>be me
>meet this cute transgirl online
>we share pics
>send her some flattering pictures of myself
>can't believe she wants my D
>tell her she's the first transgirl I've ever met and tell her she's really cute
>she likes me back and tells me she thinks I'm hot too
>she asks if being trans bothers me
>i say no way
>i say I love transgirls and tgirl porn is about the only thing I jerk it to, you ever heard of Natalie Mars? You kinda look like her, you're mega cute and everything
> she suddenly logs off
>never responds back to me ever again
why
>>5842447
You fuqqed up
Try and not be creepy and disgusting
>>5842447
You saw her as a fetish, not as a person. I would have fled as well.
>>5842447
>i say I love transgirls and tgirl porn is about the only thing I jerk it to
>>5842447
>hey, you know this porn star Sharen Cox? I really like jacking off to her and you look just like her!
>hey where did you go?
>why did you stop talking to me?
I understand you've probably never talked to a woman before, but usually it's a bad idea to compare them to pornography you like to fap to
>>5842447
When she asked if her being trans was a problem, she was probably looking to get it out of the way up front. Something polite like "no, that doesn't bother me. I just want to get to know you." Would have probably worked.
Answering by telling her that you masturbate exclusively to tranny porn and comparing her to a porn star is a good way to spook her.
>>5842531
Forget about her dude. She sounds like a bitch.
You can do better :)
>>5842531
Maybe you sounded to enthusiastic/pushy then. That can also scare shy people off. It's like throwing stones at Chansey in the Safari Zone.
>>5842531
>I love Tgirls
you made it sound like you go out of your way to find trans girls rather than "i dont care if youre trans i just think youre cute". making you sound like a weird fetishist.
also tgirls is a porn term and makes you sound even creepier.
>>5842531
wait what
so what part of
>i say I love transgirls and tgirl porn is about the only thing I jerk it to, you ever heard of Natalie Mars? You kinda look like her, you're mega cute and everything
did you actually say? did you not say like the entire last half of it and just decided to bring it up now?
>I thought transgirls were totally into other trangirls like Natalie who you know, pass and cam, and live their dream pretty much?
well, that's retarded, stop thinking that
like again, would you compare a regular girl to a porn star in an attempt ti pick her up? I mean besides no because you never talk to girls. No, because that would literally be retarded
>>5842572
Oh yeah, T-Girl is the cringiest word I've never heard wow... ive never heard anyone but an ancient omega hon use it
>>5842573
I told her I love transgirls.
Then I told her she was super cute like Natalie Mars.
I dunno man, so many of the transgirl blogs I read on tumblr and twitter all really dig her so I thought it was a good idea to bring her up.
>>5842531
"tgirls" is a gross porn term and also it's red flag for "thirsty for the d". we usually don't want to give guys the d. it's supposed to be the other way around.
>I thought transgirls were totally into other trangirls like Natalie who you know, pass and cam, and live their dream pretty much?
no. it's not like our highest aspiration is to be fuckdolls. even for trans women in porn, it's not that.
>>5842636
well you coulda fucking fooled me with the mtf threads here...
>>5842623
lmao that's hilarious
>>5842623
so you did compare her to a porn star
well, next time be less retarded lol
>>5842656
i don't get it...
you guys praise Bailey Jay all the time tho
>>5842623
>so I thought it was a good idea to bring her up
yeah, bringing up trans porn stars and inadvertently revealing that you spank it to tranny porn, that sure was a great idea lmao
Try not being a weirdo next time.
Lmao this reminds me of a message that I got on OKC.
>Hey cutie I'm into trans girls. I love pleasuring their useless cocks.
Block him then he makes another account;
>What did I say? Fucking sensitive bitch whatever
>>5842677
i thought transgirls also masturbated to transgirl porn? A lot of them do here on 4chan, tumblr, and twitter.
Thought it was an open thing....
>>5842644
Don't base your views in life on porn and 4Chan.
That's stupid.
>>5842683
i never mentioned penises...
the only penis in the that conversation was my dick pics, which she loved.
I don't get it. you guys say not to compare you guys to porn stars but I see you guys talking about how hot they are here or how much you look up to them all the time
>>5842674
>>5842677
>>5842684
>i browse a lot of tranny porn tumblrs
>all the trannys porn stars there talk to each other and like each other
>all trannys must love tranny porn stars!
pls dont be retarded
i know its hard but the easiest way you can think about this is as if you were talking to a regular girl. i know you dont do that a lot but you mus at least understand the basics, like comparing a girl to porn is generally not ideal
>>5842701
well, lesson learned I guess.
