Lesbian general: anime hijack edition
Because it's my birthday and we haven't had an anime opening post in a long time and I don't want the tumblrfats to have it. Post animesss and 2D Eastern waifus.
Old thread >>5689424
>>5706926
Congratulations.
>>5706999
It was his fault for not getting with the times and not becoming a lolicon.
kek, why did you pick a stupid fight with a meaningless buzzword? You could have had your cake and eat it too but you pissed in the frosting.
>>5707008
I have no cake so I must shitepost.
>>5706999
>>5707027
I'd date the heck out of 16. I don't know why she's on there.
>>5706926
happy birthday!
>>5707053
i agree. maybe they wanted to include a short haired tomboy type. Maybe they just wanted a number of squares that creates a symmetrical shape. IDK. 16 is qt though. some of the other's are not so bad, probably just bad photos of them.
i've never deflowered a virgin. closest i've come is to be a bislut's first female partner. I really want to say something like pic related one day.
>>5706893
Wut. I just remembered a couple of weeks ago we were all talking about birthdays and there were a couple of people with the same birthday as me.
>>5707148
Lesbians are all virgins because they never took real man cock.
>>5706926
wait wait wait op your birthday's on february 11? high five! and happy birthday!
>>5707258
straight bois are all virgin because they never took real man cock.
>>5707333
What sort of twisted logic is that? They fuck pussy. Lesbians just masturbate each other. At best they use a fake penis because they're too butch to get the real thing.
>>5707258
I'll tell your gf that when im "not" Fucking her.
>>5707385
Ok. This thread is already going way in to ftm territory. You know the dirty traitor one's. Gtfo flamer.
>>5707385
>>5707397
You're qt to use that one.
>>5707416
don't feed the troll thx
>>5707435
your*
>>5707438
Your.
>>5707397
Your jokes....
They Still don't make sense.
i was just telling the other anon that the "straight bois are all virgin because they never took real man cock." thing was making fun of what he said, it's not even a joke really i just wanted to point out that he completely missed the point
>>5707469
The real joke are the gold stars that don't know realize they're virgins.
>>5707389
My girlfriend only likes pretty women. Are you threatening to rape her?
>live in the middle of nowhere
>heterolandia x10000
>decide to post an ad today to hook up with another girl
>here_come_the_clowns.jpg
1st reply
>me and my man want a third blah blah
>didn't read "no men no couples" at all
2nd
>am feminine, want feminine
>didn't read "I'm tomboy"
3rd and worst yet
>fucking scary
>saw your ad want to eat pussy blah blah
>direct quote
>"I would love to trade culinary skills with you, if you find me attractive. For me, the taste of a woman's essence is my lifeblood."
>lifeblood
>run.tiff
>>5706926
Happy birthday, anon, I hope you have a wonderful time.
>>5707638
Guys sometimes forget that because virginity is a huge deal to them their whole lives
>>5707658
Yeah but that's simply not true for women. Anon is making fun of lesbians for not having sex with men. But we can, we just choose not to. How is this supposed to bother me?
I want to have a cute little Trump supporting anime grill gf.
>>5707759
3D is better.
>>5707830
i wish trump was a sexy lady
>>5707836
his daughter is a sexy lady
>>5707830
Not when they're some trans flat chested trap like that...
>open the thread
>see this ugly and dumb fat ass
Jesus. I'd rather have kek posting anime girls than this shit.
>>5707881
Spot the communist.
>>5707935
Of course. Anyone who's not an amerilard is a communist.
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Between these two threads I feel a mix of self-disgust and inspiration to turn my life around.
Anyone else got fuel for getting /FIT/est?
Happy Birthday, OP, this is the shittiest thread this week
>>5708003
Statistically speaking if you're from Europe/Australia anyways you do probably line up more with communism since your continents has been fucked to all hell (cept Switzerland) that odds are you fit the mass majority acceptance of an upper leftist ideology and pretend America is the big problem in the world and blame capitalism...but this all just statistically speaking you wouldn't happen you're clearly not this type of a person are you? Oh wait...
>>5708022
Wait, what? Not that anon, but a fellow European. Communism ruined my country, so we all hate it here.
>>5708022
The hell are you on about. There's a difference between socialism and communism, but both are shit. Left assholes are pretty much hated everywhere, and it's the right wing which is in full force nowadays in pretty much every european country. How could you not know it? Oh, wait.
>>5707659
m-muh dick!
>>5708016
>I feel a mix of self-disgust
Sadly I have this part, but not the inspiration.
I want to be /fit/ but at the same time, I dont have the energy. Not-quite-depression is a bitch.
>>5707935
Is that income tax!?
>>5708079
Yep. Trumps plan helps the poor more than Sanders plan and doesn't scare off the Jews that hold this country from falling apart.
>>5708104
Isn't that a lot less money, though? How is he going to be able to fund everything?
>>5708115
Well maybe it's less, but at least it's reasonable. Would you work hard to get to the top just so they take half of your money away? Not likely. Not that it matters because when you are making that much you have a team of people funneling your money offshore so you pay less. At least Trump's more reasonable amounts would not encourage that.
America is going down fast. The economy is shit. You can't expect it to grow when you are pushing away the big players.
>>5708150
>at least it's reasonable
But is it realistic? How is he going to cover the deficit? Which government program is he going to cut?
>>5708164
I'd hope for the NSA but he's planning on cutting planned parenthood (don't worry be plans on introducing ACTUAL women's care facilities in its place) and a lot of brainwashing in the education program.
