This is the new bisexual general. Link any stray bisexuals here, so they don't have to deal with hanging on your homo coattails
How the fuck do i know if im bisexual?
Any other bisexual virgins on here?
>>5844725
We're all virgins, that's why we're on 4chan
>>5844718
Have you EVER found a member of the same gender attractive to you?
If a friend of the same gender as yourself, whom you consider a best friend or friend you really like being around (as opposed to a work friend or acquaintance sort of friend) were in love with you, would you dismiss it out of hand as weird and gross?
Being bi doesn't mean wanting to fuck everyone / everything, it means being receptive to the possibility of being attracted to and/or loving someone on a case by case basis regardless of their gender (even if you've gone your whole life up to this point without ever meeting, seeing, or imagining someone of the same gender as you that you're attracted to, which is usually only true for teenagers).
Honestly it's about as meaningful a question as "How the fuck do I know if I'm a coffee drinker?", if you're repulsed by the idea or you tried a couple different ones and didn't like them, you're probably not a coffee drinker (until you find that one special flavor you've been missing out on your whole life).
What s the most ideal body for you guys? Fully masc/fem or tomboy/trap?
>>5844744
Tbh as long as they have a good face I don't care about what they are, even if fat ( not morbidly obese tho )
>>5844744
leaning towards androgyny in either sex. I like my girls to look tomboyish and my guys to be skinny without massive muscles. Toned/abs is ok. I can't stand the femboy attitude though and I want to have a normal conversation with a guy if I date him, not talk to someone who acts all catty.
>>5844980
This desu. Girls that have that Barbie doll look disgust me. And overly big hairy guys also disgust me. I don't mind a man being manly though, just not bear mode.
>>5845057
I agree, but I really like girly girls, but I guess that's just cause I've basically been raised by my mom and sisters, and that fucked me up somewhat
Now I even crossdress like a faggot
>>5844741
>>5844718
You can still be straight even if this is the case. Kinsey 1 isn't bisexual.
Sexuality is a self-labeled thing that you use to let others know your preferences.
If you are consistently attracted to both men and women that's when I slap the "bi" label on. If you're like "oh my god i spent so much time with [friend] and i'm falling in love wtf wtf" but otherwise have zero interest in same-sex stuff, you're probably just learning that sexuality isn't rigidly set in stone.
Think of it this way: in the same way as not all girls turn a straight guy on, not all guys are going to turn a straight guy off. Relax, heteros, it doesn't make you gay, or even bi, any more than those gays who have had sex with women are straight, or bi. Plenty of dudes have had sex with men and decided they were straight. Sometimes they even had sex with multiple men just for fun but still identify as straight because they're not actually attracted to men.
And if you think the guy in the last example is bi or gay, consider this: can you get a boner? Can you masturbate? Then you can have sex with whoever you want even if you're not attracted to them. Especially if they're working to get you off ex. giving head, handjob, using bottoming skills, etc.
>>5845377
>Plenty of dudes have had sex with men and decided they were straight. Sometimes they even had sex with multiple men just for fun but still identify as straight because they're not actually attracted to men.
Um
>>5844728
Kek
>>5845143
I used to crossdress sometimes in high school. I didn't even think of it as being weird. I just liked it. I wouldn't wear dresses or skirts but I would borrow my friends who were girls' clothes or go shopping and try stuff on. Particularly tops/jackets :)
>>5845710
I prefer leg wear, my legs are really feminie, but I have broad shoulders and a strong chest so any girl shirts or jackets look really bad
>>5845733
I like yoga pants and stuff as well, I have thunder thighs though and a big butt (I'm not pear shape though) which some people like... but it makes it hard to find something that fits unless I was really motivated to go shopping and find something. I make straight fit pants look like skinny around my butt lol. My shoulders broadened quite a bit from 19-21. It has put a damper on such behavior :( I would probably do it more if I had friends I could do it around nowadays
>>5845748
Try buying pants a little too big for you, and get a good belt. I have a full real leather belt from Levi's that is really nice. It basically fixes any waist/thigh size problems, and they look stylish with jeans
>>5845795
Heh okay thanks!
>>5844725
Me. My parents are quite homophobic and religious
>>5845801
What sucks for me though is my size 9 feet, they look like fucking clown shoes when I'm crosdressing
>>5844741
bisexuality seems fucking cooky. I can't help but cringe whenever I find a guy saying he's bi, no matter what age.
>>5844744
I really like average bodies. Just someone with an everyman's body. Too muscular is gross and too feminine is gross to me.
>>5845842
I don't undertsand why
If I see an attractive female then I likely want to fuck her
If I see an attractive man then I likely want to fuck her
What's cooky about being attracted to attractive people?
>>5845377
>Plenty of dudes have had sex with men and decided they were straight. Sometimes they even had sex with multiple men just for fun but still identify as straight because they're not actually attracted to men.
I think the word you are looking for here is "in denial." Having a desire to get it on with the same sex *multiple* times ain't straight.
>>5845377
>can you get a boner? Can you masturbate? Then you can have sex with whoever you want even if you're not attracted to them
this is silly idea (and bad logic)
>>5844725
Woo hoo...it's fun isn't it? Like Charlie Bucket looking through the windows of the sweet shop.
>>5845955
Look at David Bowie. There are some people who think he's straight
>>5844725
until pretty recently. I'm a guy, lost it a few months ago to a girl. Looking forward to my first time with a guy. I have self esteem issues though, I don't think I'm ever going to be comfortable with trying to come onto people to any degree. So that really limits my possibilities.
