I am a middle 20 something virgin male that realised I was Bisexual some weeks ago. Always thought I was a Straight white cis male, but came across some porno of a mastrubating man coming all over his chest that made me feel amazing stuff. Have had so much fun exploring bisexual porn, gay porn, lesbian porn etc being BI is Great! But the reason I made this thread is because of all the bad stuff I read that the LG communities do to BI people, the whole forcing them to deny their bisexualty etc. Repulsive behavior. I hope I don't come across any such horrible biphobes. I am not waving that rainbow flag any time soon. I live in Norway in a "big city" so I guess it would be hard to find a better place to be BI, but it still got me unsetteled after all those wonderfull feelings I have had.
>>5838379
oh no is poor baby's feelings hurt :c
>>5838379
don't follow the stereotypes and you won't have a problem
>>5838379
DIRTY SWITCHEROO
>>5838379
Bi fem here, I took my boyfriend to pride and these two gay guys came up and thanked us for being allies
>>5838379
being bi is shit, you're gonna get shat on, just try and roll with the punches or play gay when you wanna screw a gay guy and play straight when you wanna screw a chick
>>5838379
I came out as bisexual to my mom and she told me she would always love and accept me, then she turned around and asked me if I preferred men or women
>>5838379
I recently found out I was bisexual too. I told my boyfriend because I felt like he had a right to know, but he threw it all in my face by asking me if I would be interested in a threesome
>>5838379
This is my first post here. I too believe I am bisexual, and have only recently admitted to myself and a close friend that this is OK. Thank you for making this thread, so I didn't have to. I really am not sure where to start when it comes to confirming these notions, as I am still acclimating to the idea. Any suggestions from anyone?
>>5838594
suck a dick
Bisexuality isn't real, you're just a transitory state. Just as transgender isn't an identity, or a gender, it's a midway step to the preferred sex, bisexuality is a midway step to you being gay.
5838773
Not really your just ignorant so don't go spouting stupidity pls
>>5838794
Fail
>>5838742
can confirm this is top advice
Just date other bisexuals this isn't rocket science.
L for L, G for G, B for B. Easy peasy.
As for casual sex nobody really cares about bi's though. Bi's make up the majority of the gay casual sex market plus they're prime targets for robbing since they're usually cheating on someone so I always like to steal some money or drugs off them whenever I hookup with them lol
>>5838379
Don't worry, there are bitter bitches everywhere, you can't let them pull you down.
Gay men who know what's up know that bi guys are the cream of the crop. They're less likely to be obnoxious flamers, and their fondness for pussy and large sexual appetite is arousing.
They're more likely to be sporty bros with a fun broish personality. Sure 90% of them will end up settling down with a woman, but who cares.
>>5838794
>>5838773
My opinion is that if we lived in a world where no one gave a shit about others being gay or bi and our images were accurately represented everywhere (media and such, growing up seeing couples) then the # of people identifying as bisexuals would drop. Don't get me wrong, bisexuality would still be a thing and sexuality is truly a spectrum but I think some bisexuals really are gay with the ability to have limited fun with the opposite sex...
Ignore the negatives
Get money
Fuck bitches and guys too
>>5838969
>gay with the ability to have limited fun with the opposite sex...
soooo bi?
anyway afound this gem on gif, and I quote.
>"Same. I'm bi too, though I'm strictly a top. I've fucked one guy before (Filipino trap, more times than I can count) but I'm with a girl now, and we've had sex. I can only see myself long term with a woman because of how my family would react to it. Since I like girls too it's just a path of least resistance, plus I want my own flesh and blood kids.
I'd still fuck guys if given the chance, it's awesome. But of course I'm not sure I want to know I'm a cheating fuck."
GAS ALL BISEXUALS!
I dont really care about the negative things people might say. I dont tell anyone im bi unless they ask, i make point to be honest with myself and others, when im among gay guys they assume im gay and when with straights they think im straight, the conversation about my sexuality hardly ever comes up in social situations when they're a new group of people, my friends know and they're a mix of gay and straight and none of them give me shit for being bi.
>>5838594
My experiment was: I cleared my mind, I didn't think about what I should feel and looked at porno with nice penises, after several such acts and with those acts ending with me automatically getting butterflies in my stomack high heart rate and a utterly massive boner and tons of sexual fantasies I really had all the needed evidence. I have been watching lesbian and straight male porn for years and really enjoyed it (still do) so it was the Bisexual category that was my sexual orientation. Bisexual porn is utterly amazing, seeing all that maskulinety and feminity and getting off on all of it is just so amazingly good!
