hey all, so i just came out to my mom and my dad, also my closest friends they all accepted it and im super happy BUT, what do i do now? like i have no started hormones, i havent done anything transition vice other than buying some clothes and stuff, how long after i've been on HRT should i come out?
Welcome to hell, its great fun.
>>5735000
weeeeh! the first step of course is to post more pics.
Find a gender therapist, tell them you want to start HRT.
They'll ask you how you feel about being a man and your experience with your gender and your past. You'll get hormones after at MOST about six months.
>>5735060
Exactally what I meant - there are rough times ahead op, but also some wonderful times. Deal with the bad times the best you can when they happen, and hold on to the good times and feelings as much as you can.
>>5735000
You can still rethink this whole thing and make the right choice instead. Tell your people you were just joking.
>>5735041
idk i feel like ill never pass the slightest..
>>5735110
Well, your frame looks really mannish. Big feet I imagine. How tall? HRT can always change your shape a little, but bone is bone. Your arms should get notably thinner though. For your calves you can do stretching excercises, I do that and it helps.
also that TSM shirt
>>5735127
im 181..... also i dont think im to big boned anyhow but meh i just hate my body atm....
TSM :D
>>5735144
Oh, that's you? Well then I guess you don't need to worry. We all saw that pic with the fake makeup and were all impressed. It will probably look even better once you're on HRT. I wouldn't worry about your face judging by that picture, unless you might think it doesn't represent you well enough. Then post another.
But with face passing, that is already more than half of the problem gone. Of course you won't look nice in bathing clothing for example, but that is more of a commodity. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just get on HRT and see what you can work with.
Oh and I'm taller than you.
>>5735110
Nice butt ;)
>>5735159
thanks, my goal is to someday pass in a bathing suit tho! like its a dream come true
>>5735167
Well, it's usually the ribcage and the feet that look off. Not sure if you could make it.
Also you must always consider, that you only really pass if you pass without makeup. So don't rest on your makeup pic too much.
>>5735167
Bathing suit would be sexy on you
>>5735167
More pics plees? Skirts or otherwise.
>>5735185
>Well, it's usually the ribcage and the feet that look off
h-how bad is size 42(germany) for being 5'9 (176)?
>>5735361
I have size 42 with 185cm. pretty sure you can't tell from that measurement, because we need 42 for height, right? you have to measure your ribcage, but I don't know any numbers
>>5735427
Oh I have 42 too. I believe it's pretty common for girls that tall. I mean look at tall women, they're gonna get as tall as we do maximum. And the biggest shoes you're gonna find in stores are 42. So that checks out. And if I multiply girls I know and their height and shoesizes proportionally I don't think 42 is a lot. That girl you know just has small feet for her height. I'm really sure. If you would add her height up coming from 42 shoe size, she would have to be over 2 metres.
>>5735444
thank you, that's comforting.
Getting hrt in norway is a huge hassle and can take years but i think i found a private clinic that gives it out easy, thats basicly my only hope, once i get it tho when is it acceptable to start dressing / living as a girl in public?
To those that ask me to post pics on bikini n stuff, if i post lewds i just get hates on so sorry yall
>>5735590
you need to work on your posture. back straight and shoulders go to the back and down. look up youtube for more. have you been working on your voice already?
>>5735590
be sure to check your local Planned Parenthood. Alot of them offer HRT.
Best of luck! :3
>>5735144
Hey OP I just want to say I think you already have an amazing body and face, I don't think passing would even be that hard right now, so just imagine what it'll be like after hrt! Don't give up hope honey, you're beautiful
>>5735590
>when is it acceptable to start dressing / living as a girl in public?
Get your voice, makeup, hair, and wardrobe in order, then pick a time after you start getting people calling you mam, and totally failing boy mode.
>>5735000
Voice.
>>5735727
there is currently only one way to get HRT in norway i think but, i think i found somone to give it to me tho i have to pay for everything, cuz getting hrt the "normal" way in norway will take like 1 year orsmt
>>5738576
it's about one year in sweden too, which is during your "investigation" with psychiatrists and stuff. i can understand you wanting to get them sooner, but maybe having professionals to talk to is also a good idea?
i'd say you could start living full time whenever you wanted, some areas of norway might be less accepting, but all in all it's not a bad country for transgenders.
Passing is a meme
You'll never be a true woman
After your srs you'll likely live a month and then suicide like a good tranny
>>5738623
you're going to be alright, anon. *hugs*
>>5738634
I'm cis
I'd only consider going girlyboy but only other girlyboys and trannies like that, so I'm going for high test swimmer body
Stop this "everyone's trans" meme
>>5735590
>i found a private clinic
Enjoy your placebos, capitalist scum
go on inhouse pharmacy and smoke E errday
i'm trying to figure out how to come out to everyone? is it even needed like do i have to tell people straight up? lets say i just start posting pics of me as a girl on facebook, no comments or nothing just i start doing it, would people get onboard and understand without making a "big deal" out of it?
>>5740241
>slut drop
Don't come out you'll just embarrass yourself. Be on hormones for months and tell no one. Being trans isn't fun and everyone's going to treat you very differently if you jump into this too quickly and they're going to know you masturbate vigorously in front of a mirror while wearing girl clothes.
[spoiler]test[/spoiler]
>>5735000
>hey all, so i just came out to my mom and my dad, also my closest friends they all accepted me
> like i have no started hormones
Oh shit nigger what are you doing
You gotta be on hormones for at least six months so you don't have to be treated like a mental case while you try to prep for transition.
OP, you've got lovely legs and you're super cute, congrats on coming out! Get a good psych for the tough stuff and you're golden. Best of luck with the rest of your transition!
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>>5742225
oh boy prepare yourselves for yet another thread where undereducated morons on the internet shit deluded opinions and prejudice all over each other. let us watch as idiots who don't understand anything about politics claim to be experts, rage when anyone disagrees with them and perpetuate an incredibly low level of public dialogue. like the blind leading the fucking deaf, or however that stupid saying goes. what is even the point? literally no one will change their beliefs, everyone here is an arrogant stubborn faggot. all of you can pretty much just go fuck yourselves to death. it is not possible to have a well informed, courteous debate here, why bother with another stupid fucking shitflinging thread for the autists.
>>5742240
More like duck feet and masculine-skewed upper/lower body proportions...
>>5742272
Are you okay
>>5735000
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>>5742225
Well no one is treating me like a mental case so i guess im fine :) also i came out before so that my mom could help me get hormones as it is really hard in norway
>>5742308
This is what happens after years of not passing and realizing that passing is just a mirage in the vast and unrelenting trans-desert.
>>5735000
>how long after i've been on HRT should i come out?
You don't have to. Transition is not going to be easy but from reading your posts and seeing pictures I think you would pass.
Get a great psychologist and have friends and family for support.
>>5735000
>tsm shirt
>not our boys C9
senpai pls
>>5735590
hrt is not going to change your skeleton or man body
you look like a cd fetishist desu,
and there's nothing wrong with that
>>5743163
Same
Bump
>>5749696
why?
>>5749696
What shoe size do you wear?
>>5749792
It really depends but i guess i can fit in 43
>>5750066
Really?
You look a lot shorter in these pictures.
>>5750149
That is unfortunatly my hight
