why don't I feel pleasure when I do it?
You were born to top, OP.
>>5816888
but I feel like I'm missing out a huge part of the gay experience, plus I wanna pleasure my vers bf :(
any tips? What are the best positions?
>>5816895
Just do it to make your boyfriend happy, it's not for everyone.
In the wise words of Voltaire, "What's your favorite posish? That's cool with me, it's not my favorite but I'll do it for you."
>>5816883
jerk off during
>>5816883
I had the same issue but I realised I was having super cute gay sex for just sex, it's really only good when you have a deep emotional connection, otherwise it's just ya bum or ya dick in a dick or a bum.
>>5817804
>Gay people should perfectly imitate the sexual dynamic of straight sex otherwise it's disgusting
>>5817841
>I-I'm breaking down the patriarchal standards of sex
*vomits*
>I-I'm a real man, I bottom AND top, even though I prefer to bottom
*vomits*
>I-I think people in bottom-top dynamics are just straight imitators
*vomits*
>>5817804
>being 14
>>5817855
I'm actually not a bottom, though, as much as I wish I were.
>>5817884
I dunno about that, I'm vers prefer to bottom but I'm hung so people kinda just make me top (top is boring but i still do it.)
>>5817893
top/vers/bot
is the role you prefer, not the one you're forced into doing
although m8 sounds like you need to find better fucks, someone who doesn't let someone enjoy the role they prefer is pretty shit desu
I have a small dick and find it difficult to stay hard being top am I doomed to bottom exclusively?
Try getting a vagina. It might help.
>>5816883
Your not really gay, it's just memesexuality many lonely people bought into.
>>5816883
do you prepare appropriately? are you extremely aroused prior to it ? try drugs that relax you if all else fails I guess
>>5816883
Try being the top or switch positions when bottoming. I think doggy style is the most painful for me which is why I prefer not to do it
>mfw the bottom is clearly hating every second of it
Easily my #1 fetish.
>>5816883
because you are not 100% faggot
>>5816883
Try poppers? If that doesn't help maybe your boyfriend is just a lousy top.
>>5819619
Not totally relaxed while I do it, I think I should get my bf to finger me/rim me next time first
>>5819985
teh fuk is a popper
>>5820651
Small pyrotechnic that you insert in your anus. When it explodes it loosens you up and numbs the area so you can deal with any pain.
>>5817799
I dont think this is true.
>im having a shitload of fun with hookups
>>5820658
geeze thanks...
>>5819995
I'm so bored of tops thinking skipping foreplay is acceptable, then blaming the bottom for not 'loosening up'.
>>5820667
i think its a mutual communication thing. im vers so i see both sides of it
>my bf is large, i tell him to take it slow all the time..
>I've fucked guys who arent loosened up. sometimes there not about foreplay and just want to get fucked, then are totally over it when they experience any pain, they then wont try again. I know full well how to have good sex, but if they arent willing to listen to me or wanna dictate the action its not really my fault when it hurts is it.
>>5816883
It's mostly experience, when I have been practicing every day for a week, it feels like the best thing in the world, when I stop doing it for 2 months or so it feels like I'm an ass virgin again.
>>5816883
Because just because you're attracted to dudes doesn't mean you like being penetrated. They're mutually exclusive. It's just porn and society deludes you into thinking they should go hand in hand. You're your own person, Fuck society and don't let people fuck you if you're not into it.
>>5817855
Oh look you built a strawman so you could pretend to be correct.
>>5824278
What if the thoughts of getting pounded get you very hard. Anal is usually something you can't enjoy out of the blue, needs training and preparation.
OP you have to be really down for sex, very aroused. Make sure you use a simple water enema down there. Make sure you pre stretch with some butt plug while you guys get horny. Use some sort of muscle relaxant or maybe just alcohol.
>>5824323
It depends on what OP feels. I just want him to know that not liking anal doesn't make him weird or abnormal.
>>5824335
Its a good caveat to have.
>>5824335
I know that but I think I just need more training cuz I like the thought of it
>>5824748
Then stick more things up your butt? The world is your oyster, and your asshole is the pearl waiting to be found. Or something like that idk.
>>5817799
Relatable.
>>5817774
Voltaires a big guy
>>5816883
why don't I feel pleasure when I do it?
>>5816883
Me neither. Sometimes I can feel a bit of pleasure but it's very rare. Quite frustrating.
I wonder if it's the case because I'm quite a nervous person thats never completely relaxed. Besides I'm always paranoid about not being clean enough...
>>5819688
this. OP just take the pain. I guarantee he will love to see you uncomfortable.
