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I'm a straight guy who fantasizes about being gay every day.
What's it like being gay?
How would you feel about a straight guy who only wants to be in relationships with men?
Would you date him?
>>5289193
If we got along alright I'd date you :3
>>5289213
Aww thank you <3
>>5289193
>How would you feel about a straight guy who only wants to be in relationships with men?
>a straight guy
>only wants to be in relationships with men
not sure you know the meaning of "gay".
>>5289295
I'm a morphic-straight, a straight person being born in a gay mans body. Don't trigger me you sithlord.
>>5289295
I do. It means having an attraction to the same sex. I don't have that so that makes me straight.
>>5289193
....Nigga you gay
>>5289193
Are you qt?
>>5289386
no. he's definitely an autist
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're not trolling. What's it like being heterosexual but homoromantic? Would you feel violated if you were dating a gay man and he tried to suck your dick? Have you attempted any homosexual experiences before? I'm not averse to being in a relationship with a straight guy, but it might get strained if it was completely monogamous with no other sexual partners to relieve myself.
>>5289193
So basically you want a best friend buddy who no homo spoons with you?
Maybe try being Arab?
>>5289193
>What's it like being gay?
Except for the weird stares sometimes it is actually pretty nice. I have a lot more in common with the bfs I have had than with any of my ex-gfs
>How would you feel about a straight guy who only wants to be in relationships with men?
I would wonder if he is really being satisfied.
>Would you date him?
I would date him, provided that he was willing to have sex on occasion, and didn't have an aversion to kissing. We may need to discuss having an open relationship when it comes to sex though.
>How would you feel about a straight guy who only wants to be in relationships with men?
If you're straight then being intimate might be a problem. I'd be okay if you didn't want to have sex, but you'd have to atleast want to kiss and cuddle.
>Would you date him?
Sure
>>5289193
>straight guy who only wants to be in relationships with men
Do you really not see the contradiction here?
preliminary bump
Bro, I'm pretty sure you're at least bi.
>>5289386
I don't know... maybe.
>>5289961
>What's it like being heterosexual but homoromantic?
I don't know. It feels weird. I feel like because I'm straight, I'm supposed to be with a girl, but my feelings make the thought of having a romantic relationship with a guy more appealing.
>Would you feel violated if you were dating a gay man and he tried to suck your dick?
Not at all. It sounds hot, especially if it was random and on the spot. I would like to give too.
>Have you attempted any homosexual experiences before?
No. I've never had any kind of romantic relationship with anyone before.
>but it might get strained if it was completely monogamous with no other sexual partners to relieve myself
Oh...
>>5290016
I sometimes fantasize about a guy who's taller and stronger than me hugging me from behind. I love the feeling of being hugged from behind.
>>5290095
>Except for the weird stares sometimes it is actually pretty nice. I have a lot more in common with the bfs I have had than with any of my ex-gfs
That sounds nice.
>I would wonder if he is really being satisfied.
I might wonder if he's being satisfied too, knowing I'm not gay. I wouldn't want him to feel bad.
>I would date him, provided that he was willing to have sex on occasion
I would be willing if he was and if we liked each other. :)
>and didn't have an aversion to kissing
No, not at all. I think about it a lot. I've never been kissed romantically before.
>We may need to discuss having an open relationship when it comes to sex though
Oh.
>>5292001
>I'd be okay if you didn't want to have sex, but you'd have to atleast want to kiss and cuddle.
Or all three? I love cuddling.
>Sure
<3
>>5294397
No. :)
>>5294747
Straight/bi, maybe. Sure.
I'll put my name back up.
>>5294783
>>5289193
It sounds like you want to be turned by a handsome man. Do you or do you not enjoy gay porn?
