why so many bisexual men are submissive with men? for my interactions with bisexual men the majority have a sissy fetish or at least are submissive bottoms, they are no interested on fucking men, only on men fucked them.
any other gay men have is experience?
Honestly, I don't believe in "true" bi-sexuality, as in being literally attracted to both sexes. Every time I see a bi guy posting a thread, it seems like they're just AGP. Either that or the bi guy is actually a closet gay. I know this won't be popular, but I'm bi-sexual in the sense that I am attracted to the thought of myself taking cock, yet I can't make myself attracted to men. The only way men do anything for me is if they indulge in my fantasy 100% and make me feel like a sissy. So call it want you want, faggotry, AGP, cockfetish, sissy, etc. I know what sexually attracts me.
>>5546344
well if they want to fuck someone they've got chicks for that
if they want a guy of course they'll want his dick, otherwise why bother
>>5546357
Emasculation fetish. Seriously. Some "straight" men find the thought of being attracted to men and being fucked like a girl to be the most emasculating thing of all time. I've seen the porn... looks like an extreme cuckold fetish. Emasculation fantasies are not the same as androphilic fantasies, in that the person fantasizing is aroused by the looks of the man. So technically, if you denifine homosexuality as being attracted to members of the same sex, that isn't you. Yet if you do have sex with men, you are commiting a homosexual act even if you're not attracted to them, so you can call yourself bi-sexual.
>>5546373
I think fetishes like these manifest themselves because of a lot of deep seeded homophobia. It is frowned upon highly in society to be seen as gay. The gay men is seen as a woman and one imagines the gay bottom to be the most humiliating postition one can be in, the true "woman" of the relationship. This is why for some, putting on ladies clothing and picture themselves getting fucked by men is so arousing. It's humiliating and embarrasing to them, thus the otherwise "straight" acting crossdressers.
>>5546357
You are wrong, I like both sexes (I wouldn't say equally, but I haven't worked out the ratio yet) and I'm definitely not AGP or Trans. I've heard that it is quite common for men to be interested in penises but not any other part of the male body, so there is that. Apparently that's the reason why futa is so popular.
I'm bi and I would fuck a guy, but because I have a small dick there's no one to fuck. Guys are just too much size queens to bother with.
>>5546344
I'm a "bi" guy who only wants to fuck feminine men. I feel like there are a lot more people like me than there are like OP describes but we don't say "I'm bi" or shit like that. We're straight dudes attracted to "the cosmic feminine" who don't happen to discriminate between sexes.
I feel like their needs to be a term for straight guys who only want to fuck cute boys. Cause it's not really bi.
>>5546798
>I feel like their needs
*there
dammit
I dated a bi guy once. He wanted to be the girl and have me treat him like I would treat a gf.
>>5546344
I'm not, i assumed other by guys were like me.
If this is true, It's weird.
I'm very much Dom with both genders, in fact I've only ever tried subbing once and it was with a girl (and not something I particularly enjoyed)
>>5546805
six inches.
>>5546827
Yeah, same.
>>5546827
You're literally average, don't let it hold you back.
Right. Every time I see a "discreet bi masc" guy on grindr I get my hopes up that he might be into my faggot tranny ass but he's always look in for some masculine guy to suck off and Fuck him. I would feel so pathetic being the gf of these sissy bitches lol
>>5547040
Do you often project this hard or is it just today?
>>5547047
Oh sorry did I hit a nerve
>>5547055
Not really, It's thoroughly entertaining to watch you hit your own though.
>>5547009
I get what you're saying but I can't see it applying outside of the internet. Seems like most people demand much more.
>like femdom
>like submissive guys
>>5546344
I'm Bi and my sexual behavior doesn't change too much from gender to gender. I'm vers, and I can do either, topping is nice because I'm definitely going to get off and there's no complications or prep needed, and bottoming is nice because it's different than what I can get from most women, but has a number of downsides too.
>>5546357
I have fantasies about raping women with my dick and being raped by guys with their dick.
What am I?
I'm bi and I might like just the submissive part but hey, I'd also fuck twinks! Doesnt' that count for something?
>>5546366
This right here for me.
>>5546344
bi here, i would tap another man but only if it looks extremely feminine, like almost a girl but with a cock.
Otherwise i'd rather be treated like a lil whore desu, man are attractive when they look like men, or totally like a woman, there's no middle point. Fucking something that is not a woman or resemble one has no sense to me, and getting fucked by another man who doesn't look absolutely alpha and masculine has no sense either.
>>5546798
How can someone be this delusional?
>>5547137
Yeah, you have to be at LEAST a meter.
>>5547009
>tfw 7 inches
: )))). Too bad im rather ugly.
Hey, I'm bi, but I only want to dominate guys and submit to women.
>>5546344
Really? My perception of bi guys was that they were usually more dominant and masculine.
>>5546344
That doesn't speak to my experiences at all.
Most bi men I've been with were actually total tops.
But then they weren't at all like those insecure men I read about on 4chan that call themselves "straight" bu are "crazy for cock".
>>5546798
This is the kind of "bi" guys I've been with the most. Gladly.
>>5548037
Same
I just can't see bi-sexuality being a thing and them being dominant unless 1. they are actually just gay or 2. they are AGP/sissy fetishists or whatever Of course I'm being really ignorant and could most definitely be wrong.
>>5546798
This is me. MtFs , Traps and really feminine femboys hell I'd enjoy topping andro fem FtMs.
