Bisexual Thread?
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
>First same sex partner?
>First sexual experience?
Op here, also stories are cool to
Bi Cis Man
When i was sure? 1, but where there signs before... Like when a male friend, sucia my cock with 17 or when with i get my firts crush in a man.
Well, my firts ex bf is "pansexual", and the reason of wich i recognized my bisexuality, not, my relationship with pansexual also is the reason of why i believe pansexuals are just Bisexuals who want to be special.
With 17 with a blinde cure boy friend, he suck my cock in a summer, of course "no homo", he has a girlfriend right now, meanwhile i'm virgin with females.....
That one with my friend, as i say, the two of us where "straight".
These threads never last. Good luck.
Bump. Will post tomorrow!
>>5977113
> Some time in my early 20s
> This guy I met in portland when I was moving up there. Then nobody for a long time, then a girl I was in a LDR with about a year ago. Now I'm out
> Still haven't had one :(
> Eating a girl out in high school
>>5977113
Like 8. Had fantasies about *sigh* Raimundo and Kimiko from xiaolin showdown. It's all childish and nonsexual, but I definitely wanted to see both with less clothes on etc.
Mother. She was very confused. She has since grown extremely supportive and I'd say it's pulled us together. Dad got drawn in when my mother found out I was having sexual experiences and needed to turn to someone, and he's not happy at all. I have to bend over backwards to placate him so he doesn't disown me.
God I don't know. If childhood counts it's probably some poor kid I played with in 5th grade. We ran around hugging each other. It was cute, but it ended and I kinda felt bad for him because I totally dropped him like a fucking rock.
I fell for one of those creepy older men on grindr. He sucked me off in his living room. I still feel dirty about it. There's no need to make it special, but for the love of Christ at least make sure it's with someone within 5 years of your age instead of a 30 year difference like me! At least he wasn't graying or wrinkly. I definitely would not have been able to nope out of there as a fresh-faced 19 year old virgin.
First "actual" sexual experience was a MMF threesome with a married couple. Very hot. This is the one I tell people about.
>>5977113
would always hug and be really touchy with my friends when I was young. dad yelled at me to stop because that wasn't appropriate behavior, always talked bad about gay people etc.
fast forward to being about 13/14, on the internet, discover porn. discover furry porn, cocks everywhere. dont click out of it. intrigued. whack it to mix of straight/gay porn for the next 4 years or so until high school, really kinda confused about my sexuality, think i might be a little gay but maybe not in real life. in relationship with a girl at school, but fell for a gorgeous Brazilian exchange student (male) and fooled around with him, making out, blowjobs and such. this was age 18. he went back to brazil, broke up with girlfriend when i was 19. first person i told was my closest friend, he said whatever man, that's awesome, do what makes you happy.
now 23, in a healthy, amazing relationship with muh boyfriend, love him more than ive ever loved anyone and i know he feels the same about me. doesnt say it much because i always tell him not to, but mentions marriage every now and then. i hate saying that shit because i feel it's still too soon to talk about, just a little over a year in this relationship. i know he's dead set in his mind though, he's the type of person that sees what they want, and will get it. i could see myself marrying him. probably will. he's a keeper.
lost most of my interest in girls, but still fap to 'em. vagina is pretty gross though. i could stick my dick in it but could never ever go down on a girl. only went down on my gf once or twice.
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
would finger myself when i masterbated in the shower when i was like 15-16
in denial/didnt act upon for a long while, i did get anal toys when i was like 19 kept doing that for years, didnt meet up with a man till i was 26.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
I'm still in the closet IRL. I just dont want to have to tolerate jokes from family, they are ultra critical.
the minecraft server im a mod on knows im bi
>First same sex partner?
me 26, him 19 y.o. cute mexican dude. met on omegle, he sucked me off in my car
>First sexual experience?
um... hmm ok first gf, redhead who doesnt wear panties. im 16 i think. musta been i was driving.
go in brothers car to a parking lot, she gets naked 0-100 1.9 seconds ZOMG i take my cloths off, get in position to fuck her..."What are you doing"
>What do you mean were naked in the back seat arent we gunna....
we end up just fooling around hj i think
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
17 when I realized it. Was pretty much bi all my life.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Two of my closest irl friends knew first. Now, all my irl friends, some people in my performing art class (told them over the weekend), and my cousin, who's FtM. They've all been supportive. ^.^
>First same sex partner?
Haven't had one yet. I live in an ultra conservative area. Only know of one other guy who's gay, but we don't get along well.
>First sexual experience?
When I was about 15. Ate out a girl I knew. Kinda was a "Friends with Benefits" thing with her for a while.
>>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
About 14
>>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
I never put it into solid terms but I told my 3 best friends on the train into town. Two were fine but the third 'friend' (who took advantage of me and molested me at every oppotunity) ended up cutting all contact with me over the next 2 weeks.
>>First same sex partner?
My new best friend, we were 16
>>First sexual experience?
It was either with my new best friend or a pedo I met off of /b/
I definitely prefer women in terms of being able to find them attractive but when it comes to sex I think I'm better with men despite not really finding them that attractive. I can't see myself being in a relationship with a woman out of fear and convenience.
>>5977113
Bi Cis female
Think I was fourteen when I finally realised, had been masturbating to women since I was like, eleven tho
First person i told was my mother. Being fifteen at the time, she told me it was probably just a phase. A year later, I told her I still considered myself bisexual and in fact there was a girl I liked and she kinda went " oh, okay. As long as you're happy" Father had the same reaction.