>>5708177
As much as I like trump, I rather he retire and enjoy the time he has left rather than trying to fix this bullshit. Bernie is old too, but as a career politician, he's probably used to disappointment.
>>5708164
Have you ever worked for the government? There's so much waste, bureaucracy and down right stupidity... Just thinking back on that makes me cringe.
It's not about collecting more, it's about spending in a manner that is smart. The resources are there, but they are being wasted.
You don't have to necessarily cut (even if there's a few things we could do without), rather restructure. Adding a bunch of new programs like Bernie proposes without fixing what is already there is like trying to build a castle on quicksand, sure he might paint a pretty picture during his campaign, but it's not gonna work.
Femgen here, we like anime too, any chance you'll share the thread?
>>5708215
Why would you want that? Arent you all into men?
>>5706926
Don't make one again it is a trash edition. No one cares about your birthday tumblr.
>>5707533
>3rd one
i think I saw that episode of The X-Files
>>5708261
You're mom does not care abour your birthday, nerd.
>>5708224
Twinks crave attention. Especially from a group that never pays them any mind.
okay so it's my gf's birthday tomorrow and valentines at the weekend.
How do I gently break it to her that were just not working without upsetting her around important days.
We're really not compatible but she really really likes me. God only knows why
>>5707497
Damn then.. She would leave you for me!
Lel. You're saying its easy for her to leave your ass for s pretty face. Good to know your girl is submissive enough to know when to leave your dumb ass
>>5708224
2d boys and girls look alike we can just throw in a dress and pretend they're girls
>>5708430
Like they said on the gay women's channel, just start dating a new girl, then go out around with that girl and when she sees you with that new girl she'll get the picture.
>>5707935
Fuck off back to your ghetto, /pol/. This isn't the board, this isn't the thread, this isn't your time. I don't care who you're voting for, just fuck right off.
>>5708150
The "big players" are parasites. The ones who do the actual wealth production don't see a dime out of their dollar. Fuck them, let them go somewhere else.
>>5708360
>funny and original
>>5708215
I actually like you guys. As a lipstick I am always on your guys board. Because the butches here don't get it. Their styles and taste are horrid.
>inb4 they only talk about dicks
>inb4 lipsticks aren't real or are bi
>>5708766
>no incentive to stay in the US
>jobs get outsourced
>???
>Detroit becomes the average
This is why all the shit you buy is made in China and why it's so hard to get a decent job nowadays. Now add the fact that education is in the toilet and that healthcare is no better and you get a recipe for the perfect shit storm.
>>5708795
Prove it. Marry me, dyke.
>>5708785
Who are you quoting?
>>5708724
Not sure that's the best option but thanks, it's a backup
>>5708430
Those are like the worst dates to break up, uf, good luck!
Perhaps it sounds a bit absurd but I will buy her something (unexpensive) with the excuse "I even have part of your birthday present" so it does not feel like a) you do not want to waste/spend money and, therefore, the break-up b) you have been planning this (a long time) ahead
How long have you been dating anyway? Also, I would try to be as honest as possible because if you leave doubts (or, in this case, doors open), she might be trying again in the short future and it is always welcome to know exactly the reason.
I did the mistake of saying excuses and nope, not again.
And I am at a loss in my life. I DO know I want to go out with a woman (I dated a guy years ago, but it did not work and since then, I can only think of women as my suitable partner) but those dating websites or apps completely scare the heck out of me. I mean:
>>5707533
Scary.
And I do not see it happening (meeting a new girl who might be a lesbian too) in my daily life and, on top of that, I do not like going to pubs (especially alone like it would have to be in this case because my friends…).
It is a headache, I am pretty much content with the rest of my life but I do not have anyone to share it. Sigh.
>>5709502
>I am pretty much content with the rest of my life but I do not have anyone to share it
Welcome to the club, where straight girls are everywhere and there's no lesbians in sight. And the dating websites are indeed pretty much awful. I'll still try okcupid but the few profiles I saw were frightening.
>>5709502
>And I do not see it happening (meeting a new girl who might be a lesbian too) in my daily life and, on top of that, I do not like going to pubs
Pretty much this.
Im no where close to any decent lesbian bars since I'm an expensive train journey outside the city.
As for the relationship, we've been together a few months now. The thing is, we're basically a perfect match on a lot of levels, other than sex drive.
Hers is insane and mine is almost nonexistant.
I've tried to force it and it just means that I end up having a shitty time and get really uncomfortable (and in one case breaking into tears halfway through and man, that's one fucking stellar way to ruin an evening).
She's tried to go without, and basically gets crabby about it.
She's convinced that Im depressed and that's why I have no drive, so she keeps trying to sell me on different ways to 'fix me' and its like... I dont know, it just doesnt feel really on, you know?
The whole thing is making her resent me for having no drive. She's said that she likes me enough to not care, but that just hasnt come across once. She skirts very fucking close to guilt tripping, and I dont think she does it deliberately but it keeps happening.
This, combined with 'you should try these antidepressants, they might help' just make me resent everything in turn.
It's just kinda turning toxic.
I mean its fucking first world problems as fuck I guess, it's just making the whole thing feel like it has no future.
>>5709626
>>Looked on POF search
>>Every 8 profiles "Hi my bf and I are--"
>>Butches, fatties, NEETs
Is there actually a decent site?
>>5707027
the first one killed me.
Hey, I haven't been her for 6 months, what did I miss? Doesn't seem like this place changed much.
>>5709719
Well shit, I'm sorry for you two. I don't know how I would react if my girlfriend didn't have any sex drive, since mine is pretty high. Plus, I didn't touch anyone for nearly 4 years so I would probably be a little crazy on this side.
