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tfw no bf thread
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Too depressed to find a bf
Too depressed over not having a bf
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>>5657385
Same here
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>>5657387
Just why?
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>tfw probably autistic and completely disconnected from society
>normal people are intimidating and seem unreachable
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>>5657611
I am in the same situation. Perhaps I will find my bf over the internet someday...
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>>5657387
Shit forced meme
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Any NZ boys here? i need A bf critically:(
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>>5657380
Someone pls be my bf ;_;
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>>5658439
np where do we start
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>going to uni in september
>finding housemates
>registering on grindr
>will using it every time I'm left alone
>the rest will be history without my parents having an idea
And this is the story that will happen with a 10% chance as I know my "luck"
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>>5658466
Grindr is a hookup up, why would you want to use it? Unless you are a disgusting slut that is... Thats how they all start being sluts... They first go to college pure and then suck 100 cocks per week
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>>5658473
>Unless you are a disgusting slut that is
Spot on.
Though if I will find a shut-in shy guy, I would start something.
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>>5658489
I am a shut-in guy myself and moderately attractive but I wouldn't want anything to do with someone who uses Grindr. I have had many chances to lose my virginity in the past but I prefer to abstain until I find someone I want to spend my life with. The LGBT community is filled with sluts so this is almost impossible though..
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>>5658500
Just like me. Although I also have to face feelings of sexual frustration and emptiness every night, and meaninglessly flirt with guys on the internet. Why can't my body be as patient as my mind and quit getting worked up?
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>>5658500
Well, I wish you good luck. I don't really consider loosing virginity that big of a deal and I don't feel like I could really keep up a relationship, but that's just me (and yeah, others) but this could change with the right person I think. You sound like someone who could do it though.
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>>5658526
Masturbating helps me deal with sexual frustration personally. Porn is more than enough to keep my body content until I find a partner.
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>>5658527
Flirting with guys on the internet is possibly the best way to find someone, especially here on 4chan. The chances of finding someone IRL are way too low unless you visit gay bars and pride parades, which are exclusively populated by flamers and sluts.
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>>5658552
Meant to reply to >>5658526
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I just want cute National Socialist bf
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>>5658594
I want the same thing but I will probably have to settle for a non slut normalfag and slowly convert him
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>>5658594
I just want a cute capitalist bf who's into guns and is totes down for annoying some natsocs/reactionaries tbqh
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i wish i could just be a normal looking
, socially competent person
i wish i didnt have to be a socially crippled loner for my entire life
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>>5658652
Take the Wizard pill. Gay + ugly = dying alone
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>>5658652
Get a qt Syrian refugee and take care of him in exchange for sex and friendship.
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>>5658771
>wanting syrian trash in your home
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>>5658785
I have a sand nigger fetish
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My first time visiting this board and I would love to have a qt trap gf, where the fuck can i find one
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>>5658850

Don't. She'll cut her dick off with kitchen scissors if you dump her unstable ass.
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>>5658850
This thread is called tfw no bf. Trapfags not welcome
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>>5658850
>thread says bf
>WHERE DO I GET A GF :)
fuck off
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>>5658863
>>5658880
Sorry for the trigger lgbtfriends, i dont mind bf too as long as he is feminine desu
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>>5658901
>feminine
>bf

BISCUM GET OUT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>5657380
Literally autistic, and clinically depressed. No one would want to be my bf...
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>>5658929
My standards are so low I would accept anyone who is not a slut
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>>5658934
Well, you're in luck, I've never had any sort of sex.
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>>5658652
Plastic surgery. Before you're over the hill too, btw.
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>>5658946
Yeah me neither, where are you from?
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>>5658963
Aberdeen, in Scotland.
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>>5658473
Any good methods you recommend? Decent apps/sites?
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>>5658970
Nope but the chans are a decent place to find a bf. All dating websites are used for hookups even if they are not advertised as such
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>>5658969