First same sex partner was a girl I was friends with at school. She was my first lesbian kiss, and later on my first lesbian sex. Never dated, just fooled around.
first sexual experience was sucking a dude's cock in a blanket fort in my bedroom. Later proceeded to 69 him in a forest. Good times. I've never had a serious relationship with a member of the same sex and I'm currently dating a man. But I could be very happy with either a husband or a wife in the future
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Started having crushes on guys when I was about 14. Knew it was "wrong" since fags routinely got beat up at my school ("fags" being anyone who wasn't a jock).
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Don't remember who the first was. Probably a guy on a bisexual forum I joined.
>First same sex partner?
I was 53 (yes, that's right. 39 years in the closet), he was 35. Exchanged oral (with condoms. yeah, I was new at this). About a month later he was the first guy to fuck me.
>First sexual experience?
First oral - guy above
First time fucking a guy - few weeks after that. Guy was over 6 feet tall and I'm 5-7. The geometry of that was mind boggling.
First time getting fucked - same guy as first blow job. his cock was 4.5" and I had already used bigger toys on me so it wasn't very good. Plus he was more of a bottom so he didn't get into it much.
>>5985137
I guess I should add that my first "real" sexual experience was with a girlfriend when I was 17 and she was 16. She was almost a sex addict. Had sex every time we got together. I actually told her we should probably cut back since I didn't want her to feel like I was just using her for sex. I'll never forget her response... "I'm using YOU for sex."
Anyone here with any experiences relating to coming out as bi to their partner?
What kind of responses have you guys had?
The worst I had (I'm a Cis female)
>What? So you're into guys too?
She went on to express fears of me cheating on her because being bi means I have my eyes on everyone
And my current bf was basically just excited because he thought it gave him the 'right' to ask for an FFM threesome. Not a bad response but kind of a let down at the same time.
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Kinda knew at 15. Repressed it until 22 or so
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Guy online. He was bi also
>First same sex partner?
Never (30 now)
>First sexual experience?
Never (30 now)
>>5977113
>How old we you
18
Although I was on to it a year or two before. I would often have homosexual thoughts but then be like "nah I'm straight tho" and force myself to jack off to straight porn to assure that I am straight and make sure "the devil didn't get to me."
I was pretty right wing in high school
When I shipped of to college I became a lot more liberal and saw a lot of hot guys and I was like "yeah I'm bi"
>first person you told?
my group chat of my closest friends on facebook. Two of them were super supportive but the other one kept calling me faggot. He ended up coming out like a week later because I did. He still calls me faggot. I think he just likes the bantz
>First same sex p-
V I R G I N
I'm scared I'm full gay though. My parents would lynch me and my life would be so much more difficult if I don't have the option to just marry a woman. I don't really get turned on by straight stuff anymore though so I think I may not even be bi
>>5987308
It's interesting you say that (that last bit) I consider myself bi but rarely ever find men attractive but I know most of my relationships will be them
At least if I'm with men I won't have to come out to parents y'know? I can find a man attractiveness I only ever fantasise or think about women but but I feel it's harder to meet same sex partners, though I've never tried
>>5987339
I'm assuming you're a woman then?
But yeah I feel you
I feel like I could fall in love with a woman or find her beautiful
But I don't think I want to fuck women at all. The idea of having sex with one just doesn't sound appealing
I think by my tastes I'd be better of in a same sex relationship
But my parents are some of the most important people in my life. They love the shit out of me and have been so good to me besides the fact that they're really homophobic and I haven't came out or anything yet.
I'm not sure if I'm even bi and I hope to God that I am. Having to get a same sex marriage with the family I have and while living in the deep south would just be so unhappy
>>5987397
Yeah I understand what you mean here entirely, I just use bi and a placeholder since its a lot easier than explaining all that
Just it's you CAN find women and men attractive attractive then I would personally say that's bi.
I have friends though that disagree and you can only be bi if you can date both genders but fuck it's ft it's your sexualities
I don't don't want to end up a tumblrite bitch with a million descriptors for something which it sets personal and should be easy to explain
Since I started to feel atraction to guys (12 yo)
I first came out to a friend back in high school (2 years ago) she was pretty cool with it so I just keep coming out to a few more (5 out of 50+ friends)
Never had one but I'd really like to have a boyfriend, some guys are into me but I don't really like them, and those who I'm crazy for are straight
I used to be my brother's friend's little slut (just 2), they used to invite me to their houses to suck their cocks or try to fuck my virgin ass, sometimes both at the same time. This happen often (since I was 12 to 16) but now one of them moved out to Spain and the other one somewhere in the U.S.A
>>5977113
>>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
about 19
>>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
haven't told anyone
>>First same sex partner?
my sitter when i was 5
>>First sexual experience?
my sitter abused me when i was 5 for the first time.
was coerced by him to keep quiet. went on for 4 years during which i felt at points that I was allowing it just for attention. After it stopped i just repressed everything, grew up attracted to women. Didnt really have an embaressed/depressed phase growing up.
I had vivid flashbacks when I was 20 was geting on 4chan and stuff around the same time. I guess the content triggered me into exploring and stuff
>now I'm attracted to women and being a cumslave to older dom men
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
14/15
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My best friend. She was really supportive, as were my other friends that I told at that time.
>First same sex partner?
A guy I went to school with, we were both sixteen and it was the summer. I kissed him, he liked it and it went from there. It was a summer romance, I changed school and never saw him again, although we did keep in touch for a while after.
>First sexual experience?
