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I am a lesbian who has a transwoman admirer. She's super-persistant, and I'm trying to figure out how to turn her down gently. She's nice, but just started transitioning and has no plans to ever get bottom surgery (all this was volunteered informtion; I did not pry).
Now, here's the thing. I've been reamed out several times for expressing that I could never be intimate with someone with a penis. I'm really nervous about how to explain to her that genitalia matter to me just as much, if not more, than gender does. I'm absolutely disgusted by the idea of having sex with someone with a penis, and my admirer is very, very horny and very, very interested in a sexual relationship.
I really don't know how to go about doing this without being labeled transphobic. I am not transphobic. If anything, I'm phallophobic... But most people don't accept that distinction when it means they are getting turned down.
What do i do? please help...
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>>5289716
>>5289716
i hate transbians so so much
>>5289716
This whole thing sounds like a sockpuppet from /pol/. Got tired of spamming and moved on to horror stories from socks.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3u4kjd/how_do_i_explain_to_my_trans_admirer_that/
>>5289745
same
>>5289771
>>5289791
Spam wasn't working so the pedophilic crazies all started talking about how boogie men want to rape them.
Never mind that these are the same people who write manifestos upon manifestos about how they have the right to rape children and anyone who refuses to preform their plays is a bigot.
>>5289791
because you make it easy to be hated, and you make valid trans people seem like a joke with your made up problems
>>5289810
man hon?
>>5289811
Telling people we don't support pedophilia and getting called bigots for it and supposedly killing their pedophile plays isn't wrong.
Why don't you go and "heal" that thirteen year old girl you keep perving on?
>>5289817
Not even trans, hon.
Shouldn't you be doing something other than creeping on girls like your other lesbian friends do?
>>5289811
How does questioning this shit suddenly make me not valid? What made up problems did I mention? Jesus Christ, you're talking to a person, not a collective group. Get off 4chan and get some perspective, you asshole.
>>5289867
Don't even bother talking with the pedophiles or the hons who think they are one of them just cause they share the same fringe politics.
Why the same group that advocates violence against children and is responsible for a disproportionately large amount of sexual violence against women would want to find a scapegoat and pretend they're innocent is obvious.
>>5289716
>somebody comes onto you
>you're not interested
>say "no"
you don't owe anybody an explanation
"no" is complete statement
anybody that can't handle rejection is already too fragile and immature to be in an adult relationship anyway.
what seems to be the issue?
Tell her you're strictly a top and you require her to be in chastity at all times.
>>5289810
youre a freak kill yourself
>>5290652
For telling you pedophilia is wrong?
>>5290652
show us how its done
>>5289716
Pre-op here. Tell her "I don't like penis", that is reasonable.
If you want to be unreasonable, you could say "fuck off you weird fetishist, y u no GRS".
>trutrans 4 lyfe
