new in this board and it seemed the best place to ask around some questions:

I am a white male, cisgender, consider myself straight (since I never felt attraction to any man).

I also like girls clothes. But not any clothes, nor dresses (I mean they`re cute when they're cute but they arent cute in me imo). I like to wear female clothes in such a way that they dont really seem "female" nor "male" - I wnated to be slender to do so but lately my shoulders and chest broadened so im kinda sad...

For some reason my (ex? long story) gf said several times that she feels Im a bi in denial or something.

am i?

>>5838211
> I like to wear female clothes
>I never felt attraction to any man
>am i bi in denial?

Nope. Not from what you're saying anyway. Per definition you're a crossdresser, and that's not directly linked to whether you're gay or bi or straight. Your (ex) gf just harbors some mistaken presumptions as to what crossdressing says about a person.

It's not really unusual. Girls wear men's clothes and make them seem androgynous and no-one bats an eye.

>>5838276

so the simple fact that i find some specific pieces of female clothing makes me a crossdresser? even if my goal, so to speak, isnt to "look feminine"?

>>5838355
Borderline, ~per definition~. Personally I would say no, but the point was: dressing a certain way doesn't make you secretly bi.

I think everyone should wear clothes they look good in and not worry about which floor of the store they found them on.

>>5837699
So, I'm kinda interested in dudes. Just kinda, you know....I don't wanna be fucked up the butt. Like ever.

Does that make me a minority? Would other guys be okay with that? I don't really know how to approach the situation. I just wanna bang qt bois, not get banged. I'm just wondering if that makes me weird or something,

>>5837699
Thank you for this thread. I have suspicions that I am bisexual to some degree. How do I acclimate to these feelings?

>>5838573
That's called being a top and it's just as normal as wanting to be banged or wanting to do both.
That's like asking if it's weird to get involved with a girl but only want to fuck her in the vagina and not have her put on a strap on and bang your boy hole.

>>5837699
Source?

>>5838573

Are you serious? Of course you're not a minority. There are guys that are exclusively tops and bottoms. In fact, being a top means it'll be even easier for you to fuck someone.

>>5838713
Oh. When you put it like that, I guess it makes sense. Sorry, I mean, I don't have much experience with guys, so I know that sounded really dumb too you, but honestly, I kinda lost.

Thanks, though.
>>5838721
Sorry, sorry, my bad, anon. I'm kinda dumb. Please excuse me.
>In fact, being a top means it'll be even easier for you to fuck someone.
Really?

>>5838211
wasn't there a couple of tranny containment threads floating around? I guess you're just too fucking special hey?

>>5838608
Acclimate as in...get used to them? It will come naturally. Realizing it is the first step.

>>5838732
>really?
Yes, there are a lot of desperate bottoms out there chock full of daddy issues and ready to get plowed, if just straight sex is your intention.

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OP here, may as well share my story.

I became bi-curious because of porn like a lot of other guys, but for years never l looked at it that way because I just plain wasn't attracted guys, so I just theorized that you could fap to whatever the fuck without it meaning anything. My fap sessions just kept getting gayer and gayer though, to the point where I could get hard just thinking about dick or submitting to another man sexually, at this point I had to admit I was firmly bi-curious. I checked craiglist, tinder, and grindr, but I couldn't find any of those guys attractive (as I already guessed). A feminine guy could definitely work as far as getting me to take the first step into exploring this side of my sexuality, but they are so rare and have actual dating market value unlike normal men, so a loser like me finding one who's game is very unlikely.

That's pretty much where I still am today, my curiosity is starting to feel like an unscratchable itch, so I'm planning on just trying to forget about it all to focus on other things, but being a porn/fap addict, I always end up going back down that road, each time a bit further and more degenerate than the last. I honestly miss not being so self aware of my sexuality, I was so much happier back then.

>>5838719

Nagi Ichi

>>5839057
Many thanks for source, anon. You're welcome to dress me up like a girl and fuck my boipussy.

Alright here's my story:
Most of my life I've considered myself strictly a straight cis male but I've always had an interest in crossdressing, not to the point where I'm outwardly feminine but stuff like undergarments and hats sometimes. I wore a dress as part of a costume last Halloween and it was really strange to me.

Recently I fell for this person who is mtf trans and I really like her a lot, we talk about fucking each other and kinky stuff all the time but she's on the other side of the US.

I never found guys attractive but to me feminine features are and so is submissiveness. That being said, I'm strictly a top if I ever have sex with another male.

I'm just kind of wondering where that puts me on the spectrum. Does that make me bisexual? Pansexual? I don't really mention it to people, especially since this is a kind of recent thing in my life. I notice a lot of people steadfastly wave the bi flag or the pan flag in the community but I don't really feel one over the other, to me they're kind of interchangeable.

When I discovered yaoi I discovered I was bi.

>>5838713
Hmm that second part with the strap-on sounds nice.

>>5838573
I'm only interested in men that looks like men, and women that are slightly posh, I look like a regular guy myself.
I have no limitations to what I would do sexually in terms of positions etc. I honestly feel more in the minority than I think you are.