>>5289193
Do you wanna suck dick op? I'm straightish bi-ish, but I've always fantasized about sucking dick but not attracted to the idea of being in a relationship or even kissing a guy. If you don't you probably just don't want to deal with fuckhead women. Suck a dick see if you like it. It's fun, doing it for the 3rd time tomorrow
>>5294877
>It sounds like you want to be turned by a handsome man
Handsome, yes, but what do you mean by turned? Like, turned over on my belly? :3
>Do you or do you not enjoy gay porn?
Yeah. I like anything with big dicks, preferably uncut, and strong guys. I love solo stuff like masturbation and cum (I love cum), and dildo play. On occasion I find something guy/guy that I find really hot.
>>5295006
>Do you wanna suck dick op?
Yeah. I think about it a lot.
>I've always fantasized about sucking dick but not attracted to the idea of being in a relationship or even kissing a guy
I like the idea of a loving relationship. I would like to date a guy and see where it goes. I feel like I could make out with a guy for an hour. <3
>If you don't you probably just don't want to deal with fuckhead women
I wouldn't know what it's like. I've never been in or attempted to be in a relationship with one.
>Suck a dick see if you like it. It's fun, doing it for the 3rd time tomorrow
It sounds like it would be.
>>5294783
>I'm supposed to be with a girl, but my feelings make the thought of having a romantic relationship with a guy more appealing
I know exactly how you feel.
>>5295074
I didn't know other people shared my feeling. Are you straight too?
Maybe you're bisexual?
I know this is late, and you're probably not here anymore, but I'm curious what led you to think that you might be straight, OP.
I'm assuming I'm straight
But why do guys have to be so cute and be amazing cuddlers
Maybe I have ed when I'm with guys
>>5299308
Why do you assume you're straight, though?
Guess what motherfucker, you're gay... nothing wrong about that, it's just illogical (or a contradiction) for a straight man who dreams about being gay. Being gay is not about the action of sex, it's about the "want". I know a lot of LGBT ppl who've never had sex, yet they are gay (or LGBT, non-binary, what ever the fuck they call it nowadays). So just do it. DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS... now about the bisexual thing, well fuck, even science has a hard time there; just fuck whatever you feel like fucking and love whatever you feel like loving. Simple shit, don't over complicate it lol
>>5299351
I've hooked up with maybe 5-6 guys now and I've gotten but never maintained a boner or came while having sex with one
I just got out of a 4 year relationship with a girl and it wasnt too much of a problem
But I could cuddle and makeout with a guy for hours and suck their dick and have a great time
So its really only my dick that thinks its straight i guess
im straight and live in alberta, ive fantasied about sucking my first dick for a while now
>>5299419
OK. Thanks for sharing. I was just very curious where you were coming from based on all your posts
>>5295026
>Handsome, yes, but what do you mean by turned? Like, turned over on my belly? :3
Turned gay/bi.. Haha
>Yeah. I like anything with big dicks, preferably uncut, and strong guys. I love solo stuff like masturbation and cum (I love cum), and dildo play. On occasion I find something guy/guy that I find really hot.
I really feel like you should just identify as bi.
>>5299130
It's easier to go by, but I think I'm more straight/bi.
>>5299158
I have an attraction to girls too, but I just don't have any interest in sex or a relationship with one. It doesn't feel like it would be fulfilling.
>>5299308
>But why do guys have to be so cute and be amazing cuddlers
I know. I want to know what it's like to cuddle with a cute guy.
>>5299394
>Guess what motherfucker, you're gay
I'm not, though. :)
>So just do it. DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS
I do hope to make it a reality some day.
>just fuck whatever you feel like fucking and love whatever you feel like loving. Simple shit, don't over complicate it lol
I like your advice.
>>5299425
I fantasize about that too, but I want something more. I want to have love first.
>>5299644
Yes, I am. :)
>>5299750
>Turned gay/bi.. Haha
That sounds like it would be fun. :)
>I really feel like you should just identify as bi.
I do, sort of.
