Can i call myself asexual if i'm completely repulsed by sex in any form with both sexes yet still masturbate once in a while?
Like, i seem attracted to both males and females, at least sexually, but the very idea of touching someone literally makes me vomit.
What am i, /lgbt/?
>>5912326
sounds more like mental issues
>>5912331
Oh come on man, don't be this rude.
Yea sounds like ace
>>5912326
you're me
>>5912347
im being honest
being repulsed by sex could be the result of a trauma or something like that
>>5912372
or not being repulsed by sex can be a result of trauma
>>5912326
nah that sounds like being ace
>>5912399
it's okay, stop beating yourself over it
what a slut culture we live in that not wanting to have sex is considered mental problem
in a different place you would be a saint
>>5912421
Alright, ok then, thanks for helping me figure this out.
Have you had any sexual experience OP? Or is the thought Alone too much?
>>5912326
Personally sex is what keeps me from gay relationships, I think it's nasty desu. You're not alone friendo
>>5912326
low testosterone and paranoid
>>5912372
what type of trauma primarily stems from this?
you asexual my dude
there are different kinds of ace. sex repulsed, sex neutral, sex positived. you would be a sex repulsed ace.
>>5912421
thread/
>>5912326
>>5912347
I'm going to have to agree with >>591233. Are you sure you are not trans/jerking off to being a girl/longing to be a girl, have been fed guilt and shame around sex, or have been abused? I ask if you're sure you're not trans because this isn't unheard of among trannies. This tranny subgroup also tend to become "sluts" i.e. highly interested in sex, after transition (even if they only have one sexual partner).
>>5912380
Ever thought of joining the Catholic church and showing all those boy diddlers how to really be a priest.
I feel bad for you though sex is really great. I cannot speak for hook up culture never did that. Sex with love involved is about the pinnacle of human existence. God speed anon.
>>5912331
>>sounds more like mental issues
kek
>>5912326
Same here,same here. I can't even blame past trauma or ingrained taboo. I've never been abused or influenced to think sex was something repulsive. It's just a natural aversion to the whole touching-body contact thing. I find myself mentally attracted to people and, just like you, masturbate every now and then. But the idea of rolling in bed naked with them revolts me.
>>5921023
>They literally say they're sexually attracted to others.
what if i'm only attracted to the idea of others?
(i.e. porn video = fapfapfap, real person = if they offered sex i'd refuse for various reasons including a simple lack of interest.)
it's probably more like autism or something where i've made a conclusion like "the point of sex or masturbation is pleasure because i don't want kids, masturbation can be done wihout the aid of another person and has 0% risk of kids, STD, etc, so obviously it is a preferable option" but i'd still rather say "I'm asxual" than "you won't believe how autistic i am!"