Plenty sheep in the fields.
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>>5658969
Greekfag here. Do you have a skype account?
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>>5658981
Fuuuuuck...
Chans as in here on /lgbt?
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>>5658989
yes or r9k
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>>5658986
No, unfortunately.
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>>5658985
True.
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>tfw bored of the hookup thing
>end up scoring a beer date with a guy I've been crushing on
>he's 30 min late
>he asks last minute to bring a coworker
>she's cool but dominates the conversation
>he gets pretty drunk
>decide to move to different bar
>he picks up cocaine
>gets even more messed up
>on his phone the whole time at new bar
>goes outside to make a phone call and doesn't come back
>hang with his coworker for a bit and then leave
>haven't heard from him since

Very disappointing and the worst part is I'm still pretty into him for some reason
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>>5659234
You are as reformed slut. You are as good as a 30 yearold ex-cum dumpster. If you hook up even once in your life you should kill yourself
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>>5659260
>If you hook up even once in your life you should kill yourself

Beta virgin fag detected.

People sleep with people, get off your high horse and deal with it.
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>>5659287
It's only going to get worse for you. I hope you enjoyed the fun you've had until now.
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>>5659234
>bored of hookup
>still has the hookup mentality
>literally clings to the first person you crush on
ugh you're like those christians that are "reborn" and won't shut the fuck up about it and do everything in the worst possible fashion
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>>5659323
nothing in that post indicates I still have the "hookup mentality" and considering I haven't tried to contact him at all since that night I'm not literally or figuratively clinging
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>>5659926
Sure thing doll, there was absolutely nothing in that post at all that would make anyone think you're clingy even though you literally wrote all that over a guy you're 'into' - despite just a single date.
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>have date to aquire boyfriend
>go to date
>my spaghetti is too intense
>my man date drowns in the spaghetti
>i cri and eat feeling
>mfw
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>>5659948
Tfw no spaghetti bf ;_;
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>Meet a guy at a party
>He's nice, he's into me, I'm horny
>Have sex
>Wants to meet again
>"Yeah sure, we can have sex"
>Repeat x5 times
>He developes feelings for me
>I say I'm not in love, I just want sex
>Tell him that if he wants a bf, he should leave me
>He still wants to see me
>I still meet with him, but I still tell him that i don't want anything more
>He keeps pushing me to "open yourself" and try to go further with him
>I really don't want to even have sex anymore, but he he's too nice and has puppy eyes


W-what do?
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>>5660120
When you don't want to have sex but still see each other, you're dating
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>>5660120
why is it so fucking easy for everyone else
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>>5658594
National socialist from Germany here.
My kik is deepdarkforest if you want to talk to me :3
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>>5660120
it's those god damn puppy eyes that get you, man
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>>5658645
i only like annoying reactionaries when they say stupid things about interest rates and tariffs
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>>5663870
I know I am grasping at straws now but I really want a Sand nigger bf ;_; Doesn't help that I am a need recluse.
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>>5666266
Wrong thread /facepalm
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I will be anyone's BF if you pretend to be an anime girl. If you break character once though, Its over.
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Start posting locations dudes.

Seriously.
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>never been with a guy
>get Grindr
>figured I'd just hook up with someone
>super picky when it comes to guys
>realised I can't just hook up with some random guy im not attracted to
>absolute social retard
>tfw destined to be forever alone
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>>5666359
>hooking up
pls die
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Boyfriends are overrated.
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>>5666383
Yup, husbands are better.
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>>5666380

Did you not read? I never did because I realised I'm an emotianal wreck who can't just fuck some nobody and detach sex from feelings.

I just want somebody to love me, pls....
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>>5657380
>tfw no native adonis bf
I might actually be moving very VERY close close to a native reservation soon. Can't believe the price of the university there is so cheap.
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>tfw no trans gf
>they'll all just automatically think I'm a chaser with a dick-girl fetish if I try to talk to them
>tfw just want to give them the love they deserve and make them feel wanted

Just fuck my shit up
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>>5666426
What seperates you from dick girl fetishists?
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>>5666407
I am an emotional wreck too, possibly as desperate as you if not more. My standards have fallen so low that I'd love anyone who loves me back. We could contact each other if you want.
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>>5666535
The main thing would probably be that dick doesnt appeal to me at all on a sexual level. It wouldn't be a turn off necessarily but I'm not itching to interact with one at all.