It is liberating to accept oneself, but it has these little consequences too. When I was a kid, there was this friend of mine making me think stuff I knew I "should" think about girls, and this friend was a boy. We had watched some documentary about puberty, and in it it was claimed that sexuality can fluctuate during that period. Thus, I deduced that he being the erector of my dick was just puberty and will pass.
I then tried to get a gf, it didn't work out, I didn't care. Some girls wanted to be my gf's, I rejected them for some reason then unknown. Then I met this one guy I fell in love with. He likes me back in the way that we are not friends with benefits but friends with complications. This finally got me accept myself, I like boys and will (probably) never again give in to the oppressive society saying I should get a gf. Through him I became free.
On the other hand, I no longer consider boycrushes a passing phase, they are real. The two of us are happy spending time together, and neither of us wants to ruin our friendship by eventually breaking up. So, I sometimes think about him through the night, how I want to be his bf and stuff like that. Stuff that will probably never happen. Hurts like hell, but even with all the pain, I live like this rather than completely without him.
Finding other gay guys would require outing to more people, and these rather limited social circles of mine are too closely related to what I want to do, for me to ruin my reputation.
>>5294783
No, youre definitely gay
>>5289319
how can you want to be in a romantic relationship with the same sex but not be attracted to them, even emotionally?
That's literally impossible. There needs to be an attraction for a relationship that isn't platonic.
>>5300404
You are so fucking retarded.
You can't be attracted to the same sex and not be at be homosexual.
If you are attracted to both sexes, which you are, because you would do sexual things with both, you would be bisexual.
You're bisexual. You like girls and guys.
You can't have a dick and want to suck dick and not be LGBT you fucking idiot.
>>5300404
>no interest in sex or relationship with girls
wtf
nevermind, you're fucking gay.
>won't fuck a girl
>will fuck a guy
that called being gay. a straight person has to want to fuck the other sex, or at the very least be in a relationship with them.
You have to be trolling you absolute walnut
I get where OP's coming from. I was 18 when I first legitimately felt attracted to guys. Until then I was 100% hetero, but fantasized a lot about being gay in the year or two before then. I really liked the idea and wished I could feel that way. I think it might be some sort of subconscious coping phase before the big heel turn later on.
ITT: gay guy desperately attempts to rationalize his attraction to men as evidence that he is heterosexual
>>5304156
Im in a similar situation. Do you consider yourself bi or gay now?
>>5300688
I'm a little confused. Do you love him?
>>5304044
Noo. :)
>>5304129
>but not be attracted to them, even emotionally?
I might be attracted emotionally. I never thought of attraction as being more than one kind.
>>5304138
Pls no bully. I'm sorry If I said something that made you angry.
>>5304144
But I'm attracted to girls, I just don't want sex. I could have sex with a girl but sex with a guy feels like it would be hotter.
>>5304156
Did you ever try anything with a guy?
>>5298746
I'm unsure of what I am.
Bisexual I guess. Like you, by the sounds of it.
>>5304665
I'm bi, but I know I'm straight too. I find that going by bi is easier to explain, though.
ITT: cognitive dissonance
>>5304702
But I'm not gay, though.
>>5304717
no, but you can't be two things at the same time. You can't be straight and bisexual, the world just doesn't work like that you're either straight or bisexual or gay. I mean there are other things you can call yourself like heteroflexible or bicurious or whatever, but you can't be more than one thing at the time.
>>5304723
I think someone can be straight and bi or gay and bi. I don't think equal attraction bi exists.
>>5304781
Well, then you are wrong, this is usually how it is explained today.
Straight, fantasize about and falls in love/relationships with opposite sex.
Bicurious, fantasize about same sex, but only falls in love with/relationships with opposite sex.
Heteroflexible, acts out on same sex fantasies, but only falling in love with/in relationship with opposite sex.
Bisexual, fantasize and falls in love with/in relationships equally with both sexes.
Homoflexible, fantasize about and acts out on fantasies with opposite sex, but only falls in love with/in relationships with same sex.
