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Is it a general rule that bisexuals eventually end up settling
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Is it a general rule that bisexuals eventually end up settling into a predominately heterosexual lifestyle? Why do you think this is?

pic not related, she's cisles
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>>6260216
cause reproduction and it's just easier since it's widely accpeted
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About 10 times larger dating pool and much more socially acceptable. Even if you prefer the same sex just finding a partner of the opposite sex is much easier since so many more are available and able to be approached without society looking down on you.
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>>6260216
I'm a bi girl and I would say yes. It's more accepted by society to be straight. You don't have to dissapoint your family etc. It's also easier to have a kid, something that is super important to me. I slept around as a closet lesbian in my wild young years, then settled down and got married to the world's straightest man. He thinks my bisexuality is cute and doesn't intimidate him at all. He lets me have fun but only with girls and he gets to have any nudes I get sent.

Decent looking lesbians into no strings attached are hard to find though.
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>>6260286
Why lesbians don't like to date bi chicks: the post.
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>>6260216
>Is it a general rule that bisexuals eventually end up settling into a predominately heterosexual lifestyle? Why do you think this is?
*female bisexuals

Male bisexuals don't play that shit.
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>>6260216
No, about twice as many end up in same sex relationships as would be predicted by availability of suitable partners. Stats for from the US census.
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usually once they leave college
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>>6260216
Bi guy here. I don't know how to say this without coming across as anti-gay so I'll just leap right in. I think ultimately opposite-sex relationships are more fulfilling.

Not that gay relationships can't be wonderful and fulfilling in their own way. But they're simpler in a way. You're both the same gender and you share a common understanding of the world.

One of the great hurdles but ultimately the great rewards of hetero relationships is learning to deal with and understand the opposite sex. Because men and women both drive each other nuts but in different ways.

As a guy, it's wonderful to really connect with another guy and feel that deep connection. But when I connect with a woman it's different, there's more of a gap. So when that gap is eventually bridged it's even more amazing.
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>>6260286
Maybe a troll, maybe not. Can't really tell. But it's the primary example of why bishits are a waste of time and I don't bother with them.
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>>6263629

bi female, this is it I think. I literally have experience with one relationship however. I wonder how much of these sex differences are due to socializaion and hormones
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>>6260216


She looks like a boy in a wig.
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>>6260286
This is pretty much defines a bisexual relationship. Always having someone on the other side. This is why I'll never be with a bisexual.

>>6260386
>Male bisexuals don't play that shit.
This is pretty much the Taqiya-version of bisexuals. We both know that's not true.
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>>6263629
> But like guys are so similar
Clearly you don't know many other men to think it's that easy

>I just LOVE having the struggle to understand my wife's female problems
Shut the fuck up about the 'fulfilling' feeling you get from connecting with a woman, people can get the same fufillment from connecting with the same sex because people are different.

>oh right you did the heterosexual thing for selfish reasons and are now trying to justify that to yourself
Good luck and I hope you get cucked hard
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>>6266660
so fucking close to quints
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>>6266660
Fuck off you bitter fag, this is why nobody likes you people.
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>>6260286
>bisexuals
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There is literally no point to dating bisexuals at all.
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>>6263629
>>6266519

why do you guys even bother calling yourselves bisexual? If you think the opposite sex is better, you're basically straight.

>>6260286
I'm of the opinion that there is no such thing as a bisexual woman. There are only slutty straight women.
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man, just when I thought I would be okay with dating bisexuals, I randomly come across this read, read shit like this >>6260286

and now I never want to touch or talk to bi girl ever again.
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Dear bisexuals,

just call yourselves straight, and live straight lives already. It's obvious you bisluts will never be happy unless it's a poly or open relationship where you are the star.
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>>6267271

I've been in a steady, closed relationship with another man for a long time now.