I was sixteen, she was eighteen, we met at a party. Massively nervous but it was good in the end. First time with a guy was with the guy mentioned above.
>be 18
>never had any girls show interest in me
>best friend online starts showing feelings for me
>I start feeling similar feelings
>have relationship online for almost a year
>his mother finds out
>disappears for months
>know that he has suicidal tendencies
>start worrying myself to the point of having stomach ulcers
>can't deal with the stress and pain
>tell my parents
>"you are not gay"
>tell them I like both women and men
>"there is no such thing as bi"
>eventually heard back from my bf
>tells me he can't see me anymore
>all my pain and suffering was for nothing
>BEING BI
CANT
MAKE
THIS
SHIT
UP
Straight white male
today
my dog, he was ok with it
my dog
my aunt
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
I had inklings from the age of about 8, but I didn't really recognize it for sure until I was about 16.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
This chick in high school who I always talked with about sex. She was supportive in the "okay whatever" sense.
>First same sex partner?
16yo boy I met online sucked my dick when I was 21.
>First sexual experience?
Gf when I was 19.
>>5977113
>>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
12 got a crush on another boy.
>>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Told? Where I come from we don't talk about such things, we keep it locked up inside.
>>First same sex partner?
Guy out of town I chatted up and liked. Drove to meet him and we got our freak on in his shitty student appartment with everyone else there away for Christmas.
>>First sexual experience?
Some bitch I met on accident. She had a bf but wanted to fuck anyways. Hmm come to think of it I cucked some guy as my first.
>>5997541
...what?
>>5977113
>15
>my friend, two years later. He was supportive.
>Nope
>Nope
Also, did it take anyone else a really long time to find out about bisexuality? Like from the time I was a kid I had a general idea that most boys like girls, and a few boys like boys, but it never seemed to occur that you could like both.
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
13 years old
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive? my 4 best friends yes mostly one was skeptical but she got ver it
>First same sex partner?
a blondei who is my best friends cousin and 3 years older than me
>First sexual experience?
still virgin -_-
>14 (Male)
>My girlfriend, she thought it was hot
>Random guy met at a party
>In general? My girlfriend. With the guy? My gf and I were at the party, abit of drinking, met a couple that were both bi (my gf is bi too) and we had a fun time switching around and experimenting that night.
> Trans bi female
> found out when 12 (thanks to a little help from googling what I was feeling)
> My best friend, Andy (female), very supportive
> Was both my first same sex partner and first sexual experience overall
>>5998399
>same sex
You mean same gender?
>always considered myself straight
>suddenly having almost constant, intrusive thoughts about best friend
>gay panic
>start noticing other guys but only of a certain type
>further gay panic
>still attracted to women though
I might be bi. If not, I have no clue what the fuck is wrong with me.
>>5998959
If you don't want to call yourself bi, you can just be bicurious, or hetero-flexible.
>>5998965
I mean, I have no problem calling myself bi. It's just weird that I'm in my twenties before I was suddenly hit with this.
It's weird because he could do something relatively small and it sets me off down the path of lewd thoughts about it. I guess because he's right there and I usually have zero self control. Maybe repressing it so hard is making it worse?
>>5999165
Have you ever been with a guy? Is your friend for sure straight?
>>5999204
No, I haven't. I can notice when a guy is attractive/hot. I remember thinking in the past that my friend is small and pretty like a girl and how it was too bad that he wasn't one. I've had that thought about a couple of other guys too. But mostly him.
I know he likes guys and I'm pretty sure he and this one guy had a thing going on. It wasn't a relationship, they probably just experimented. I didn't ask since I was sort of jealous they were spending time together. Other than that, he's never seemed interested. It's almost like he's oblivious.
>>5999677
Dude. You're a guy. You should know that all of us dudes are painfully oblivious.
>>5999771
True. But he's almost extra oblivious. Either that or he politely ignores it when people hit on him. Maybe a combination of both. He's usually more absorbed in other things. I know he has a sex drive, though. I think he just prefers to "take care of it" on his own.
Normally I'm pretty confident in my abilities to get what I want, but I'm not sure how I would do if I talked to him about this.
>>5977113
>19
>An old friend from middle school and yes.
>Never
>Never
I'm so fucking depressed. I hate wanting the love of other people. It's tearing me apart.
>>5999677
Invite him over for drinks. Put the lights down low. Sit right beside him. See what happens.
>>6000582
He's a total lightweight. After two he usually falls asleep on me. (While simultaneously complaining about how hot he is because he's a brat.) I'll try it, though.
>>6000590
Give him one and once he's a little tipsy put your arm around him.
>>6000592
If he's okay with that, take his hand and if he lets you put it on top of your dick, you're all set.
>>5977113
I was 19 or 20 when I realized I was bi.
19/female/midwest
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
17 was when I finally came out of the closet to myself. I was off and on experimenting all throughout middle school, though.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
No clue.
>First same sex partner?
Never.
>First sexual experience?
The most I've done with women is experiment and suck on small boobs.
>tfw desperately want a femme sub bi girlfriend
>>6000592
He probably wouldn't think much of that since he's pretty touchy when he's drunk. Like I said, he falls asleep on top of me pretty frequently. But it seems like an alright idea. Maybe some liquid courage would help me talk about it.
>>6000612
That feels like I'd be taking advantage of him. I know he wouldn't think that, but I wouldn't want to run the risk.
>>6000654
As long as you're not pressuring him (i.e., if you're using that strategy just lightly move his hand so he can pull back if he wants) and he is aware of what's happening, you're good.