>>5839451
Porn doesn't seem like a good test to me, I fap to gay porn all the time and I've never had so much as a crush on a guy. I don't think I could be sure unless I had a good gay experience with an actual human bean.
Thank you anons for the very nice words. Thank you very much :) I wonder how it will be to let a woman ride me, how it is to suck or ride a a nice dick, how touching the boobs of a beutifoul woman feels like. This is going to be great, Thanks.
>>5839468
You might not have meet the right person. I sure haven't, being a virgin and all. But I am up for both posibillities as a partner.
Hvilken by?
>>5839547
Trondheim.
>>5838461
That's a beautiful story. I guess I should not be so harsh. There are no doubt both good and bad people in those groups, like in all large groups.
>>5839561
Samme.
>>5839625
Im not someone for casual love stuff if that is where this is going. I was sort of hoping for information about what it would mean to be a somewhat open bisexual in Trondheim. Though the word used in norwegian would be "bifil" and not bisexual due to silly political correctness stuff.
>>5838379
the beaking
>>5839157
>soooo bi?
Nope. Humans are hardwired to go after the best possible choice. Bisexuality doesn't exist because bisexuals will always prefer one sex over the other.
>>5839705
Are you one of those biphobians or yet another shitty troll, or just sarcastic? In terms of attraction and love for me its either way. I think monogamy is the way to go, if it ends with me loving a man or a woman and that person love me in return then thats how it should be. But I won't stop being bisexual ever. Its natural for me and rather liberating to be honest. Makes me far more confident knowing that if there is a posibillity for mutual love then that persons sex will not be a issue if the love is mutual. I really find it terribly romantic.
>>5839729
>monogamy
>bisexuality
nope, that's conflicting
a true bisexual is fundamentally non-monogamous
>>5839670
I think people all in all don't really give a fuck. I personally don't see the reason in going around telling people I'm bi because I don't base my identity on that. Should I wind up in a same sex relationship that will be understood anyway. Some people know, some don't. I'm not part of any lgbt community here, but I know people that are and given how small this city is I'm told everyone knows everyone pretty fast and drama is high. With only one bar/club for lgbts (metro) that's a given. I have no interest in that scene so I couldn't tell you much about it. Otherwise gaysir is your best bet in meeting people. The same people will be on all apps and other sites anyway.
>>5839705
That's retarded. Bisexuality is basically liking 2 things, liking one over the other doesn't cancel out the other.
>>5839757
it does if you claim to be monogamous because you can only choose one sex
>>5839753
Thank you! Your opinion is something I utterly agree with. I really tossed the open bisexual thing out there to get more info and you gave me that. Thanks :) I also feel its a thing that does not define me, and I will tell any romantic partner I get ( if its a man I will tell my parents I am B) as they should know but beyond that it isn't even in the top 100 list of things that define me so why tell anybody but the ones that actually got a need to know. That approach fits norwegian culture really well. I got what I wanted to know and more from this thread. Thank you anons on the LGBT board for making this new and unexperienced bisexual comfortable with his new found Bisexual side. It was really helpfull :)
>>5839767
Bisexuality is a sexual attraction to both sexes, what sex your partner have have nothing to do with it you silly anon. And by monogamy I meant serial monogamy, as in one romantic partner at a time.
If I keep fapping to dick girls will I eventually only be able to get off to burly masculine naked guys?
I hear this story from the "gays" a lot.
Is it true?
>>5838379
>scared about people not liking bisexuals
Are you fucking joking?
>>5839909
Yes it is.
But you can do it even with...robot dinosaurs having sex, you can develop fetishes.
Just don't overthink and do what you like.
Gays are afraid "bi" would steal their "special status".
The play the "open mind card" all the time and,well, a bi guy is basically someone more "open".
And they really don't like being caled "bigot" nor loves the jokes about being afraid of pussy because of mommy/daddy.
So play it cool
>>5838483
How is that throwing it in your face?, that sounds like he is accepting (and interested in joining obviously) what is the problem,?you just want to be able to fool around with someone on the side? THIS is why people have issues with Bisexuals!!! you ARE the stereotype!
