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>Be me
>MtF
>I know I'm transscumfagshit
>19
>HRT for 1 year now officially
>Time to go out in grill mode
>Get mistaken sometimes at work for grill
>Always get the double take from people
>I think its time
>Manager from work takes me shopping for make up
>Helps me get hair extensions too
>Mom and sister want me to go to dinner with them as grill tomorrow
>Scaredaf.jpeg
>Only been out in grill mode once
>At nerd convention so who can say shit
>Accept the invite and instantly regret it

I have semi feminine manerisms and my voice is pitched high enough to pass as maybe deep girls voice/just really gay. Are there any do's and don't's when out in public cause I'm scared shitless right now. My first time going out it was obvious that I was a man but my face has softened up and my hair is finally long enough, and I've been mistaken for a girl a lot more. I'm at the point now where if I don't hop over that andro line I will lose it. Any advice would be great.

>tenks.jpeg
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As long as you're not a a 180+ cm hulk with orcish face, you'll be fine.
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Relax as much as you can and people won't take any notice of you. If you need the loo get your sister or mum (whichever is most likely to jump in and defend you should some one clock you) I've never had any issues with public toilets but I still make my GF go with me every time. Just remember that if you're nervous and slouching you won't pass no matter how long you've been on HRT. Chin up and have fun!
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>>5733352
I am 5'10/178cm so I am tall and this is my figure. It's not hulky by any means, but it's not great either.
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>>5733811
I'd kill to be your height! P.s. you need to tuck a little more if your wearing jeans that tight.
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>>5733884
Trust me 5'10 isn't cute, and I didn't really focus too much on tucking cause I was at home. I stopped using tape a while ago because of small "it" has gotten.
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>>5733923

>because of small "it" has gotten.

Use or lose it bby.
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>>5733260
dont worry bout it.
it sounds like you are def getting positive support in your life from people trying to help your transition and build your confidence. this is the best thing you could ever hope for.
You will still feel awkward for sometime, but the more you get out and the more you get correctly gendered, the more comfortable and confident you will feel.
if you get misgendered at all, dont let it be the end of the world. It does suck to get clocked, but you are still somewhat early in your transition. if it happens, dont let it destroy your confidence. lean on the people who support you and they can help you through.

good luck op, and have fun.
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>>5733923
Get back to me when you're 6"1' (lucky af my family moved back to Europe I've got friends who've got +2' on me)

If tapes not your jam you can get tucking gaffs that do the same thing without all the hassle. I use them daily as I've not really lost any noticeable size.
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>>5734103
Ehh I can't exactly argue with that I guess.

>>5734076
I read this over a couple of times. It really means a lot to me and makes me feel better thanks Azzy.
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>>5733811
Just from that you look fairly passable. As long as your face isn't too masculine you should be fine.
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>>5733990
It's pretty common for transgirls to want to lose it / reduce its size, though; if you're planning on certain types of SRS it can be important to keep things functional, but otherwise if you aren't planning on SRS but don't really like using it there's not much of a problem with letting it atrophy.
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>>5733260

I'm not on HRT yet, though most people I know are aware I'm transgender and in general I don't give a fuck what people think so I wear female clothes all the time, though desu they're more androgynous than outright feminine.

shitty livestream selfie
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>>5739231
Start them hormones before you turn into a werewolf, you ticking time bomb.
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>>5739619

Er.. Werewolf?
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>go out first time with my sister in girl mode
>shopping for shoes, find a pair I like
>paying for them lady goes 'so up to much today ladies?'
>go shopping for handbag
>at register lady says 'your receipt is in the bag miss'
>elated
>shopping for clothes, go in woman's change room, no weird looks or anything

Went very well in comparison to what I thought would happen;
>Look at that man in a dress!
>getting gawked at or pointed at
>getting called sir

Maybe people are just really polite and can see from my breasts that I should probably be called miss but they all know I'm a guy. Idk still felt amazing.
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Update: Ended up getting scared at the last minute and chickening out so I dressed in my very feminine boy mode. Separated from my mom and my sister and I went shopping. Kept feeling really self conscious but didn't get any weird looks and when I went into the stores most of the people either said "Can I help you ladies today?", or "How are you today miss?". So I consider it a half win.
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>tfw most MtF are taller then me and I'm a bi guy (5'5 107lbs)
>feels weird
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>>5741399
Cute.
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>>5741403
I do like some GFD.
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>>5741432
>GFD
What's that?
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>>5741455
Gentle Femdom same as RR(Role Reversal)
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>>5741468
almost* same as RR(Role Reversal)
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