>transgirl
>no one wants to date me because I'm trans!!!
>you're interested in me? eeew tranny chaser pervert!!!
This is what mental illness looks like
>>5987250
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>>5987250
It's called having standards and finding a healthy well rounded medium. It's just hard when all you get are cis men who like to look at you like a sexual object.
no i'm not your fuck toy. sex is only a fraction of what defines me. if you can't find me attractive for other reasons than sex then you belong in the trash.
>>5987250
>Not knowing what sets you apart from guys that are genuinly interested
Did it ever occur to you that there's more than sex in a relationship? Of course not, you're a chaser. You wish we were so mentally handicapped that we'd let you take advantage, but that's your fantasy, not reality.
>>5987261
>It's called having standards
exactly why you only get those people, because the one with standards don't date freaks
>>5987306
You sure it's us being the undesireable ones here? I think you're projecting pretty hard.
>>5987261
Isn't this how cis men see cis women though?
>>5987261
>if you can't find me attractive for other reasons than sex then you belong in the trash.
what the shit
have you even ever been a man?
this is not how men work
>>5987333
i'm projecting why i don't date trannies if that's what you mean
>>5987250
Is it too much to ask for a cute boyfriend or girlfriend? All chasers are really ugly beta chubsters or creepy looking. I don't mind if they find me sexually attractive but would it kill you to care about how you present yourself?
>>5987250
Except chasers vastly underestimate the action those of us who pass can get from people who aren't mentally and physically hideous as them.
>>5987250
>This is what mental illness looks like
No shit, sherlock.
Even if they changed the name to "gender dysphoria" it's still classified in the DSM-V.
It sounds like a mental illness because it is. Just not for the reasons you complain about though.
>>5987250
sounds like a rejected chaser, if its any consolation I don't mind chasers as long as they want to do more things besides sex like going on trips and hanging out. Its your guys fault for having the reputation of fucking and then leaving.
>>5987489
>>5987377
>>5987458
if we're being fair here, I'm pretty decent looking, not a model or anything, but I keep myself clean shaved, dress nice, go to the gym 5 times a week, and have a steady job and income, and the girl that accused me of being a "chaser" was passable, I didn't even know she was trans until she brought it up accusing me of being a trans chaser
>>5987498
>was passable
That is a dick thing to say. Do you know how hard it is to pass in real life? You are invalidating the lives of transgirls like me all because we don't look like supermodels.
>>5987507
#notsureiftrollingormentallyill
>>5987516
How am I trolling? Chasers want to say how much of a good guy they are and then they unload with unrealistic expectations of what they want, not every mtf is fortunate enough to look like Sarina Valentina.
>>5987524
Kind of missing the point that I had no idea that she was mtf until SHE brought it up and made a big deal out of it
i don't think being interested in trans girls sexually makes you a 'chaser.' just not everyone only wants the hook-up, ya feel me.
everyone should try to be nicer to each other and stop throwing 'mentally ill' or 'frustrated beta' around. :)
>>5987531
oh, well fuck her then for passing so well and not disclosing her trans status
>>5987507
>>5987524
Are you insane? Chasers like MtFs BECAUSE they don't pass, if anything.
They like the failed transition to be visible, they want their fetish on full display, until they rip off even that feeble illusion that clothing were barely keeping up already, and reveal the 100% clearly male body underneath (barely noticeable HRT changes nonwithstanding, lol).
People who go after 100% passing mtfs aren't 'chasers'. They're straight guys. Straight guys who sometimes gets surprises.
>>5987544
does that mean you would date me?
>>5987557
I'm not a chaser, I'm just someone who abandoned all hope in life after realizing it was too late for a transition.
Succesful transitioners make me white hot in a boiling tar pit of envy, and failed ones just disgust me in the way they slap me in the face with a peek in the only destiny awaiting me.
So that would make my reply a no.
Still waiting on a hon that looks like an old mom with a young man fetish to adopt me
>>5987572
uh oh repression
trust me I have it the worst off as anyone when it comes to passing and I still would rather die then to not transition, why didn't you try to transition, how old are you?
>>5987540
yeah...she honestly kind of put me off transgirls, at least for now, I've never really had anything against trans people, to me personality is what matters, if I'm dating a girl, I'm dating a girl, even if that girl was born a boy, like if I'd found out later that she was trans, it'd be a surprise, but I wouldn't have kicked her out or flipped out on her or anything, would have just been like "Oh, uh, ok"
>>5987572
If you chose not to transition simply because of fear about 'passing' then I seriously doubt you were trans to begin with.
>>5987589
>>5987602
I'm 23.
