So I came out to my girlfriend as bi-sexual the other day or at least being to some degree bi-curious. She has said she wants me to see if I am bi-sexual or not by finding a male for me and whatnot. The whole idea feels weird for me because I'm a monogamous person and I don't want to hurt my girlfriend. What should I do? I'm so conflicted.
Had the exact same situation happen to me actually. It's how I learned I preferred dudes. My GF at the time was bi as well so that made it a little easier.
If you've never done anything with a dude, find someone you trust and do it with them. It's better to know now than have it bite your ass later when you're married or something.
>>5545624
My girlfriend is straight and she said she would find a dude for me. Also at same time not wanting to share so she is conflicted too. I haven't ever done anything with a man and I'd like to but I don't want to throw away a perfectly great relationship for something like it. Its why I'm posting lol...
>>5545605
If I were you I would decline the offer. She probably wants the best for you and if you think you don't really want to have sex with a man while you're in a steady relationship with a woman, then don't.
>>5545605
You're the one in control of your sexuality. If you feel uncomfortable with her fishing for guys to fuck you just tell her no, that you don't need to prove anything to her just to satisfy her curiosity (or gay porn fetish).
Why do bisexuals feel entitled to have one of everything if they're already in a relationship?
>>5546257
Gays be mad because Bisexual senpai won't notice them.
>>5549987
The majority of gays do not date bisexuals.
I think straights mainly date them out of ignorance, they're not as familiar with lgbt stuff so they have no idea of the horrors they're getting into.
>>5546257
Because we're miserable and want everything to revolve around us.
>>5545605
She's not taking your sexuality seriously and she doesn't know that what she's doing could damage the relationship
Tell her you feel uncomfortable with her bs
>>5545605
Your gf is probably some yaoi fangirl and she wants to see you be gay :3
>>5550002
>Double trips
>This much salt
Why can't we just appreciate the trips instead of projecting super hard?
>inb4 biscum will always cheat and I know this b/c my friend was cheated on once
>>5556740
(my) X had a bad Y with Z('s) therefore all Z's are scum.
>>5557042
>stereotypes are never true
>>5546257
Read the OP again
>>5546257
Because we want to have our cake and fuck it too.
>>5546257
I assume you didn't actually read the OP's comment then, did you, Limp-Wrist McGee?
>"I'm a monogamous person and I don't want to hurt my girlfriend."
>>5545605
Are you a lesbian coming out as bisexual, and your girlfriend is also bisexual?
Or are you a straight dude who is actually transgender and wants to be a woman because you like women.
Be thankful she didn't dump your gay ass
>>5556723
It's either this or she assumes op will eventually cheat and would rather be involved