>>6000654
And I mean don't just drape your arm over his shoulder, put it around his waist and maybe even under his shirt.
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Probably about 12 or 13, I remember this one memory so clearly of this guy on TV who was shirtless, a model I think, who was walking around on a beach and I had this weird feeling, I didn't know it was an attraction feeling but I looked at him and I'd never looked at a boy that way before, so I wondering what was wrong with me. It was so weird.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
I told my friend who was also bi, he was a fucking slut as to be expected and we enjoyed on and off fuck buddy shit through high school.
>First same sex partner?
The guy I told first.
>First sexual experience?
He used to touch me in school under the desks, and okay this may sound weird, but he used to touch my neck and kiss my neck around friends who thought it was all some joke but it really turned me on. We went to some nasty abandoned shack around the back of school and he gave me a blowjob. The sight of him disgusts me now but meh, he was good at the time.
Pic taken when I was an edgy little faggot in school.
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Ehh probably since I was pretty little. I used to like Beastmaster way too much
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My best friend. He was and is still really supportive
>First same sex partner?
My friend from elementary/junior high.
>First sexual experience?
Me and said friend would get out of football practice and hang out at his house before his parents came home. One day I ended up sucking him off and he came on my ass. Was pretty great. This went on for about a year. Was pretty good stuff, first sexual experience ever.
>>6000662
I might consider it. He'd probably like it better if I talked to him about it first since he's pretty introverted. Though it won't stop me from thinking about doing stuff like that. Especially because he usually winds up half naked when he's been drinking. He has a pretty cute figure.
>>6000675
He's usually toucher than me despite being the quieter one. Especially if he drinks. He turns into a cuddling machine. But me doing something like that to him would probably get his attention.
I think his back might be sensitive. Once while he was napping on me without a shirt on, I ran my hand up his back and he made the lewdest fucking noise in his sleep. I felt like a perv.
>>6000882
are you sure you aren't the oblivious one?
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
I knew I liked guys since I was about 6. Didn't know what being Bi was until I was about 12.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Some girl I knew.
>First same sex partner?
Friend from high school
>First sexual experience?
n/a
If you guys have the time, could you please fill out the questionaire in this thread?:
>>6000143
>>6003831
whoops forgot pic to entice you guys
>>6000143
>>6003831
>>6003841
and another to entice you
>>6000143
>>5987397
>I'm not sure if I'm even bi and I hope to God that I am.
only when you let go of your fear can you really know the truth
>16
>never told anyone
>none
>none
>>5987397
>I'm assuming you're a woman then?
>But yeah I feel you
>I feel like I could fall in love with a woman or find her beautiful
>But I don't think I want to fuck women at all. The idea of having sex with one just doesn't sound appealing
>I think by my tastes I'd be better of in a same sex relationship
>But my parents are some of the most important people in my life. They love the shit out of me and have been so good to me besides the fact that they're really homophobic and I haven't came out or anything yet.
>I'm not sure if I'm even bi and I hope to God that I am. Having to get a same sex marriage with the family I have and while living in the deep south would just be so unhappy
Deep as in North Carolina deep or as in Mississippi deep?
But yeah, I understand that. It's been a while since I tried getting off to het porn, and I recently broke up with my gf because I just wasn't feeling the romantic attachment in the way that she was.
Granted I've never had sex so what do I know as far as my sexual preferences? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I need help.
I dont like guys, but I really like trannies (I had sex with a tranny last month).
Am I gay or Bi? Or just admirer?
I really, really dont like "normal" guys, doesnt matter cute or not, I dont like them, but I like trannies, its weird as fuck.
I was probably 8-10 years old? I found out I had crushes on some girls when I was little and told them how cute they were. Sailor Moon was pretty hot as well. Fuck anime.
The first person I ever told was my best friend at the time and they were very supportive.
I haven't had any sexual experiences yet because of my body issues.
>>6004499
you're either straight, or repressing being the most massive of faggots.
>>6004499
>had sex with a man
>am i bi?
Gee, what do you fucking think?
>>6004690
It wasnt... it was just a tranny.
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
So how it went:
>thinking it's all normal as a kid and everyone else is like that
>repressing it hard at 10 and above, never thinking about it
>hits me hard at 17 and comes back
>gives me a hard time for a while too
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Best friend of 12 years, and hell no. He really was against it. After 2 questions we never again brought it up. My friends from school were better, they were more supporting and rather curious.
>First sexual experience?
At 4 with the neighbor kid. No more details, like ever.
23/F
>I liked a boy in sixth grade, a girl a year later. I had a few other crushes through high school but the 'hurr durr teen girls will fake anything' phase was in full swing so I didn't come out until my junior year in college. I couldn't lie to myself after liking a girl and having a bf at the same time.
>Said boyfriend. He was supportive. I'd recently gotten drunk and confessed to liking a girl in high school, so he wasn't surprised.
> >tfw
>My self-esteem was rock bottom, and he was there. I was just a rebound.
>>5977113
>>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
15 or so, I don't like admitting it still irl because I hate being even partly gay. Hate it.
>Who was the first person you told?
One of my friends , no idea now who.
>Were they supportive?
Well they weren't abusive.
>First same sex partner?
>implying I have gotten that far in accepting and embracing my sexuality
>implying I don't want to self harm and fantasize about suicide almost everyday partly because of my gayness
>implying bisexuality (and being with another guy) in any way other than platonically is acceptable in terms of how I want my life to go
I ain't scared of gays or anything, good friend of mine is a lesbian. I just really struggle with the fact that the penis turns me on, along with the rest of the male form.