And before you start with that bullshit "It's worth it if you love yourself!" no it's fucking not.
I will never be treated as a woman.
I will never feel the joy of being found attractive.
I will never feel 'protected' by anyone
I will never get to walk in the street without being seen as an abomination
Transitioning now would mean losing everything without getting ANYTHING in return.
Why transition when you can't pass?
My dysphoria is my disgust towards my male body and role in society and how it firewalls me from anything good that might happen in my life.
How would a botched transition help me in ANY way?
I will still see a man in the mirror
I will still be seen as a man by others
I will still be treated as one by everyone
I don't get you terf truscum. I really don't.
You act like the only joy in transition should be knowing you're taking poorly processed estrogen, and that everyone daring to want more than a sheltered life of solitude must be an AGP whose only goal is jerking off in panties.
>>5987617
not that anon, but do you want to talk? you seem really upset and I don't like seeing people upset, if you think talking about anything might make you feel better, I'll gladly listen
>>5987644
>not that anon, but do you want to talk?
I don't see what that would accomplish.
I'm just profoundly disgusted by people like that, who have to somehow validate the way they've ruined their own lives by saying that whoever doesn't do the same isn't entitled to their own sadness.
>>5987261
>hello i am a man and i am interested in women
>perfectly normal human being
>hello i am a man and i am interested in trans women
>Disgusting objectifying caser creep
I don't get this
>>5987617
I thought just like you and it made me repress harder until a bullet jammed in my gun and I decided to transition at 25, now 26. I refused to listen to anyone but let me tell you that it will only get worse if you put transition off. You are totally still young enough to pass.
>>5987681
>You are totally still young enough to pass.
That's another bullshit factoid that people will push.
Age is just a number. How well you pass isn't tied to how many years you got, it's based on how you look.
A guy transitioning at 25 could look better than someone who did at fucking 16 if the genetics were right in the first and horribly wrong in the second.
I'm not pulling opinions out of my ass, I've already done the whole hollabaloo of psychologist, psychiatrist and the slew of surgeons they have specialized in this shit, and they said that I'm clearly ill, but if I transition I have to be prepared for it not reaching even close to what I'd consider satiasfactory.
What do you get from a botched transition? I see this said all the time by hons, "I was scared but I did it anyway and boy am I swell".
What do you get out of being indistinguishable from a crossdressing man?
How did transitioning change anything for you that couldn't be obtained anyway without the aid of hormones?
>>5987663
>>5987338
This. I'm trans myself and I hate this 'objectifying' bullshit that other trans complain about. I was a boy for 18 years and it's easy to see that personality is second in most relationships. "Chasers" are simply people who can actually deal with us, it doesn't matter if it's a fetish or not.
I honestly just want a Trans girlfriend with ridiculous tits and ass her own friends and hobbies outside of the internet
she doesn't have to actually be that attractive just not Hon tier
like "looking trans" is fine as long as you don't look straight up like a guy ie Brenda wong or whatever her name is
like lots of people think most south american trans women don't pass well because they all look like they are trans which i kind of like.
>>5987663
i mean this is completely fine if you don't just want a quick nut. if you're genuinely interested in a trans girl, even if sex is a large part of it, ur fine. some just use it as a way of saying 'i'm not interested and i also want to shame you'
>>5987813
Most fake tits look lile shit tho. Learn to love flat my man
>>5987617
This all is a collection of cognitive distortions that only work to maintain the status quo (i.e. envy towards tgirls, need to be read as cis female always, all the other 'I never will do x' garbage). Life is what you make of it. Transition has negative consequences, I'll admit that. It's also erased my dysphoria and helped me pursue what felt like dreams pre-transition. Not to say that transition has cured me of any suffering. It's made my experience in life more complicated. But I am able to love and be loved more deeply because I live as my true authentic self
Yes, people still judge. It can be awkward if you have low self-esteem (I had it) but you become confident and empowered in the end if you make it through the first year of HRT.
>>5987713
>What do you get out of being indistinguishable from a crossdressing man?
Well actually I am starting to pass more and more. You don't give hrt enough credit. Also hons that you are afraid of turning into do not put any effort into transition, if you want to turn out hot then be prepared for the long haul.
Also ask around here, I was worse than you in repression to the point I used to spam trans threads with gore and call everyone freaks.
>yfw trannies spend their entire day arguing over transhit
>yfw their lives revolve around their sexuality and gender
>yfw they waste all their time on transhit instead of actually doing something productive
that feel when not a meme.
