Ok so I like Transgender people and would have no problem dating one. So why does that label me a chaser? I mean I could understand if I just wanted to fuck and run but that's not my kind of thing. So just because I have no problem dating a transgender person that makes me a chaser?
Yes. Because you should just be trying to date us like you would any other boring female.
>>5901647
But that's what I'm doing though....
>>5901626
Same here. I was curious about what went on in the head of a mtf trans, we hung out and she was really cool and likable. Really liked her. I just treat her like any other girl.
Not really. The term has stigma because cishets will attack your sexuality and moral compass if they find out you're attracted to trans women, and trans women are jaded and insecure after being tortured by an intolerant society and being used by manipulative scumbags that treat them as lesser beings.
>>5901647
Can you give some examples of guys doing something that annoyed or offended you?
>>5901626
because calling cis women who happened to be born with penises "transgender" is extremely insulting and shows that you're only interested in them as your fetish objects
>>5901673
No you're looking for a specific girl who has a girl penis
That's not part of the Tranny Fantasy™, you have to be a regular straight cis guy who doesn't know anything about transsexuals. Then you have to date her and woo her and hold her hand and introduce her to her parents and grope each other (staying far away from the genitals of course). Then one day she bravely says "I have something to tell you but I'm scared," and then you respond with "Even though this is the first I've heard about this 'transsexualism' I love you no matter what! Nothing has changed between us! Let's get married right now! Here's a bunch of roses and a pony!"
Anything less means you're a dirty chaser.
>>5901690
Hahaha the first part was romantic then it got creepy fast.
>>5901690
>>5901626
It doesn't make you one. You're probably a nice person.
The only people they use that word for are the assholes who go on nonstop about how trannies are disgusting and hated by everyone so they've got no choice but to date them.
>>5901685
No because I'm a maiden <3
>>5901686
I guess you just have to be respectfull, not try to fuck up your gender pronouns and just ask if there is any misunderstanding. It is a bit tricky for us guys to. But some of us actually do love you for who you are, not your genitals.
>>5901626
Don't know.That doesn't sound like chaser behaviour. Is someone calling you one?
>>5901687
I met a trans girl by accident. Knew hardly anything about transgendered people. But a million youtube videos and articles later I do understand alot more.
>>5901736
Awww see that's sweet!
>>5901626
If you are unshure of where they are in the transition and what they like to be called, then just use "person" and other neutral words. They will really appreciate it. Just avoid "he" at all costs.
>>5901686
>because calling cis women who happened to be born with penises "transgender"
oh god no fuck off
out out out
>>5901742
Only problem is now the google algorithms think Im either trans, gay or something myself. Im getting alot of youtube suggestions along those lines. :p
>>5901687
>girl penis
>>5901760
I'm trans and even I don't watch that shit (except when I really don't know anyone who would know) but if a guy told me he watched those videos because of me...
Let's just say we would both wake up soar <3
Do mtf girls get alot of scumbags who disrespect them? Im shure there are plenty of horror stories.
She that I met just seems so appreciative over little things like flowers, being respectfull, looking into her eyes and comments about her being beautifull. That sort of stuff. Almost like she has been a bit starved for genuine loving attention.
>>5901723
not specifically, but I have seen videos on Youtube on the subject and now I'm worried that I'm doing the same thing and I don't want to be labeled a chaser, when I don't act like one.
>>5901784
All girls get a lot of scumbags who disrespect them.
>>5901626
>TFW trans girl but look like the hotel dusk hawttie
>>5901686
> cis women who happened to be born with penises
> cis women with penises
> women penises
>>5901792
Yeah, that is very true.
>>5901792
guys get more
>>5901795
tfw cis male scum and look like a slightly chubby version of the hotel dusk guy.
>>5901814
Get more what?
Pussy?
Higher paying jobs?
>>5901803
You seem like a good guy. Just be you and treat her nice and girly and there won't be a problem. Unless she's fucking crazy and turns on you for no reason. Which is like 70% of the time. So be careful
>>5901840
>Unless she's fucking crazy and turns on you for no reason
Have had that happen to me several times, its so draining because I don't even know what I did wrong.
>>5901857
You didn't do anything serious. A lot of us have issues.
>>5901829
get back to tumblr, kind xer
>>5901823
Guys get more shit from other guys, and women get more dick
>>5901862
Still though I'm very hard on myself and when someone is upset I usually end up blaming myself. I know its a bad habit.
>>5901892
I really want to kiss you :x
>>5901896
whoa slow down there anon, I usually do dates and stuff before I kiss.
>>5901784
More than the scumbags, there's also the fact they were treated as males for years before that ( including romantically). Any attention given to them for being girls is appreciated more and endearing to them as a result.
>>5901927
You're not wild enough for me :/
Too bad cause you're cute :(
>>5901963
>Too bad cause you're cute :(
its not nice to lie anon.
>>5901970
no you really are...
>>5901978
aw well thanks anon!
>>5901626
>Ok so I like Transgender people and would have no problem dating one. So why does that label me a chaser? I mean I could understand if I just wanted to fuck and run but that's not my kind of thing. So just because I have no problem dating a transgender person that makes me a chaser?
no you sound like a chill bro. you're the good kind of chaser congrats.
>>5901626
>Ok so I like Transgender people and would have no problem dating one.
Both mtf and ftm?
Anyway, unless you're attractive, you're just a creep, to everyone, doesn't matter if you try to find a cis or trans partner.