Aside from that, I just think trans girls are cute and more likely to be faithful, fun, and understanding than anyone else.
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>24
>ugly
>shy
>insecure
>inexperienced
>low libido
>not much going for me in general

I'm not too lonely right now, but at times I get pretty miserable. My youth has been wasted so that sucks, and I don't know what I'll do with myself when all my friends marry and spawn.
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I think my parents hear me cry at night
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>>5666605
I'd cry to sleep with you senpai.
Preferably not in your parents house.
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>>5666612
I'm only here because I just got out of hospital I hate it here
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>>5657380
>depressed bc lonely
>watch porn to get less depressed
>see guys cuddling & kissing while
>loose erection because jelly af
FML
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It seems like the same story for countless gays.

They're lonly, they want each other, and yet they have trouble finding each other.
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>meet qt guy
>becomes best friend
>perfect in every way I could imagine (except financially that is)
>he's straight
GOD FUCKING DAMMIT ON A UNICYCLE
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>>5666742
What do you expect? Gay culture doesn't make it easy to meet anyone worthwhile IRL.
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>>5666758
It's not really gay culture that's to blame, it's sheer logistics.

There just isn't a surplus of gays, and they are unevenly distributed. If you aren't at a dense gay zone, your chances of just bumping into your future guy are slim.

Heterosexuals ruin everything.
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>>5666770
Even if you are a dense gay zone you will only come across libtard lisping sluts. LGBT faggotry makes it impossible to find a partner
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>>5666770
>Heterosexuals ruin everything.
Finally someone said the magic words of truth!
I am finally freed of my prison of eternal torment.
I can now finally leave this world in peace knowing the truth has been spoken.
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>>5666333
N E W E N G L A N D
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>>5666846
Homeboy ;^)
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>>5666879
tfw no boston/burlington bf
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>>5666892
No way. We're crazy close.
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>>5666909
i live in lebanon nh, i just go to boston and burlington semi-regularly
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>>5659260
Are gay men usually this angry at other gay men that have sex?
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>>5666954
Yes.
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>>5660166
Because he's putting himself out there and you're not?
When's the last time you were at a party?
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>>5666909
unless you wanna post contact or something i'm going out
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>>5666570

It's maybe that my standards are so high I just set myself up for failure

Where you from? I'm UK
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>>5657394
Wot did they post?
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>>5666596
Enter a gay marriage of convenience? Really wish that concept stuck around, just marry someone you might not be in love with so you don't die alone.
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>>5670508
That's the plan. But I think most faggots would wait until they're 65 and dying before they quit and settle. So I have about 40 more years of loneliness up until that point, I don't want a husband who'd die on me before I turn thirty. Although, I suppose that I could find a series of old, lonely men, and inherit their real estate once they die. Rent it, and live without ever working. I could probably buy a hot, third world husband eventually and dump all that money and real estate on him when I die...
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>tfw no rich stranger to make me his slave and give me all his money because whatever
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>tfw I'm pretty
>tfw I can't talk to people
>tfw I'm poor
>tfw I'm letting myself go rapidly
>tfw I will never have a bf
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>>5670724
Christ, I was more saying like marry someone off craigslist or something,not to full black widower.>>5657380
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>>5666421
Don't fuck natives, m8. That shit is not Pocahontas, they drink, steal and depending how far north you go people disappear around them. Coincidentally after having all thier stuff go with them
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>>5670784
Yeah, I know. But as I said, most guys who would go for that are super old or dying of AIDS. Pseudo black widower thing might be unavoidable if I go down that route.
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>>5670801
I wonder if there is a market for a randomized dating app that is geared towards pairing the spares with the aim of getting as many sad lonely people together as possible until they kick it. I'm a couple years away from wizardhood and I'd sign up for that.
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>>5666954
Just jealous I think
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>Tfw decently attractive and outgoing
> Tfw gay trans male sand nigger
Why is life so unfair
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>>5670813
A little bit of jealousy, a little bit of fear, and a little bit of insecurity.