>>5845819
>tfw size 11
I've actually never thought about my foot size being a problem before. I did have a girlfriend who was a lanky basketball player that had feet almost as big as me though so maybe I'm just accustomed to it.
>>5844744
I enjoy a range of body types. Skinny, muscular, a bit bigger, tall, short, etc. It really just comes down to if they like me and I like them.
I'm kinda confused, days ago I was fantasizing about gay sex but today I don't feel attracted to guys at all. Can anyone else relate to this?
>>5846807
Yup. It's called the bi-cycle. Some bi people drift between what they're attracted to.
>>5844744
fully masc for guys, any range of masc/fem for cis girls
>>5846832
accompanying chart
>>5846821
I like this meme, I will use it
>>5846910
Haha yeah it's pretty good. It explained a lot when I first heard it.
>>5844718
interestingly enough, i found out i was bi simply by looking up naked dudes to see if i could fap to em'. that was literally it; it was like a switch just turned on inside my head
>>5844744
Well toned jock/fuckboy types and anything more femme than that. Good face and good ass is a must.
>>5844725
Right here. I remain one because I just want my shit together. Also body issues.
>>5847290
Why does being a virgin mean you have your shit together? No drama?
>wonder why everyone here seems to be against bisexuals
>see a thread a while back exclaiming bisexuality is the best sexuality there is
Oh.
>>5845804
Same desu
>>5844980
>not liking femboys who talk catty
I feel that hard anon
Would you date a crossdresser guy?
I'm not talking like, sissy bullshit, I'm talking mostly genuine crossdressing
>>5844744
Fitness basically. I don't like gender bending, trans or anyone that calls themselves fem. Unless its a femme fatal 30s hollywood style posh woman.
>>5847337
Correlates with the body issues and I don't want to start drama with my partner because of it.
>>5844718
Are you a faithless sociopath with breeder tendencies?
>>5847704
Nope
Im attracted to some women in certain porn but attracted to all traps, gay or bi?
>>5848364
Weird.
>all traps
>>5844725
I've sucked two cocks and kissed one of those fellows, but due to not knowing how to have gay sex, I had none at all. So still a bisexual virgin, no contact with women (I was also a C-section baby).
>>5849805
oral sex is still sex, you're not a virgin.
>>5846764
I'm size fucking 17
You have no idea
I don't cross dress but it doesn't matter because even boy shoe places don't stock with me in mind.
Im bi, sort of i like dicks but not most men, only fuckboys. I have a gf because i prefer women but i have this fuckboy friend that just broke up with his gf and we stay up late alone playing vidya and talking.
He constantly makes gay jokes in a gay chicken game way. constantly tells me to suck his dick then laughs it off. the other day we even watched some straight porn together in silence without jacking off, but you could feel the tension and awkwardness in the air.
tldr confused as fuck. just wanted to vent. I dont want to cheat on my gf, least of all with a friend but things are getting weird with him.
>>5845871
It's LE edgy meme sexuality of sexualities. It's the proto equivalent of pansexuality that fashionable people stick with for reasons of insecurity
>>5850253
worst part is he just wears boxers and you can see the outline of the semi every five minutes.
I have commented on this suggesting he wears some undies so i dont have to see his "ugly" dick flaping around everywhere. he laughs it off and never wears anything. Guy is super homophobic as well. I dont even.
>>5845871
i know right? i dont get people thinking you are either or. I think its the more natural response. I like girls and also girlish boys. But i dont find muscular men sexually attractive (just aesthetic as fuck, as in i want to look like that.)
>>5850259
Ask him to take off his pants and if he wants you to suck.
>>5850263
already did, we just stare and laugh it off. then i call him a fag or vice versa.
>>5850259
He's obv flirting
Ask your GF about it first, usually girls (esp. fujoshi) love having a guy who can also have gay relations, and take pics of you sucking him off to send to her
>>5847704
Yep
>>5846061
He never helped things with constantly changing what he said in interviews, but he was definitely bisexual.
Another bisexual rocker you might not know was Lou Reed. Sadly early he was abused by his father, and then they tried conversion therapy on him, and scrambled his brains with electroshocks. Still he was able to make something of his life after that.
>>5849811
Oh, Ow!!!!
I'm a US size 12AAA women's. Yeah, I pad my shoes. I can never find ones that fit width wise unless I have them made.
>tfw I want to top but am kind og passive normally and have slightly small dick
>>5850271
Or they feel they are in competition and want to have nothing to do with you ever again
>>5851434
Make totally sure she's not just fine with it but actively encourages it/wants to watch. Ask more than once and remind her that the reality is different from a fantasy and that she might regret it later, and is she prepared to deal with that.
However, girls who like to watch boys make out are RIDICULOUSLY common. About as common as boys who like to watch girls make out...and go to any college party to see how common that is.
She'll probably be 100% okay with it if you restrict yourself to oral, touching, and kissing. Or something along those lines. At that point it's Not Really Sex in her mind, it's just a little entertainment for her and a little fun for you.
>>5851638
>According to the survey, 63% of women surveyed said that they would not be willing to date a guy who had a known history of hooking up with other dudes.
http://mic.com/articles/135145/why-are-so-many-women-unwilling-to-date-bisexual-guys#.JpipDkROV
Women don't like bisex men, they fear competition from other women and don't want men added in the mix. If you suck dick once you will forever be known as a dicksucker, even if you didn't suck dick but just like your dick being sucked.