If you really want to break up, maybe you should wait a little, because doing this near her birthday and Valentine's day would be pretty nasty.
>>5709754
I don't think so. I'll try another one, but last time I put my profile on it it was either men, straight bitches with boyfriends, butches, or camwhores.
>>5709754
>decent
>site
pick one plz
>>5708795
Wow dumblerfag no that's not how the chan works.
No you're not a lipstick, judging by your behavior you're str8 up a dude
>>5709778
Yeah, I feel that.
On the one hand I really dont want to do it now, on the other hand I feel like if I dont I'm just kinda stringing her along under false pretenses and that doesnt feel right at all.
I dont fucking know what to do at all, especially since atop all this I have that little voice saying >just deal with it, youll never meet someone you match this well with again
>>5707830
I agree!
>>5708041
Quick question
>What western country doesn't have some socialism?
>>5708838
>This is why all the shit you buy is made in China and why it's so hard to get a decent job nowadays
<pol>
Everything is made in china due to "most favored nation status.", trade deals, trade pacts, and the plutocrats bought and paid for dropping of taxes and restrictions on capital leaving the country. Oh, and Wal-Mart went and started pricing down merchandise they were buying. They would take a USA sourced buyer, and tell them we can get this at $x from China, meet that price. Of course those prices were less than could be made here in the USA. So, lots of small manufacturers up and moved to China, or got crushed by China imports.
</pol>
>>5709626
But it is even infuriating because many of us are in the same boat and yet, the situation remains the same. And I am not only referring to this board, I also visited a lesbian forum from my country and they share this very same sentiment.
So, after a bit of retrospective, I am the culprit. I mean, If all the lesbians that I would like to date act in the same fashion as I do… It is completely normal that I cannot find them because I feel like I am hiding. Yeah, I do many activities in my routine, but none of them are remotely related to dating a girl and I do not see the chance to do so: in the library? On the underground? And all my friends are heterosexual except one, but he is a guy and I feel like they are completely different worlds. And how do I know if that girl is interested in other girls (and then being interested in me, but that is an universal problem)? I do not even live in a small city!
I do not want to "mark" myself with a rainbow flag on my purse (well, I carry a backpack, but it does not sound cool), but I totally need to be more open in order to change this.
>>5709719
That sounds harsh. To be honest, I understand both positions, but I am also worried about your lack of sex drive if she is a perfect match for you (I would understand if you were tired of the relationship or her but that is not the case apparently). Before starting going out with her, how did you feel? About sex or even yourself or, of course, the most important question: do you find her attractive, right? Because you seem quite certain that depression has nothing to do with it, so try a different approach.
For example, these past years I have been so focused on my studies that I barely had time to think of relationships or sexual encounters. But nowadays it is a completely different matter.
So I do not know if you have something in your mind or you are stressed out and that makes you unable of wanting sex.
I write too much, sorry!
>>5709754
Probably the ones where you actually pay, PoF and okcupid are free so the lower class will likely use them.
>>5710075
I think she's really great, she's fun to spend time with. It's just that most every conversation somehow comes around to how im 'obviously depressed', or talking about sex, which kinda kills things.
As for attractiveness, she's cute. It's hard to say, because when I look at it, Im not really attracted to anyone.
I can look at someone and say "Yeah, she's pretty" or whatever, but I dont really feel a particular draw.
Before meeting her, I felt... fine, really. I was a bit frustrated with work, but other than that life was good. Good friends, good times.
Now, I'm stressed out from worrying about how to have this conversation with her, about the fact that Im apparently an awful girlfriend and the only way to fix it is drugs, and the fact that if I mention it I feel like I'll just get guilt tripped.
If you mean like, 'did you have a sex drive before meeting her', not really honestly. I barely even masturbate, couple of times a month at most.
>>5710075
>It is completely normal that I cannot find them because I feel like I am hiding
Same here. I don't want to wear a damn rainbow to show I'm a lesbian, and all my relations are straight and don't know a single lesbian. I work in a company who employs 60/90 persons, and I'm the single gay one in all of this. That's depressing.
The few girls who could be interested in me are always straight, and there's no gay bar where I live, not to mention the awful internet dating scene. Fucking hell.
>>5710113
>obviously depressed
>and the only way to fix it is drugs
No, therapy only can work, but therapy with a short term prescription of antidepressants has been generally shown to be best. Antidepressants alone often doesn't work.
>>5710113
Oh god get some help. You come off as annoying.
>>5710205
Yeah, exactly, thats pretty much been what I've tried to say, but she's adamant that i just gotta go on whatever fucking drug and then I'll suddenly be a horny sex freak and we'll be happily ever after.
>>5710075
>On the underground?
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>>5710227
What's most important is to figure out what is causing the depression, and work on that. If you can't find that, then maybe try some EMDR on the emotions you dig up. That's a kinda shot in the dark, but I found I helped me on some of the earlier stuff, and I also dug up some nasty shit that I totally suppressed. I ended up having more than a few things. It took a few years, but I can now see having a gf again.
>>5709719
Anon, you might actually have depression. Or just sex anxiety, because it's really not normal to start crying part way through sex. Have you sought any treatment at all, or do you just resent her for trying to help you out? If you have gotten treatment, and this is just how you are, then she's in the wrong, but you sound like the more selfish one with the story you're telling.
Sometimes people really do have a disorder and Tumblr can fuck right off with their sex politic that discourages investigation and treatment.
>>5708041
lolololol typical radical, thinks everyone is secretly on their side. Protip: an upswing in exposure doesn't mean you're suddenly the vast majority.