>>5546344
Well, I'm bi, but I'm mildly submissive with both. Maybe a little more dominant with women than men, but it's not by much. Not into being a sissy, though, just prefer to not be super dom.
>>5548130
I'm jealous, senpai
>>5548174
Maybe your just not attracted to masculinity?
In my defense I'm also submissive with women.
I am basically what OP describes. I like to look cute and be a sub to a man in bed. But when I get in bed with a woman I am the top. I've tried having the woman top me and it's just not right. I end up just flipping them onto their back and having at it.
>>5548712
I didn't answer the question.
I think this is because I'm mildly AGP
I've always dreamt of being a woman or having womanly traits. I've been told I'm girly by many many people in life including SO's.
However, I'm comfortable with my penis. I like having it, and it's not a let down as far as size is concerned. It's a part of me and I thoroughly enjoy using it in the "intended" way in addition to bottoming for a guy.
I am way more picky when it comes to men than women though. Most women I see I would fuck if I could. Only some guys make me want to drop to my knees and call them daddy. And that usually happens after I get to know them a bit. I almost never feel that way about a guy on sight.
In conclusion I'm a whore, I don't fucking know.
>>5546798
Same here. I know we're still technically bi, but its hard to feel that way when you're not attracted to most guys, namely guys who actually look like guys. I'm mostly comfortable with my sexuality, just not with the label that comes with it because it implies I like normal dudes.
>>5548415
Exactly my point. Closest to it would be tomboys trying hard to look like a guy Or a femboy.
>>5549005
"Normal dudes" this is the one detail that's negative for us since we're "normal guys" just with a sexuality that counts majority bi. We technically like guys just feminine guys. I'm comfortable with it but I'm sure in a group it'd get incredibly annoying having to explain what people I'd sleep with. I can just imagine telling a female friend "I'm bi, but I top." Then them freaking out wanting to set me up with a big muscle dude that's a bottom or worse a top. I've actually had a couple do just that sending pictures of boy band guys asking "You think he's hot?"
>>5546798
This.
Traps/girly boys only
Straight people would call me bi, but if I said I was bisexual and then revealed I only liked traps/girly bitch boys they'd say I wasn't really bi at all.
You can't win. Masculine men don't attract me in any way shape or form. The thought of having sex with one of them is not appealing in the slightest.
>>5549141
>I'm comfortable with it but I'm sure in a group it'd get incredibly annoying having to explain what people I'd sleep with.
That's why I keep it to myself, I doubt I'll ever find a guy who suits my preferences AND likes me back, whats the point of being "out' if you're not even gonna get anything out of it?
Masculine men aren't attractive to me at all. Like twinks or femboys are but not that.
>>5549220
>masculine men aren't attractive at all
wut, masculine men are the most attractive men, when they're slightly fit and have soothing bright eyes, and they're well endowed, hnnng. Sometimes they're even better than a woman or a twink imo.
>>5549702
>aren't attractive to me at all.
>me
Reading is hard huh.
>>5550008
Btw I'm not that anon js
Similar to what >>5546357 said, I think a lot of guys are bi not in the sense that they love men the same way that they love woman, but rather they have kinks or turnons that fall under the umbrella of bisexuality. Getting fucked is less about being physically attracted to the person fucking you and more about the mental aspect of being submissive and just enjoying a good dicking, whereas fucking someone is more about enjoying their entire body, which is why I've always felt tops were gayer than bottoms.
>>5547890
Do your gfs no that you are a secret beta bitch on the inside that wants to take bigcocks
I'm bisexual, I'm mostly attracted to guys but I'd let a female suck me
>be FtM twink
>have fantasy of assfucking a bi male with a strapon while he lies on his back and I jerk him off, gently kissing his legs that are resting on my shoulders
>have the penis in vagina sex regularly, but occasionally take him like above
Hnnnng
>>5546344
>any other gay men have is experience?
This is also true for gay men in my experience, tho. Women and non-heterosexual men are usually sexually submissive.
>>5549199
What are your preferences and what are you like?
>>5552320
>What are your preferences
Cute, feminine guys, the least bit of facial hair and I vomit, this alone removes like 95% of guys off my radar. I'm not exactly a catch myself, which is why I don't complain, but preferences are preferences.
I view myself more as a guy who is open minded enough to fuck guys who are as cute as girls than a true bisexual.
>>5546798
>>5548174
>>5549005
>>5552371
Same f.am. same. Would be great if therr were a word for it. I feel like all I can really say is bi but that leaves too much room for random dudes I would never like at all.
ftm as well. Basically I like women and other trans people either gender, mostly ciswomen though.
(So before, I would've been considered "mostly lesbian" and that gets awkward since lesbians are so weird about that gold star purity crap and it makes it weirdly hard to say you're bi if female, heh.)
This is why some people just say "fuck it" and call themselves queer since it's more vague.
>>5547060
Gay
>>5552234
Nice
>>5552397
>I feel like all I can really say is bi but that leaves too much room for random dudes I would never like at all.
>I'm bi but won't tell anyone cause I don't want guys hitting on me
lol this is some next level shit, I relate though, I love how the straight label protects me from gays I'm not attracted to.
>>5552443
This reminds me of those people that find demi and use it to reject people who they find unattractive with the safety net around them not to be labeled a bitch or petty. Lol.
>>5552371
This is me as well. Smooth and hairless, just overall qt. I couldn't ever come near to fucking a "normal bro" type guy. But cute feminine twink with a nice butt and likes to dress up, yes please.
sub bi man here and I have no fucking clue. Just like pleasing people, in and out of the bedroom
