Is it possible to become gay at some point in your life when you used to be straight?
I used to be 100% straight. Dicks disgusted me, gay porn disgusted me. I loved lesbian porn. If I saw a naked woman online and hadn't masturbated within the past day, I got so horny I couldn't concentrate on anything else until I masturbated.
Then last year I just changed and I don't really get horny anymore, I'm not really attracted to either women or men right now. But when I see a man's body I get this tingling in my dick (sounds childish but there's no other way to describe it) even though I'm not interested in dicks at all. It doesn't matter what body, it could be a muscular guy or a really fat guy. Dicks don't disgust me any more, I just don't feel anything when I look at them. I'm scared I'm becoming gay.
Anyone else experienced this? What happened to me, how do I fix it?
>>5864311
I'm guessing you're between 13-17 years old.
So yeah, that stuff happens. Get used to being queer
>>5864337
I'm 19. So you used to be attracted to girls too?
>>5864341
yeah, up until I was like 16
>>5864432
Shit, now I'm scared. Were you genuinely attracted to them or did you just think you liked them because it was normal? How did your transition into becoming gay happen?
>>5864438
I would literally jerk off thinking about fucking girls.
When I realized I liked boys too, I didn't have much trouble accepting it. I assumed I was bisexual. Then eventually I started caring less and less about girls.
>>5864449
Got any advice on how to test whether I'm really gay? I'm hoping it's a hormonal problem like low test but I'm too scared to go to the doctor about it.
>>5864462
Low testosterone won't make you suddenly attracted to men, but it could be affecting your sex drive, so it could explain why you don't get horny anymore.
Having low testosterone also has other effects like finding it difficult to concentrate, breast development, etc. You should look it up and see if you can relate.
The best way to know wether you're gay or not is to be honest with yourself. Have you ever been attracted to a man? Can you imagine yourself having sex with a man and enjoying it? Or having a boyfriend?
>>5864541
I mean I'd get pleasure from fucking another guy in the ass because fucking any hole will give you physical pleasure regardless of whether you're attracted to it.
>>5864311
>Dicks don't disgust me any more
I was always cock hungry. I don't understand how someone could not find big juicy dicks the hottest thing in the world.
>>5864579
I may not be disgusted by dicks, but faggots like you still disgust me.
>>5864594
I'm not even that gay. Like I feel you man.
But still you have to love dicks. Maybe you just haven't seen some good ones. Find one of those threads on /gif/ or just look for some big cocks.
>>5864578
>I mean I'd get pleasure from fucking another guy in the ass because fucking any hole will give you physical pleasure regardless of whether you're attracted to it.
You're a virgin right? Because that's so wrong on so many levels I don't even know where to begin lol
>>5864682
Go ahead, explain how I'm wrong
>>5864311
>Is it possible to become gay at some point in your life when you used to be straight?
No such people are either in denial, repressed it, or a previous part of themselves was not unlocked, but deep somewhere in your brain there has always been a fascination for dudes.
And you don't fix it it's a gift be grateful.
>this thread
>no mention of bisexuality
OP is bisexual.
>>5864705
Bisexuality is a myth started by the Jews to confuse gay and straight people.
There's only gay or straight. This pansexual and bisexual stuff is Jewish mythology to further divide people.
>>5864682
I could fuck a melon and enjoy it, does that mean I'm attracted to melons?
>>5864692
If fucking any hole could give you physical pleasure, then everybody would be ok with fucking anybody, since, hey, it's just a hole, right?
But that's not how it works. The hole has to be attatched to someone you are attracted to to give you pleasure. Sure, you can close your eyes an imagine you're fucking a 10/10 instead of the 2/10 you've got in your bed, but even then, it's your mental image what's allowing you to get pleasure, not the person you're fucking's hole.
>>5864739
Someone's a bit butthurt today. Did your boyfriend overdo it last night?
>>5864792
no, but my uncle did. my boyfriend hasn't been able to get it up for weeks =/
>>5864792
wut
I'm not butthurt at all, I was just answering anon's questions.
>>5864311
4chan turned me gay, It was was the the traps and yaoi.
>>5864881
same
Op, you're exactly as stupid as I'd expect someone with your opinions to be.
>>5864311
The gayest thing here is still the picture in the op though
>>5864438
There's nothing to be scared of princess.
Get used to sucking cock. It's not so bad really, you get used to it.
>Is it possible to become gay at some point in your life when you used to be straight?
Yes.
I was straight up untill 26 when I deliberately started trying to alter my sexuality (I had experimentally made out with guys and given/recieved oral before but wasn't into it - recieving a gay blowjob felt pleasureable but wrong, like I needed to stop). I thought it would be cool to be bisexual (lol, dumb idea). It was a very long and hard proccess involving several stepping stones of psychological self-experimentation (my pua and psychonaut phases came in handy) and as soon as I got it to click (watching gay porn) and had my only ever gay orgasm, the world I "came to" was completely different - I was a very masculine guy and I felt like I had just lost something really huge which I never appreciated before, like I had permanently disprivileged myself.