>>5901626
Not in my opion. I know it's hard for dudes who like trans girls (in a genuine way like yourself) to be open about that. So long as you're not ashamed of it, you're cool. - a trans girl
>>5902020
So there is a good kind of chaser? (I'm not OP, just a dude with a very similar question/fear)
Honestly I definitely have a specific attraction towards MtF trans girls, if I'm being really honest it probably qualifies as a fetish. I know it's a shitty thing to say but I feel like lying about it would be worse.
So the idea of dating a trans girl is really attractive to me...but I couldn't live with myself if I made someone feel like they were nothing more than their parts or that the PERSON part of trans person wasn't the more important part...
Basically, should I just suck it up and not pursue any trans girls, or is it possible to be a "good" chaser?
>>5902070
I don't think /really/ liking trans girls is any weirder than /really/ liking cis girls, or dudes, or [insert gender here]. It's more about how you treat them as a person. If you don't objectify them like a cryptozoologist would bigfoot, or harass them, you're cool. :]
>>5902070
basically, don't be ugly and you're good
>>5901626
Men chase women. Why would it be wrong if they chase trans women too?
<3 all you trans-loving cuties who arent creeps (*nudge* sup, OP?)
>>5902088
Cool. Thank you, that's actually a load off my mind. Are there any trans specific dating sites that people would recommend? Basically are there any that aren't creepy as fuck?
>>5902151
sup anon?
>>5902184
No. Such a thing does not exist
>>5902184
Sadly, it's hard to have such a place that doesn't attract 1000000 creepers. OkCupid is probably the best (but not perfect by any means). I got hit on by tons of creepers there and deleted my acct, so yeah. If you're nice to trans girls like any other girl, than you at least have that going for you
>>5901679
This is spot on.
>>5902270
So keep being nice like I've been and not get worked up because of some video on youtube?
>>5902206
If this wasnt 4chan, I'd give you my skype or something. Just sayin. "Slightly chubby hotel dusk guy" sounds cute
>>5902307
Yeah. I'll be honest and say there are some trans girls who are 100% done with cis dudes hitting on them and will probably not enjoy your advances. But empathizing with the fact that they've dealt with a lot of shit from dudes before and after transition, don't let it get to you. I would say 1) continue not being a creeper 2) read up on trans literature (see GLAADs site) 3) dont get too discouraged because (straight) trans girls are typically looking dudes who are educated and compassionate
>>5902309
well I do have a skype though I don't use the cam. I only have it on my phone. but yeah I know what ya mean
>>5902357
All these things I can definitely do.
>>5901626
No, you're not a chaser. If you specifically seek out trans people, mostly for the purpose of sex, and don't really respect their gender you're a chaser, but you don't sound like that at all. Anyone who calls you a chaser doesn't know what a chaser is
>>5902371
We could make a super specific "interest" to use on Omegle and hope we meet lol
>>5902588
haha we could try who knows.
>>5902612
Make a long, random string of characters, OP, then all the trans girls can use it to find you on Omegle
>>5902817
I don't think I understand the joke.
just so you know, chaser is a bullshit term and if you want to breed my bou pucci I would be much obliged
>>5902841
No joke. Just saying it'd be a way to talk without fear of exchanging info :]
I like this thread
>>5902848
whoa whoa now, what kinda of male scum do you take me for? I don't just sex up on the first date.
You're fine. You sound like a good guy. Crazy and/or unpleasant people will call you mean things, sometimes. That's just a risk of interacting with the lgbt community. If somebody calls you a chaser laugh it off.
>>5902887
so there is a chance of a date? I am cool with no sex on the first date, I am a virgin so what is sex anyway. Also could I at least suck your cock on the first date? Anal is off the table if we eat at a nice place, I prefer spaghetti to anything else btw.
>>5902841
OP, type the lowercase alphabet out as your "interest" on Omegle and see if we meet! It'd be neato
>>5902848
Lewd
>>5902944
you in so cal?
>>5901862
So, serious question here, because I’m wondering. When y’all freak out like that, for the future of the relationship, should we actually try desperately hard to placate you? Or should we just patiently weather it or even put our foot down, as is the proper approach with cis women?
>>5902959
nahh Nothern KY.
>>5902902
>you will never have a qt to wine and dine at a 5-star restaurant
>you will never feel her nuzzle your cock to erection under the table as you try to eat
>you will never get to ferociously penetrate the boi pucci that she offers up as thanks for treating her right
>>5902985
Never say never..
>>5902994
>>5902985
I don't like 5 star eateries
last time I went to a fancy restaurant I got food poisoning
it would be chill af if you took me here, best spaghetti in the world
This is going lewd places
>>5903004
OP here I didn't post the frog, that was too lewd of a post for it to be me.
>>5903004
>I don't like 5 star eateries
That’s readily apparent from your preferred repast of spaghetti, you Philistine.
And it’s three stars, not five, that are the maximum, unless you’re seriously talking about Yelp instead of Michelin. (Sniffs disdainfully.)
>>5902848
kayla you are so annoying and such an attention whore. You just incorporate any new edg3 opinion into your "trans identity"
>>5903061
Is liking spaghetti edgy?
>>5902902
Fuck off. Stop ruining the reputation of trans girls. Fuck off you mentally ill white trash pos
>>5903066
No they just want to attention. Its so annoying. They are soooo desperate for attention.
>>5903076
You sound just like a woman getting mad at her "friend" for getting more attention than her.
I guess you pass.
Idk Kayla always turns me on when she says lewd shit and doesn't care what you guys think
>>5903109
t. Kayla
Op here
I knew a Kayla in high school, always though it was a cute name.
>>5902035
i feel like if i were bi i would like ftms as well not op but they always seem chill and usually are actually attractive unlike most men
>>5902841
lgbtiiqudfiredfdsfdsf
>>5902848
boi?
you mean man pussy?