Most people don't want to be with someone who had miles of cock through their body. It's gross and it trivializes sex to the point where the slut can't bond through sex anymore, and where infidelity doesn't seem any different than just pissing in someone else's toilet. And the slut's partner knows he probably isn't the best lay they ever had, and that the slut's head is filled with previous encounters while they're fucking. Plus, there's always the fear that the "reformed" slut is like a "clean" alcoholic. There's always a chance of a relapse. Especially because they demonstrated that sex and emotion aren't tied in their mind a countless times.
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>>5658601
At Aryan nat soc twink at your services hah. And no bf either, it's so intimidating to try to aprach other men someone plz find me a bf
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>>5670810
Deadgayman here. Sign me up
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>>5670810
I'd sign up. Though the gerontophilic black widower thing is starting to sound weirdly appealing.
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>>5670832
When I was younger I had litteraly no grasp of the difference between one night stands and actual relationships so sex was intensely emotional but it got to the point where it was a crutch. Luckily I realized maybe the best way to not get heartbroken every time I got a fake number or ignored after a night with someone was actually have dates where talking and getting to know the other person takes precedence to getting physically close with them.

Of course it turns out I'm boring as fuck and I haven't had a date in years but at least I'm not a slut anymore.
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>>5666981
earlier this week actually
i go to parties 1 or 2 times a week
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>no qt bf that dominates me
>no bf to cook food for and watch movies with
>no bf that gets all my dumb references to dumb media

>too depressed to get bf
>too depressed to care about appearance
>depressed about no bf
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>>5670895
are you cute?
where are you from?
y ru unhappy?
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>>5670840
Not into twinks sorry
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>>5670862
Your past will haunt you forever, nobody will trust you to form a relationship and you fully deserve it.
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>>5657380
>tfw no bf or gf.
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>>5670934
>are you cute?
n-no...
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>>5670952
lol, I moved across the country because my slut phase was in uni and the most my friends know is that I'm gay. Not like I'm advertising the adventures if my boipussi either.
>inb4 stds
Checked and clean, this is why you wrap it niggas.
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>>5670967
I don't want to be with someone who has fucked 10 people before me.
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>>5670972
>implying you can tell
Virgins are adorable.
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>>5670972
>10 people
that's actually a pretty small amount if you can't maintain a long relationship and had some one night stands
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>>5670991
Ideally I want my bf to be a virgin but I wouldn't mind too much if he had fucked 1-3 people before me. People who have one night stands should just kill themselves
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>>5658489

Ew.

> implying a shut-in shy guy would want to date a slut

Sluts are repulsive. I won't date someone who I know will cheat on me.
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>>5671004
Sluts will pressure you into an open relationship after several years and cheat on you if you decline.
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>>5671006

This is exactly why I don't want a slut as a bf. I want a man who shares similar values to me, including commitment. I want us both to have successful careers and to have a child, or no more than three children, provided we were financially sound. All this open relationship shit creeps me the fuck out.
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>>5671010
>both have successful careers
You lost me but the rest sounds like a slice of fried gold.
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>>5671020

> You lost me

Why?
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>>5671027
Because I've only ever worked blue collar jobs, currently a forklift operator in a warehouse and getting 12 bucks an hour, okay money for a single person with no education where I am but nowhere near family money.
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>>5671041

Don't lose faith anon. You'll make it one :>
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I may land myself a bf.
He's 7 years older, is deaf (handicap) and is on benefit.
Met him at a mutual friend's party.
Has no job.
Loves weed.
Fucking tall (over 6'5) and everything's big on him (yeppp). I know because we fooled around all night after the party but I held back from going any further.

