How do you turn someone down properly /lgbt/? Especially when they are likely delicate and you don't want to hurt them much?
> Be me, go to college, 21 years old.
> Make friends, have fun, cute guys everywhere.
> This one girl is always around.
> She's quiet, sorta nerdy looking, mousey.
> Figure she wants friends, but isn't good at socializing.
> Approach her, say hi, try to get to know her.
> She's nervous, has a legit stutter.
> Otherwise she's nice, pretty normal.
> Decide she's my friend now.
> Take her everywhere with me.
> She seems genuinely happy.
> We go to parties too.
> She doesn't do well with guys who approach her.
> Kinda panics and shuts down.
> Gotta play parent and keep watch over her.
> Works out because it keeps me semi sober and so I keep my head on straight most of the time too.
> Fast forward to today.
> She says she needs to talk.
> Get somewhere private with her.
> She's clearly upset.
> She looks at me, clears her throat, and starts.
> " I'm in love with you. "
> " I've been in love with you for a long time, since before you started talking with me. "
> " You're amazing, perfect even. "
> " I can't keep pretending I don't feel this way around you. "
> She lunges forward, kisses me.
> Says she doesn't want an answer right now.
> She runs away.
What the fuck do I do with this /lgbt/? I'm not into girls. She's a friend though, and delicate, and I don't want to be an ass about this. I just don't know what to say, or how to say it.
definitely don't tell her she's nerdy looking and mousey! lol
>>5304409
Just tell her that you're gay.
>>5304409
post pic of yourself op, at least a body pic desu im curious
>>5304487
This. Say that it isn't her fault
Rash but doable:
>say that you love her
>go out for a few weeks
>pay a doctor to say you are in the late stages of bowel cancer
>have fake chemo
>on your 'deathbed' tell her that she made your life worth living (to avoid her hating herself)
>tell her to be strong and find someone else for your sake (so she feels she must move on)
>pretend die
>move to norway
>change your name to like 'potatis fisksson'
too easy
>>5305006
So you're a closeted MtF? I could have sworn you said you were gay.
>>5305010
I'm bio female.
>>5305018
Oh. Just say you aren't like that, you love her as a friend, you don't want to hurt her by being something you aren't, etc..
And don't run away and leave her alone. She'll probably cry, so comfort and hold her while she's crying.
>>5304409
tell her to fuck the hell off
bitch u ugly I wouldnt touch you not even with a ten feet long stick because that would be disrespectful of me towards the stick
then push her and make her fall in the mood
make sure her glasses break
take pictures and post them on here.
>>5305073
>mood
mud*
Gay Male (or deeply closeted MtF --take your pick) here.
I've been in her almost exact situation before.
>university
>guy comes up to me
>starts being hella nice all of a sudden
>introduces me to all his friends
>ithastobe.jpg
>i pull him aside
>confess my love for him
>his face changes
>he grabs me into almost a hug
>tells me that he's not gay
>"if i was gay though you'd be perfect"
I was pretty upset, but I realised that it wasn't anyone's fault
He was born what he is, and I am born what I am. Maybe you can highlight that.
Definately hold her tightly though. That seemed to help me a lot.
>>5305162
>university
>be stupid femboy twink
>broken gaydar
>guys wink at me and be nice to me
>think they're fucking w/ me
>"those stupid fucking assholes"
>"die in a fire douchenozzle"
>realize 2 years later they were flirting
>mfw
>>5304409
Being straight, you'll end up having to break her heart, but it may be able to be done softly. Also be a friend and help her find a girl.
>>5305207
LOL as only somebody who did the same herself could. The foibles of youth...