>>5846802
Why are they so shiny? I hate the oiled up thing.
>>5851648
>Women are fine to have lesbian/bi flings
>But guys are ONLY gay or straight
Welp, time to go on a fucking murder spree
>>5852137
It's okay anon, they'll come around to the idea eventually.
>>5852137
face the facts.
People don't take women seriously. That's why women kissing each other or even fucking each other is considered harmless. If they have sex with each other, it's not considered "real sex".
But a guy buttfucking another guy is considered the "point of no return", that's it. You're gay mate. No way of coming back to bi land or straight land. Sex with a penis involved is seen as the only real sex. Both men and women see it this way.
Honestly, I think almost all men are bi and would fuck anything with a hole as long as it's cute. Just look at ancient societies like Japan, Rome, and Greece. Sexual identities weren't a thing back then, but a lot of men were openly fucking both boys and girls.
It's only because of Abrahamic religions that any kind of close sexual relationships with men are seen as taboo. America is riddled with this societal belief as a whole due to their Christian/Puritan/Judaic roots.
>>5852137
lesbians generally don't really like bi girls, they have that whole Gold Star meme and the story of dating a bi girl who leaves them for sausage is one most are all too familiar with
In both cases it's more likely to be the women with the problem though, both bi girls and bi guys don't have too much trouble with straight/gay guys.
>>5852230
>both bi girls and bi guys don't have too much trouble with straight/gay guys.
i've never really heard of issues with bi girls/straight guys, but the gay guys here absolutely abhor bi men. Gay men will fuck them, but it's an inside thing where a lot of them will tell each other to never get serious with a bi guy.
bi guys and straight girls are a whole 'nother story
>>5852230
I just don't get it though, it seems way blown out of proporiton honestly
>Biguy leaves gay guy for another gay guy
>"Ugh what a fucking bitch, he left me for another guy"
>Biguy leaves gay guy for a girl
>"OMG OMG FUCKING BREEDERSCUM, HE LEFT ME TO FUCKING LOVE A GIRL BISCUM GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEE"
It's literally the dumbest fucking thing ever. Here's hoping to me being able to find at least 1 fucking bi girl to date, since she'll fucking understand what it's like being sexually attracted to pretty much anyone hot
>>5852230
les here
generally I'm okay with getting serious with a bi girl. I don't even care if her main schlick material is yaoi shit.
The problem is, is that most bi girls admitted that they get really bad cases of cocklust when in a monogamous relationship. So that's a deal breaker for me and why I tend to avoid most bi girls.
>closeted bi to everyone but my fiance
>nothing but gay dreams for a week
wake me up
>>5852304
kinda true, but i believe that gay men don't have so much fear and hate to bi guys like straight women or lesbians, at least in my experience.
do you have problems with another bi guy?
>>5852385
to be quite honest sempai,
it's because a lot of gays aren't looking for a serious relationship. Most of them want to pump and dump.
Women on the other hand are looking for serious relationships so they're way more picky and size up their prospects for any red flags.
>>5852385
idk why but more than a few gays think bi men are just faggots in denial.
How do I tell if a girl is bi?
>>5852349
Why would it even be a deal braker?
>>5852426
because eventually they'll want to get back with men?
Also, alot of them don't seem to think things through. Many of them don't realize that in the future they'll want a normie family with kids and shit. I ain't doing that.
I'm not saying all bi girls are cocklusting cases who secretly go on 4chan to confess how badly they want to suck some rando's dick, but most of them lean straight.
Finding a bi girl who doesn't have those urges is rare as fuck.
>>5852443
>because eventually they'll want to get back with men?
Why do you think that?
I mean, I might be getting something wrong, but it sounds like normal sexual urges straight and gay people get when monogamous
>>5852459
I already told you m8, most bi girls lean straight.
Besides, I could joke and say "hey that famous celebrity chick is hot, I wanna date her" but I'm satisfied with the pussy of my current gf.
Literally every bi chick I've ever met, the conversation goes like this:
>Her: i'm bi and lesbians never want to date me
>Me: I'll date you as long as you don't have cocklust
>Her: Oh but sometimes I wanna fuck guys too because I get urges, i'm sorry but I can't help it. Is it possible we can be poly?
just nope.
>>5852459
yeah I dunno. I'm not saying D lust doesn't happen, it seems totally plausible, but isn't it just as likely that these girls are just getting restless period and there are way more men into them that they can fuck than women?
>>5852477
of course.
So why bother with them.
>>5852483
shrug. not telling you to
I hope gay men don't think about me in the same way though :3
>>5852473
yeah that's pretty rude, I can understand your position
I just feel really sorry for the bi girls who would be fine in monogamous same sex relationships, who have to suffer under the bi reputation for D lust etc.
It seems sensible for bi people to stay closeted when in a serious relationship, to be honest.
Bisexual chick here, every bi girl I meet immediately thinks bi means open relationship. Less than a week in and they're out sucking some dick. I just want a nice girl, that's all I ask. :,(
>>5852331
I don't know why either, but it's definitely a bigger kick in the balls to be left for a woman.
>>5852515
you have to ask for exclusivity
>>5852515
aww, same les here
I'd date you anon. You sound cool. I don't care about gold star memes, just want a loyal gf is all.