I'm pretty much a hermit with seasonal friends. I don't do gay apps or websites so...I'm that desperate that I'm willing to date a "loser".
But I actually like him. FML.
I have a good job. Still paying off my student loan debt. Bought my own apartment.
I'm pursuing this because even though he may be a deadbeat I have my own issues. So who am I to judge? If this leads anywhere I hope I can provide support so he fairs better.
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>Decide that I'm not going to meet anyone by staying indoors
>Go out to local gay bar/club
>Get approached a few times, all just for casual sex
>Just want a qt bf to play vidya with
>mfw I'm maybe 6/10 at best and wanting a qt is selfish as fuck
>JUST
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>never held hands
>never kissed anyone
>never hugged anyone

sometimes i look at all these stories about multiple hookups and people finding new people every weekend and i wonder how i manage to stay so fucking lonely
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>>5671103
You cannot find a partner IRL. Search online.
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>>5671115
What are your hobbies?
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>>5671123
sleeping and visualising my suicide
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>>5671127
Try playing some online game that has an LGBT friendly guild.

I've managed to find hook ups through that.
Gays with the same interests and just as broken.
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>>5671137
>hookups
Thread is called tfw no bf, not tfw no fuckbuddy
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>>5671127
We have a lot in common. Where are you from bby?
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>>5671143
Late night talks on Ventrilo.
Chats back and forth.
Both became bfs at different times ofc.
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>>5671148
southern england
way too autistic to meet anyone from here
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>>5671153
BRIGHTON
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>>5671175
no desu london
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>>5671182
BAKA
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>>5658969
I'm from Perth desu
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NO FUCKING BOYFRIEND IN VIRGINIA
GETTING AGITATED
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Northamptonshit here, I want to come down south so that I can be open.
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>tfw gay
>tfw have had way more hetero experience than homo

Also anyone happen to be at Ohio State?
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>>5658500
Oh look, the gay version of r9k "saving myself for my pure virgin gilrfriend"
Pathetic honest. Don't get your hopes up. You will die alone.
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>Be racially ambiguous brown guy
>Talking to qt(area/(radius^2)) crush
>>Can't tell if he has a thing for me or not
>Talking about weird entrance ceremony at university I applied to
>Ceremony involves alcohol
>Him: "Wait, but you can't do that, can you."
>Me: "Why not?"
>Him: "Well, you're Muslim, aren't you?"
>Me: "No! I never said I was Muslim. Why would you think that?"
Is this my life now, /lgbt/? Will every other legbutt just avoid me because they think I'm a Muslim?
What if he actually does like me, but just thought I'd drag him to a mosque and behead him if he ever told me?
How into let people know I'm not religious without having to tell every single person explicitly?
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>>5672509
>implying sluts do not die alone
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>>5672516
I have an Arab fetish so I probably find you attractive.
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I absolutely fucking hate my life
Loneliness is one of the worst things that can happen to anyone
I just want to go back years to when I took whatever path it was that made me so autistic and friendless and do something else so it wouldnt have to be this way
I just want to live, and be normal and do everything normal people do
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>>5672516
Wear a cross? Learn Spanish?
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>>5669195
Greek here. Wouldn't mind having a long distance relationship for several years before getting to know someone IRL considering the unlikelihood of meeting a partner offline. Small dating pool and sluts have made me give up all hope on IRL dating tbqh, but it appears there are many lonely gays of similar morality here. You seem like a decent person and something tells me it is worth it to get to know you more. What is your age?
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>>5672646
Not wearing a cross; I'd look Christian. I'm too busy living the edgy atheist life.
Also, I'm already (near-)fluent in Spanish, and everyone I know knows this (not posting in Spanish in case of ban for non-english). My name is a massive indicator to part of my racial heritage.