Homosexual, fantasize about and falls in love/relationships with same sex.
>>5304789
I don't think the amount of someone's bi-ness can be classified in groups.
>>5304827
but it can.
>>5304828
I disagree. :)
>>5304538
I love him too much, to be honest. He's fun and (to me, but not for many I guess) good looking. We used to kiss and cuddle, I wish we still did it, but I'm not going to force him into anything. He's constantly in my mind, and my mind is full of longing.
In a certain way it makes me happy to feel like this, I'm not totally dead inside even if it occassionally feels like it.
It's like there is a correspondence with love and gambling. People who don't try win or lose nothing, people who try get a chance to be happy (or wealthy), or sad (or poor). I feel like a guy betting more money than I can ever earn in my life, since, when times are good and I'm with him, I win the jackpot. On the other hand, betting millions and losing is quite a downfall.
Idk I'm a normalish guy I guess. I work 60 hrs a week and live with my gf. There's times when I get really horny for dick tho, like I really just want a side fuck. But that's why I get dildos an throw them out same day, I want isn't the same as what I need. Don't think a relationship with a male would be good for me but I can't stop thinking of dick. Idk what's wrong with me
>>5304341
I guess I'm bi, but with a sexual preference for guys now. I think I'm homoromantic though, since I can't really see myself in a relationship with a girl. It's a little confusing, but I'm very happy nonetheless!
>>5289193
I feel similar, but only because I grew up sheltered and I am not a very popular person that has good social experiences fall into my lap especially girls. In my fantasies I dream up idealized guys and relationships with them as escapism because it's the only good feeling I can get in these circumstances as they don't hate me.
>>5307162
Yup that's pretty much how I feel too. I've never been in a relationship with a girl, but I still can find them attractive.But the whole idea of being with a guy long term seems better/more realistic to me plus sucking dick is fun. I guess I'm technically bi but functionally gay.
>>5306764
I'm still confused. :(
Do you love him but he doesn't love you back?
>>5306947
Would your gf be offended if you were to have a bf on the side?
>>5307162
Are you in a relationship with a guy?
>>5307981
>I feel similar, but only because I grew up sheltered and I am not a very popular person that has good social experiences fall into my lap especially girls.
I'm kind of similar. I haven't had social experience since I was in middle school. That was when I had my last friend. I was never outgoing throughout high school and I mostly kept to myself.
>In my fantasies I dream up idealized guys and relationships with them as escapism because it's the only good feeling I can get in these circumstances as they don't hate me.
I do that a lot too.
>>5308689
>But the whole idea of being with a guy long term seems better/more realistic to me
I feel the same way.
youll never have a good relationship with a man if you start out straight and only want a boyfriend
you need to be full gay or full bi
just dont bother with men if your natural attraction stops halfway
>>5309004
>Do you love him but he doesn't love you back?
He does, and this is the reason for "friends with complications". First he's all "no homo", then after a few beers he starts closing on me. If you are confused, then so am I. A few years ago we were attached to each other like there was super glue between us.
I want to slap th shit out of you OP
:)
Fuck off, you idiot.
>>5309614
Pretty right, yeah.
>>5309625
I'm sorry Anon. Have you told him how you feel?
>>5311451
I don't know if I should. I don't want to lose him or anything like that by doing anything stupid or bothering him. I hate myself for being a little fagbitch like this, but having him not hate me reminds me that I'm probably not totally worthless.
You are a nice guy and have made me feel better. I wish there were more people like you.
>>5311529
If he loves you, he will understand. If he doesn't, it's not meant to be. You need to be honest. It's the foundation of any partnership. Without the foundation, the partnership falls.
Thanks, Anon. You're a nice person too. :)
>>5314415
I'll do it when the time is right. He has some personal issues atm, it could be just that they cause him to act like this.
Op is actually a fgt
>>5314502
Okay. I wish you the best, Anon.
>>5314523
Don't call me names, pls.