>>5710113
You totally remind me of this character: http://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/the_feelings_we_all_must_endure_ch02#16
According to what you said, it feels like you are talking about a friend rather than your girlfriend. Why did you start going out with her? Do you feel prepared to maintain a relationship?
Those questions are not aimed to make you feel guilty though, because, as you said, that is only giving you more pressure and accomplishes nothing, but you need to find the root of those problems. And, honestly, this is not about her, there is something that you need to sort it out.
Perhaps it is not depression and it is apathy or even a physical issue, but I would recommend you to seek professional advice (not drugs) before anything.
>>5710131
Being a lesbian is a curse. Period.
I did not even mention the place where I will do my internship because it is so small (around 5 employees). When I see so many anons in the same situation, I am tempted to say forget everything and let's go out for a drink together.
>>5710255
Hahaha. Nope. But I learnt British English at highschool so I will say lorry driver, football referring to soccer and those horrible words from time to time.
>>5710259
That's the thing though - I dont think Im depressed. Im usually pretty happy.
She thinks that Im depressed and wants me to go on ADs.
>>5710264
It only happened the one time, but yeah, I figured it wasnt normal.
I've never really sought treatment for it, I've never really just felt particularly bad about it until now. And I dont resent her for trying to help, not in the slightest. The issue is just that she brings it up constantly, like every conversation it'll come in somehow. And I guess I kinda resent on some level being told repeatedly that I have a problem becuase Im not on the same page as her / guilt tripped into having sex.
>>5710287
No, you're right, it is more like a very close friendship when you look at it. She's said that herself. And I guess it's not wrong, but I just never really had much of an issue with that sort of thing. It's just been what I am/have since always.
>>5710226
Sorry anon, ill go. Didnt mean to get on people's nerves.
>>5710287
Shame - I thought we might check out some dyke bars together!
>>5710323
>checking out les bars in London
Well hey, if you're making a day of it.
>>5710323
Shit, I wish. I live in one of the PIGS countries. Although I want to move away from here once I have finished my degree. Still, I am sure I would have the same luck with women, no matter where I am!
All this talk of /pol/ and mental health... Wtf happened to waifu thread?
Pic related is mine. I'm currently reading the manga for the first time, but she was my waifu from the visual novel. My heart still goes doki doki
I was also listening to GLaDOS monologues yesterday evening and hnnng, forgot how sexy that voice is. I clearly have a 2D type - intelligent, over powered abusive bitches who want me dead but show the occasional bit of vulnerability. Absolutely delicious.
>>5707027
Idk lesbro. 2 looks kinda sexy
I downloaded Tinder a couple of hours ago. Surprised by the amount of actually decent looking girls in there. But I'm not hoping for anything beyond the ego boost of getting people to swipe right on my profile.
I'm starting to suspect I'm death inside.
>>5710318
You don't have to leave just because someone's nasty to you on 4chan. I don't quite get it, but that reaction speaks volumes, doesn't it?
>>5710318
>I dont think Im depressed. Im usually pretty happy.
Trauma was making me be depressed, and anti depressants didn't work on it.
>>5709719
>I've tried to force it and it just means that I end up having a shitty time and get really uncomfortable (and in one case breaking into tears halfway through and man, that's one fucking stellar way to ruin an evening).
Eek! Seek a therapist. To many things that are possibilities for that. I'd put trauma at the top, and then anxieties a bunch lower.
>>5710408
3DD world overrode it.
>>5710449
Her skin is pretty awful. Dang, lady. Lay off the foundation and put on some lotion, your biggest organ is dying.
>>5709927
Lol nigga you have a tumblr S. So stfu and second of all sounds like you're the only dude here. Seems you should cut the testosterone though. Hey wait...there's your new name. T!!! Now please leave 4chan. The trannies are more attractive than you.
>>5710494
Forgot image
>>5710488
Agreed
Maki best love live.
>>5710338
Lesgen day trip? Oh god yes.
I just so happen to be free Sunday, ahem...
>guy at work says we should be steam friends
>if I friend him he'll see that all i follow is lesbian groups, all I play is lesbian games, and all I leave is lesbian reviews
PANIC
>>5708795
If you'd rather pick a bunch of catty, misogynistic, psychotic trannies in denial, then you're probably more crazy than femme.
>>5710786
I'm just saying the trannies at least have some style. Some of you niggas need help on that. I wouldn't pick a tranny though. I only date other lipsticks. So...none of the above.
>>5710719
>drinking and shitposting in person with lesgenners
This sounds like it'd be more hilarious than it should be.
That, or absolutely awful.
Could go either way.
>>5710749
Could you explain those three things because I really don't get it
>>5710677
Literally babby's first idol, Makifags are composed of plebs new to anime and/or yuri (muh NicoMaki) that feel amazed by the shitty tsundere archetype.
>>5709719
Going against the grain of things here. I don't think you're depressed, I think you just have a low sex drive (or one lower than hers). If that's just how you are and she can't accept it, then you're not a match. The only alternative I can think of is that you wait and hope for bed death, but that's not really fair to either of you, especially if she makes you feel that guilty for months before letting up. She's trying to date a you that doesn't exist at the moment, and might never exist.
You shouldn't be having sex because you feel guilty. Fuck, that's why some women don't leave their husbands and suffer years of hetero sex as a marital duty. Likewise, she shouldn't have to tone down her sex drive because you're on a different wavelength. There is no normal sex drive we're all supposed to adhere to and when there was queermoids kept bucking that standard anyway. A sudden change in sex drive is usually more indicative of a problem than having the same one, or growing into one. Guilt isn't a good way to grow into a sex life, and someone trying to "fix" your sexuality should make you run like they want to send you to pray out the gay camp. If she can't respect your boundaries, leave her and respect your own boundaries.