Oh well, I guess I'll be off to /r9k/ then...
>Sighs in gay Spanish
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>>5672872
I am not Christian either but I consider Christianity quite beneficial so I wouldn't mind wearing a Christian cross despite being an Atheist. It represents moral values very close to my own.
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>>5672772

I'm 24, long distance for several years seems a tad long

And I'm probably a terrible person really, I could meet the nicest guy in the world but if I didn't find him attractive I just couldn't see myself being with him. I'm so shallow and fickle yet so emotionally needy I'll probably never be happy.
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>>5672872
What is your name?
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>>5672772
>Wouldn't mind having a long distance relationship for several years
don't do that: you'll lose your time & your (high) hopes will get crushed at the end.

(...damn i sound bitter...)
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>>5672923
My best friend is a Lithuanian girl I've known for 7 years. We only spoke long distance for the first 4 years before meeting in person. She fell head over heels for me but being the faggot I am such a relationship would be impossible despite being otherwise perfectly compatible in every way. If she was a man I'd be the happiest person alive at the moment but now I am a miserable lonely emotional wreck. Currently 20 years old and considering suicide. Regardless, my experience has convinced me that long distance relationships are possible and I'd like to experience one with a man. Sorry for blog post
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>>5672886
Unfortunately, my morals are far from Christian, and jewelry really wouldn't go with my clothes or personality. My clothes are either fabric or functional.
>>5672921
Rather not tell online; my name has irregular spelling, so it narrows me down to about 10 living people. Lets just say it sounds Muslim as hell. Don't really want to get rid of it though, because alliteration and I'm too lazy to deed poll.
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>live in tiny countryside town with shrinking population
>can barely find people my age because younger population move to cities
>takes hours to drive to some other town where I might get to fuck
>still don't want to move to city because heart belongs here and I have a job as a tractor driver and it offers a place to go hunting
Can't some qt just move here and live by my side, I can manage financially
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>>5672961
>My clothes are either fabric or functional.
le old testament fabric meme

You are a millitant atheistard who has no idea about Christian philosophy or morals. Keep parroting atheist memes and thinking you know anything about Christianity besides le jewish desert religion meme.
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>>5672961
>unfortunately, my morals are far from Christian
So you do not believe in monogamy? Monogamy is a purely Christian concept
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>>5672987
Ok, maybe some are (pure monogamy > all other relationship models), but not enough to warrant wearing Christian symbols.
[lies] Anyway, being lonely is fun. I'm getting amazing grades... A-and my STD risk is pretty much non-existent... [/lies]
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>>5657380
why not find one, or at least some friends
>>>/soc/23276974
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>>5673125
/soc/ is full of attention whores and sluts. I want a pure virgin bf to spend my life with.
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>Be 15
>Have crush on friend in class
>We always fight with eachother, its been like this all the time
>Try to make friends with him all the way from grade 6-9
>He doesnt want to, we just keep fighting all the time
>In 9th grade, we're out camping
>Sit down by his tent when he and his friends are taking the tent down
>He tells me to go away
>"Why?"
>"Because, I HATE YOU, YOU FUCKING IDIOT."
>Heartbreak.exe
>All the way home, Im on the verge of crying
>Come home and go straight to bed
>Cry myself to sleep that night
>Dont go to school for a week

>Last year of high school
>Get really drunk during the prom
>See him again
>Sit down on the stairs outside and cry like hell

I know I was stupid trying to become friends with him but it was really close one time. My mom kept telling me to just try to make friends after every fight.

Is it better being dead? I still have feelings for him.

Sorry, Im a bit drunk and I needed to vent.
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>>5673300
>crushing on straight friends
So cliche yet so unbelievably retarded
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GUISE

my bf broke up with me on valentine's day last year, so I've been single for almost a year now.

I was dating a guy on november/december but it didn't work.

Now another guy asked me out. He's really nice but I don't find him attractive at all. Not only at a physical level, but also his personality is not what I would usually go for.

What should I do?
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>>5673309
Dont even know if he is straight. As far as I know he hasnt had a girlfriend.