Don't know how to respond to replies yet and on mobile. :/
>>5852535 #
Maybe do it like that?^ I dunno. But thanks. :) I just want to find a nice girl who won't cheat and loves me for me. Forget all that "gotta look good" bullshit. I'm loving them for their hearts. <3
>>5852559
>Forget all that "gotta look good" bullshit.
uhhhh.... sorry mate, but I am a shallow one.
It'd be nice to have a hot /fit/ gf to work out with. No fatties.
>>5852577
I feel you there. Just sayin if she's got buck teeth or a kinda weird nose, not a big deal. I'm not expecting a perfect girl. But definitely no land whales. :*
>>5850255
What non-anecdotal evidence do you have to support those claims?
Well I'm outta here. Gonna go sleep the gay away. Best of luck, guys! ;D
>>5852639
Wait, that works? I could have been straight this WHOLE TIME?
i notice i just cant get along with the gays.
Im bi , i lean straight but i love me some dick from a feminine guy every once in awhile.
The gays are so insecure and flamboyant, constantly giving me shit about liking women and telling me that im in denial. its obnoxious as f.
Best "gay" sex i have ever had was with other bi dudes.
>>5852801
Go ahead and keep to your own kind, breeder.
It's better for everyone that way.
>>5852815
Literally kill yourself, homo scum
I would never usually come to this board but the thread I was talking about it in before died. I know I still like girls but recently I made my first friend online and he's now my closest and only friend. We've been talking every day for a months and we don't know what each other look like but I think I may have kind of a crush on him. I think about cuddling and doing lewd stuff sometimes and him giving me my first kiss. I don't know where else to talk about it so I figured I would just dump my stupid blogpost here.
>>5852843
do you think he might feel the same way?
>>5852888
I don't know. I think he thinks of me of me as more of a little brother or even son (he's a few years older than me) but I don't know, he might. Not that I don't like being thought of as a little brother, it's nice, and I've always wanted a big brother. The thought of actually taking any action is really scary and I would risk ruining our friendship, and of course there's the not knowing what either of us look like and living in different countries thing. I'll probably just keep this in my fantasies, I don't know, I just felt like getting it out I guess.
>>5852815
nah
>>5852819
>>5852910
BREEDERS GO HOME
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>5852935
Why are gays so mean
>>5852938
>bisexual men regard homosexual men as inferior
>use them as disposable cock-sleeves until a willing womb walks by
>homosexual men start avoiding them on account of this trend
>"Why are the gays so mean to us?"
>>5852935
nah
The other day I fucked this super hot chick and my dumbass cuck of a boyfriend dosn't even think its weird I got all dressed up to go to the store.
LMAO fags are such cucks
How do I get rid of the homolust? I have a gf but I check on guys all the time. I check on girls too but that's not that bad because anything I could do with them I can do it with my gf
>>5852966
>like both guys and girls
>date a guy, later date a girl
>OMG he was secretly straight the whole time and never really loved me
>date a girl, later a guy
>OMG he was secretly homo the whole time they never really loved me
We can never win
>>5852998
Homo here--I can understand how that would be frustrating, but from our POV, you are "conveniently gay"--suck dick when you want it but them retreat to "heterosexual privilege" (not in those terms precisely, but in meaning) any time you can't deal with faggotry.
>>5852983
My bf loves hearing about the bitches I fuck. Gets him really horny because it makes me manlier in his eyes.
>>5853009
what do gay men think the ideal behaviour of bi guys should be? Just not to be bi?
>>5852424
if her breath smells like pussy
>>5852515
Probably should just date lesbos or straight men. I can't really imagine a bi dating another bi--twice the competition to worry about.
>>5853009
>Privilege
>>5853031
Pretty much.
I'd be willing to date a bi guy if he was willing to swear off women completely for me - no porn or hetero thoughts whatsoever. I don't think I'd be comfortable with him having female friends either.
>>5853031
Well, I will be the first to say that gay men nor anybody else doesn't get to dictate how bi guys or anybody else behave. BUT, we've all met 100% gay guys who said they were bi- when just coming out, because they were too chicken to admit their whole gay self. Actual bis are not cowards, but one can never know whether someone is truly bi or just hedging his bets. I can't say I have the answers; personally am glad I'm monosexual. One gender's drama is enough to deal with
>>5853009
Maybe your problem is that you take being gay too seriously, like you try to make it a whole new lifestyle and commit part of your life to it, making it part of who you are and expecting everyone else to as well. I don't think of myself any different from when I first realized sometimes I think guys are hot. Nothing in my life changed, I didn't have some big faggy "coming out" event for my friends and loved ones, just sometimes I like fucking or being fucked by guys.
>>5853068
>just sometimes I like fucking or being fucked by guys
If, like with most bisexuals, that is the extent of your same sex desires, then sure, it makes no sense to come out or do anything. You're basically straight with a kinky fetish.
It's different when you date and plan to marry someone of the same sex. People will find out eventually, so it's necessary to come out.
>>5853068
Well tbqh most of the times there is no need to ever come out if you are bi.
Gay guys are doomed because they don't like sex with dudes 'sometimes', they like it all the time, and they only like that, so it's inevitably a big deal for them
>>5853148
>Well tbqh most of the times there is no need to ever come out if you are bi.