>>5710936
If you're having sex once a month or less, there is something wrong with your body that can be fixed, get fucking help. Your relationships don't have to be brief and strained.
>>5710955
>stop liking things I don't like
>trust me I'm a doctor
allow me to laugh in your face and head to bed with my gf who likes me for who I actually am, goodnight anon
>>5710967
A hurr hurr fucking durr, since we're apparently just devolving into spitting out cliches. Hypoarousal is fixable, and your gf is not going to be driven off by you expressing more affection and attraction towards her. There is something wrong with your biology. Fix it.
>>5710967
Hormone imbalance is a thing.
>>5710990
>>5710994
lulz
Lesbianism was "fixable" quite recently too. Maybe we should rape the asexuals; they're just medical freaks in need of electrical stimulation. People have different sex drives, and unless they are unhappy with it, or unless it's a sudden change in sex drive like that anon said, it's medically unethical to intervene *just because their partner is unhappy*.
Anon has a point, while your point has been made by many people throughout history we now consider rapists. Stop judging people who have different sexualities to yours; it's ugly and really not medically advised by anyone ethical. Her partner isn't right for wanting more sex, for pressuring her into sex, or for trying to "fix" someone who is happy with their sex drive to her sex drive. Lots of men aren't happy with lesbians not taking their dick and consider that hypoarousal or abnormative sexualities. We shouldn't be drugging ourselves to please them either, even though heterosexuality is exponentially more normal than lesbianism.
>>5711072
Dude, being concerned about someone's health and hormones is not judging. It's was just a hypothesis.
>>5711072
Asexuals are literally one of three things: hormonally imbalanced, nutritionally deficient, or comorbid with a mental disorder. You couldn't have chosen a worse example if you had tried. Lesbians couldn't be "fixed" before. Low sex drive can. It's even fairly easy. There's a world of difference between "almost never feels okay about having sex" and not wanting it as often as someone else.
>>5711083
She's concerned about her girlfriend pressuring her into sex, not her hormones. You should be worried her girlfriend is abusive, not that there is something wrong with her.
I wouldn't pressure a girl into taking drugs to get my rocks off. I wouldn't stay with someone who pressured me into sex or into drugs either. Her partner is being selfish and you are blaming her biology. It raises my hackles, and, I think, justifiably so.
>>5711072
>change orientation = fix sex drive
If I had a gf that was really into sex and I was not particularly interested in it, but could change that I would. It's not like the recommended treatment is electroshock, just living a healthy life, which we should all try regardless.
>Depending on the cause, possible treatments include: Healthier lifestyle choices. Improve your diet, get regular exercise and enough sleep, cut down on the alcohol, and reduce stress.
>>5711112
Other treatments are taking hormonal birth control, talking about anxieties around sex, and working on strengthening spontaniety with your partner. Wow, anon was right, this is fucking satanic. Down with therapists, class war now!
Basically, >>5711072 can eat shit, but even that horrible mess is probably something she can't get into.
>>5711094
That just means her gf is a dumbass.
The concern about her health is also legitimate.
>>5711087
Electrical stimulation has greater success rates for asexuals than nutrition or hormones.
>Lesbians couldn't be "fixed" before
They could, and, the ones it didn't work on got "fixed" in the sense we use for pets. Very few of them got that far, and fewer still managed to maintain they were still lesbian after.
Low sex drive and how well fixed it can be in women recently has made a lot of medical ethics committees because, according to drugs companies, the majority of women have low sex drives which need fixing. Most ethics and diagnostic committees worth their salt have said that is not the case.
What matters is whether you like your current sex drive or not. That is the main indicator not just of a healthy sex drive, but a healthy sense of self. This idea there is one sex drive, medicine has worked out what it is, and can now prescribe pills accurately is absolute rubbish.
People are so in love with the idea that there's a pill for that, they want to give pills to people who are perfectly happy because other people don't want them to be happy without fitting this supposed "medical model". The medical model, outside of those who are deeply indebted to drugs companies, has said this is not the case. Even the FDA, who have terribly lax procedures, are slow to approve drugs for it, because most drug companies have estimated that 60% of the population are sick, which is a meaningless definition of sick.
If she's happy with her sex drive, then she doesn't need to see a doctor for it. No, not even if someone else is unhappy with her sex drive, like some angry lesbians ITT would like her to.
>>5711112
>If I had a gf that was really into sex and I was not particularly interested in it, but could change that I would.
You worry me, anon. Would you lessen your sex drive if you had a gf who had a lesser sex drive and could chemically alter yours to want sex less? Either way, this seems like self-devaluation which would be unhealthy in a relationship.
>>5711225
Now who's pretending to be a fucking doctor? Go away, Tumblr.
>>5711232
>Tumblr
Wow, you're really upset that this girl might not be sick.
Hello ladies, yes I am a doctor. Feel free to show me your butts for I am a doctor.
>>5711255
Or upset with your bald hypocrisy and conspiracy theories. You know, "don't seek treatment for this thing that is interfering with your life" is just as much medical advice as "you're displaying all kinds of symptoms and you don't need to live like this." Hippy.
>>5711260
Our butts, as in the butts attached to us, or our butts as in the butts we have collected because reasons?
>>5711275
Her girlfriend sounds like an abusive bitch and you're upset she's not drugging herself to please her. You sound like you might be a better match for her gf than she is.
