>Seeing a gender therapist tomorrow
>Getting hormones has become an obsession
>still feel ashamed every now and then, but mainly bc how my friends and family are gonna react
>going to have to tell mother
>shell freeze up, not know how to handle it, and want to ignore it
>Friends will leave
>grandparents will disown me
>in the south, legit danger in being trans
Do I just jend it now, /lgbt/? Or do I tough it out, and wait unril im a qt grill?
>>5844788
*end
>>5844788
you are a woman, just give birth to yourself
don't fight it
>>5844788
Is this your first time coming here? Do you think your situation is unique in anyway? Just transition already, gaylord. Come back in a year, post pics, and make the chasers chase
>>5844788
Sucks to be you, can't imagine what an inconvenience it is to want to be opposite gender.
Be prepared to be an outcast in "normal" circles,
be prepared to hear berating comments/ get asswhoopings and generally people thinking you are a nutjob.
No matter what the right way to go about it would be,
the fact is society at large is not ready for all this lgbt shit they are force fed,
your choice,
you will get to know what it is like to be a black dude walking through wealthy white neighborhood.
Welp as i said sucks to be you, go for it you crazy diamond but don't expect rainbows and marshmallow on the road to "becoming a woman".
>>5844840
You have a point; I apologize, I didn't intend to post some sort of histrionic "im so special post"
It actually is one of my first times on hear. The only time ive considered posting (and posting pics, coincidentally) are in pass threads, but if one of my friends somehow saw that and outed me (im sure one of them browses this board) then id be in some shit.
On the bright side, every trans gril ive talked to says ill probs be really pretty. Theres that.
>>5844788
>>going to have to tell mother
but why
>>5845903
>tfw not sure if I'll be pretty or ugly when I take HRT and grow my hair longer
Where are you getting rated?
>>5846201
Go to any indie social media site, theres a lot. Talk to the qt tran grills about what they think; I wouldnt ask cis girls until you at least feel confident in your makeup abilities, as theyre not as used to transforming a male face to female via their imagination.
>>5846040
umm
Because I still love her and dont wanna just up and exit her life
Though the thought does have its perks, and i'd be lying if I said I haven't considered it.
>>5844788
Where in the south oni senpai? I'm trans in louisiana and I've only been disowned and lost all my friends, a couple places that knew denied me service. No beatings or anything though, and I'm generally a lot happier. Finally starting to stealth a little and getting ma'ams with my voice and everything. It's all worth it.
try being normal instead
>>5847993
>getting ma'ams with my voice and everything.
very doubtful
i've never heard a convincing tranny voice
and i've known hundreds
>>5846703
Any specific suggestions?
Maybe you should try going to a psychiatrist instead
>>5847993
Im sorry :( Im in north tx right now, but im visiting La in a few days to see some family
And Im glad youre happier. I hope I will be. I leave for the therapist in a few hours
>>5849485
You could try Downelink.com; be forewarned though, you cant just spam every trans girl you see with "Hey could you rate me" (Not implying that you would, but I just wanna make sure and put that out there.) You have to be tactful; try talking to a few, mentioning that you feel trans and are worried that you wont pass and ask if its not a problem could they maybe give you there opinions. At least thats how I did it, worked out pretty well.
Theres alot of places you can find too, honestly just google things like "TG social site" , filter out the porn/camwhoreing, and see what you run into. Good luck!
>>5844788
So how did seeing the therapist go?
>>5850067
Downelink is down.
>>5854009
google is your friend. Honestly if you feel like tiking only a mild risk, you could try some of the less uncouth chatrooms, just use good judgement.
Or just ask your thera-rapist, theyll usually be very straight up with you
>>5854065
>therapist
I know pretty much nothing about how to get trans support where I live, the online information is useless and the one tranny I know who lives in the same city as me pretty much stopped responding to my messages.
>>5844788
Well, it depends, how old are you?
If below 16: Fuck no, go become cute as fuck
If above 16 but below 25: Just try, it might work out for you
If above 25: Just end it now senpai, there is no hope left