Some people are strongly gay leaning (a lot of them actually), it would be really weird to stay in the closet
If you have only a mild preference for guys I could see why coming out would be a hassle, but if you like sex with dudes most of the time and only occasionally pussy then on the other hand it's too much of a hassle to hide it
this thread is hilarious, i knew it would be nothing but 'true' gays and lesbians trying to preach about their insecurities after having dated a bisexual person in the past and gotten cheated on.
also, claiming that you'll only date a bisexual person if they swear off all thoughts of the other sex while dating you is stupid. when you're dating someone, do you swear off all thoughts of other people when you masturbate?
>>5853506
Yes
>>5844980
This
>>5853506
The difference is that bis have a choice over which sex they can masturbate to.
>>5853641
Do you always eat the same flavour of ice cream? Do you always watch exactly the same genres of porn? Sometimes you want vanilla, but sometimes it has to be chocolate.
I don't get the biscum meme, in my experience it was the gay guy that left me because he wasn't ready to settle down and wanted to experience 'life' (fuck more around).
>>5853824
>bi people cant control themselves and let their hornyness take charge
Nice meme, homoshit
>>5844725
Me.
24
Touchless virgin.
Hold me.
>>5853824
Jesus, is it really so impossible for a bi guy to give up the other sex while he's in a relationship?
>>5844725
here, wizard also.
>>5853846
Fuck, if someone wants a monogamous relationship, that's fine. I'm not personally comfortable with someone going out and having sex with other random people either.
But that poster is saying that you can't even fantasize about the opposite sex if you're in a relationship with them. Or look at porn with the opposite sex in it.
Saying "bis have a choice over which sex they can masturbate to" is exactly the same as saying "No, you will always have chocolate if we're dating." What if a partner had some fetish that you didn't share together? Would you "ban" them from fantasizing about that because you personally aren't into it? It's like those crazy chicks who don't want their bf's to even look at porn while their in a relationship, as though it's some kind of competition to them.
>>5853868
I guess this is why I could never date a bisexual. Knowing that my partner couldn't get women out of his head would not only make me feel inadequate, but it would also drive me crazy with jealous paranoia.
>>5853896
This is why I don't think it's a problem with bi people, it's the same jealosy problem again, magnified because that person could also get with the opposite sex.
chicks don't have dicks though, and a strap on isn't the same
>>5853901
You can call it a double standard (and maybe it is), but it's just not the same thing to me. Hell, I'm not even opposed to semi-open relationships, so long as it's exclusively with other men. Homosex is something I understand and appreciate, but women are alien and threatening and I couldn't trust a partner who was into them.
Ideal dating situation for 2 bi people
>Love, romance and hanging out as lovers
>Side sex things are okay as long as the other partner knows and agrees to it
>>5854339
there are plenty of bi people who are find with exclusive, monogamous relationships
>>5854351
fine*
>>5854339
What's with the "bis are all thirsty polys" meme?
I want a monogamous relationship.
Another bi would be nice since there's not all the judgment and jealousy, though.
It's funny. A negative outlook has served me well.
I honestly don't believe I have any power in stopping someone from leaving me. If they want to leave me, they are unhappy. If I force them to stay, they will resent me.
So I don't really have much jealousy. I don't get threatened easily.
>>5853060
>I don't think I'd be comfortable with him having female friends either.
Should he ask you to not have male friends for fear of you leaving him for a pure homosex?
Can't have you dying on me
>>5853930
I would never judge a 100% gay guy for being uncomfortable with dating a bisexual/pansexual guy. Personally I'm bisexual and lean homoromantic and it's been like a personal responsibility of mine to demonstrate how comfortable I am with a longterm monogamous relationship with a man. I wouldn't hang out with straight female friends one on one at my place or their place- out of a desire for trust. I've been cheated on by someone who had a fetish for my being bi and otherwise didn't trust a longterm relationship with me, so that kind of suspicion can really hurt people who are simply open/comfortable about their sexual experiences with both sexes.
>>5854339
The ideal situation is for a threesome. No bi person I have met that is serious about a relationship wants to be able to fuck on the side. They want to be able to explore their sexuality with their partner.
>>5855584
Being a plus one to an established relationship is actually really ideal for me.
It sounds so much less stressful and less pressure.
I'm mostly attracted to females and traps, only men that interest me are model-tier cute or macho-thuggish.
Even declined a recent MM sex offer for a reason that he ain't enough feminine or masculine for my taste.
If I were a woman, I'd be a Dubai escort.
I love you all
BISEXUALITY RULEZ!!!!!!1
>>5852966
>use them as disposable cock-sleeves until a willing womb walks by
But what if I only want to bottom for other boys?
>>5857459
That's just degenerate, anon.
Has sex with a crossdresser a few times and he straight up told me he isn't into me unless he's in the mood. I'm tall and fairly muscular and he's supposedly into girls and other twinks most days of the week.
Do other people here flip flop tastes like this?
>>5844725
Yes, I am 20. I feel my being on the autistic spectrum, and mental health issues, are primarily responsible.
>>5857468
I know...
>>5857473
when it comes to guys yeah. Sometimes I'm into feminine/androgynous looking ones and sometimes I'm into big muscular hairy guys. But never into the two at the same time.
I guess it depends on wether I want to fuck or get fucked
>>5844715
Is it bisexuality if you're a guy who gets aroused/enjoys sex with males and females, but you're only interested in a relationship or emotional investment with females? I thought bisexuality was when you saw them both as equal opportunities for relationships and sex, but is it still the same if you just want the penor but don't see yourself falling in love with a man?