I just wanted to let her know that I accept all of her. I even prefer transgirls over cis girls. Is that so wrong?
>>5842719
telling her she reminds you of porn you love to fap to was what was wrong, what are you not understanding about this you retarded fuck
>>5842644
Were you looking at posts by transbians or straight trans girls?
>>5842730
mostly the straight ones.
>>5842755
How do you know they were straight?
>>5842778
mtf general is for straight mtfs, no?
That and a lot of their posts was about them drooling over cocks and getting fucked by dudes so I assume they're straight.
>>5842782
It's supposed to be. I'm not sure what it's actually like since I don't go there often.
>>5842782
>mtf general is for straight mtfs, no?
ayy lmao. most of the people there are weeaboo fetishist who want to live anime IRL and fuck cute girls with their dick.
>>5842790
as opposed to the other mtf threads?
anon plz
stewing and brewing for men indeed
>>5842447
Trans girls can't be loved by guys, because guys love prettiness, which means he will either find a trans girl unattractive or like her for being trans, which is unacceptable to her because she wants him to ignore her appearance (which she is hyper sensitive over) and like her for being a girl in her behavior instead.
>>5842891
the hilarity of it all...
chasers chase after trans girls who reject them
trans girls chase after guys who don't want them
>>5842531
>She was cuter than Mars tho
I wish I could strangle you for fucking this up. Please die, anon. Please.
>>5842905
And when a guy actually does want them but isn't a chaser, they assume he's just a chaser who lies. I'm not talking about OP here, OP is clearly a chaser who is also on the spectrum. I just find it interesting that "straight guy who is ok with a transgirl" is kinda the dream, but one that a lot of girls don't actually believe in.
don't listen to the haters op
you're right that many mtf's do admire mtf porn stars, and natalie mars is a tasteful choice. but at least as many of us have a strong dislike of shemale porn, or go through a phase of coming to terms with it.
bailey jay is one of my idols and i think natalie mars is cool. i look up to them and other trans porn stars for their confidence, charisma, sex appeal, and open-mindedness. if you had said that to me, i would have been relieved to know you're specifically interested in girls like me as opposed to settling for someone you view as less attractive than the "real thing". but a lot of mtf's don't feel that way and unfortunately you can't please everybody :(
>>5842993
thanks anon.
But I won't be using the "you look like Mars but cuter" line again. I guess I'll keep my dirty chaser secret to myself.
>>5843055
honesty in relationships is important
it's much more valuable than the opinions of some anonymous 4channers
>>5842962
>I just find it interesting that "straight guy who is ok with a transgirl" is kinda the dream, but one that a lot of girls don't actually believe in.
The dream is "straight guy who mentally pictures you as a girl regardless of how you look just like how you mentally identify yourself as a girl"
>hey i fap to your kind
>why no gf ;_;
wow OP
you redefining the word omega here
>>5842938
Did you fuck something similar up too, anon? Or are you mad he fucked up an opportunity you wish that you had?
>>5842681
More like don't bother with a next time.
>>5842782
>mtf general is for straight mtfs, no?
No, it is general MtF discussion of all sorts by MtFs. Orientation is any.
>>5843055
You don’t have to keep it a SECRET, just don’t bring it up unless asked, and if you are, immediately reassure her that you understand the difference between porn and real life, and that you don’t see her as a sex object. Usually I don’t encourage this sort of patronage, but trans girls do have a unique and legitimate problem with being pursued primarily as sex toys.
>>5843121
But who would believe that if a guy said it, and who would assume he has just a dishonest chaser? Every time I see a guy on these boards at least claim to be that sort of guy, "you lie" is the most common comment.
>>5843267
The latter. So much the latter... Nataline Mars is SUPERCUTE and this bastard almost had a girl who has even cuter. I mean common, use your brain! I once met a (cis)girl that looked almost exactly like one of my fave pornstars and it was AWESOME but did I tell her that? NO! Would any normal guy tell any ciswoman "hey you look just like my fave pornstar" and then be suprised when the woman is wierded out? Are you listening to this, OP? >>5843055
>I guess I'll keep my dirty chaser secret to myself.
Nope, THAT'S not what you did wrong. It was comparing a woman to a pornstar which is a NO NO regardless of her birthgender.
