Are fat dudes as touchy about chubby chasers as fat girls?
>>5499400
Don't know about other fat dudes but I am not.
>>5499400
What do you mean?
>>5500841
How hard is it to convince a fat guy you like him and his personality first and foremost, instead of just treating him entirely as a fetish thing.
>>5501580
How fat is 'fat'?
>>5499400
na
im chubby and a chubby chaser myself
I think they actually get turned on by the fact that they are chubby/fat
>bothered by chubby chasers
Fuck no. Bring 'em all on! I have plenty of me to share.
>>5501584
If I see a guy and I'm not entirely sure if I could wrap my arms around him, it makes me wanna try.
>>5501607
kek
>>5501607
Same, I just love really big guys. But also, I wouldn't want to go out with a guy just for that reason alone, personality is a major factor in a relationship.
If you show initiative and you're not a 0/10 in looks, fat guys will take you 100% of the time, even if you're a legitimate crazy person. You just need to overpower them with affection.
>>5501987
I'm just shy when it cones to asking a huge guy I like if they'd want to hang out or whatever. I guess it's just the initial confrontation that stops me.
>>5499400
Fat people are "touchy" about chasers? For fucks sake - they should be on their fat knees thanking god for chasers. Who else wants to fuck them?
>>5501971
>personality is a major factor in a relationship.
That is 100% the reason why I'm single. Also, because I'm ugly.
>>5501987
I can do that.
ööööHow do I stop being a 0/10?
>>5502015
idk fat girls seem to be super paranoid about that.
I once dated this girl who once - in the middle of making out - told me that it makes her uncomfortable that the only way I show physical affection is by groping her fatty parts, and being drunk and kind of stupid, I said if I can only settle for the non-fatty parts the only place I could touch was the bridge of her nose.
I've never been in an abusive relationship but that time, I got smacked in the face.
>>5501601
I want you.
>>5501601
I'd like to see just how much of you there is.
>>5502140
we can share
>>5502281
Sure, what's your weight?
The thing is that if you don't want to be fat, but are, you can't start losing weight if you want to keep a relationship with a chaser. Well I'm fat now, while I want to lose some weight, I wouldn't want to lose my boobs I got through it.
>>5517021
>I wouldn't want to lose my boobs I got through it.
are you a tranny?
>>5517291
I consider it sometimes. For now I'm just a guy that likes having boobs. Though transitioning using HRT might be a large step, and would pop uncomfortable questions from people around me, which I would be unable to defend as I'm such an introvert. And since I'm still not sure, having moobs possibly enhanced with gynecomastia(from the SSRIs I used to take) is a safe step to try if I would like it.
>>5517406
what do you like most about having moobs?
>>5499400
>chubby chasers
>obese men getting chased
come on nigga at least chubby girls have the potential to be cute, fat men are just fucking gross
t.fat man
>>5501580
im bisexual and only sexually attracted to men, so this would not bother me at all
Pretend to love me and I will be loyal until the end. Do not care if chaser or not.
>>5499400
I'm a fat guy and I'm touchy about it sometimes. It was particularly hard when I first realized the only way people found me sexually attractive was because of a fetish. I'm okay with it for the most part, it just depends how you express your attraction.
I think with most chubby/fat guys, it's incredibly easy. That's actually part of my worry sometimes; why should I be with someone I know has the potential to easily go be someone else?
Honestly, I've been talking to a guy for a couple years (a chaser) who lives a few hours a way (so we don't see each other that often), and he seems to really like me and I really like him but then I see through social media that he has short flings with other guys. I just don't know if I'd be fling or not.
But, regardless of my drama, chubby guys are really easy. I think, if anything, you'll have problems convincing them you're sexually attracted to them. A lot of these guys deal with massive confidence issues (including me, haha).
>>5520233
Sorry you feel that way.
As a chaser, I worry that fat men think I'm interested in them only because they're fat.
>>5520276
Like I said, though, that's just me. I don't think you have to worry about that with most fat guys.
>>5520276
>As a chaser, I worry that fat men think I'm interested in them only because they're fat.
Well being a chaser, why ARE you attracted to them? As a fat guy the fact that you ARE a chaser says you like me for my size, nothing more.
>>5520233
>But, regardless of my drama, chubby guys are really easy
First of all, I have low self esteem second i am in NO WAY easy I am not bothered by chasers I just dont like guys that are only interested in sex.
>>5520752
For me, I say I'm a chaser but I care more so about the personality and character of a guy more so than the fact that they're fat. It's more of a preference if that makes any sense.
Is 180 pounds fat? I'm 5'6"
I look at pictures on the Internet of people the same weight as me and they have rolls that have rolls, and I only have a little flab on my stomach, most of my fat goes to my thighs.
>>5522032
Ok thats fair enough, and it makes sense. there need to be more people like you in the world.
i feel like the chances of me being in a relationship with someone who doesn't just use me for their fetish is next to zero
When did fat chicks even get to be fussy about this lads.
i can't have sex because my naked body disgusts me xdddd
currently losing weight. too bad i have gyno. i'm not going to give up on my weight loss journey but it really feels so pointless. i'll always look like shit naked.
i guess i can look good with a shirt on. but i can't help but feel like i'll be tricking people in sleeping with me.
Nah, if the interest is mutual we're probably going to hook up. With that being said, I haven't met any local guys around me interested in hooking up. Even on those /soc/ threads for chubby guys to post pics of themselves I only get one or two people interested in seeing more of me.
>tfw no skinny chaser to bend you over or go down on you.
>>5523189
Those chubby/fat threads on /soc/ never have really huge guys on it. At least when I look at them anyways.
>>5523223
i'm pretty sure there are only like, 3 chasers that stalk that thread
and one of them is in the uk so gg
>>5523223
Probably all depends on your definition of huge. I'm like 5'10 and 290 pounds, and I feel like I'm on the huge side.
>>5523232
That is huge, must have missed some stuff on there.
>>5523313
Looks like the thread is still active, I'll post some on there
>>5523327
Oh, well only if you feel comfortable doing that.
>>5523362
I do it all the time lol, doesn't bother me at all!