>>5857535
I think most bisexuals are able to have romantic feelings with just one of the sexes, while still enjoying sex with both of them.
>>5844715
Fuck bisexuals.
>>5857535
>Is it bisexuality if you're a guy who gets aroused/enjoys sex with males and females, but you're only interested in a relationship or emotional investment with females?
Yes. That is the very definition of a bisexual man.
>>5857563
this is incorrect, I am I bi guy happily married to another man.
>>5857786
Well, if that's true, your "husband" is in for a nasty surprise when you hit thirty and your breeder alarm finally goes off.
>>5857794
We have both had a vasectomy. We are in a happy, loving, exclusive, monogamous relationship. Does this make you mad?
>>5857804
Mad? That's fucking hilarious. You cucked yourself!
>>5857816
it is pretty funny that we've had vasectomies despite turning out not to need them, I agree
>>5857816
The word "cuck" truly has lost all meaning, has it not?
>>5857863
no, kids are icky
tfw you would love to be the middle in a mmf cuddle, but you'd probably get jelly if the man wanted to fuck the girl
>>5857794
Are you kidding?
Children suck.
>>5857508
> hairs
> ever
Disgusting.
>>5858493
>no hairs
>no dice
but I guess you are one of the straight people. why are there so many straight people on lgbt?
It suddenly dawned on me that many posters here are probably trans. I guess it would be better to have a cis-bisex thread and a trans-bisex thread, me personally I have no interest in trans.
>>5858525
Yeah man
Gettin' real tired of trans people. Not that their existence is a problem (Trump 2016), however I'm only interested in QT twinks to beat.
>>5858501
Probably leaning towards straightness, since only men I find attractive are feminine and hairless. Beards make me puke, seriously. Twinks and traps for the win.
>>5858678
Agreed. Body hair is just incredibly unattractive.
>>5858525
I don't see why people are so freaky about trans folk.
I'm just starting to date a trans girl. She's super nice, super cute.
I've had sex with vaginas and sex with penises. They're both fun. Why does it matter if the secondary sex characteristics aren't the same?
>>5862146
Trans just doesn't do it for me at all, don't know why, it just doesn't.
But I'm not interested in feminine men or androginity either, so.
Turn around.
Stand up like a man and look me in the eye.
>>5862146
Something about it makes me uncomfortable, it's like, transphobia or something. I used to feel the same way about faggotry in general, but I got over it, with exposure or whatever. The same may happen with trans people.
>there are still people who say bisexuals are being "transphobic"
I want off this ride guys.
>>5862188
That makes sense. I enjoy androgyny (though admittedly I prefer androgynous girls to androgynous boys) so it would easily lead into me liking trans people.
>>5862840
That's not really what I meant. Plus who says that bis are transphobic? In my experience, bis are way more accepting of trans people compared to other orientations. Since, y'know, no identity crisis or anything.
>>5857557
My boyfriend does just that. Man, I'm lucky to have him.
>>5858501
Awwww. QT little nut sack kitty.
>>5862840
the "bisexuality means 2" meme need's to die, i know more than a trans woman and a trans man that are sick of the pansexuals, especially when they say "only pansexuals can find hot trans people", others pansexual faggots says that "bisexuals don't like non binary genders" implying that these genders are 100% real and don't have nothing in common with "man and woman", i love androgyny and i find hot a lot of "agenders, genderqueers, specialsnowflakes, etc." precisely because these people usually are androgyne, a mixture of feminity and masculinity, not something totally new and different to man and females. seriously, "pansexuals" and "polysexuals", are just fucking bisexuals, if you like men and women you are bisexual, end of the history.
all of "genderqueer ppl" still fall in men and women, at least on the physical sex. true hermaphrodites are extremely rare.
>>5863039
i heard more than a "pansexual" saying that, and these people are always fucking tumblrinas feminist who are not trans, i know more than a transgender who is sick of these people.
>>5863164
> find hot a lot of "agenders, genderqueers, specialsnowflakes, etc." precisely because these people usually are androgyne, a mixture of feminity and masculinity
and I find hot, not these people. So you see it helps to have a word differentiating us, wouldn't you agree?
>>5863184
>why there's not a different word for gays who likes fem guys and not masc guys.
>why there's not a different word for lesbians who dated trans woman.
>why there's not a different word for straights who likes extremely fat girls.
also, even if i like androgyny, the existence of thing like "nonbinary, agender, genderqueer, etc." is very doubtful, the majority of these people still have a appereance of their birth sex, at least these genders don't have the importance of man-woman even if X culture believe in these thirds genders.
>>5863231
But I think there should be words for those things. I don't believe in or care for people who talk about third gender, but I do care for language. And unlike most people I don't get triggered if someone runs around and say they are a third gender because it doesn't concern me. The more we can properly describe our experiences the better, so we can avoid misunderstanding.
If someone talks about being third gender, I know to stay clear of them without having to find that out later.
If someone likes fem guys and not masc guys, I know to stay clear from them and don't have to waste my time.
This is why I had no problem adapting cis and trans, because now I can easily stay away from the trans.
So I'm gay.
I really like bi men actually. They're more of the guys I want to be with. Because they act like the man in a relationship and they're always the big spoon when we cuddle.
The sex is amazing too. I like only being the bottom. And I enjoy a blowjob too.
The only thing is... I'm quite masculine if physical features and quite feminine in everything else I do... Bi men doesn't deem to like that. If you wanna talk about this add me on kik as I won't be coming back here.
