenders
I'm not gay but I have two gay friends in a relationship and one of them is clearly sick in the head.
They fight constantly and theres holes in every wall in their house. It's pathetic desu. Faggots are the worst.
>>6031495
> be on Growlr
> happy to reply to most people
> be 21, UK
> guy, 40, USA, talks to me
> talk, exchange a few compliments
> never discuss what the future has in hold
> talks of flying me over, all expenses paid
> sends videos and voice clips all the time
> "I didn't get a morning message from you today :(" he says
> "Angels and Airwaves, our band, have a new..."
> our band
> our
How can people get this fucking clingy? I've known him for about two weeks?
>>6034062
>rich daddy offers to pay for holiday
Girl, you don't have to like him or want to be with him, if he's at least moderately attractive milk that shit for all it's worth.
>>6034073
> Girl
Please, I'm far from it.
There's more to it than a free holiday, all expenses paid. What about the sexual and romantic attraction that ensues? What if he develops more feelings and becomes more attached?
Judging from how attached he is already, he could easily lose his shit/marbles and that would put me in a situation that I don't want to be in, e.g. him cancelling my return flight and me not being able to afford to return.
He communicates with me as if we're married. I've complimented him before, but have never said I'm interested in a relationship (my profile does, and doesn't specify age, but he was 19/20 when I was conceived...).
Well the strangest thing I have ever seen was actually more pathetic than creepy.
Some guy in his early 40s with glitter on his face at a gay-bar ... "He said he did this because he hoped to gain at least some attention"
Makes me cringe every time I think about it, who knows maybe in 15 years I'm as desperate as him. I would rather shoot myself.
>>6034106
>What about the sexual and romantic attraction that ensues? What if he develops more feelings and becomes more attached?
Not your problem. Use him. It's no big deal if you hurt him - he got himself into this situation - and people have sucked dick for a lot less.
>Judging from how attached he is already, he could easily lose his shit/marbles and that would put me in a situation that I don't want to be in, e.g. him cancelling my return flight and me not being able to afford to return.
Just be a charming sweetheart and don't let on your obvious disgust until you're back home. Keep it going a while and he might buy you nice things.
>>6034112
That's the strangest thing you've ever seen? A bloke with glitter on his face? What a dull life you must lead
>>6034119
The holiday might be nice (Seattle, WA, USA), but if you have to spend it with someone you don't really want to, is it worth it?
> he might buy you nice things
> might
He may pay for food and whatnot, but beyond that..?
>>6034176
Duh, get him to really like you then scam him. "oh no I can't make rent this month", "oh no I got in a car crash and insurance won't cover it". Make it believable and you can rinse him for cash.
>>6034127
Well sorry, it was the strangest thing I've seen within the gay-scene.
The strangest thing in real life happend when to me at the time when I worked as a paramedic. I saw an old woman that was scratching scab off her face till half of it was nothing more than a skinnless bloody mess.
>>6034215
Lel, that's a bit far-fetched anon. I'm not like that.
>>6032176
Are you me?
>>6034255
Wow you must be great at parties. Boring, humorless AND uncomfortably morbid.
>>6034301
Can we make out already ;)
>>6034303
We're not eachothers' types. It would never work.
>>6034330
Nah, you two are. One who feels superior to others over the internet and the other is boring. Literally match made in heaven since y'all both retarded as fuck.
>>6034388
But I AM superior, and superior to both of you. So instead of being jealous, why don't you two worry about how stereotypically gay it makes you look to go fuck yourselves?
>>6034423
>>6031518
I'm a young dude who ends up finding older guys attractive more often than not....I hope you're wrong but thats wishful thinking
>>6034501
I'm the same, man. I hope I'm wrong too, but experience has told me otherwise.
A thing you can do is to date someone who looks older than he really is.
>>6034485
>insecurity: the post
Gay men...
my experience is if I don't let them put their dick in my butt, they get hurt, emotional(?) and drop me
I went through a slut phase, I just don't get off on fucking in the first hours of talking...
Then there's the ones that love to compliment me, I like to be fit so of course I'm going to be looked at in a lustful way.. yet again they'll talk to me, drop innuendos, and I just kinda let them do that till they get tired of talking to me
but mostly I have a difficult time committing to a relationship... never been in anything exclusive, I've always just kept things casual
so it's more me than anyone else, my thing is I just don't feel the rush to commit to something serious, I've got my own plans and I just don't see myself tied down because what if it gets serious and my plans go one way and their plans go another, then it's gonna end
>>6034215
You're an asshole. How could you ever do something like that and not feel guilty?