So lol, no.
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>>6267271
that or kinsey scale 1
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>>6267310
men are actually bisexual.

women are just straight. No such thing as a long term relationship with a bi girl.
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>>6260286
I fell hard for this guy who could possibly be bisexual but now that I reflected back on it, I see no future with him. He'd probably settle for a girl in the end and this post confirms it.

I understand why this board hates biscum now.
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>>6267391
>men are bisexual
>women are just straight

hahahaha are you serious
other way around
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>>6267391
As a bi man I say this. Especially since even straight girls seem to be comfortable fucking around for fun.

As for me I'm mostly attracted to and think about guys anyways it's just the rare girl I end up being attracted to s d usually it's either a somewhat masculine girl or one with a really great ass. I've only really gone for guys though and am fine to stay that way however having a little bit of attraction to females really helps when one must pass for straight at things like work. I feel bad for it sometimes but have saved a few 100% gay guys from losing their jobs by helping them pretend to like girls.

Is this kinda bad? Probably but in this world sometimes you have to pretend to be something opposite of what you are to keep a roof over your head
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>>6267509
I don't understand how you help someone pretend to like girls? Also that sucks that you work at a place that will fire you for being gay.
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>>6263629
I actually think the opposite of this. I'm bi but only would seek a long term relationship with another guy. Girls to me are fine for a quick fuck when youre alone but their fucking "problems" and gimme dat attitude triggers me to no end. Guys I'm with tend to be wanting to support themselves financially whereas girls want me to provide while they do fuck all all day. Also I don't want kids I dislike putting up with them and want time to create things without them getting in the way

I find that (straight) girls are like condoms. If they're not on your dick they're in your wallet

But sometimes I wish I was born a girl (not in a trans way) it would be nice to be able to sit around all day having a guy make all the money so you could spend it
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>>6260216
I don't know if it's a general rule but I could definitely see the appeal.

You can marry, have kids and live a normal life. No one has to know that you're bisexual. Except for you.

It's what people around the world aspire for themselves, for their friends, for their family; to lead a happy, normal and fulfilling life. This is easier if you have the option of doing so with the opposite sex.
It kind of makes me sad. On one hand, I tell myself that I wouldn't care if my boyfriend/spouse was bisexual because I could trust him and we'd be happy. Together. But I can't help but to be hesitant, because of how easy it would be for them.


I tell myself that we'd be happy together but I'm scared you'd be happier elsewhere. Our happiness wouldn't be enough for your comfort.
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>>6267214
Because they can still get a ladyboner or normal boner for the same sex that they are. Sexual attraction, that's basically it.
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>>6267271
Screw this

I'd rather completely abstain from sex forever than to leave my 3 year long relationship with my bf

So some kid said he was "bi" because he thought it was cool and wanted to try assfucking and your stupid asses took the bait. Get over it and next time try s relationship before you try sex. If you rush into sex the first time you meet you're just as slutty and no better than the so called "bisexuals" you all hate

If you find someone who is stable loyal and loves you it doesn't matter if their gay/bi whatever it will be the most fulfilling relationship. I've been with 100% gays who fuck around with other guys behind your back too.

Start using your brain more than your dick when you look for partners and you'll go far
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>>6267579
who the fuck gives a shit

bi girls will always go for guys in the end. That's what makes them straight.

>>6260286
Go fuck yourselves bisluts, enjoy your shit statistics
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>>6267471
nah, men being more strict with their preferences is a myth. Just look at the futa fandom on 4chan. All the chasers on mtf gen.

There are way more cases of men leaving women because women are difficult, and staying with other men in the long term.

The cases of the abused straight girl who leaves men for women don't last long and the straight girl will eventually go back to fucking men once they get over their issues.

In the end, everyone wants dicks. Women being desirable is utter bullshit. No one is going to stick around for a shitty personality that only has temporary good looks to compensate. Men provide a lot more benefits. It's why both men and women will end up with men in the end.
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>>6260216
According to surveys that appears to be the case
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>>6260216
It might have to do with the fact that penis and vagina sex feels better than any other kind. Those parts were designed to feel good together to trick us into having kids
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>>6260216
How is that Cis les?