>>5843055
>I guess I'll keep my dirty chaser secret to myself.
Do you like... still not get it?
That's not the problem, the problem is that you decide it's a good idea to bring up the porn stars you like during the first conversation with a girl you are interested in and compare her to pornography. This is very unappealing, like always
>>5844448
>I once met a (cis)girl that looked almost exactly like one of my fave pornstars and it was AWESOME but did I tell her that? NO! Would any normal guy tell any ciswoman "hey you look just like my fave pornstar" and then be suprised when the woman is wierded out?
yeah i really don't understand how he cannot grasp this simple concept of basic human interaction
like this is talking to people 101
>>5844468
OP is clearly on the spectrum. I don't mean that as a meme; just look at his posts, he's really having a hard time understanding what he did wrong and that there is a difference between our most private thoughts and what we say to others. I know some cool guys who are aspies, and I'm just saying OP's way of thinking reminds me of them.
Fetishization isn't seen as genuine attraction. "Chasers" just want transgirls for what they are rather than who they are.
Protip: Don't come off as a fetishist/chaser who watches trap porn all day.
>>5842572
If the person OP was talking to was actually a girl:
>She asks if being a girl bothers me
>I say no way, I love girls
Suddenly it's okay.
>>5842447
Women real or not can't help but Hate cucks, but never give up.
>>5842447
Here's a step by step breakdown or your mistakes
>literally fetishize Trans girls by saying it's the only thing you jack to.
>(I laughed so hard at this) LITERALLY COMPARED HER TO A CAMGIRL/PORNSTAR
> T-girl. Most Trans girls I know prefer just girl.
Oh man OP you dun goofed. I needed a laugh. Well good luck next time. It should go without saying but since you seem a little inexperienced with this, when you do finally hide your hilarious inept creepiness and fuck a Trans girl, just ignore her pens unless she tells you otherwise.
I'm in the camp where I don't mind chasers, as long as someone has the capacity to care about me and not be ashamed by me I'm good. But if you're literally comparing me to your jerkoff material, that's a biiiig red flag brah.
>>5842723
It's my favourite cis pickup line. Hey girl you remind me of this lady who get railed for cash.
>>5844499
"Do you like transgirls?"
"I love transgirls!"
"WTF WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL ME A GIRL?"
>>5844478
im not a brain doctor but i guess that seems likely. idk doe, most autistic people i know can learn what they've been doing wrong in human interaction, like through rote learning and stuff. Probably sucks to have to do but maybe this guy can
>>5844496
>Why, though? Can you even describe it with logic?
girls have bad feefees when u compare them to people who have sex for money. it makes them not want to talk to you.
>>5842531
>who you know, pass and cam, and live their dream pretty much?
>She was cuter than Mars tho
Try to not come off as such a retarded cuck that jerks off all the time and maybe someone might take a chance on you and not end up regretting it in the end.
>>5844499
Why are you so blunt?
>>5844513
>Why are you so blunt?
>4chan
>>5844513
>blunt
>telling lies on the internet
>responding to yourself
>blunt
>>5844506
>girls have bad feefees when u compare them to people who have sex for money. it makes them not want to talk to you.
That would make sense if OP had told the person he was talking to "acts" like her, but he said she "looks" like her, which isn't a comment about her personality. Her logic is incorrect and thus is at fault.
>>5844505
Transgirls, is fine, Tgirl is not, at least for me anyway. Because of the heavy association with porn. For me it's as bad as shemale.
>>5844513
Because I care about you getting that sweet sweet bp. It should be noted that most of the chasers who are successful, are usually successful with cis girls too. So work on your game. If you got this far, you can again. ~Look at this as practice.
>>5844522
>Her logic is incorrect and thus is at fault.
well i guess that's her problem
your problem is that she's still not going to fuck you no matter how much you whine to 4chan about why she shouldn't find you disgusting
>inb4 i-im not OP i'm j-just some other retard
>>5842699
Their logic is impaired.
May your sweet words of a chaser go down in /lgbt/ meme history
>>5844529
I don't want to fuck her.
>>5844530
man, you really need to get some actual medical help because you seriously have medical autism. a core concept of human interaction is that they don't act based on the perfect logical system you have set up in your head. humans are emotional beings and react based on their emotions often irrationally and these reactions are what you have to be able to understand and work around. no amount of complaining about how irrational they are will help. what can help is a trained medical professional. please seek help
>>5844539
>tfw u made it into a fun meme cap
>>5844539
You're pretty much a bully.