>>5711286
Maybe I would, you salty bitch.
Anon-who-should-definitely-find-a-therapist-or-this-will-keep-happening-to-you, what's your soon to be ex's number?
>>5711315
You mean the girl I've been seeing for seven years and plan to marry? Same as mine. You might be interested in reading the book by the editor of the previous DSM edition, Alan Fletcher, called "Saving Normal". Not everyone is ill, but statistically lesbians are more abusive than other sexualities, so I'm sure you'll have no trouble finding someone to rape.
>>5711324
>Alan Fletcher
Frances not Fletcher
sorry, autocomplete, but it's a very good book.
I wish I was a girl. =[
>>5711340
lulz
You're really convinced I must not be having sex to think it's okay if this girl doesn't give in to her gf's sex drive. How unimaginative an argument.
>swill lit
You seem to have plenty of time for the other books he edited.
>Food for thought
You sound frustrated and pretty rapey along with ignorant and accusatory. I'm pretty sure I don't want to eat anything that comes from you.
>>5710824
For the record we aren't trans. Being effeminate and looking feminine don't equate to wanting to be a woman.
>>5711225
>What matters is whether you like your current sex drive or not.
add this to it
>and it is causing you significant distress.
>there's a pill for that
is a really bad meme out in society.
>>5711358
You keep playing that rape card but it's just not working as you hoped, is it?
>>5711375
I'm hoping that girl doesn't have to cry through sex she felt pressured into ever again. You're hoping she stops crying so her gf can enjoy it.
>>5711225
>Would you lessen your sex drive if you had a gf who had a lesser sex drive and could chemically alter yours to want sex less?
It's not the same. A low sex drive is actually a medical condition. If I had a super high sex drive and my partner had a lower one I'd just take care of myself or something.
When you care for someone you are willing to do shit for them. Taking care of your health is not even a mayor sacrifice, unlike moving to a different country, which is something way more extreme, and yet people wouldn't find it weird.
>>5711386
I think you might need help, too. Not a sex therapist, though. Just a psychiatrist. Where the ever-loving fuck did you get any of that, stupid? Do you run only on accusations and strawmen at this point? Do you have the /pol/ disease? Does it matter what I type, or do you just need the blue box to project on?
>>5711396
Hypersexuality is the disorder you're forgetting about. They get arrested a lot for obvious reasons.
The reason I'm worried is because most people don't have such a changeable sense of self that they could change their sex drive to suit someone else.
Part of being in a relationship is compromise, but both of those hypotheticals aren't compromises because it assumes one partner to be normal and the other to be abnormal. It's not healthy for the majority of people to change their sex drives. It's an unnatural state, and it sounds like you'd self sacrifice rather than compromise. Someone who moves state out of self sacrifice rather than as a compromise between equal partners I wouldn't think would be looking for an equal relationship and probably would need a partner to define their sense of self.
Sometimes that's fine, but when it gets to the point of taking drugs/having surgery/medical intervention in order to self sacrifice... I'd worry the self sacrifice is pathological, not that your sex drive or living out of state was pathological.
(I don't mean you in particular, and some people are very happy subsuming themselves to a dominant partner's personality, but there's definitely room for self abuse and unhealthy relationships with yourself and others in that.)
>>5711415
>waaaaaaah
Yes, dear, let it all out.
>>5711442
Jesus christ lady, is everyone a rapist to you?
Please dont argue on my behalf.
I dont want lesgen to turn into argument over me
>>5707333
Severely underrated post.
>>5711442
But I'm no talking about just changing your sex drive to please someone else, rather to fix a medical condition that will likely fuck up any relationship you might want to have n the future, because everything else aside, not many people would want a relationship where sex is only once a month at best. And like I said before treatment is not even that bad, just being healthy and maybe some therapy or birth control.
And there's nothing wrong with making some sacrifices as long as you are not the only one going above and beyond to preserve the relationship. This applies to many things in life actually. You sacrifice time with your friends to study; you sacrifice getting certain tattoos or haircuts for a job; you sacrifice acting like a total fag for a few hours to keep a family reunion civil... Life is not ideal or fair, adapting is necessary.
>>5710488
An that is how shit you are!!! Lel i don't have a dumbler. And i was born with a nice vagina, thank you very much
>>5711569
Lol sure T. How's that Ptsd going?
>>5711616
Great. I've been on med's to long to feel it. So your ignorant ass can go suck a dick an die now.
>>5711521
Hyposexuality, like hypersexuality, is defined by it having a negative impact on the person in more spheres of life than with just one partner. Once it needs to be medically treated, because it's causing the patient distress, not their partner, it's good that it's treated. However, your partner pressuring you into sex isn't distress which can be treated as hyposexuality. That's an abusive relationship, not something wrong with the person with the lower sex drive. Having a lower sex drive than your partner has never been a symptom of hyposexuality, otherwise one in two people would have it since very few people are evenly matched, and distress from your partner pressuring you into sex should be something you rule out before considering hyposexuality. Lots of people don't want to have sex when they're being forced into it. It doesn't set the mood. The therapy there is that you talk to the abusive partner, and maybe prescribe them drugs.
On the sacrifice part, some compromise is good, but self sacrifice can become a very unhappy way of life for a lot of people. Questions like, "Would you get implants to make your partner happier?", get more split opinions than a question like, "Would you take a pill to make your partner happy?", because people regard one as more invasive, long term, and extreme than the other. Birth control's risks are underplayed by a lot of people, but synthetic hormones aren't without risks. Some people are willing to accept those risks, but usually because birth control isn't generally given with well informed consent. If you phrase the question like you have to when giving HRT to trans people as "Would you risk DVT, stroke, cancer, and cardiac arrest to achieve your goal?" more women might pause longer before saying yes. As it is, birth control is probably the drug women will lie the most about their risks to get since it can't be prescribed to heavy smokers if they're young, or light smokers over certain ages: even klonopin has fewer.