"She's" got a boyish face, flat chest and broad shoulders, narrow hips.

It looks like a femboy desu.
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>>6260216
>she's cisles
Forreal? Shit I might pass if that's AFAB.
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>>6267676
>gay men and lesbians in relationships with the same sex
But how?
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>>6267517
Welcome to Russia. While we aren't outright illegals were outcasts and discriminated against. If we move elsewhere were "fucking immigrants go home"
No matter where we are were hated
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>>6267893
The survey only included those that were in a relationship
Unless that was a typo and you meant opposite sex, in which case there are gays/lesbians that are closeted yet in a relationship.
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>>6267936
That was a typo, and that actually makes more sense than what I was thinking.
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>>6267888
it's a pic of me and im a boy
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>>6267613
Why are you so angry at bisexuals? I've done nothing wrong to you
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>>6267271
Someone sounds butthurt. What's wrong with polyamory anyway? Enjoy your boring life and fucking one person for the rest of your life. The only reason you don't sleep around is because you don't have the balls or looks to do it. Nobody decent wants to fuck you monogamous bores.
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>>6267149
we're overpowered :^)
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>>6267149
form what mango?
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>>6267644
>4chan
>mtfgen

4chan isn't an accurate representation of the average male population.

In the normie world, off of the internet hugbox you live in. Almost all women have had multiple bisexual encounters, and at the very least, have kissed another girl, almost every lesbian i know, has slept with self identified straight women.
Most men are not only repulsed by dicks and other men, but also just by gays in general, to think otherwise is absolute delusion
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>>6270105
I wasn't aware Cara Delevigne frequented /legbutt/
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seriously- you people havn't heard of AMber heard- unless she is full on gay
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>>6260216
She looks like Thea from Arrow
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>>6272222
My Beloved by Takemiya Jin.
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>>6267644
>It's why both men and women will end up with men in the end.

I can't believe you actually believe this lmao
Why do you think there are so many angry virgin males, and no females?
So many /r9k/ers, wizchan users, elliot rodgers, whatever. Men would rather die lonely, angry virgins than sleep with another man.
Whenever straight women are lonely and want to get fucc'd, if there's no man around, they'll just go for a woman, 'specially when they get older
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>>6267936
>>6267944
its completely possible to repress. its not fun but hey, if you are soul crushingly lonely and don't think you'll ever find a girl/guy they might convince themselves they can settle.
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>>6272280
There's also marriage fraud.
Some people enjoy being single but want the insurance discounts

To be honest I've dabbled with the thought of marrying my female friend because she is basically perma-unemployed which means with income splitting on taxes I would be dropping close to 3 tax brackets. Plus the insurance discounts would be nice. Fuck even if I offered to pay for her to live with me the refunds I'd be getting on my taxes would completely pay for it.
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>>6272303
enjoy having an overgrown adult child as a permanent partner for the rest of your life

master race master race master race master race
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>>6272223
>In the normie world, off of the internet hugbox you live in.

Not that poster but;

>Almost all women have had multiple bisexual encounters, and at the very least, have kissed another girl,

Um no? It REALLY depends on the people that you go around with

>almost every lesbian i know, has slept with self identified straight women.

This is actually true from my experience, I'm not sure why but I guess because women in western countries in general are given way more of a free reign to experiment their sexuality without being branded one thing or another.

>Most men are not only repulsed by dicks and other men, but also just by gays in general, to think otherwise is absolute delusion

Most men? If you go statistics I'd probably say a small majority is probable

This is way less common in people with college + educations though, most of the attitudes of the guys I know are more like they're just uncomfortable around gay peeps, not really utterly repulsed.
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>>6272223
>>6272279

Sup, I am that poster you responded to.

The top porn fetish for "straight" men is tranny porn. Chicks with dicks, futa.