>>5987875
>tfw taking hrt, getting electrolysis, and going to college
>tfw using 4chan passes the time very quickly
>tfw few more months to graduate and go full time
>tfw you have no clue transition is a waiting game
>>5987887
Please don't get SRS. If you gotta do anything, do the one where you cut your balls off
>>5987907
I plan on getting full srs. I always wanted a vagina of my very own.
>>5987982
Nah girl keep as many nerve endings as you can and just hold out. Medicine is so close, you just gotta w8.
>>5987333
Well, transgender people are mentally ill so yeah they are undesirable.
>>5987250
.... I guess? I just hate a success date with a transgirl who only startesd transition about 5 months ago. We're meeting again Saturday.
Calm down, not every dude is after your weewee. You can tell pretty fast if they are.
>>5988002
You do know they never sever the nerves right? Good surgeons keep the cock head attached to the nerves and relocate it to the clit and also form a gspot at the back of the vag inside but they never actually cut it free from its nerves or blood supply. Also I don't use my god forsaken penis and I do prostate simulation and I always orgasm stronger from it anyway.
Why is there so much misinformation about srs here?
>>5988052
because it's dank meme, just like all trans girls.
>7yrs HRT
you come back to earth eventually, and then it's pretty cozy
>>5988052
>Also I don't use my god forsaken penis and I do prostate simulation and I always orgasm stronger from it anyway.
That's fine. Put it in a chastity cage.
Anything as long as you don't get SRS cause it grosses me out.
>>5988052
It's not that, it's simply that 'cosmetic' surgery is one of the quickest growing fields of medicine and eventually the costs of it will dip, more insurances will begin to cover SRS, everything will improve.
>>5988067
>Put it in a chastity cage.
What? You can't tuck a penis in a cage, I leave it free and shaved so I can push my balls inside me and tape it back making a pretty nice looking crotch once I am in my panties and I am getting srs like it or not, you probably haven't seen Dr. Suporns work, it is nice.
>>5988072
Or I could go to the best in the world and get it over with.
>>5988112
Sorry. It could look exactly like a female vagina, but any kind of penis surgery makes me supremely flaccid.
>>5987875
Worse than / tv/ where our lives revolves are capeshit
>>5988139
someone's gay
>>5988181
Regular vaginas aren't surgically misplaced penises.
>>5987834
nothing grosser than flat chest
i like fake tits even when they look like shit
>>5988229
I feel bad for you bro
>>5987250
It's a stupid approach. I'm a tranny and my bf is kind of a chaser probably then, but he truly loves me and is my best friend and a soulmate to me. I'm treated like a princess or some shit :'3
>>5987250
>>>you're interested in me? eeew tranny chaser pervert!!!
they only say that if you're their definition of ugly
>>5989609
All chasers are ugly. There isnt one chaser that could be defined attractive unless you have really low standards or are just a liar. You all look like some form of George Constanza but with terrible facial hair and sometimes worse than that. Sorry that some trans girls arent the easy target you hoped them to be.
>>5989630
I don't chase trannies but thanks for making my point for me, female impersonator.
>>5989659
Oh how you have hurt me so. I'm going to go rethink my life now. Thank you and good night my kind double chinned sir.
>>5989684
Made all the worse when you consider it's some cis straight tard in a Sonic costume who is a virgin talking to himself. Including the post I'm responding to.
>>5989695
me too
>>5989695
Thats some paranoid imagination you have there. Might want to go get tested for a few mental illnesses yourself.
Why do people talk like chasers actually like and respect trans girls in the same ways straight men do for cis girls? Most don't. Most just use us as a quick fuck and wouldn't consider a ltr with a trans girl. Hell, just look at how quick they are to toss low blows about you being trans when they get buttmad about being rejected. Shit like that is a serious red flag that those kind of men are not the kind of people you want to date.
Only someone with legit autism wouldn't be able to understand why trannies dislike most chasers. It's like if a burn victim was looking for a romantic partner and the only people they could find were burn victim fetishists that only liked that person for something that ruined their life, yet somehow that person is wrong for not wanting to date those kind of people.
>>5989803
as a complete outsider, to me, it seems like it is thrown around even if the attraction doesn't extend into "fetishism." and rejected guys will always find their way to say 'lol whatever u uglee anyway'
Hahaha the delusion of some trans women is insane. If a guy shows interest they're obviously a chaser creep, he shows interest to someone else then "omg why can't I ever have a guy like me" some of you really do have the mentality of women. Maybe being female is the mental disease. Sincerely a bi dude.
>>5989803
>actually like and respect trans girls in the same ways straight men do for cis girls?
guys want to bang women, not like and respect them. that comes with developing a long-lasting relationship.