>First sexual experience
18, with current girlfriend. Had penetrative sex while we were on a city break in Copenhagen a few months after we got together, but did do sex related stuff earlier on.
>tfw she's the one for me
>tfw she is as far removed from masculine in form as possible
>tfw I really love her
Hmm.
>>6004972
Why the fuck are you on /lgbt/ then?
>>6005020
I hadn't been here in ages, and I like reading the stories that get posted here from time to time.
And I am the B in LGBT after all even if it pains me to admit it.
>>6004734
>At 4 with the neighbor kid. No more details, like ever.
More details forever!
>>5998399
>Andy (female)
Does their last name start with a G? Are they from Essex in England?
If yes to both I might know her
>>5998399
but you're a man. a woman isn't same-sex
>>6002968
What do you mean?
>>6005232
>cuddling
>half naked
>napping on you
>>6005131
>obvious /pol/bait
>>5978504
>"What are you doing"
RIP
>>5985057
Ah yes the legendary forest 69ing
>>5997591
Cucking grants one power. Congratulations.
>>6005239
I guess when you put it like that, it's obvious. We've been really close like that for so long that I didn't think it was out of the ordinary, though.
>>6005311
>small that they may be
Jesus you're right. He's totally the type to test the waters in small ways like that until he's sure something is going to work for him. Holy shit I've been blind. I'll try and escalate things a little and see how he reacts.
>>5977113
>How old?
Homosexual fantasies since like 14... I had no idea bisexual was a thing until I was much older. I knew I liked girls too, so I figured it would be easier to just pick the more mainstream one.
>First person you told?
Some girl who liked me... it was weird. I liked her too, but "not enough". Idk why I never wanted to be in a relationship with her.
>sex?
Im a virgin. Sexuality is very difficult for me. I tear up whenever I think of guys in a sexual way... I want it so bad, it's perfect and would be beautiful, but I just can't. My sexual guilt and apathetic introversion has been cockblocking me for years, but I really don't even care anymore. It'll happen probably, I have many friends and I'm an interesting person who isn't butt ugly (but not a 10/10). I just don't feel any pressure, but at the same time, knowing I'd probably cry my first time due to psychological nonsense.
>>5985057 # there's a forest in my back yard. But yes, it was like a porno
>>5977113
>>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Around middle school, so probably 12 -14? I think. It was during the super awkward puberty phase. Everyone else(my friends at the time) thought I was bi but I kept denying it, lol it turns out they were right.
>>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Gee I don't even remember. I think the first time I even admitted it was to my twin sister. She was surprised but she didn't even care basically. She and my older sister are the only ones in my family that know I like vagina as well as dick.
>>First same sex partner?
In middle school also, but it was weird. We stated to date after we graduated middle school so we never saw each other. We mostly texted all the time (really cringy lovey dovey adolescent shit now that I think back on it.) We broke up soon after because we never saw each other at all, we never even kissed. She's asexual now I believe.
>>First sexual experience?
lol. I guess if you count the times my brother molested me. I don't for the most part. Still perma virgin.
>mfw no qt weeaboo trash gf/bf to cuddle with
Reminder that bisexuality is just another way of saying you're a massive, unfaithful pervert.
Look at how many people in this thread say they're bi but either don't care about relationships or haven't even had a real sexual experience yet (meaning they're so sex depraved they've settled for getting their rocks off on anything.)
Bisexuality is THE meme sexuality. You will either wind up never having a solid monogamous relationship (which is fine if you enjoy never having as fulfilling of a romantic life as straights and gays) or dying as a selfish old asshole of a person.
>Hurrdurr butthurt gay
>implying i ever even bothered dating biscum
Smarter than the average fag, I guess.
>>5977113
I was 22/23. I'm 24 now (as of last Saturday)
First person I told was my ex-gf. She was very supportive and admitted to also being bi at the same time. Was a cool first admission.
My first same sex partner was a guy named Ben, although, it was more of just a one time date, not really a partner in any sense. First actual gay relationship wouldn't be later until about another month down the road. Name was Nate.
Shamefully my first gay experience was with my first date, I sucked his dick on a dock near the river in the middle of the night. I regretted it immensely later when he became a stalker, probably because of that.
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
About 14. Realized and fantasized about a boy in my class. Name was Alex. Gorgeous hair. Am now 31
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>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
A girlfriend I had. She had no idea what was going on.
>First same sex partner?
Guy I met, age 23. Didn't have another for a while. Am now 31. Have had lots of sex with both women and men. Am poly and with a bisexual woman. Shamelessly male unicorn hunting atm.
>First sexual experience?
Woman named Helen, aged 19. Late bloomer.
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
I remember having crushes on several guys in primary school, I never really thought anything of it though. I remember talking to a friend in grade 6 or so and saying that a guy was hot, he looked at me like I was crazy or something. I thought I was straight at the time so I just rationalized it as being able to tell if another guy is attractive or not and not ACTUALLY be attracted to them.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Got really drunk and told my group of friends, they were all fine with it. It turns out another friend in the group was also bi (he said he was only into really fem guys though) but he hasn't brought it up since.
>First same sex partner?
My first partner is my current bf, we met online and it's been going pretty well so far (we've been going out for 2 months). I've never had a gf so I'm kinda curious what that's like, I feel kinda like a liar when I say I'm bi because I haven't had sexual experiences with both sexes. I'd really like to see what it's like with a girl but I really like my current bf so I cant see that happening any time soon.
>First sexual experience?
