Can we have a coming out general? Post stories, tips, questions etc.
Fags, dykes, trannies, tumblrsexuals all welcome to share.
>>5966665
bump
No this closet is quite comfy.
Althogh probably only maybe 1 person knows.
>>5966665
I came out to my step dad as a MTF and it went well. Now my step dad is pretty liberal, big Bernie Sanders supporter. Even so i was still nervous but he gave me this big smile and since has been helping me
receive counseling, took me to a therapist, took me out shopping for clothes, and even promised me we'd start HRT soon. My mom was the only one with a bit of concern but she's mostly kept quiet about it.
Now i've started to come out to my friends and it's been chill.
>>5966665
My family is all muslim.
What do?
>>5969604
Muslim faith is pretty accepting though, just come out.
>>5969612
KEK
No.
>tell dad I'm mtf
>you gonna chop your dick off and frame it?
>tell mum
>you gonna chop off your dick?
>after that they don't care
Gotta handle the bantz
![giphy[1].gif](https://i.imgur.com/3a2Kfzr.gif "giphy[1].gif")
>older sister is typical annoying gossiping cunt
>grew up in a family of ultra-military "manly men" types so of course I can't be gay, nor does anyone think I am
>never planned on ever coming out, but completely okay with it because I also don't really see the point
>visiting my sister and she takes me along when she goes to meet her friend
>her friends little brother is top tier qt
>we get along and eventually start dating in secret
>this goes on for a few months
>mfw she found us making out one day
As you can imagine. It didn't go well.
>>5969604
Much like it is with people of any religious faith, it really depends on how conservative or liberal they are about their beliefs.
If they are conservative, best to wait until you can be independent from your family.
tl;dr version
>be mtf
>tell mom
>why can't you just be gay?!?
>tries to convince me not to for months
>silent on it for months
>finally accepting of it
> Be 17 year old American girl
> Mom lives vicariously through me and forces me into every pageant
> Win them because I was actually kind of hot
> Hated every second of it
> Despite being the pageant queen I had few friends and was really closed off
> Also never dated anyone
> All I ever wanted to do was hang out with the guys and do manly things
> Discover FTM dudes on YouTube
> Well then
> Decide to cut my hair short to look more like a dude
> Getting called "sir" from behind was both exhilarating and depressing
> Ask my parents if I can go to therapy for "reasons"
> Finally come out to them after months when my therapist basically affirms that I'm trans
> Mom is not happy, dad is just like "huh"
> Start on T about a year and a half later
> Get top surgery six months later
> Pass as your average heterosexual man
> Feels good
> Mom still doesn't like it
Thank god for my dad and brothers, though. They were amazingly helpful at teaching me how to man.
>>5969674
Most of them are pretty conservative and they will probably try to keep contact with me. I will go to university in a city where some of my relatives live, it'll be easy for them to find and know about me probably.
>>5969740
Just be safe. Make sure to have some friends you can rely on.
>Have twink qt3.14 emo friend
>He's asexual cause he was raped or something idk
>Have had crush on him most of my life
>Dating girls at the time to avoid coming out to him
>Get really fucking stoned with him one day
>He passes out
>Hear him moaning
>wtf.jpg
>Seems like he's having a sex dream
>Wearing tight pants so I can see the outline of his dick
>fuckit.jpg
>Unzip his pants and tug them down enough where his dick pops out
>5 Inchs but really cute looking
>Literally impaling myself on it
>Can deep throat easily, cause I don't have a gag reflex
>He's moaning in his dreams even louder
>Dick is flexing in mouth
>Deep throat him holding his waist down when he comes
>Swallow all of it
>He wakes up scared as shit and staring right at me
>Literally all he can see is my lips wrapped around his base
>We sit there for like 3 minutes staring at each other all of his stick still in my mouth
Long story short - He got hard again and let me finish him, but said if I ever do that again we were no longer friends.
Worth it.
Pic related, him.
>>5969867
You raped your friend for a quickie.
Drink bleach, die alone, die slowly, die painfully.
>>5969867
>posting pics of people you know on le anonymoose's clubhouse
duuude creepy
>>5969867
>have friend who trusts you enough to divulge personal intimate information like being raped.