Blackstar616616
We can talk for shits and giggles but if you want lewd talk, then say so at the beginning.
Also I don't do face pics. And I'm a chubby femboi just so you don't freak out :3
All these options yet I'm still so fucking alone
>>5863560
Where u @ bb
>>5844725
Virgun bifag reporting.
>>5863092
You really are a vile obscene animal. I absolutely hate your kind. I notice you say 'lucky', do you feel lucky? I bet you do. I bet that's all you feel. 'Lucky'. Lucky to have a poor sap like your imbecile of a boyfriend to leech off of until you see the next pretty thing with a rotten fish-hole shaking her ass down the street.
Get genital warts, you two-faced snake.
>>5854339
I want a monogamous relationship tho
>>5857459
Yes please. I want a qt boyfriend who will hold me and slide up inside me
>>5844715
I'm not really bisexual because I only top very cute boys, the right term is Seme. That is very masculine and straight, I never bottom. I just see a ripe cute boy and know what needs to be done to his boicherry.
>>5863789
why are you so triggered?
>>5863240
Okay!
What should we call a guy who only likes women with small titties and a flappy, beef-curtainy vagina?
How can a girl or guy trust you to be faithful (or even happy) when part of you could want something neither of them can offer by themselves?
I know this is a common question and it's unfair to you guys but it is a genuine concern of mine. I can't change my gender X years down the road and I'm not into threeways or open relationships. Then again, a normal relationship feels like I'm forcing you into some sort of abstinence. Damm.
Some thoughts and experiences?
superior bisexual cis male here, i've basically won at life :^)
>>5864510
I mean, maybe that is a genuine concern with some bi people. To be honest I only know one other bi person irl, I have a romantic temperament for a guy, and I have read online about bi people missing the gender they're not with, so I'm not necessarily representative. But for me, if I like you, I like YOU. What I want isn't "to be with a man today" or "to be with a woman today", I want to be in love and cuddle and get off with the person I love.
>>5864510
Even in normal relationships this is not something you can trust. Straight people seeking counseling usually do so because their sex life has gone stale, and they have to rediscover it through dumb benign sex board games.
Gay couples tend not to even be couples because they are so rigid in their sexual roles they rather find new partners to fuck then to shake things up in the bedroom.
There are no guarantees in life. When I'm with a woman or a man that means I'm with them, they are what I need them to offer. But when I'm straight I'm straight, when I'm gay I'm gay. It's in between I'm bi, and then things could go either way.
>>5864556
elaborate
>>5864510
What if I'm with you, a guy with an average cock and you can't offer me a big cock?
What if I'm with you, a girl with no tits and you can't offer me massive tits?
Not being able to offer everything and anything to your partner isn't something that doesn't exist outside of bisexuals. It's possible for a straight guy to feel like fucking a cute small Asian girl when they're in a relationship with a thick latina milf, and vice versa.
>>5864510
i think its pretty impossible for one person to completely encapsulate everything you could find attractive about someone, even if you're only attracted to one gender. In my relationship talking about/commenting on the various shit we find attractive is fun, be it similarity or differences. me and my gf are both bi but we have differently leaning preferences, so i feel like our case is still relevant here. as long as you have a proper communicative relationship there should never be any fear of someone cheating on you because if there is an issue it'd be talked about and worked out. and if you don't have that level of communication, that's a way bigger issue in terms of relationship stability/happiness than any unexplored sexuality
>>5844741
What if I am atractted to the idea of being fucked by a man but not to a man
>>5864510
I like introverts. I like extroverts. I like tall people. I like short people. I like assertive people. I like timid people. I like exaggeratedly gendered people. I like androgynous people.
No one person can be every single thing that I like in people.
Why can't you trust that I am happy?
Sorry I'm late to the party
>>5867175
Welcome welcome
>>5867234
So, what's the topic?
>>5866575
I'm also wondering the answer to this.
I only wanted to have a romantic relationship with one man, we were in highschool, he was on the soccer team, I just wanted to kiss his lips and touch his chest. Some guys I just wanted to fuck and be done, but I felt more romantic towards him. I'm into femboys, not muscular men.
>>5863789
That's a bit rude, now isn't it?
>>5863789
>comes into bisexual thread
>gets triggered by bisexuals
>>5864510
>How can a girl or guy trust you to be faithful (or even happy) when part of you could want something neither of them can offer by themselves?
Because i'm not attracted to every man and woman i see at all times. Despite being bi i've personally only been attracted to two people in the past 5 years, one man and woman.
I'm dating this hypothetical person for a reason, so there is something i enjoy about them. If i really wanted the opposite sex i would date them instead.
>>5852217
I link that to age old feminist discussions of the penetrative act being the only thing considered "real" sex in patriarchal societies. Even as a teenager, I thought oral wasn't "real" sex, even though I knew you could get diseases from it. I look back at how quickly I would go down on someone I would make out with, and wonder how I didn't get more accusations of "rape" because I didn't ask first, and there was even one person who kept saying "no, wait" and I kept insisting it was fine. Yeesh.
>>5852304
why is this? because of fear of competition or what? I like going to pride events and gay bars, and plenty of guys will flirt with me, but because I present as normie/straight kid, they assume I am and like me as that one off conquest, and never take me seriously as queer. It hurts, man. Worse, if I decide I really like a guy, since I already fucked him, he has no more interest. That was why I stopped trying to date gay men.