>>5844546
>im being bullied on 4chan
TOPKUK
>>5842447
Telling a girl what you masturbate too is really autistic and a good way to make them lose interest regardless of if they're trans or not. Unless you're in a long term relationship already, then it's fine but if you're trying to get with someone don't say "I masturbate to someone that looks like you".
>>5844540
>I don't want to fuck her.
You just want to jack off to the thought of her then?
>cuck
>>5842447
you're better off without her
she should have given you a chance if she was really interested
you should get stars for honesty and not being like one of these people who say only flattering sweet
lies
>>5844545
>perfect logical system you have set up in your head
Logic is absolute.
>humans are emotional beings and react based on their emotions often irrationally and these reactions are what you have to be able to understand and work around
No, I don't.
>>5844552
please see a doctor :c
you can get through this
>>5844549
No.
>>5844546
They are a bully. But this is funny. Live and learn.
>>5844550
Would she have gotten stars for honesty for saying something like;
> I really want you to slam my bp but I have a mad case of the shits?
>I really hate having to shave my chest
>I havent used my dick in a few weeks so now it's bent and agnoisingly painful when I'm hard bb
>>5844552
That's pretty to illogical to not learn to navigate social norms, as we are social creatures.
>>5842683
he was right and I'd love bf like him
i am aware that my cock is useless and yet it is still a sex organ...oh god, pleasuring? meaning hes willing to play with it or something-instead of just fucking me in the ass and saying goodbye?
best bf
>>5844558
I clearly said I wasn't OP.
>>5844513
It's the male upbringing/socialization.
>>5844558
>So you wanted to be her friend after you sent a dick picture to her and called her cute?
My fucking sides. This is actually what these faggots are like. I bet he sent her a message saying she was a bitch and he didn't want her anyway
>>5844559
retard hon trip go back to your general
>>5844572
Y-you too!
>>5844574
giggled our loud
>>5844577
you're not cute animu girl, mane
>>5844585
Dude, mirin is cuter then the fucking moon.
>>5844585
I-I'll try harder senpai.
Check
https://youtu.be/SgQc4ZkVeMY
>>5844588
^v^ cuter then the moon. <3
>>5842699
4chan isn't real life.
>>5844540
Really? Come on at least own your fuck up.
>>5844448
>I once met a (cis)girl that looked almost exactly like one of my fave pornstars and it was AWESOME but did I tell her that? NO!
>comparing a woman to a pornstar which is a NO NO regardless of her birthgender.
I wouldn't mind being compared to a pornstar.
>>5844832
Fair enough. Though I'd imagine the equivalent convo going like this
>oh snap you look so like (pornstar)
t-thanks I guess.. She is really pretty.
>I only jerk off to her......
>want another dick pic?
>pls respond
>bitch
>>5844540
You really are a little cuckboy. You can't even admit the truth to yourself.
>>5844560
>i am aware that my cock is useless and yet it is still a sex organ...oh god, pleasuring? meaning hes willing to play with it or something-instead of just fucking me in the ass and saying goodbye?
>>5845196
>>I only jerk off to her......
This is where you flirt back.
You fucked up, I wouldn't even compare a girl that I liked to a pornstar regardless if they were trans or not or whether or not they did or not. I have a childhood friend who I crushed one who looks like Asa Akira, but did I tell her? hell no.
>>5842891
>trans girls can't be pretty
well memed xD
>>5842447
how could you lack so much tact?
OP fucked up and most of you have accurately pointed out how, but am I the only one who sees where he's coming from? He was just trying to give reassurance that he's okay with trans girls and views them as valid material for romantic and / or sexual interest. Unfortunately because the public face of transgenderism is predominated by porn stars, he inadvertently came across as fetishising her. OP, I totally get what you were trying to say, but it's important to understand that most guys who are interested in trans girls only view them as sex objects, and that's probably been the overwhelming majority of the interest that this girl has received from guys. Her brain has been primed by her experiences to expect that guys just want to pump and dump her, so you have to be very ginger in how you express interest in her. I know it's not completely rational, but people, and especially women, tend not to be, especially not when they have as much psychological baggage as most trans girls accumulate. Next time maybe use one of the (admittedly rare) examples of famous trans women who AREN'T porn stars, and call them brave or inspiring or something, to make your point.