>take advantage of him while sleeping and intoxicated
Dude what the fuck is wrong with you.
>>5969867
>Can't get sex
>Rape friend who was raped in the past
GJ anon, you're an asshole.
Doesn't even matter that you fulfilled a fantasy of 90% of the gay men in /LGBT/
kill yourself
>>5969911
No because I maybe degenerate but I don't let that part of me harm others.
>>5969911
I wouldn't. Mainly because when I truly love people, I don't wish harm or discomfort upon them. Especially not from me. My desire for the person does not outweigh my desire for their happiness.
Been there, and I acted unlike you. So no, try to justify your misbehavior all you want, what did was plain wrong. And we get to judge you now. Deal with it.
>be 16
>come out to family and friends as mtf trans
>"what the fuck is wrong with you?"
>lose all friends
>parents try to tell me about god and shit and how it's socially unacceptable to be not manly
>one sibling ignores my existence, the other thinks i'm mentally ill
>literal words "i've seen those people on 4chan. you're insane. i bet you're one of those mentally ill freaks on there"
>18 now
>still stuck around family because shitty helicopter parents
>i will never transition and become a cute girl
>will only continue to become more masculine
>will probably kill myself within the next month
just fucking kill me already.
I haven't exactly come out, but I'm pretty sure my family know. The reason for that, is because of what happened a few months ago;
>am ultra private person
>also incredibly anti-social
>I haven't had a friend, nor someone I could say I even trust my entire life, nor do I even really give a crap about that sort of thing
>it's not because of any kind of trauma, or that I'm socially retarded or ugly or whatever else reason. I literally just don't give a shit about those types of thing. I also don't get lonely, so I never saw a reason
>my family knows this which is why they constantly come over to my place to check on me to make sure I'm doing well
>especially since my entire daily routine is, "Work, eat, exercise, sleep, repeat"
>I can even work from home a lot of the time
>my family are also all very outgoing and social, which pisses me off, so I try to keep my time with them to a minimum
>one day they decide to pop in unannounced when I'm out meeting with one the people I work for
>they can't get into my place so they're all sitting outside waiting
>my boyfriend has a key and walks up to the door and opens it and goes in
They were pretty shocked. He told them we were just friends, but they know me well enough that I'd never let anyone in my place, let alone give them a key. Especially since I hadn't done that to anyone in my family either.
It's been a few months since then and they still harass me about him.
>>5973674
Self-med, it's not that dangerous unless your liver is fucked. Or find some friends to move in with and get out of there. Sorry you're stuck in a shitty situation <3
>>5969176
>big Bernie Sanders supporter
you meant to say a big cuck?
>>5969604
It's more about them than they religion, really; if your parents are shit there is no benefit in talking.
>>5969612
yeah, muslims are pretty great and peacefull, just look around you...oh wait.
>>5969670
thought people would learn decency and stuff during service.
>Be me
>depressed, suicidal and other illnes
>Parents refuse to go to a psy with me
>contact one on my own, they are full
>only one, even remotely near by
>going to join the army soon for at least 1yr if everything goes right 13yrs.
>rather get a good education and be usefull in my next live.
>be fag who lives in conservative area
>at a party last Saturday night/Sunday morning
>has at least three super religious people there
>realize that I should let these people know since their my friends/classmates
>having a pretty deep moment with them
>tell them I'm gay
>one friend gets shocked
>another one is just like "Knew it"
>tfw they all take it well
>tfw I'm still worried about telling my family
>be me
>come out to parents
>kicked out
>introvert with no friends
>family cuts me out
>homeless
>start selling myself
>get caught up with bad people selling myself for drugs
>Spend years being used by druggies for another hit
>get HIV
>eventually got out of it and go to NA
>HIV meds working
>Live with older bf who is helping me pay for school to get my life back on track
What a crazy time
>>5969867
Holy fuck please be fake
>>5969176
>cuck helping pay for his wife's son to transition
it's 2016 folks
>>5969176
>Dad is a Bernie Sander Supporter
He's a bigger fag than you are.
Be proud that even you are more of a man than he is.