Met up with a stranger a few years older than me on Grindr, he was cool with it being my first time and was really nice with me despite how fucking awkward I was. For whatever reason I just COULDN'T cum, I kept getting close but then nothing happened. It was probably just due to how nervous I was but I've never had anything like that happen to me before.
>>6005088
>More details forever!
>I want to hear a greentext of a 4 years old doing shit with the horny neighbor kid!
Okay, a piece.
>at like 4 or 5
>neighbor is around 2 years older
>years before that the owner of a small house across the street died and since every relative of his lived either outside of the city or the country, he gave it to my grandparents, as no one needed it
>play and do random stuff with said kid at the house
>"Let's build a fortress!" and we do
>next thing I know is when I was inside he stuck his bare ass in
>told me to lick it
>retarded enough to do so
No more info. Bye.
>>6008502
I mean if that's how you feel, anon. I certainly can't stop you from spreading your bullshit opinion.
>>6008502
>never having as fulfilling of a romantic life as straights and gays
>gays have solid, monogamous relationships
What the fuck made you think this?
>15
>friend>"oh"
>my hand
>my hand
>>6008502
>implying that being attracted to people of other genders makes monogamy impossible
I thought being attracted to other people and not acting on it was the whole point of monogamy.
>implying bisexual people are hypersexual
>implying going against monogamy is a bad thing
>implying you can't have non-monogamous relationships
>implying I care about other people's relationships
>implying being a virgin means you're depraved
>implying lack of romantic feelings makes you a selfish asshole
3/10 for giving me enough to reply to
>>5996897
sorry to hear that senpai
>when I was 16
>told my mom. I fell for the "bisexuals don't exist" meme and told her I was gay, so I had to come out to her again as bi like a week later
>none ;_;
>touched a tit when I was 17. sparks didn't fly and I really just didn't give a shit, I just wanted to say that I touched a tit
tfw want a bf more than anything now
>>5977113
15 (19 now)
My girlfriend (who's bi and trans), yes.
My gf is same sex, but different gender so I don't know how to answer.
My gf blew me. If that doesn't count I put le benis in her butte a couple weeks later.
Bi cis male bee tee double-yoo.
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
14
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
my best friend, whom i loved from since before we became friends, and not initially because we punched up over him finding me with a boy in the cubicle of the school toilets, but he came around and we're still friends to this day.
>First same sex partner?
a younger boy from school he was 14, me 16 at the time, macedonian, blonde, green eyes, fair skin, slim. Will never forget him
>First sexual experience?
Lost my virginity to 16yo a girl when i was 15, in a park up against the rugby sheds, train tracks nearby, she sucked me off, popped a rubber on me then rode me, i didnt cum, i didnt know what i was doing
I'm lesbian, but let's pretend I'm going to become bisexual, don't ask how or why, just pretend I'm going to.
Thing is that ; I don't want to get married to a man or have a long term relationship, I wouldn't mind being aroused or touching males as long as I don't fall in love or build anything with one.
But maybe I see things that way because they do nothing for me now, and when I'll turn I'll crave the cock really bad like a straight girls?
Will I still think this way after I become bi?
Answer me plz bisluts
Also is there bi women or men here that don't act on their heterosexuality? And why?
>>6013466
I'm bi but I'd say it's about 90% girls and 10% guys. I can appreciate a guys looks and flirt and maybe kiss but I don't ever see myself having sex with a guy or marrying one. I will always pick the girl every time.
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Bout 14
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
Prolly my crush. Yep.
Oh yeah, I almost sucked him off
>First same sex partner?
After I came out as trans, my ex girlfriend.
>First sexual experience?
Made out with my ex.
>be 24
>have problems getting/staying hard with women and men
>excitement with new people just adds to that, fight or flight
>fear of being unable to perform puts me in that mindset
>already laying off the pr0n
Do I need pills?
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
19
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My friend Walter. He said, "I know, my room is right next to yours."
>First same sex partner?
Guy named Chris who had lusted after me for a year
>First sexual experience?
Blojob from girlfriend when 18.
>>5977113
>14, fell in love with a girl for the first time. Had girl crushes before but didn't know how to interpret them, though that I just wanted to befriend them that much, but now there was no denying that I wanted her in a non-friedly way.
>Told the girl I fell in love with, she felt the same, we dated for a year. She was my best friend beforehand and gave countless hints that she wanted to be closer, so I felt kind of secure in confessing to her.
>None yet, we broke up before anything sexual happened and all of my further relationships (both same-sex and opposite-sex ones) were long-distance, with only one (opposite-sex) making its way into RL.
>At 17, with a guy (that one long-distance relationship that went into RL), awkward as hell - gave him a handjob and touched his dick with my lips slightly, then panicked because someone was about to walk in. Our later experiences were much more pleasant.
I don't like combining bisexual girls with bisexual boys. But could separate gens even survive?
>>6013702
stop eating meat
start lifting
>>5977113
I think I might be bi, I like dick, and sometimes balls and ass, but I'm very rarely attracted to male bodies (only if they're really fit) and hardly ever attracted to men's faces. Anyone else similar? Or am I pretty much a straight guy who likes dick?
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
Around my early twenties, I actually dont't remember 100%. Thanks, /soc/... you made me realize I like the penis.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
I guess the first person I voluntarily told was my brother, who was drunk at the time. All he said was that he loves me, and he'll kick the shit out of anyone that hurts me.
>First same sex partner?
First boyfriend; took my v-card at the ripe age of 23. Sex at a stupid hour in the A.M. in my room, on the corner of my bed. I didn't think I'd orgasm but it finally happened and when it was over, I actually sat and contemplated what happened.
