Is it possible to be straight with a dick fetish? I think vaginas look absolutely disgusting and find them a boner killer if anything. Dicks, on the other hand, turn me on immensely and I jack off to them constantly. However, I hate how men look and their faces and musculature just kill any arousal I may have, while I find girls cute and attractive. Feels like I'm screwed either way.
>>5821333
you're not straight
find yourself femboy or mtf
>>5821368
I'm not gay either. Honestly, everything about guys is acceptable enough except for their faces which just kill it. I can jack off fine to some dude masturbating if he doesn't show himself, but as soon as the face comes into view I just feel disgusted.
Femboys still have man faces. I feel uncomfortable with trannies.
>>5821779
You're bisexual with a preference for girls
>>5821800
It doesn't feel right to say I'm bi when I only like men's bodies and their faces are just bleh... On the other hand, the idea of licking a vagina is about as appealing as the idea of licking a dog's anus, so I guess straight isn't accurate either. Like I said, screwed either way.
>>5822446
Stop trying to quantify everything and just roll with it ya dingus.
>>5822446
>Femboys still have man faces
not if they are asian
>>5821333
That is a fetish anon. Is called being a fag
>>5821333
You'll make a shit partner to either gender so you may as well give up.
Either find yourself a trap or get over it
>>5822446
being bi doesnt mean you are 100% gay and 100% straigt, you could be 90%straight and 10%gay, whether you want to be labeled as bi or not you are attracted to features of the same sex so you are bi
>>5821333
>>5821779
Why not just say "I like girls and dicks"? That should get you past feeling like you need to defend why you think that makes you straight or gay or some thing else or whatever.
If you really insist on a label and want it to be accurate, I think you're going to have to go to tumblr lengths: you're a gynephile, a phallophile, a n antiyoniphile, an antiandrophile and an antitransphile.
>>5821779
Hold up. You're telling me you wouldn't suck this dude's dick?
>>5821333
You're gay, I was like you at some point. It will take time for you find your type of men and allow your mind to even begin processing any attractiveness. You're literally repressing shit right now.
>>5821779
How about guys like this?
>>5823796
He's fucking repulsive dude. I see him on /b/ and /soc/ constant and they treat him like a god. I can't even imagine how big his ego is. He needs to get some sleep and a better fucking haircut.
>>5821333
biogically speaking, dick = man = gay, vagina = female = hetero
you're gay dude, pure gay. you cant deny biology, unless you're some delusional SJW
![taylor-lautner-workout1[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/ixTXj3r.jpg "taylor-lautner-workout1[1].jpg")
>>5823833
Eventually you'll warm up to the idea of finding guys attractive. Instead of trying to find some half way thing, give the idea of finding normal men attractive a go. Take personality and shit into account too.
>inb4 picture for ants
>>5823882
I wasn't the guy you were responding to. I'm full on gay which is why I'm so critical of him, especially since he presents as a femboy on /b/ and /soc/
>>5823882
Well put, I was having identical lines of thought almost identical to OP 5 years ago.
>>5821779
you probs get turned off by faces because you're still dealing with the fact of being attracted to men.
It's okay as long as you're masturbating to a faceless body becaue you don't see it as a person, it's not real, so for you it's not gay.
And as soon as you see their faces you see them as a whole person, a man, and that makes you sad.
So, go see a therapist or something. You've got some issues to work through
>>5824088
This brought a tear to my eye.
I'm the same way op. Growing up I was only attracted to girls, but also had a thing for gay porn. Now gay porn and fantasies dominate my fap sessions, but I'm still only attracted to girls when it comes to real life situations.
Maybe we just have to look at it flatly, we like gay porn but not real men, and leave it at that.
>>5823324
Probably true.
>>5823452
That seems kinda useless though. It leads to bizarre statements like: "I'm gay, but I do like the female hip-waist ratio so I'm now bi even though I would never fuck a girl."
>>5823661
No. That seems really, well, gay. I must admit I also feel it would be emasculating for someone so manly and strong to fuck a dude, so I guess that's latent homophobia.
>>5823796
I've seen him before, that's like the worst of both worlds. Looks weird and creepy and I'm pretty sure such people are bound to be crazy.
>>5823861
I like to think there's a little more to it than that. Girls and boys don't look identical except for their privates.
>>5823882
Personalities don't really matter for physical attraction though.
>>5824026
That's not encouraging...
>>5824088
Maybe. Can't say I like this train of thought much...