Maybe your proccess was more gradual but I panicked and had to go on a shit ton of meds and was put on disability allowance. I actually posted my story here when it happened (about 14 months ago). I know lots of people here are going to say that masculinity/femininity aren't tied to sexuality, but they really are, and I was stuck with involuntary feminine social reactions. My mother said I was a lot nicer though :/.
I managed to avoid getting much in the way of any high levels of sexual attraction, so the biggest shock to me was just how immersive a feminine mindset is, like waaaay more immersive than a masculine mindset, that's the only way I can describe it - and also that both men AND also women felt more powerful to me. I also realised that for a straight guy to think "I'd be masc if I was gay" is complete and utter bullshit, all my previous interests (other than science/philosophy) stopped appealing to me and I felt this pull towards things I was never interested before, suddenly seeing them as rewarding.
It took me 4 months before I felt masculine and attracted to women again, but I had a few relapses since then.
>>5864337
can you become a tranny during those ages as well?
...asking for a friend
>>5865068
too much effort for such a slow board.
>>5864311
Bisexuals attraction to men or women can vary independently over time, might like men the most one week, women the next week and both the week after that. Its also not uncommon for bisexuals to discover their attraction to men/women later in life due to never exploring that part of themselves assuming they always were gay/straight. Some people wrongly think sexuality define who they are so it can be hard for them to explore some faint attraction they might feel towards the same/other sex thinking they have to act like the stereotype of that sexual orientation or something silly like that. Keep exploring your sexual feelings over time, if they flip between men and women over time then you are probably bisexual. But remember sexuality is something deeply personal and does not define you unless you want it to. I feel that the reason so few bisexuals mention their sexuality is because they don't want people to define them by it, you can't really se someones sexual orientation on them so don't think that finding out your sexual orientation will change anything unless you want it to do so. In case you have some personal confusion I will say that you are still who you are, suddenly liking dick don't really change you unless you take a personal decision for it to do so.
Hey op, similar situation here. I was completly het until 17 when i lost completely my sex drive. From that point on I started to expierence intermittent feelings towards boys [like the felings you get in your tummy when you read cuddleporn] About a year after it started I went to the doctor to check test levels but they came back normal. My depression was getting worse and worse all this time, caused in part I think my the lack of sex drive. When my [male] friend confessed to me, I felt as though I'd been thrown a lifeline, and started going out with him, in the hopes it would 'save' my sexuality and give meaning to my life. For the next year I stubbornly stayed inside an abusive relationship with someone I had no attraction to in the hopes that it would eventually make me normal, After the relationship ended I moved abroad and tried to begin a new life as a straight man but everyone assumed I was gay from the get-go and with misguided kindness tried to introduce me to their gay friends, but I just couldn't hack it, as a gay man or a straight one. I'm 20 now and still dont know what I am, I still feel confused.
This may take some time I fear OP
>>5865068
(2/2)
My point is not to go for it, I don't mean to be homophobic, but there's a huge cost to being a feminine man (which imo will happen with enough sexual arousal - gotta chase that buzz) - no masculine person will ever actually see you as having actual feminine value, and thus you're cementing yourself in beta nice guy mode forever in their minds, otherwise you'll just piss them off, especially straight guys. I called myself pro-gay, but only because gay guys were mostly nice to me, alpha feminine behaviour (in the more bitchy gay guys I never really hung out with) still involuntarily viscerally pissed me off something fierce.
I'm not anti-gay by any means, but I guess I'm a bigot in that I think this :
"masc" gay guys are fakers, wading through psychological quicksand to act out something which is not actually what their brain is saying is most fun for them.
So yeah, back out while you still can, re-masc yourself is my advice.
>>5865081
I'm being 100% serious. My life has been set back a whole year by this, still unemployed. I mean, I know I could have just embraced it (and that was a temptation I had to fight - waging psychological war against yourself is not a nice place to be) but I'm happy now. Just came to this board for a lurk. I know what I'm saying seems bigoted as shit, but fuck it, it's the truth. I've no problem with other people being gay, it just goes extremely psychologically deep and might not be so easy to get out of.
>>5865080
I'm not trans so I have litereally no idea
>>5865132
>i'm a huge fairy faggot
>therefore every gay guy is a huge fairy faggot
wewlad stop the universe doesn't spin around your pussified butthole, girl.
>>5864311
>is it possible to go from straight to gay
No but it's possible for a bisexual to have preferences that change from time to time.
>>5865068
>>5865132
jesus, man. you have way too much time on your hands.
