>>6439929
To elaborate more on that "intimate moment" I had, I've felt attraction for females in my life but something held be back on accepting those feelings.

I watched a lot of television growing up and that trope of having two lesbians making out never felt natural because it felt like it was for consumption rather than admiration.

I'd go so far to say that television and real life ruined the idea of me, being a female, being bisexual will end in me concealing myself with a male mate due to fear of not being accepted by my own family.

just do what you want to do
being pan or bi is all about not limiting your attractions based on gender
so dont

Congratulations. Join the countless throngs of bi girls that either sexually experiment with females before eventually settling down with a male, or else gets hetmarried and fucks girls on the side because hubby thinks it's hot/it isn't cheating unless it's another guy.

>>6440019
This. Additionally, pansexuality is a special snowflake sexuality. If anything, you're bisexual. No autism allowed

i dont know if there was a definitive moment for me, but at some point i just kind of came to the realization that gender/sex isn't inherently a factor in what i find attractive. or rather, i came to the realization that it isnt like that for most other people. it seems obvious in hindsight but sometimes it takes a bit for observations to really sink in for me

>>6440403
all pansexuality means is that you can find people who lie outside the gender binary attractive. so i guess its less about being a special snowflake and more about being accepting of special snowflakes. i dunno if its really a worthwhile distinction to make between pan and bi tho