>>5825887
>Maybe. Can't say I like this train of thought much...
Hearing shit like that nearly drove me insane. Now whenever I'm around my guy friends I'm so insecure and double checking whether or not I'm attracted to them.
I've always been a mentally weak and insecure, adding sexual insecurity to all this has been hell for me. I just don't know what to believe anymore, so I just won't do anything.
>>5825887
Oh my god.
You're so far in the closet, that you're in the closet to yourself. Fucking insane. How do people like you function putting so much worth on your sexual desires?
How is this even a conflict for you? Absolutely shameful.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=9c4ae6b947224c4a15a806bb2d8264fb&t=569635&page=201
There are tons of guys like us. I think porn fucked us up and is primarily the issue.
>>5825887
Not encouraging? I already posted my opinion, you are fooling yourself, I was exactly like you. The feelings of disgust and dislike may very well be real but that's what repression feels like. You're gay and you need to allow yourself to fully accept that. Right now you are grasping for reasons essentially outlining how you're not "fully" gay. Banking on any superficial attraction you have towards females or superficial "disgust" towards males. Its gonna take time man, don't feel bad about it, just stay open to this line of thought. Talk to someone if you must, this is a process every gay person goes through...
>>5821333
You are an abomination. Go fix yourself.
>>5826146
What if he really does just have a thing for cock though? Just because you like men in general doesn't mean he does too. Something like that would have surely been recognizable by now.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cass_Identity_Model
>>5826166
You are underestimating how badly social values can fuck with ones development. You underestimate the power to repress and reject the thought of attraction before attraction is even acknowledged.
>>5826182
Its just seems like such an extreme level of denial and repression. If seeing penises lit up ops brain enough for him to recognize it as attraction, why wouldn't seeing men's faces or bodies do the same?
I'm pretty much the same as op which is why this concerns me. I love dicks, I could only be attracted to a guy if he is feminine, but you're implying such inclination is impossible or unlikely.
>>5821333
OP i have this problem too, i like cock but i hate how dudes look, vaginas are okay but dicks are more fun!
i mean you can slap 'em around, hit 'em
make 'em flop, so many things!
>>5826219
I'm not saying it's impossible but I'm saying you guys aren't appreciating the likelihood of what I'm telling you. 5 years from now you'll all remember this ..
>>5826219
You might like feminine guys but you'll still like guys....
>>5826219
You'll like masculine guys more later. Right now you want "safe" guys. Like girls going through puberty. You're not attracted to your dad, you're attracted to younger males. Give it time.
>>5826219
Because processing attraction to penises is your reptilian brain while processing the rest has more potential to be fucked with by higher order cognitions....
>>5825887
Liking dicks or vaginas is what makes you gay or straight. Those are the reproductive organs, and being attracted to those reproductive organs means you want to reproduce with them.
Everyone thinks women are pretty, even straight women
>>5826238
No, I know there is some truth to what you're saying, I've heard it before, I just can't believe how locked away something like that could be. I try to be as honest with myself as I possibly can, I know I like looking at dicks, but I also know I've never been attracted to any guys I know, but you're implying I could be and not even know it, which is a scary thought and fuels my insecurities since there is no way to disprove it to myself.
>>5826241
I don't care. Throughout history guys have always had a thing for feminine males, even alexander the great had a fuccboi, so I feel relatively normal as far my preferences.
>>5826254
That's absolutely true, facial attraction experiments that flash "averaged" feminine and masculine faces show both males and females spend more time looking at feminine faces...
>>5826262
Sorry to break it to you but it's happening...and you just now attached a value of "normal=good" to a meaningless sexual preference. Sexuality is a spectrum... Relax bud, it'll take time, just allow your mind to consider that. Talk to a therapist if you must, if you feel unable to even do that because of shame then you surely know somethings brewing. Like I said, chill, I was identical to you and now I love burly guys.
>>5826246
I don't know man, I'm already 24 and still couldn't care less about normal dudes. The difference between how I feel around guys and girls is so noticeable to me that I can't help but think that your logic does not apply to me.
>>5826254
I'd totally date a girl even if she didn't have a vag though. A guy without a dick would be pretty useless, but a girl without a vag still has plenty of other things for me to be attracted to, most notably the face.
>>5826263
I guess evolution still wants gay people to die for the people who produce the new humans.
>>5825956
Finding new and exciting ways to hate myself has always been one of my primary pastimes.