>>5711688
Sorry I think only your meds make you suck a dick. Since you already have one must be simpler to do that.
>>5711821
You seem bitter
you do you boo.
>tfw no signum gf
Alpha personality + feminine appereance is best.
>>5712080
I have a pretty big soft spot for effeminate personality + masculine appearance, though.
>>5712080
That's basically me. Gf hates that about me though. Any love for alpha lipsticks?
>>5712115
As a demure tomboy, GOD yes
>>5712115
Pls fuck me.
>>5712115
Personal favorite. Power women. Whew. Love you guys.
>Tmf
>>5712373
No one's going to touch your penis.
>>5712481
You do you boo
>>5712483
What the fuck is this
>>5710837
As long as it is not like pic related, it should not be that bad.
I hope.
And I downloaded an app but this is not for me. I do not even dare to upload a photo, much less talking to a girl. There are some women who are so near my place that it is a bit scary. I guess I am too closeted at the moment…
>>5712850
At least there's lesbians in your area. The ones in okcupid are at more than 50km of mine, but it doesn't really matter anyway since they're absolutely not my style. The worst in all of this is that there's lesbians where I live, but I don't know a single one, and it seems like they're in a secret club. And the only person who knows lesbians at my work place refuses to let me meet them.
>>5713008
>the only person who knows lesbians at my work place refuses to let me meet them
is there a specific reason why?
>>5713050
To put it short, she had a crush on me 4 years ago. I didn't understand she was interested in me so she hated me for it, said some shit in my back, ruined the few chances I had with her bitch friend (who was teasing me all this time and I was in love with her), and found a boyfriend few months later. Everything went back to normal and we're more or less in good terms, but she'll never let me meet her friends.
>>5712850
>As long as it is not like pic related, it should not be that bad.
Oh man every time I remember that was a thing, I lose it all over again.
And honestly, a lesgen meetup would just end up being a group of very shy very quiet neets, and like two or three more outgoing ones having their pick.
>>5713527
If I were to win the lottery I'd make it come true. It really does sound like it'd be epic.
>>5713624
And now I have to add that to the list of things if I ever win the lottery.
Assuming there's enough left after a £30mil flat in the Shard anyways.
>>5713636
>not buying a mansion in the countryside to accommodate your harem.
>>5713665
That'd be nice, but Im a monogamist at heart, a harem wouldnt sit right.
that said, a flat in the Shard is pretty big, there's room for a few.
>>5713076
What an unbelievable child.
>>5713527
Why what happened
>>5714249
It was some tumblr convention.
It went hilariously wrong.
The people who ran it basically took loads of money and gave people what amounted to an empty room with a ball pit in it.
Which someone pissed in.
>>5713702
Me too, but more than a harem I think of it as a lesbian version of the Playboy mansion, were hot girls can party and hang around or maybe like a private "the bachelor /lesgen/ edition". Idk it could play out a few different ways.
>>5714289
Oh my god, I'd love that. Sign me up.
>>5714289
OKay yeah, that does sound pretty fun.
Christ, this edition is dead. Thanks, OKEKKA.
It's Friday! What are your plans?
>>5714632
>lesgen
>plans
I'm working 12 hours a day lately and my family got a bunch of problems so I'm pretty worn out and stressed. It doesn't help that I'm alone.
Sleeping, reading and watching movies will be nice for the week-end.
>>5714632
I'm going to bake brownies for the girl I have a crush on and hopefully go to a dinner+play with my mom tomorrow.
My tickets source isn't texting me back. Ugh.
>>5714632
Recovering from being tired as hell and also sick. Shutting myself in and power napping. Other NEET activities, but without being a NEET.
>>5714632
Friday was yesterday for me, I ended up being pretty neet, eating leftover birthday cake and playing Diablo. I have work today though.
>>5715210
Well, if this isn't some proof of the wrong kind of lurking, I don't know what is.
>>5715210
Good for you. Now go back to your thread.
>>5714632
Relax after a day of work. Watch shitty tv shows, play shitty video games, and lie in my bed imagining what it would be like to have a girlfriend. The usual.
>>5714632
It's staurday already.
All days are the same, anime and Monster Hunter.
>>5714632
Trying to work out why Im so dead tired lately, and then trying to decide whether to play vidya or watch anime until 4am.
I have the biggest crush on my lesbian friend, but she has a crush on a straight girl. She acts super flirty with me too though, more than with our other friends. I don't know what to do.
>>5715772
She has a crush on a straight girl. You can at least save your friend and tell the str8 grill to fakoff
>>5715772
TELL
HER
YOUR
FEELINGS
LOSER
Then show your affection openly, so she knows you're not being flighty and mistaking friendship for desire. She'll move from the impossible straight girl and start thinking about you in the dead of night.
>>5715820
I don't even know the straight girl. She just tells our friends about her sometimes. She has a boyfriend and doesn't seem interested in my friend
>>5715822
O-Okay, I'll try my best, I'm not good at this stuff
>>5715858
That sounds so painful.
Fuck straight girls. Always ruining everthing.
>>5715772
>I don't know what to do.
convert the straight girl
make her fall in love with you
rub it in your crush's face
dump the straight girl
murder them both
women are a nuisance, the truth will set you free
>>5715245
Whi is this seamen daemon?