A lot of "straight" men will fool around in the gay community to satisfy their dick fetish. There has been several ancient cultures that worshipped men as lovers and brothers while shunning women to the side as purely reproduction machines. The Greeks, the Romans, certain Middle Eastern tribes, a couple North African tribes worshipped boys and men as lovers while women were unseen and unheard. Worth less money than a qt boy.

That biology and attraction hasn't changed. Men vastly prefer dicks in the end. And not only that but other men provide equality, brotherhood, deeper understanding, money, love, and great sex aka the dick.

So I do not believe there are many 100% straight men. Most men are bisexual but they are not allowed to be themselves because religious tainted societies forbid any kind of homosexuality or love for men.
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>>6260216
The answer is simple; given the choice most people would rather try live heteronormative lives.

And I really don't see any problem in this at all if they're making a conscious effort to repress their degeneracy.
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>>6272330
She's not that bad really. Plus depending on where I end up living in the end maybe I could just shove her in a garage loft or something lol
It's not like I'd be taking care of her, it's not like anybody forces you to live with your wife or anything. There's really no strict rules with marriage, she can go do whatever the fuck she wants, all I need is for her to legally say she's married to me come tax season or on insurance forms.
I always end up paying like $4000-$5000 in taxes, but if I income split the max amount, which is $50,000 right now, I would be getting refunded probably like $2000. Plus I'm going to grad school and since my salary is a little high right now I don't qualify for government grants. But if I married her I could qualify for the low-income grants and get my schooling for really cheap.
Like this isn't a case of saving a few dollars, this is more of a case of saving me like $150,000
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>>6272397
she could also divorce you and take your money, very few states honor pre-existing contracts either.
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>>6272397
And then the divorce comes and where are you perseus money then?
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>>6272400
Fuck you got first
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>>6267613
>Your biological predisposition causing no harm is bad b-because of some random statistics!

You're just as bad as the people who oppose YOUR sexuality, Jesus fucking Christ.
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>>6272400
Could always get a prenup.
Also if you're not living together then you don't split property since that's actually a way of voiding marriage. Once you live apart for 1 year you can divorce without the others consent.

I'd think legally speaking you could just argue that she just happened to move in, do her taxes, then move out due to whatever marriage issues, and just rinse and repeat that until I'm done with my marriage fraud haha
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>>6272422
let me wipe your tears away
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>>6272376
Trannies aren't the top porn fetish you delusional hon
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>>6260216
If I had to choose I'd probably go homo over hetero desu. Been feeling exceptionally gay for the past 9 months or so. Don't want kids, so any advantage a grill brings on that front is out the window.
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Pretty sure for me i see dick as a drug more or less. I always imagine myself ending up with a girl. In public ive never really checked out dudes. Never really had romantic thoughts towards anyone but girls as well.
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>>6260286
>spend teenage years repressing as an untouchable fuggo
>meet now-husband and learn what attraction and sex are like
>realize i like girls, he gives me similar rules
>never take advantage of it because i'm a shut-in
>everyone on this board hates me anyway
>tfw
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>>6260286
this is why everyone hates us
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>>6260216
How isn't that a boy?
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>>6260216
Because when gay death occurs they can simply switch back to hetero relations
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>>6263629
>One of the great hurdles but ultimately the great rewards of hetero relationships is learning to deal with and understand the opposite sex. Because men and women both drive each other nuts but in different ways.

Exactly why I've never been interested in a serious relationship with a female. What kind of cuck do you have to be to enjoy frustration and constant relationship drama?

I never wanted a relationship until I found a guy who was as cute as a girl but also wasn't a tranny.
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Because straight people are more common, and it's also more socially acceptable to be straight. It's not that hard.

Signed,

A gay person
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In my experience all straight relationships have been extremely unfulfilling, as the guys were mostly just interested in sex and it was always difficult to exchange feelings. Whereas the relationships I've had with girls were mostly longterm (4 years) and emotionally and sexually satisfying.

But I'm a les-leaning bisexual so.
Heterosexual lifestyle is not as fulfilling I wish I could just be full les.
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