>>5826073
>I-I'm not attracted to male features! Dick is ok but guys are gross!
This is true though.
>>5826146
Just because you turned out to be gay doesn't mean everyone else with a similar sentiment will be the same...
>>5826219
>If seeing penises lit up ops brain enough for him to recognize it as attraction, why wouldn't seeing men's faces or bodies do the same?
This seems true to me. I've never looked at a dude's face and thought, "Yeah, he looks like someone I'd like to fuck."
>>5826241
Yeah, but if the guys have to try to look like girls to be attractive that just seems kind of iffy. I mean, I can jack off quite happily to guys like OnaDo or Hatarabu0810 on xTube, but that's only because they don't show their face and try to look girly. When people look manly I just lose interest.
>>5826254
They're not the only aspect of a person though. There's lots of other things about men and women to feel attracted to.
>>5826322
You need a very passable trap. Good luck!
>>5827093
Are you saying you want to play with cock but your not gay because you think male bodies are gross? I'll say this again, 5 years from now you'll look back on this and understand just how fucked up it is. How fucked up it was that you could truly rationalize this way.. and how fucked up it is that you'll like men. Lol
>>5826322
>A guy without a dick would be pretty useless
only gay men and black women say this, you have to be one or the other
>>5827188
gay bottoms* haha
>>5827213
my point was that black women are more obsessive about dick than white women
white/asian and hispanic women fuck ftms, but not black women. i guess its cause white boy dicks and vaginas are pretty much the same thing
>>5827187
I doubt it.
![haruhi01[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/NuT3Dqe.jpg "haruhi01[1].jpg")
>>5823882
Alright, I've been thinking about this, and maybe some masculine people can seem sort of attractive. But now I'm not sure if I'm mindfucking myself into thinking this because I believe it's incongruous to like dicks but not at least some type of guys. Or if I'm just misinterpreting wanting to be someone as wanting to fuck them.
>i'm straight, i just like dicks
>oh, and male bodies too
yeah you are a closet case
>>5821333
check out foot an' arri, baby! (if you know what I'm saying.)
>>5821333
OP I'm just like you. I realized dick is the focal point of my fapping a couple years ago. Around the time I realized I went to the "big dick" category of pornhub almost religiously. Vagoo's just don't do it for me, dick does. And I, like you, don't see guys as attractive 98% of the time. I still find women hot, clothed women at least, and even fap to them sometimes. However, I've started noticing myself finding guys attractive once in a while over the past couple months. I'll see a guy and think
>No way ew he's so manly
>He's so manly..
>So manly <3
then feel embarassed about it and tell myself I'm being silly. I think like others in this thread have pointed out, it's a natural progression. I wish I could be comfortable with my feelings, and I'm trying to be but it's hard when I don't have anyone to support me. I'm 22 btw, if you are any younger I envy you for finding out earlier.
>>5841667
I still haven't hit the point where I find normal guys attractive, hopefully I never will, seems like that would be annoying as fuck.
>>5841685
Have you had sex with girls in the past, anon?
>>5841685
It's not annoying, it's liberating
>>5822446
So extremely appealing?
>>5841713
Nope. 20+ KV. Closest I've been to a girl was smelling her breath as she talked to me, but even that was amazing.
>>5842207
I don't see how. Most guys are straight, so 99% of them you have no chance with. Although I could say the same about woman in my case, difference is, I don't have to be around them most of the time so I don't have to deal with unrequited attraction everyday.
Its probably because I'm genuinely not into masculine/normal dudes though, so picturing myself stuck with one upsets me, if I did like them the thought wouldn't bother me as much.
>>5842287
Quit being a basement dweller and go in the real world. Internet and porn are not real life. Don't base your sexuality on it.
What did people do 40 years ago? They had nudie magazines and vhs tapes. So not as much as we have access too or the same quality or diverse genres. The abundance of porn is fucking with people's minds.
>>5842407
>Quit being a basement dweller and go in the real world. Internet and porn are not real life. Don't base your sexuality on it.
I try but my life is just too much of a wreck, so I'm usually stuck in my room with my degenerate porn and base desires most of the time. I know better than to base my sexuality off of porn habits though, I was away from home for a month without a computer once and didn't have a single gay thought. I just consider myself curious.
>>5821333
Why are anglo-saxons so obsessed with labels?
When will we stop labelling ourselves X or Y and start understanding human behaviour and emotions are part of a continuum that develops in different paths both in time and space?