>>6035072
easy you just have to realize that these people would do the same to you
>going steady with hot burly dude
>fucking every night with protection
>finally i let him fuck me without a condom, I trust him finally
>as he finishes in me, he tells me he's poz
>never talks to me again
>turns out he does this to a lot of people
now im hiv positive...
>>6035234
U lucky gurl
U got the gift now
>>6035234
>>6035072
It's like being a prostitute, but smarter. You do what you have to in order to get by. Half the time they know you're using them and are ok with it, the other half... well, if they're that foolish then someone else was going to scam them anyway.
You're not even really scamming them. They offer you stuff like a fully paid flight because they want the fantasy of a boyfriend, which is exactly what you deliver them. They know by keeping it long distance it reduces the time they spend with you, so they can build you up on a pedestal and not risk their platonic ideal getting undermined by anything too real. Why do you think they message people in other countries to begin with? Even if they're not conscious of why they're doing it, it's a large part of the motivation. Don't pity those men, they're beneath contempt.
>>6035343
>Its like being a prostitute but smarter
That is an insult towards prostitutes.
(good) Prostitutes are honest and fair people. They provide a service and they get paid for it, its a nice deal for every party involved.
People who use other people like how you suggest are the lowest of the low. Fucking scum
>>6035497
Wake up, sweetheart, the world's full of scum. You've just got to do what you need to get by. I'm sure I've hurt some soft hearted fools along the way, but I've managed to keep myself in a fairly comfortable lifestyle throughout rough patches, and I spend my downtime with people I actually like.
This is only one step removed from being a trophy wife. You think a 22 year old underwear model and a 70 something millionaire really have all that much in common?
>>6034294
is that really such an unfathomably unique experience
>>6032176
It's ok it happened to me too.
>>6035234
will always laugh @ this
>>6035521
how can you be comfortable with your lifestyle when it involves hurting other people? :(
So sad.
>this thread
>>6035606
Seconding this. Scum like him doesn't just demean him but all of us.
It's like there's no limit to what awful things you can rationalize as just or fair.
>>6035521
>Wake up, sweetheart, the world's full of scum.
So why are you contributing to that and not trying to make it better?
>>6035521
The fact that the world is full of scum could never rationalise what you are doing to other innoccent people who are trying to make a living.
You are a part of the fucking problem.
>>6034922
>I went through a slut phase
Then you're only entitled to dating other used up sluts. So stop fucking whining
>>6043155
>homo trying to have morals
kek
>>6043168
>I like cock therefore I can be an amoral degenerate STD-bag
>fuck this random Grindr guy two years ago
>he is kind of not my type but meh
>he adds me on Facebook, he constantly asks me to fuck him again, he even suggests/jokes about money in exchange
>I just laugh it off, never giving him any chances
>during two years we never see each other again, we randomly talk about drag race and gay shit like that, while he stills makes jokes about me fucking him again
>fast forward to two weeks ago
>a friend in common is having a birthday party, we make plants about going together
>day of the party he is getting increasingly "romantic" with his messages
>tell him that we will going out "as friends"
>hell breaks loose, he cries on the phone because he is "very superficial and not having something to do no a Saturday is the worst thing ever" (verbatim) and says he is going to fuck me over if he ever sees me again.
>wut
Now I am fucking livid about this behavior because he actually is a project partner in some indie films lab shit with the guy I am currently dating. This can only go wrong
>>6043168
>Unlike the icky-icky gay-gays, I can have morals
Hahaa nice one Anon-chan! : ^ )
>be stupid 20 year old
>meet cute twink off grindr
>he wants it raw
>fuck him raw cus I'm stupid
>finish and he says "let's get a real man to show you now"
>Starts looking for another guy to top him
>realize I've made a horrible mistake
>faggot comes out in high school
>i notice he mirin at me
>this was back in myspace days
>post on myspace local bulliton board thing
>a thread about gays
>say that being gay is a choice
>stupid blonde girl agrees with me
>everyone starts agreeing with me
>he gets butthurt
>he doesnt know im bi
>end up fucking his best female friend at his house while he watches anime
>>6035606
...and? Everything you do hurts other people. The only reason we have cheap clothes and cheap food is because we fuck over third world countries. Not even trying to be an edgelord or sjw, it's just a fact of life, and when shit really starts hitting the fan in a couple years we're all going to abandon the bleeding hard stance and really twist the nice in other countries to keep our standard of living up. You do what you have to for survival.
