/lgbt/ have you ever done sex work?
What was it like?
Care to share any stories?
its terrible, horrible, never do it.
>>5866221
wh-what happened anon
are you okay
>>5866190
Is it as sexy as it is in my fantasies
I've been in the game off and on since I was 16. Can't form friendships with men anymore. Father responded to my ad.
Should have just colleged
>>5866384
How did you get involved at 16? were you homeless/kicked out?
>>5866377
nope
>>5866384
Your father or just a father?
>>5866430
Why can't my fantasies be real
Why can't daddy love me
>>5866190
Yes
Boring, occasionally scary. Mostly boring though. Can't trust men at this point or have a relationship with them (but somehow I'm also v queer now, so that's fine I guess). I can see how people with a certain personality enjoy it, but it must also be said that for most people, it's the best or only option they have to make money. I don't think people should be locked up, fined, evicted, put in harm's way, stigmatized, etc just for trying to make a living (or even just survive). So while I personally am super thrilled that I found other work, I'm 100% behind decriminalization.
Not really
You're going to hate men if you do this! even more than you already do.
>androgynous trap mode
>tell boyfriend I think I'm trans
>he threatens to out my to my incredibly conservative parents if I don't do what he says (in this case, fuck his friends and various other people for money)
And that's how I was sold to various men and women with a trap fetish. It wasn't a good time.
>>5866384
Green text faggot
>>5866499
Did you have sex with him? Did he pay you?
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>>5866571
that sounds super hot desu senpai
forreal tho if true you deserved
>>5866674
B-but you could've shown up and sucked his dick super well and then he'd love you and cuddle you and hold you
>>5866674
>cis/trans?
>guy/girl?
>gay/straight?
>where was the ad?
>>5866688
Admittedly, towards the beginning some of it was enjoyable. I already was sub as hell so the idea of being forced into something was kind of hot, from a fantasy perspective.
The actual thing was a lot more degrading though and my ex started to grow more and more abusive over the course of it. Eventually he started beating me on a fairly regular basis, and we lost clients because the fact that I was covered in bruises and cuts most of the time turned a lot of people off. Eventually, I refused to service a certain client because they had a rape fetish that I was uncomfortable playing along with, and he drugged my drink with something and let them do it anyways. It wasn't fun.
>>5866755
Cool story brah.
>>5866690
What the hell is wrong with you?!
>>5866221
>its terrible, horrible, never do it.
This. Did it for about 5 years. Would not recommend it to anyone.
Did it for six months, great money.
Not worth it, rather be broke and starving, than a piece of meat.
>>5866377
Nope x2
The guys who pay for sex.....well there's a reason their paying for it.
>>5866377
People who need to pay for sex aren't going to be sexy senpai. You might get lucky and get a shy robot that isn't so bad looking or the busy business man type.
I've done it on off for the past 4 years. In my experience it really isn't as bad as it gets made out to be, but of course experiences in the sex industry wildly vary. I don't do it fulltime so I can pick and choose who I want to see, and block all the fucking weirdos out there. Most of the people I meet are normal, married men, nice and sweet and treat me with respect so it doesn't feel as sleazy as it could. The money is awesome and allowed me to fund my transition easily.
>>5866384
>Father responded to my ad
>tfw this will never happen to me
>>5868570
>>5868607
While I agree with this to an extent, I think it is different when it comes to trans girls. I get a lot of clients who are just normal guys who have never been with an escort, but obviously with cute trans girls being like unicorns the best way to find them is through escorting.
>>5868427
They're being a cunt anon... Obvious bait is obvious
>>5868570
This. It's different if you're a woman. You can have your pick of guys. And a good looking guy can get sex with another guy any time he wants.
My clients were usually older, fat, ugly, overly kinky, sometimes brutal. The kind of guy that MUST pay if he wants sex.
>>5868427
I want my daddy to love me
So to begin with some context. I'm a 26 year old androgynous man and I was a sex worker during my time at university.
When I grew up I had a good family who loved me despite the fact that they were both often absent. Mother and father both worked long hours, not to make ends meet but to further their own careers. That resulted in us having a great deal of money as a family and that my parents bought a lot of presents and toys for me as some form of compensation for not being around too much. I think it's fair to say that they spoiled me.
That lasted all the way through high school until my parents divorced. Looking back at it I'm not surprised, both were constantly working and even if I try I can't remember many displays of affection between them. It wasn't a bad divorce, but it left me shaken up. Around this time I was often wearing unisex or feminine clothing and had mostly female friends. The divorce made me get deeper into that, and by the time I got my own student apartment I was seriously thinking about if I was a transsexual. I know it might sound ridiculous to a lot of you on this board, but at that time I really didn't know anything about these things at all.
Anyhow. So not long after I started university both parents get new spouses which both had new families. Both sort of relived their lives spending time with their "new families" to get that family experience they missed out on. That left me with very little financial support and a taste for expensive clothes, phones and bars. So what did I do?
I borrowed money. Most of my female friends had paid for my taxi-fares, the entrance-fees to clubs and whatnot. Soon I found myself in a position where people started to get fed up. The first time I did something sexual for compensation was around now when I convinced a guy to buy me and my friends drinks after I had straddled him and made out with him, promptly forgetting all about him afterwards. Now that's not unique, and a lot of people have that.
>>5868675
Are you to jaded or new to recognize funposting?