>>5716007
preach.
>>5716007
This. 3D wymyn are a nuisance.
>>5716047
>tfw you'll never cuck your gf
>>5714632
my partner and I got indian take-out after taking care of some errands
along with enjoying that we're gonna finalize plans for valentines day and look through the houses we're considering getting
>>5716065
>tfw your gf will never cuck you forcing you to watch as she cums multiple times from having a fugly bulldyke fuck her
Why live.
>>5714632
cry
>>5716076
>>5716065
>tfw no qt couple to cuck
we're all gonna make it
>>5716088
this.
>tfw having a fucked masculine face
What do?
>>5716013
Chad!!!! I miss you chad
>An butterfly an luse an andri
>>5716107
become ftm and rule over them
>tfw trying to set a 3rd date with this gorgeous girl with green eyes and looks like shes a pin up girl from the 1940s
I need to not fuck this up because I am gonna be so pissed at myself if I do. Its been a whole year of being single and I want a fucking cute gf again.
3rd date ideas? We've done stargazing, gone to the art museum, visited her friends taxidermy shop, and I need to figure something out that is on the same or even better level of cute
>>5716137
i can vouch for this plan
>>5716155
Movie and cuddling should do the trick.
>>5716007
>Each year I get one step closer to wizard status
I wish I were straight. I would have tons of dates.
>>5716433
>dates
>remove a and e
>read backward
that's what you'd actually have a ton of.
>>5716155
Sometimes it's nice to just get food and see a show, anon. It's not the situation that makes you look cute, if you that makes the situation cute.
What do you send as a first message on okc? This seems impossible. Yeah yeah something about their profile, it just feels dumb to be like "hurrrr you're qt, I like going to the beach too!"
>>5716517
The whole enterprise is dumb, and you bought into it that far. That's the exact correct response, so put your overdeveloped shame aside and get that qt.
Got some new kicks lesgen.
What do you think?
>>5716611
I think you need to fuck off, because there's bricks smarter than you.
>>5716441
Maybe ill ask her to see if she wants to watch some spooky movies and make some guacamole and tacos for dinner.
Death to bisluts.
>>5716670
That's such a good idea that now I want to date you, anon.
>>5716868
I'm just wondering if I should make any kind of move. We've made out and groped each other but im not really into fucking in my parents house.
>>5716728
Oh shit. Knew this was gonna happen. Heh, Takemiya Jin at least understands how bisexuals operate. She's around them a lot with all that lgbt club stuff she does.
>>5715772
Tell her!
>had a crush on straight girl
>lesbian friend acted flirty with me
>be socially inept so don't realize she likes me
>continue to crush on straight girl
>straight girl gets prego
>lesbian friend moves on and starts dating another friend
>I'm still single
>>5716982
Are you into making out in your parent's house? Also, damn, after two dates you've gone to groping? You two move fast. Anon, you must be really hot.
>>5706926
Hmm..why would straight men want to transition to women when they can just date women when they are men? It doesn't make sense to me if anything, you''re gonna end up rejected by actual lesbians if you tried dating them as trannies, you're better off just staying as a man to date any straight girl you want, which are plentiful.
>>5715772
Shit get out of here, seriously doubt any sane lesbian chick is gonna date you, you aren't a real girl anyway get over your head.
>>5717056
Well I mean we made out and all that stuff on the first date. Im not super hot but I guess being 6 feet tall and having green eyes and a pale irish complexion is some girls thing.
>>5717073
um
yes
That is many girls' thing. That is my thing, also. You're like a unicorn.
>>5717067
Not only did you hit the wrong thread, you are also retarded. Gender and orientation aren't related, or every butch lesbian would be a literal dude.
>>5717101
>Gender and orientation aren't related
Yeah, that's why most cis people aren't heterosexual.
Tranny pls go.
>>5717116
What kind of idiotic non-argument is that?
>>5717237
Gender is related. You can see that in how 90 percent of girls are straight, probably more than that actually. We lesbos are anomalies. I'm personally ok with that.
Transbians in large numbers don't make sense. But then it's 4chan and I do believe it's often the worst of the worst so whatchu expect.
>>5717301
That's just stupid. If what you're trying to argue had any truth to it, gay men would transition; FTM would never like dudes; we wouldn't see majority heterosexuality in the trans community, and so on. You have no premise. It's simply idiotic, there's no other description. It contradicts itself.
>>5717301
Nearly all women would be more accurately described as bisexual, but it would be even more accurate to say homosexual, heterosexual and bisexual are paradigms for masculine sexuality and sexual behavior is a sexually dimorphic feature in humanity.
>>5717357
Heterosexuality is a defect. I swear, when I am elected president I will eradicate all traces of heterosexuality and women will be free to embrace as nature requires, as God intended.
>>5717362
#makeCivilizationGayAgain
#anon2016
>>5714587
>Wants everyone to leave
>Complains about thread being dead.
>>5716656
If you say so
i need your help grills.
i am going to classes with a rather butchy girl (full baby dyke mode... but weve all been there) and she seems to be into one of the teachers as far as i can tell. and if my interpretation of things isnt completly wrong, said teacher makes fun of her in rather nasty ways.. (playing with her emotions)
should i
1) mind my own buisness as usual and let things happen
2) stand up for her and tell teacher to back the fuck off
3) start to fuck her untill she will get over this (but for this option you need to know that she is absolutely NOT my typ. the oposite of my type..)
>>5717678
Why not just be friends and tell her not to mind whatever the teacher is saying/support her in a non confrontational manner?
>>5717696
This