>First sexual experience?
First weekend my first bf visited we literally spent hours naked dry-humping. I GUESS it counted... amazing we didn't fuck. Looking back, younger me was a retard.
>>6015862
I already lift. How'd being vegetarian help?
>>5977113
>First same sex partner?
Can you people even remember how many hearts you've stomped on over the years?
>>6016681
3 so far, and to be fair, they all know what they're getting in to.
>>6016685
Sadly, it's the only way the dumber fags will learn.
>>6016735
No pain, no gain.
>>5977113
>how old
pretty early honestly
it was just a moment of "wow I like guys but girls are also pretty great"
>first person you told
never really came up tbqh
>first partner
>first sexual
>imblyign
>>5977113
1 - can't say for sure, suspected for a long time, accepted it in my 20s
2 - best friend, he didn't really care so sure i guess
3 - 2 years ago, some guy whose name i don't think i ever knew
4 - fooled around with a girlfriend back in highschool ~10 years ago?
>I guess around 16 or 17
>I haven't come out as bi or anything, but I have fucked around with a few of my friends so I guess they know.
>this guy I went to highschool with. We snuck out of our friends house during a sleepover to go streaking and I wound up riding his cock in the middle of a neighborhood street at like 3am.
>This girl who I met through the guy above, we hung out at her house after school and wound up fooling around.
I'm actually not sure where I stand. I enjoy fucking both men and women, and I like getting fucked in the ass. I like to eat pussy but don't enjoy sucking cock. For the most part I don't even find men attractive, I just like giving and receiving dick. I can't see myself in a relationship with a man like I can a women. For example, my best friend and I (he's outwardly strait and meets lots of women) often mutually mastrubate/frot/rarely he fucks me. But even though he's my best friend I could never say I love him like I can a women. I also could never kiss a man, it seems absolutely disgusting to me, but I love making out and cuddling with a woman. So sexually I'm bi but when it comes to relationships I'm strait? I think I'd be pretty happy with a woman who whips out a strap on once a month or so.
>>5977368
Would you describe them as 'just a phase'?
Male.
13
Never told anyone.
I try to be monogamous.
So when its guys its guys, when its girls its girls.
Unless im with a transperson.
They usually figure it out pretty quick.
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
I got it at 16...before that i was really confused and mostly repressing it
(the fact that bisexuals are so underrepresented that i needed like five years to figure out that they were a real thing was great help)
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My best freind (who i knew for like half a year at this point...) while being drunk for the first time...was shortly after me realising im bi. He was accepting, the fact that another friend at his party was also bi gave me some confidence
>First same sex partner?
A friend of mine at 11, we fooled around...as in he fucked me also did gay stuffs with him again at 15
>First sexual experience?
aforementioned friend
Cis male here
>16
>One of my best friends, who was supportive
>No one yet
>No one yet
>>6028441
Fuck dude. That's good...
ftm
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
I grew up thinking everyone was bi by default because my mom is and I knew adults in gay relationships.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My openly bi female friend, we were looking at naked art on Deviantart in the seventh grade on school computers.
>First same sex partner?
Confusing to answer because i'm trans. My first experience with a girl was when I was 16, she started sitting on my, rubbing her butt on me and touching my thighs in the hallway at school during lunch. Later that day, she let me touch her boob. I had a boyfriend at the time, though, so nothing escalated.
First sexual experience with a guy was 69ing in my bedroom.
>First sexual experience?
If we're counting non-sex, touching my female friends butt during a sleepover when I was 13/ grabbing my first boyfriends dick in a movie theatre on the first date.. I think I was 14?
Cis woman, 18 y/o right now
Started questioning at about 14, finally figured myself out at 16.
I was pretty much out on the Internet before I told anyone irl, first person to know irl was my therapist (I was 17).
First same-sex partner would be my current girlfriend, we've been together for just over a year. It's LDR (I'm Australian, she's American) so it's kinda tough but we're hoping to see each other soon.
Haven't had any real-life sexual experiences, but gf and I cyber a lot.
>>5977254
bixesual lysdexic?
>>5977113
Bi male
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
11.
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My mom, and yes.
>First same sex partner?
My fictional waifu, and yes I call him that.
>First sexual experience?
Some fat mexican tard in the psych hospital with a track record of trying to grope his roommates. He was god awful in bed and I hated it, but I fucked him for the bragging rights and ratted him out to the orderlies the minute he became inconvenient.
Biguy
can't figure out why that's not already a term here, but I like the colors scheme so I'll probably shop the colors onto pic related and put the vector on my desktop at some point
anyway
>Age
16
>First person you told
A lesbian friend, she was supportive but surprised, and I'm not sure she believed me though since she never talks about it, not even when we're alone, and we chat about sex a lot
maybe she thought I was trying to coax her into coming out to me since it's before she was out
>First same sex partner
None. A lot of guys, my roommate included, are very amorous towards me since I'm so quiet and I enjoy it a lot. I thought he'd have sucked my dick by now, he was so thrilled when I said I could live with him. Pretty damn sure he's bi too.
>first sexual experience
None. Cuddled with a lady friend, thoroughly enjoyed her chubs. Blogposting this is why I'm here though:
>go to watch a friend's hip hop dance performance
>watch her dance with really intense facial expressions, she looks thicker than usual
>three girls and one guy wearing croptops, one in each quadrant (massive squad)
>the guy's real slender and wearing subtle lipstick like the guys InCase draws
>ask my friend to meet him after the show
>he shows up wearing a sweater, my friend pulls it up so we can identify him by his abs
>he's suddenly all shy and I become the same way, we don't even shake hands
>I think (hope) he was blushing
Damn. This is easily the longest post I've ever made. I hope someone reads the important part, though just the act of reliving and organizing it in my mind is enough for me.