>>5852349
shit, I'm married and I have a terrible thirst for both cock and pussy. For people with high libido, it's always a thing, it doesn't really have shit to do with gender or orientation. Honestly, you have the same risk with any partner who has a high libido, especially if they don't deeply value monogamy.
>>5852459
seconded.
>>5852515
>nice girl
>open relationship
why are people who aren't into monogamy automatically sluts, bitches, and assholes?
if you want exclusivity, fucking say so. when they violate that, dump them.
>>5852966
is this a thing? what about the men who've never done that? also aren't lots of gays into fucking someone only once and moving on?
>>5853060
WHAT? WHY? WHY THE FUCK IS THAT NECESSARY?!
>>5844725
Just completing my wizard training sir, nothing more.
*Sobs uncontrollably*
>>5853139
so the fact that I came all over the stomach of some guy I met the same day last week while his dick was buried in my ass and that I think sucking dick is fun and sexy is just a kinky fetish because I haven't met a guy I'd wanna spend my life with?
>>5854339
fucking this. why can't I meet people of this opinion?
Need some advice. I have a gf but I love to webcam with guys. Should I try to take this to the other level and gain the courage to fuck my Skype friends? What should I expect?
>>5868114
ask your gf participate in your skype sessions.
then, what to do will be made extremely obvious, one way or the other.
>>5868126
But I dont her to find out
>>5868131
why? being out is so much better anon. if she's into it, your sex is going to be awesome.
>>5868154
Don't think she is. It's going to be a solo job. The other also has a gf and I don't this a good idea
>>5866470
good gif sempai, SF3 is a truly underrated game.
baww
>have dysmorphia
>uncontrollably compare yourself to everyone you see of the same sex
>tfw spark of attraction and self-esteem are crushed by obsessive thoughts every. single. time.
Today is especially bad, friends.
>>5870136
I actually know these feels...
>>5869978
Then good luck and treat the dating process like many women do. If you want something serious, try to make sure he's serious before you let him get in your pants.
If I have to be 100% honest, though, there was one guy who I fucked the night I met him and the situation was reversed. He, the gay guy wanted to continue seeing me, and I, the bi, decided I didn't like him enough. He was a really sweet guy, but it just wasn't there.
>>5870136
Obsessive thoughts?
>>5870271
>Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), also known as body dysmorphia or dysmorphic syndrome, but originally termed dysmorphophobia, is a mental disorder characterized by an obsessive preoccupation that some aspect of one's own appearance is severely flawed and warrants exceptional measures to hide or fix it.[1] In BDD's delusional variant, the flaw is imagined.[2] If the flaw is actual, its importance is severely exaggerated.[2] Either way, one's thoughts about it are pervasive and intrusive, occupying up to several hours a day. The DSM-5 categorizes BDD in the obsessive–compulsive spectrum, and distinguishes it from anorexia nervosa.
>>5870299
I'm not that other anon, but I was hoping to hear about what you obsess about. Being more specific about how the obsessive thoughts get in the way.
>>5847372
Bi sexuality can possibly receive all this hate because its the least relatable. All other sexuality keep their expectations and attractions consistent but Bi sexual can't be predictable because they are attracted to both and its attraction can change.
>>5870426
>>5870438
Not him, but for me its my nose, my forehead, my jaw, my eyes, my neck, my spine, my hips, my dick, my knees and my skin.
It depends sometimes it just vanishes and something else takes over, then I constantly check mirrors or take pictures of that specific part and compare it with pictures of others or look up anatomy and genetic faults in anatomy. If I go out I make sure to dress up to hide the specific part I'm obsessing over.
>>5870426
>>5870438
(I'm a cis female.)
I worry constantly about the shape of my face, my hair texture and shape, and more recently my waist and stomach. I think I look like one of those starving kids with stick limbs and swollen unhealthy bellies, ratty frizzy hair, and a face that alternates between looking like a half-melted G.I Joe (molten blurry features + man jaw) or a bloated, rotting prepubescent boy. I don't see my body as one coherent picture, just a bunch of jagged pieces that don't fit together quite right.
I avoid mirrors and photos as much as possible and wear loose, concealing clothing. On a particularly bad day, like today, I can't even watch tv because I can't turn off the compulsion to compare myself, no matter how much I tell myself that those actresses have thousands of dollars to spend on cosmetics and personal trainers.
When I see another woman my thoughts are like
>she'd rather (suicide method) than touch me.
>i'd be cheated on for her in a heartbeat.
>she has cheekbones, she looks like a *woman.* unlike me.
>she wears makeup and does her hair right, she looks like a *woman.* unlike me.
>must be nice, looking like a human.
>sexuality is pointless, nobody will ever actually want me.
>>5850259
touch his dick in an innocent way and flirty with him. If he has an holdups about letting you go down on him I'm sure he'll make it really known if he detects your serious
>>5844725
By all rights I shouldn't be but because I'm a fucking retard I turned down sex with a qt.
>>5844715
How do I find a non gay-looking top on okcupid without declaring myself bi or gay?
>>5871053
Why don't you want to declare yourself as bi or gay?
>>5853896
That's your problem then, not bisexual peoples. And if you're that insecure about dating someone you think might cheat on you, Then I'd have trouble trusting you to begin with.
>>5871053
Make 2 accounts, one for chicks and one for guys.
I like trannies
I like women as well
I dont like men
Am I straight?