>>5969176
>not supporting trump for the greater good
>>5969176
You were literally his wife's son
Memes are real
>>5966665
>coming out
>ever
>>5970145
That's what I was thinking
My boyfriend outed me by accident.
I didn't really care, since that closet bullshit or outing or whatever you want to call it doesn't mean anything to me. Whether people know or not, I don't care.
Basically it was when we were first starting to date. My older brother owns a bar and I'd go there to drink alone. That was where I met him.
I'm not a hugely social person, and my boyfriend hates public displays of affection and he's pretty far in the closet himself.
I had previously called him and told him I'd be home a bit later since I was going to meet my brother.
He then saw me, drinking and talking to the bar tender. My brother, the owner. I was laughing and having a good time, and he took it the wrong way, since I don't do that kind of thing with complete strangers, nor do I even really do that with friends. He got a little jealous and started talking to my brother about what kind of relationship we had.
My brother being the asshole he is, decided to play along;
>Huh? That guy? Oh, I love him. We've known each other ever since we were kids. Though I haven't seen him naked in a while.
It took a while for me to convince him it was my brother. He's still butthurt about my brother.
My brother took it pretty well though. He didn't care.
>>5969737
I want to stick it in your girly vagina.
>>5969867
>pretending that ftm fujoshit has a dick
kek
>>5966665
>that almostget
>>5978968
You're thinking of Iran, you idiot. Iran are a minority in the Muslim world, and they're considered moderates.
They force homosexual men to take hormones and get replacement surgery.
That's bad enough. And again, they're considered the minority and moderates.
Source: Ex-Muslim
>>5978965
>Huh? That guy? Oh, I love him. We've known each other ever since we were kids. Though I haven't seen him naked in a while.
Fucking KEK
>you will never have a bro this cool and fun
My brother calls me a faggot all the time.
>be bisexual fag still in high school
>at rehearsal for a musical
>in a room with four others (three girls; one guy)
>conversing the things
>tell them I'm bi because why the heck not
>a girl goes, "Wait, how many of us are bi here?"
>everyone except the girl I'm sitting next to raises our hands
>I look to the girl sitting next to me and say jokingly, "Look, you're outnumbered."
>she raises her hand
>mfw
>be me
>decide to come out
>oh wait my parents are dead
hahahah
>>5983460
>my face
xD
>my soul
x'D
>be 14
>come out as bi
>parents don't understand
>explain
>OK
>never talked about it again to this day
>told mom
>"that's fine"
>they already have grandkids
>family name passed on
s'all good in the hood
>Be bi guy
>Tell mom
>At first freaked the fuck out
>Then got K
>She tells me that my sister is asexual and my littlest bro likes dressing in girl clothes.
>Middle child bro doesn't talk about girls, only guys
Background, my mom is chill but hyper christian, my grandma is closeted bi, my step dad is becoming neonazi conspriacy theorist.
My family is tumblr and /pol/ all wrapped up in a fucked up package.
>be me
>Asian, 15
>come out to parents as mtf, mom is in denial, dad tries to beat the trans out of me and beats me again for shaving my legs
>year passes by
>heymomimstilltrans.jpg
>more crying and denial shit
>self med HRT using mum's credit card
>parents find out, freaks out
>attempt suicide
>months later mom is supportive but dad is still transphobic lol
>tfw started HRT at 16 and Asian
:^)
>>5966665
>Post stories
okay
>hi mum
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go to this psychologist
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go to this other psychologist
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go to this psychiatrist
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go to this specialist
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go to this endocrinologist
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go do a billion blood tests and go to this gp
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go to this other specialist
>I'm a tranny
>oh
>go fuck a cup and we'll freeze your jizz
3 years later, and I'm just about to go on hormones
people are still seriously falling for the coming out meme? jesus
>>5983861
I'm out for 3 years now, except for my family. They probably know anyway, and it's not like they won't accept it they're cool with it. But idk how to come out to them, sexuality in general isn't really talked about at my parent's house. Should I even tell them or just get to it when i get a boyfriend?? Anyone got advice?
>>5983950
why psychologist time 2?
>>5983452
>musical
>everyone involved is gay
How is this ever surprising?