Off topic from OP, but did it ever happen to you that you came out to someone(s) and the next thing you know is that half of the world knows?
>>5977113
>tfw only bis are into you
Fuck you biscum, you always revert back to straight like fucking cowards.
>>6032115
Sort of? I told one friend who accidentally told one and then flat out told another.
>>6032268
you are a qt femboy, aren't you?
everyone knows that gay men hates feminine boys, meanwhile, us, biscums, loved qt femboys like you. <3
I think i might be Bi. I had sex with a man once as a horny as hell teenanger but I didn't like it...
But I can get hard looking at gay porn. That makes be Bi right? I kind of want to try bottoming and topping again.
I live in San Francisco and I am pretty sure I can walk a few blocks and get some... but I haven't. What do you think?
>>6032313
surely you are bi, for internalize homophobia is perfectly possible don't be confortable having sex with men, i recomend you don't force you, that and train your anus, is easies be a bottom than being a top, yo can let him go and is more comfortable if you have no experience having sex with men.
>>6032367
how do i do that though?
>>6032367
can i meet some one on this board who can like... guide me?
>>6032308
Top notch grammar there mate.
>>6032308
Not especially cute, but yes, androgynous male.
Straights can't be trusted, and as far as I'm tell, you're all straights with various fetishes that only the same-sex can fulfill.
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
16
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My best friend, he first tought that I was gay, then he undestood and he was very supportive
>First same sex partner?
A guy who I was flirting in a dating site
>First sexual experience?
a political aunt, very caring
>>6008502
>You will either wind up never having a solid monogamous relationship
>implying if you like 2 people they can't be from the same gender (don't anna point fingers, but cheating gays and straights)
>implying a gay guy never created a love triangle
I already posted another thread but I may aswell post it here as well. Why am I only attracted to men (I'm male) when I'm feeling down/depressed? I have very vivid fantasies of moving to [spoiler]Japan[/spoiler] and having a boyfriend who I live with and have a nice relationship, however once my mood goes back to "normal" that seems to disappear and i become hetero again
>>5977113
Bisexual here.
Want to suck cock but don't want everyone to think I'm a sissy faggot.
What do I do?
>>6032871
Suck cock and not be a sissy
I'm bi too, nobody knows because I'm not a sissy, I suck cock, I love to suck cock, but I'm not a sissy
>>6032871
Suck a cock and don't act like a sissy faggot.
>>5987397
you are gay
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
I knew at a very young age that my sexuality was different from others but I didn't admit to myself that I was bisexual and attracted to men until 19 and didn't come out until 23
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
My female bisexual friend was the first I told. I am a very masculine person and none of my other friends could possibly understand and even she was pretty shocked by it when she heard. She was very supportive though and we talked for hours that night about each other's sexualities
>First same sex partner?
This guy I met on tinder about a year and a half ago. Really, really fucking cute guy, I've shown some pics of him to female friends of mine and they were pretty amazed he was my first because he was damn sexy
>First sexual experience?
When I was 17 I first got a girlfriend and my first sexual experience with her was fingering her in my dad's SUV as we sat in the driveway of her house at like 3 AM trying to be as quiet as possible so her parents wouldn't wake up
I knew something was different with me, when I "played" with some of my male friends at 5yrs and I really knew by the time I was in middle school.
I told my friends in high school and they didn't mind and a few actually thought that it was cool.
My first sex partner was this black boy that would come over and we would go to the top of my bunk bed and suck each other(this was at age 7) and my first real sex partner was at age 14, he was white we would hang out to play video games and do "other" stuff to each other for fun. We didn't really date, but agreed to only fool around with each other. My first time was with him(first as in I actually knew what sex was at this point) it was nerve-racking, but he was just as inexperienced as me, so it was sweet and took place in his room and we almost were caught (we heard foot-steps at the door and immediately stopped kissing, his parents left and we took advantage of that in many ways ^u^)
>>6032396
>top kek
>>5977113
>How old were you when you found out you were bi?
It was a slippery slope. Started with traps and now I am one. Finally admitted it to myself after I was around 23
>Who was the first person you told? Were they supportive?
I don't think I will ever tell anyone. It's not worth the hardship it brings.
>First same sex partner?
>First sexual experience?
I'm a permavirgin because of my fear.
>>6003946
I'll be damned if I don't know how that feels... I hope you're doing OK. Don't worry, you'll figure everything out in time!
>Bi
LMAOing @ your lives
>>5977113
>>Bi
>LMAOing @ your lives
Someone's butthurt
>>6032064
You're cute but underaged, son. All of 4chan is 18+
>>6034784
I'm a fucking idiot. You figured it out at 16, not that you are 16.
Carry on, cute shy bi guy
Feel story
>in high-school at 17, discover I'm bi
>had a crush on 2 of my friends
>decide to hit on one
>he says he didn't have feelings for me
>actually comes out saying he loved my other crush
>"O-oh"
>cry myself to sleep
>fast forward 6 years
>third friend I had some feelings twords
>figure out he was going to do a sex change
>becomes a asshole tranny
>moves away and I'm alone
It hurts
>>6006621
>I'll try and escalate things a little and see how he reacts.
Holy shit, cut the high school bullshit. Try being an adult and actually talking to him about it.
