my bf of 8 months left me because I told him I was getting SRS. We got into a fight and he firmly wanted me to keep my penis but I wouldn't budge about SRS. Then he dumped me.
>>5406922
>dating chasers
That sucks. Right when we started dating I told my bf that I was going to get SRS some time in the next few years and he needs to be okay with that. Hopefully he wasn't lying to me
This sounds like a conversation you should have had 8 months ago. Your own fault.
>>5406932
Good for you for being upfront about it, I'm sure he was being honest, considering that you guys communicated openly about it.
>>5406960
>not wanting a strong man to pin you down, kiss you on the neck feeling his stubble against your skin and his weight pressed on top of you
>>5406998
>not wanting to cuddle a soft, gentle woman who smells nice and knows all the right ways to play with you
You'll get farther without a chaser. Let him find his own dick in peace, you're infinitely better off without that albatross around your neck.
>>5406998
>>5407023
Surely Heaven hasn't the cruelty to force one to decide.
>>5406922
I'm really sorry for you, OP, but way to stand your ground. I hope that future boyfriends will understand and support you in doing what you need to.
>If someone likes your body the way it is, they're a chaser.
That being said, how do you get 8 months into a relationship without the topic of SRS coming up even once?
>>5407127
I mentioned I wanted to get SRS but we never had a real talk about it.
I guess he assumed I was having a passing fancy or that I'll always be too much of a poorfag to get it. Recently received an inheritance to make SRS a reality so he didn't like that at all.
I just let him play with my dick and sometimes topped him because I figured he'd still be okay with me having a vagina in the future so might as well give him a good time now.
>>5406930
Or may be you mean
>dating normal guy who doesn't want his gfs sex parts to be turned into a mangled bloody scarred pus filled inside out penis hole
>>5407023
But woman don't know t he right ways to play with me. They only know how to play with men.... oh wait I see. Ok carry on sir.
> giving up the one thing that sets you apart from the endless sea of boring bio-natural women
I mean its your body and you should do what feels right but you've gotta understand why some people might see a downside to it.
>tfw bf of two years wants you to keep the penis but says he won't leave you if you get SRS
>tfw he says he just wants you to be happy
I'm not sure what to believe.
>>5414262
>but bby, don't hurt your BEAUTIFUL PEEEEENISSSSS
i don't want to be a tranny freak.
I just want to be a normal girl.
>>5414498
>I just want to be a normal girl.
It's gonna take the medical sciences at least a few more decades to get there. Currently all they can offer is diceroll quality plastic surgery.
>>5414510
Its hard to wait decades feeling crappy when there is a "quick fix" right in front of you.
>>5414498
You aren't a normal girl bitch. Deal.
>>5414285
He wants you to keep the penis
>>5414285
Is your dysphoria so bad the hackjob is worth it? If not then he's probably just looking after you.
>>5414498
> tranny
> calls trannies freaks
Internalized transphobia everyone. It's an ugly thing.
>>5414634
Yes