...you're probably right, though.
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>>5673314
This thread is named tfw no bf, not tfw normalfag relationship drama faggotry. Leave.
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>>5673317
I don't have a bf so I'm allowed to postt
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Will anyone be my bf?
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>>5673370
if u live in France maybe
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>tfw have a bf but not sure if I still want to be with him

It makes me feel bad too because he keeps saying how sometimes he gets anxious about our relationship. Just recently he said he loved me and I felt forced into saying I love him too, even though I didn't mean it and I still don't mean it, and every time I say it to him I feel horrible because I'm lying to him and myself.

At the same time, he probably has the best character out of any guy I've been with. He obviously adores me, he's an excellent student and seems to have his life together (he's in pre-med now), doesn't do drugs either. But we're still so different in many ways, he knows this but he says it's opposites that attract and I get that but at the same time I wish there were SOME things we shared in common, it feels like the only thing we actually have in common is our ability to give each other erections. Personality-wise, we're polar opposites.
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>>5673497
Find something new for both of you to learn or get into
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>>5673497
I didn't read your post because it was too long but don't break up with him. I did that and now I've been alone for years and sad and lonely and started drinking
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>>5673497
You will learn to love him with time. You will get used to it and it will no longer bother you. The other alternative is breaking up with him and becoming a lonely depressed faggot for the rest of your life. You will never find anyone better.
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>>5673497
You really need to find something you guys share. A relationship can't be just sexual.
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>>5672987
Actually, gibbons are monogamous too and they aren't even people.
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>>5673370
Where are you?
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Pls be a boy in NZ pls
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>>5673744
>boy
femboy detected
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>>5673558
>>5673535
I mean, we do things together, but even when we talk on the phone (like he always wants to do) we run out of things to talk about because we really don't share that much in common.

We've been dating for six months; it's not that I dislike being around him, I just don't share the same feelings he does for me, and I keep asking myself if I ever will and if this relationship is just a waste of time while I could be dating someone who does make me feel the things he feels. I understand how rare his character is, especially among gays, that's part of what keeps me with him.
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>>5670895
I'll cook for you anon and you don't even have to be cute.
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>>5657715
h-hi
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>>5674674
Hi! Pls be my bf?
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>>5672772
Hey man, 18 here. I wouldn't mind getting to know you. Do you want to chat?
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>>5673497
Fucking hell...the luck of some people.
Love comes in all forms. Sometimes it's instant, sometimes it takes time to grow.
If I had someone like you described in my life I would fucking grab on and never let go.
Good-looking (?), responsible, worships me? Sigh.
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>>5673860
You're cockblocking yourself. You're way too much in your own head about the situation.
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any sub qts who need a bf that live here?

i'll add you on steam and we'll learn more about each other
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>15 years old, tfw no bf mode
>develop obligatory straight crush that goes horribly bad when I confess and get rejected in complete silence
>17 years old, starting to try apps and dating sites
>I am lonely and don't see how a poliamorous bisexual with mental issues is trying to use me to get sex
>I want someone to have feelings for me so bad that I try to be the best friend that I can be but eventually we grow distant when he finds a girl.
>18 years old, find a guy with okcupid
>we text everyday for one month before actually seeing eachother, I am basically already in love because I was that starved for attention
>I don't see how he wanted only sex, again. He takes my virginity and tries to dump me the same day but eventually we reconciliate and start a relationship
>he loves someone else
>two months in, he leaves me for good
>20 years old, in university now
>find the most lonely of the bunch in the lgbt group and start talking to him frequently
>we eventually kiss and everything but he says he's not sure to have a relationship
>but still; we form a couple after a while and are togheter still after more than one year
>he loves someone else and doesn't love me, he just cares about me, but I want to try and make myself loveable because I am a pitiful coward

This is what saying you are lonely and getting depressed will do to you. You will become starved of love so bad you will become blind and make terrible mistakes. I am exceptionally stupid, and don't mean to say that every one of you will become like this, but the possibility exists.