>>6042400
>>6043081
>>6043133
Oh boo hoo. What does being nice do exactly? If I'd been all simpering and gone "Oh I can't take your money, I don't like you in that way" then I'd have a nice little halo over my head and jack shit to show for it.
I'm fiscally sorted now, thankfully, so I'm not going to be manipulating anyone because I don't need to. Everyone thinks I'm a charming sweetheart with a heart of gold because I don't need to fight for anything right now. In fact I'm quite generous with my money. Did I feel a little bit guilty about fucking these guys around? Yeah, a little, but it's not like they were short of cash and anyway what did they really expect? Like I said, what I did isn't really any different from a 22 year old gold digger who marries an old millionaire and pretends to be in love with him. My approach was just more short term.
>>6043363
You're a literal fucking sociopath. I sincerely hope you get fucked over yourself one day.
>>6043196
>we make plants
Anon, don't forget to bring seeds, water and maybe pesticides.
and also fertilizer, that shit is good for plants
>>6043466
I don't think I am, because I do have affective empathy. Although apparently sociopaths exhibit some affective empathy whereas psychopaths exhibit none at all, but who knows?
I don't think scamming a few wealthy and deluded gay men is that bad, really. What do you think about immigrants, anon? Do you think we need border controls and to turn economic migrants away and send them back to their shithole countries? Well, that's not very empathetic of you, is it? Oh wait, if you let them all in, it'd trash the economy and make things worse for you, so you couldn't possibly... so let's just fuck these people over so I can have a better life. Oh look, we're in the same place.
I probably am not going to get scammed, because I already assume the worst in people and am not going to naively fall for the same tricks I used to pull. I think I'll be just fine.
>>6044020
Nah, I'm able to talk through what I'm thinking rather than ignoring something or trying to brush it under the rug. I'm a bad person but I don't pretend otherwise, like most people do.
>meet dude who hangs with friends
>spend more time with them
>nearly pass out at his house after a dab
>suddenly im his boyfriend
>just in time for his birthday
> -$200
>hes in love after 2 weeks
>i dont even like me that much
>sex was terrible
>he was big but could stay hard
>he had a hairy ass that was never prepped
>escape
>1 year later
>he still asks my friends about me
>he had his mom bring me food after a facebook post
>I dont know if i can ever date a man again
>>6043254
What did he mean by that?
>>6034255
>shoehorning emsl stories into conversation that no one asked for or cares about
classic paramedic
>>6048313
he wanted anon to stay and watch another guy fuck him bareback
>>6031495
I used to hang out with the furry fandom. (USED to. I got 900% sick of their shit.)
> Meet a guy
> Hit it off, hang out as friends
> Turns out, he's a femboy. I'm definitely into that.
> Not into him, though. Northern, smoker, short and round, couldn't handle banter.
> Eventually, he decides he's trans
> Sure, whatever. I was gonna take him shopping for girly clothes anyway
> Take him shopping for lots of girly clothes, try to refer to him as her. Mostly succeed.
> Suddenly, older guy appears
> Buys lots of stuff for him
> Some for me too, because friends
> Kinda creepy
> Gets tranny girlfriend, who is also included in the buying-stuff-for
> qt ginger post-op, so I help her move to his place.
> Eventually, drama happens due to said older guy
> Meet new people through furries, get on well with one in particular because we're both autists
> Relationship drama!
> Tranny leaves on the spot due to 'narcissism', turns everyone against everyone
> I block her and disregard her on the spot because I have no patience for that shit
> Northernfag starts dating autist girl we met earlier
> Then gets mad because I treat her better than he does, and get on better with her than he does
> Mostly because I'm nice to friends, and like doing things with people who I share interests with
> Northernfag breaks up brolationship over this
> Forbids girlfriend from speaking to me because I'm a voice of reason
> Not heard from any involved since, because that's what dropped me out of the furry fandom as a whole
> Northernfag dropped from circle of friends, because they decide I'm nicer.