>>5868739
To me the experience wasn't just a fun one-time event. It was exhilarating to feel like I earned those drinks, that it wasn't with borrowed money or money from my parents that I bought them. So I continued, making out with men in exchange for drinks and cab-fares. It was great, and pretty soon my friends started joking about it. When they jokingly told me I was a prostitute I responded with laughter and proudly confessed that I was a slut. People called me brave for that.
So then once I was hanging out with one of the guys I had met at a club. He wasn't particularly nice but he was a good lay and he always helped me when I needed it and gave me small presents as tokens of affection. Once I remember he paid my electrical bill and I rewarded him with a blowjob even if I didn't like doing that with him too much - he always wanted to pull on my hair and stuff which isn't something I appreciate. So at this point I've gotten favors and small bills paid in return for sex. It wasn't good but didn't really cross the border into prostitution. I always enjoyed doing these things and it never felt as a job.
Weeks pass and me trading sexual favors for money from the guy became more frequent. He started giving me cash after we had been together, claiming it was easier than to bother with paying my bills. I didn't mind though, and still didn't feel like a prostitute. The breaking point came when he asked me if I would consider a threesome with one of his friends. I would have said no, but he promised me he'd reward me. Said and done. I felt humiliated afterwards, but the feeling quickly subsided as I was paid.
I started seeing more and more men for sex and were now openly asking for compensation. It was fun at first but quickly became a chore. Sucking cock gets old really fast if you do it almost every day.
This all went on until I was outed by one of my "clients" who sent photos I didn't know he'd taken to my then boyfriend who beat the shit out of me.
>>5868760
So all in all I wouldn't recommend it. It was fun for a short time, and the money was great. But I ended up catching a beating for it and got a really bad rep around my university. It's also left me feeling different about sex. It still feels more than a chore than something special or really great. But maybe that will change with time. If I just hadn't been so greedy I think I'd have had a much better experience in uni.
>>5868760
>being a prostitute without telling your gf/BF first
What the fuck man
>>5868725
YES! The assholes always had tiny cocks ironically.
Military men were by far my favorite. There was just a feeling of respect, never any funny business. Young, hot, packing. They were just looking for a fantasy.
My first time was with a frumpy looking middle aged guy, he got a little too aggressive and hurt me.
Escorting has def changed how I feel about men. Jaded just a little.
>>5868570
>hating people cursed by a cruel God
I didn't ask to be born fugly and small dicked. :( Oh well, I'll just spend more of my money on boozing myself into oblivion. I suppose a drug habit or two might be reasonable as well.
>>5866190
>/lgbt/ have you ever done sex work?
My experience was different than most sex workers. I did more of a mistress type companionship type service. My typical time with a client was from dinner to breakfast or brunch the next day. With some clients I did multi day stays. I was also very selective with my clients, and interviewed them first over a few dinners. So, all in all I had a fairly good experience, but that is the exception. I did my best to avoid bad clients with the interviews, but I quickly learned the rich are much more likely to cheat and lie. So I did have a few dud clients, but I got rid of them. I did have the counsel of a couple of experienced Madams when I set up the arrangements with my first client. He wanted me to be exclusively his mistress, but I'm poly and I couldn't have managed exclusivity.
At the time I started all this, I was mentally fucked up and knew it. I'd realized I couldn't handle normal relationships at all because I didn't even know how to really be close friends, let alone lovers at that point. The more contractual mistress type relationship with the first client provided a framework of role and expectation that I could deal with at that point.
>>5869548
>Escorting has def changed how I feel about men. Jaded just a little.
Me too. Now I only go out with women despite being attracted to men too.
I've done private camwhoring before for horny old men with lots of spare cash to handout. Was actually kind of fun.
I don't regret it at all and I actually talk to my friends about my experiences all the time. Everyone I've told just kind of finds it somewhat amusing.
Yep did it for a six months. I was 21 when I first started and needed some money.
It's only good money source for a short period time. Being cute faced andro looking FtM (had my top surgery done and been hormones about 2 years) had it benefit at getting customers but many thought I was MtF even my add clearly stated being transman. Pretty much boring sex even thought I offered some BDSM sessions but the guys always chickened out of those at the last minute and rather take vanilla one instead. You need to have good poker face also. I had troubles about keeping my fiery temper at bay sometimes cause I have zero tolerance of bullshit. I told my escort friend that customers (mostly older men) were like kids at the candy store if you didn't offer something that they wanted but they kept going 'but I wannaaa'.
Stories? Hell yeah at least one. I had lesbian woman trying to whine free sex from me: 'I'am a woman I don't need to pay for sex :)'. It turns out she was quite famous 'feminist' who's rounded by drama all the time at Finnish board Ylilauta.
Did you guys mainly do incall or outcall? I'd be open to escorting but I'd never go over to some strangers home, only hotels/motels/etc. And what about STD's? I'd assume you always bring your own condoms.
>>5866607
>Why the loss of trust for me?
Because guys will go to great lengths to get what they want, even if it means treating you like subhuman dirt. They will try to cheat you out of what you've earned and undermine every boundary you put up. Not all of them, but a big enough % to turn me off from guys completely...
>>5870316
You can make that part of the conditions.
I >>5869631 pretty much went anywhere for my long term clients, but the first few times the tryst spot was usually a suite in an expensive hotel somewhere in the world. I will note I was a part time long term mistress rather than a prostitute or escort.
>>5869784
I never had my lesbian women clients ever try to cheat me or get something for free. I did have a couple of them who only wanted to do anything and everything for me.
