FtM here, had two dates so far with an absolute qt3.14 that I met about two weeks ago and they've both gone spectacularly.
My question is: which d8 is the right one to tell someone you're trans on? I usually do it the 2nd or 3rd, but I want to hear your guys' opinions.
>>5400700
>implying it's not obvious to everyone that you're FtM.
what'd you date?
>>5400851
she's a closetdyke just with you for your vag
>opposite day on legbutt
>>5400851
You pass that well?
I'd say sooner rather than later, she's not going to be any more accepting later so find out sooner rather than later if she's a bigot.
1st date desu. It's rape otherwise.
Third d8 m8.
Don't say it like "Im trans" or "I got no dick"
Instead phrase it like "I was born with a girls body" it seems more distant that way and shows that its something you've (mostly) overcome.
Ask a magic 8 ball
>>5401181
>if she's a bigot.
Or you know, has a sexual preference she was born with and is no one else's business to judge.
Tbh, I think you should have said something before you even went on a date, I personally think the person you go on a date with had the right to know you're transgender.
>>5401706
well if she's attracted to you/OP now I don't see why that should change?
>>5401757
Personally I would have no qualms if they person I'd started to date told me they were trans, but that isn't true for everyone else. Shaming people who don't want to fuck a tranny as bigots or transphobic is downright retarded and forgets that it is our right to have sexual preferences.
If someone waited until two or three dates to tell me they were transgendered, I'd be fucking annoyed. You should have said something after the first, but since that is not happening, do it after the next closest one. I say.
>>5401225
I thought that would be best too anon, thanks bb
>>5401626
"Yes"
what
>>5401706
everyone is entitled to sexual preference, trans people aren't in peoples' dating pools sometimes and that's s'okay :^)
>>5401181
Passed perfectly since after the 2 year mark, no one ever suspects unless I go radical and like shave my head
Even employers are shocked desu