Be safe, anons. Stop searching for love blindly.
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>>5676024
omg normie problems T__T so sade.... i crey.....
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>>5676024
>I can't stop people from having sex with me
>So ronery tho
Fuck off normie.
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>>5676024

Are you qt anon? I'll love you
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>>5676091
I did manage to stop people from having sex with me and I've only made sex with someone I got in a relationship with in one way or another, so I don't see your point. I never said to be lonely, just stupid. I'm sorry if my post was kind of blog-ish.

>>5676117
I wouldn't say that I am.
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>>5675741
Sure. Where can I contact you? Do you have Steam or Skype?
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>scroll down this thread
>nobody has found a potential bf
This board is full of lonely faggots but nobody uses this opportunity to talk to each other?
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>>5677808
People are asking for skype and stuff.
The thing I wrote didnt seem interesting so I have nothing to talk about, I guess.
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>>5677808
>meeting guys off 4chan
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>>5677921
The only alternative is hookup sites and gay bars. This is the only place to find lonely depressed faggots in need of actual relationships.
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>>5677921
Fewer sluts here it seems
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>>5666981
Oh fuck off with that shit
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s-still looking for a bf....
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>>5678909
People here are too autistic to answer so don't even bother.
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>>5678909
Where anon?
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>>5679227
I'm here:
>>5675979
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>>5658594
NS bf here. Kik is: satanas117
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https://www.instagram.com/justinick_pgh/
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>>5675954
I know I'm cockblocking myself but I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. I don't just want sex, I want security.
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Guys... I don't even know if I want someone anymore. Something is slowing slipping. Not that I'm heading to slut-town or anything, but I feel confused about how much love I can and want to give.
I wish someone could hug me back into being a loving person before I turn into a cold hearted robot.
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>>5679329
That sucks I'm in Georgia but from my experience your chances are better than mine.
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>>5679686
You'd think that, but you'd be mistaken.
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>>5679570
Cute
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Have only been single since August so I may not fit in here as well as the rest of you, but still, six months of not so much as a hug from somebody feels awful. This is going to be my first Valentines day as a single guy for seven years ._.
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>>5684126
>six months without a hug feels awful
Hugless, kissless, handholdless virgin of 25 years here.
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>>5684166
Deepest sympathies to you, anon. Hope you find someone special soon.
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>>5666333
UK, more specifically the south.
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>tfw no one at all
it's getting dark inside
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>>5657380
I would be a good girlfriend.
I'd suck your cock whenever you wanted.
I'd cook and clean if we were living together.
I wouldn't bug you when you were doing your own stuff.
Just don't cheat on me and don't be too mean to me and I'll do anythimg for you.
So why don't you want me?
Is it my face? My body? My personality? Please tell me what I'm doing wrong.
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>>5685825
It's those last three things, yeah
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>>5685825
I am into men. I don't like traps or femboys.
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>>5685877
Oh... ok. Sorry.

>>5685892
That's too bad.
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>>5674682
>>5674674
Where you boys?

Tauranga here.
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>>5673744
Hahaha, that you, Joshie?
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>>5658860
SHE'LL CUT OFF YOUR JOHNSON
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that feel when straight and have no gf, and never had a gf

that feel when no gf
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>>5666333
>>5658652
Mexico, plz don't be moreno
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>>5687605
:3 if i say yes will u be my bf
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>>5687770
Well, we both know I do like your thighs.

>femboy.
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>meet a guy on 4chan
>trans, pre-hrt, about same age, lives in the same country
>chat n talk online
>arrange a meeting in a town where he has an apartment
>we hang around the town
>later go to his place
>talk about stuff
>browse internet n chill
>gets pretty physical
>cuddling, leaning on each other
>first kiss
>he compliments me
>sees that i like him a lot
>eventually have sex
>later he takes me to the train-station
>hugs n byes
>ask if i could see him again
>he tells he's too busy and leaves back to his hometown

Being with him made me realize how lonely I am deep inside.

Do I have a chance?
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>>5688464
Relatable. :/

The story was sweet but sorry that it ended the way it did.

The fact that you were with him says enough, that you had a chance, so you could again, IMO.
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>>5688464
>trans
>pre-HRT
Got out at the best possible moment.
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